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[kcmo]

Haha this is somewhat of a strange question but I feel uncomfortable asking it to any of my Korean co-workers/friends and I don't feel that my foreigner friends would give me sufficient answers. There is this Korean girl that I met a couple months ago in order to do a language exchange and things have progressed to where she is definitely interested in me, I just need to make the move.

However, therein lies the problem. I know how Koreans are about kissing in public and she doesn't want to come to my apartment just yet so we need to have the kiss somewhere, but where? There are always people EVERYWHERE, so where can we go to where it would be a good private place for a kiss? A noraebang? That's the only place I can really think off, or a DVD room I guess.........

[Died By Bear]

If you're really serious about this girl, then go all out. Buy two tickets to gay Paris, take her up to the top of the Eiffel Tower and kiss her there.

Well, you asked. Besides, if she turns out to be 'the one', you will have one hell of a story to tell people.

[Savant]

Your location? If in Seoul, then Han River Park at night? Or Namsan Tower.

DVD room? Let's just say that the room is not used solely for watching DVDs. If she won't go to your apartment I doubt she wants to go to a DVD room.

[Unibrow]

Have you tried a motel? They are private and discreet.

[newb]

[alongway]

Most Koreans are not into public affection. A few younger ones are, but even a lot of younger ones will do little more than hug/hold hands in public. It's definitely not something you want to try without getting it in writing first.

Try a room/booth cafe. Different than a DVD room which can have some negative connotations to some people, the room/booth cafes tend to be more like Private booths with a little door. They often come with a little computer or whatever, you can hang out and make your move in privacy.

Check the cafe ahead of time though as some room cafes are more like DVD rooms than booth style.

[JustinC]

[Zyzyfer]

Find a quiet corner in a park and if things are going smoothly then lean in and hope for the best. Don't do motels or DVD rooms...they have obvious implications for Korean women - it took me a while to figure out the DVD room thing.

[byrddogs]

[everything-is-everything]

[hiamnotcool]

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[byrddogs]

[northway]

Just bring her to a HOF with private booths. Inhibitions gone, privacy guaranteed.

[litebear]

DVD room or Soju room if she likes to drink.

The missus and I used to go on 'subway dates' where we would get off at deserted subway stops and kiss behind a pillar till the next train arrived Feels funny writing it out now!

[lemak]

The public crappers in Tapkol Park?