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I have a question about a soju custom I recently witnessed

 
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Kuval



Joined: 19 Aug 2012

PostPosted: Sun Nov 18, 2012 12:20 am    Post subject: I have a question about a soju custom I recently witnessed Reply with quote

So while I was out with a hot korean girl, she looked at me with a big smile on her face... cracked a bottle of soju, split her fingers as if to make a peace sign with her index and middle fingers, then horizontally she shoved her split fingers into the neck of the bottle of soju, spilling a little bit of it in a quick splash type of thing.

I thought this was super sexual, especially she was acting about it, and I ended up making out with her. The next day she tried to tell me we were just friends. What the hell does this thing mean?
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Savant



Joined: 25 May 2007

PostPosted: Sun Nov 18, 2012 1:00 am    Post subject: Re: I have a question about a soju custom I recently witness Reply with quote

Kuval wrote:
What the hell does this thing mean?


That you should stop drinking that much soju with hot korean girls.
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Dodge7



Joined: 21 Oct 2011

PostPosted: Sun Nov 18, 2012 1:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Means she thought she made a HUGE mistake making out with you while drunk and wanted to end it before your wittle feelings develop any further and get hurt.
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Kuval



Joined: 19 Aug 2012

PostPosted: Sun Nov 18, 2012 1:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

apparently it just gets rid of bad chemicals...
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Zackback



Joined: 05 Nov 2010
Location: Kyungbuk

PostPosted: Sun Nov 18, 2012 3:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The fact that she is old enough to drink proves that she is simply too old.

Forget about her.
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bobbyhanlon



Joined: 09 Nov 2003
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 18, 2012 3:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

not a sexual thing. the 'chemical' comment is right, i think it comes from an old idea about knocking the 'poison' out of a drink. i take it to be a kind of fun superstition. but anything is sexual if a sexy person is doing it, i suppose...
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comm



Joined: 22 Jun 2010

PostPosted: Sun Nov 18, 2012 7:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Zackback wrote:
The fact that she is old enough to drink proves that she is simply too old.

Forget about her.

This is for you

To the OP:
I'm not sure how familiar you are, but in my experience Korean girls are very submissive and wont reject advances outright. Of course later, she can avoid being in that situation again. Looks like you might have just moved too fast on this one Wink
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everything-is-everything



Joined: 06 Jun 2011

PostPosted: Sun Nov 18, 2012 8:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dude, just play along with being friends.


If you play this right and brush her off a few times you will own her.



Don't fall in love or try to be a good guy with her. She will destroy you if you do so

Laughing


Honestly, you should just treat her like garbage or let her go.
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Zackback



Joined: 05 Nov 2010
Location: Kyungbuk

PostPosted: Sun Nov 18, 2012 2:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Spot on advice Mr. everything.

Sitting around with a bunch of lady teachers awhile ago and I got talking about....well what I love talking about - women. I told them how many women find nice guys boring and that the bad boys seem so appealing and exciting. I rambled on for a few more minutes and while I was talking I felt like they were going to ridicule and lambast me for what I was saying. Mind you when I was spouting off I wouldn't make eye contact with them because I knew my heart would melt for each of them but based on past experience in the USA I would have been severely excoriated. Well after my bombastic speech one of them gets up, walks to the door to leave but on her way out walks over to me and whispers in my ear "I like bad boys". Since that day I never looked back.

Oh by the way...thanks comm.
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PigeonFart



Joined: 27 Apr 2006

PostPosted: Sun Nov 18, 2012 6:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't understand this thread at all.
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KimchiNinja



Joined: 01 May 2012
Location: Gangnam

PostPosted: Sun Nov 18, 2012 10:41 pm    Post subject: Re: I have a question about a soju custom I recently witness Reply with quote

Kuval wrote:
So while I was out with a hot korean girl, she looked at me with a big smile on her face... cracked a bottle of soju, split her fingers as if to make a peace sign with her index and middle fingers, then horizontally she shoved her split fingers into the neck of the bottle of soju...


Did she just spike your drink? Shocked

Damn, I need to hang out where you guys are hanging out. Cool
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actionjackson



Joined: 30 Dec 2007
Location: Any place I'm at

PostPosted: Sun Nov 18, 2012 10:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

PigeonFart wrote:
I don't understand this thread at all.

I took it as drunk girl makes out with guy, sober girl doesn't want to make out with guy, hence just friends now, but now guy wants advice on what he's supposed to do but using some soju "custom" to get answers on how to proceed with hot korean girl.
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