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dominosdom



Joined: 18 Dec 2003
Location: UK

PostPosted: Tue Jan 06, 2004 8:30 am    Post subject: 'baldies' in Korea Reply with quote

I have a shaved head and have been told that in Korea I'm likely to be stereotyped as a 'gangster' and at best considered scruffy. Are such prejudiced views limited perhaps to the more conservative element of Korean society? I'd like to hear from past or present teachers in Korea, who have shaved heads, and whether indeed you encountered these views.
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ryleeys



Joined: 22 Dec 2003
Location: Columbia, MD

PostPosted: Tue Jan 06, 2004 8:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think I get it to a lesser extent than you with a shaved head, but my goatee doesn't seem to be considered the most attractive thing for a guy...
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crazylemongirl



Joined: 23 Mar 2003
Location: almost there...

PostPosted: Tue Jan 06, 2004 8:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't know about bald heads being a gal. But I'll say this. Korea is the worst place I've been to have a zit.

Another words, people are very forthright about saying what they think of your apperance.

clg
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matko



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: in a world of hurt!

PostPosted: Tue Jan 06, 2004 8:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

When I first got to Korea I had a 'normal' hairstyle.

I then shaved the sides and back bald and grew the top out for a year and wore that in a ponytail.

Not a good idea unless you are a glutton for punishment.

By the time I did it, the staring was getting to me and I think I subconciously figured if they're gonna stare, I might as well give them something to stare at!

Wink
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kangnam mafioso



Joined: 27 Jan 2003
Location: Teheranno

PostPosted: Tue Jan 06, 2004 11:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

the one draw back to shaved head is being labeled a soldier.
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kiwiboy_nz_99



Joined: 05 Jul 2003
Location: ...Enlightenment...

PostPosted: Tue Jan 06, 2004 11:53 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

But it seems to be ok if you're a monk
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Apple Scruff



Joined: 29 Oct 2003

PostPosted: Tue Jan 06, 2004 12:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Unless you are A) going bald naturally, B) Black, or C) as Kiwiboy said - a monk, just don't shave your head.
And under no circumstances should you grow a ponytail out of the top of your head.
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Psy



Joined: 11 Sep 2003
Location: Hongdae

PostPosted: Tue Jan 06, 2004 1:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yeah, it's a fact that they kinda stare at you if you're hairless on top. But what canya do cept wear a hat. I was considering shaving it off but I realized that it would be tough finding a job at the time. Tatoos and piercings kinda fall in the same category?
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hellofaniceguy



Joined: 10 Jan 2003
Location: On your computer screen!

PostPosted: Tue Jan 06, 2004 3:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't know. But I do know, why worry about what someone thinks about your hair style!?!? Or lack of it. Tell them to *beep* off.
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Kimchi Cha Cha



Joined: 15 May 2003
Location: was Suncheon, now Brisbane

PostPosted: Tue Jan 06, 2004 11:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I shaved my head recently, as I usually do back in Australia. From Koreans I know I've received more compliments than not, they seemed genuine enough. The younger kids got a real rise out of it calling me bokbookgi and laughing. Get some stares sometimes but hey, this is Korea you get stares anyway!

I probably wouldn't suggest it if you're looking for work, got a really conservative boss, or live near a base and don't want to get mistaken for being for a GI.

But, otherwise I worry about it too much. Some people look better with shaved heads and being winter you can just wear a beanie or hat around anyway.
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ryleeys



Joined: 22 Dec 2003
Location: Columbia, MD

PostPosted: Wed Jan 07, 2004 1:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I actually haven't noticed a single stare in Korea... that's one of the weird things that makes me feel like I'm living in a different country than all of you...
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TheUrbanMyth



Joined: 28 Jan 2003
Location: Retired

PostPosted: Wed Jan 07, 2004 5:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

ryleeys wrote:
I actually haven't noticed a single stare in Korea... that's one of the weird things that makes me feel like I'm living in a different country than all of you...



You sure you're living in Korea? Laughing
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Saxiif



Joined: 15 May 2003
Location: Seongnam

PostPosted: Wed Jan 07, 2004 6:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:
I actually haven't noticed a single stare in Korea...

I think it depends on the person and how sensitive they are about that sort of thing. I'm generally pretty damn oblivious to my surroundings so I never notice people staring at me except kids who can be really obvious, but my gf talks about how people always stare at her when we're together.
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scarneck



Joined: 18 Aug 2003
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Wed Jan 07, 2004 9:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

kangnam mafioso wrote:
the one draw back to shaved head is being labeled a soldier.


Unless you are one... Shocked
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Zyzyfer



Joined: 29 Jan 2003
Location: who, what, where, when, why, how?

PostPosted: Wed Jan 07, 2004 5:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Saxiif wrote:
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I actually haven't noticed a single stare in Korea...

I think it depends on the person and how sensitive they are about that sort of thing. I'm generally pretty damn oblivious to my surroundings so I never notice people staring at me except kids who can be really obvious, but my gf talks about how people always stare at her when we're together.


Word. Represent. Power to the oblivious.

Having no hair in Korea sucks. It sucks donkey when you know the standard phrases for "baldie", too.
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