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The Psychoses of Abortion
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Kuros



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PostPosted: Wed Apr 17, 2013 6:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

TheUrbanMyth wrote:

Besides which once the baby is born many single mothers do avail themselves of the "tax dollar" and go on welfare. And I don't know about America but in Canada you can also get extra money for children known euphemistically as the "baby bonus". So taxpayers are paying regardless of their willingness anyway.


Yes, and American Republicans love to whine about it. More psychosis.

TANF and WIC are the greatest welfare programs ever (along with food stamps). TARP and the Fed, not so much.
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PostPosted: Wed Apr 17, 2013 7:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kuros wrote:
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But the ones who wish to criminalize abortions, these people simply must recognize the burden they are inflicting upon mothers, and must also be willing to pay for that burden with their tax dollar.


The "burden" we're "inflicting" on them.

There's a lot wrong with that sentence.


I said mothers, not them. Mothers.

I watched my wife suffer incredibly through her pregnancy. If she got pregnant again and wanted an abortion, I would gladly help her get one. Between the hormones, the nausea, back problems, mysterious hand and feet swelling, bladder hyperactivity, and other random freakish pain, yes, I think she's either earned her bills for pain and suffering or demonstrated fair grounds for choice.

(You may congratulate me on my newborn daughter now)


Why are you here arguing with me ? Go spend time with your little girl, and maybe give your wife a foot rub. Smile
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PostPosted: Wed Apr 17, 2013 7:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

GF wrote:
Kuros wrote:
GF wrote:
Kuros wrote:
But the ones who wish to criminalize abortions, these people simply must recognize the burden they are inflicting upon mothers, and must also be willing to pay for that burden with their tax dollar.


The "burden" we're "inflicting" on them.

There's a lot wrong with that sentence.


I said mothers, not them. Mothers.

I watched my wife suffer incredibly through her pregnancy. If she got pregnant again and wanted an abortion, I would gladly help her get one. Between the hormones, the nausea, back problems, mysterious hand and feet swelling, bladder hyperactivity, and other random freakish pain, yes, I think she's either earned her bills for pain and suffering or demonstrated fair grounds for choice.

(You may congratulate me on my newborn daughter now)


Why are you here arguing with me ? Go spend time with your little girl, and maybe give your wife a foot rub. Smile


Well played.
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PostPosted: Wed Apr 17, 2013 10:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

geldedgoat wrote:
akcrono wrote:
But not other intentions in the title. The content may be a thinly veiled attempt to redirect the focus (slightly) away from the moral discussion of abortion, but the title makes your point exceedingly clear: abortion is psychosis.


If you can't differentiate between "the psychoses of abortion" and "the morality of abortion," that's your problem, not mine. I'm not going to waste my time continuously reclarifying the obvious. Address the topic I raised or move on to a related topic, but don't accuse me of deception where there is none.

Psychosis: "A severe mental disorder, with or without organic damage, characterized by derangement of personality and loss of contact with reality and causing deterioration of normal social functioning."
So either you're assuming that around half of the population has a severe mental disorder, or you're making a morality play. I assumed the 2nd one, but I guess I gave you too much credit.
geldedgoat wrote:

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As for the debate itself, the problem hinges on when it is truly considered "a life".


I never made reference to the people who are behind the times on medical technology like ultrasounds. I did, however, specifically mention those who accept the fetus as a human life yet still find justification for killing it. It is people like this who I suspect are responsible for producing grizzly acts like those in my OP. Others are just ignorant, willful or otherwise.

Which is why I was referring to the debate itself instead of your points.
geldedgoat wrote:

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Those with scientific backgrounds tend to put it at the detection of brainwaves (the same measure we use to determine end of a life), while those with a more spiritual background tend to place it around the time of conception.


Not only is this disingenuous, but it's also inaccurate. Unless this large majority of doctors refuse to perform abortions simply because it's 'icky' and not because they find a moral objection to it.

Considering how many people claim to be religious in the US, that does nothing to undermine my point. From your own link:
"Ob/gyns who were among the least likely to provide abortion services included doctors located in rural communities in the South and Southwest, as well as Catholics, evangelical Protestants and other highly religious physicians, the survey showed."

So, to repeat my initial point, those with a spiritual background tend to place it around the time of conception.
geldedgoat wrote:

sirius black made a similar claim before regarding the foundation of life, and my response then serves well enough now: "Science tells us particular qualities of different cells but not how to interpret those qualities." What science does do, however, is provide us with a clear continuum of development from fertilized egg to fully developed newborn and plenty of conditions in adult humans with which we can compare the fetus. Consciousness? Coma patient. Brain tissue development? This guy. Nervous system development? CIPA patient. Reproductive viability? Post-menopausal women. I challenge you to find a characteristic of a fetus to disqualify it from personhood that doesn't have a perfect counterpart in another individual we grant the right to life.

As I said before, brainwaves. The absence of which we use to determine death.
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PostPosted: Wed Apr 17, 2013 11:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

TheUrbanMyth wrote:

But the flip side of that coin is that in many if not most cases there would have been no burden at all had the mother been more discriminating.

Besides which once the baby is born many single mothers do avail themselves of the "tax dollar" and go on welfare. And I don't know about America but in Canada you can also get extra money for children known euphemistically as the "baby bonus". So taxpayers are paying regardless of their willingness anyway.


Well, the very party trying to criminalize abortion is the same party trying to dismantle the welfare system. Geldedgoat may support a single payer system, but the majority of the people opposed to abortion do not. They also tend to oppose contraception and sex education, both of which helps prevent the abortions they don't like.

Furthermore, the welfare system does not adequately support mothers. One of the big problems is child care; a great piece in TNR is worth a read.
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PostPosted: Thu Apr 18, 2013 12:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

One thing people always neglect to understand is that whether or not abortion is legal, it will still be performed. It's not like there were no abortions in the US before Roe vs Wade. The step of making it legal is to ensure that it is as safe as possible. Obviously, like any other medical procedure, there are risks and the threat of complications and malpractice still exist.

"Prior to Roe v. Wade, as many as 5,000 American women died annually as a direct result of unsafe abortions.(4) Today, abortion is one of the most commonly performed clinical procedures in the United States, and the current death rate from abortion at all stages of gestations is 0.6 per 100,000 procedures."

http://www.ourbodiesourselves.org/book/companion.asp?compID=100&id=20

Now, you can still disagree with abortion on a moral level. I think it's one of those issues that if you're so sure, SO SURE, on either side than you either haven't thought enough about it or you have another agenda. That's not to say you can't have an opinion, even a strongly held one, but to be SO SURE as to start accusing anyone who disagrees of being evil or deserving of harm then there's probably something else at play.

The point is, making it illegal does not take away the problem. It simply minimizes the risks. Humans have been terminating pregnancies since they got it on in caves after out running an angry woolly mammoth. The hope is to minimize it. We can do this best through sex education, access to contraceptives, ensuring medical care to all citizens and raising the opportunities and income of the lower classes. It is hard to ignore the fact that all of these things are usually just as strongly resisted by those who oppose abortion. And don't try to bring religion into it, that just inflates the hypocrisy (murder is wrong! But helping the poor and the meek inheriting the Earth? meh....)

Now to the two items the OP posted.

1) That doctor is a deranged criminal and he is being prosecuted. He didn't perform this infanticide at the request of the mothers. He would drug them, induce labour and go about his criminal activities. In other cases, he lied to them or provided very misleading information. Yes, the mothers may still be responsible, but many of them were scared teens, or in other terrible situations that you can never even start to comprehend.

There are, unfortunately, sickos in every field. I read recently about a doctor who would lie to his patients in order to amputate limbs for no reason. A dentist who would routinely drug his patients and pull out all their teeth for fun. The case that was sited here, while consisting of unimaginable horror, is isolated and does not represent abortionists any more than the other two cases I mentioned represent surgeons or dentists.

What I do find interesting in the OP, and even others here and in the media, is the fact that no mention is made that this madman also tortured the mothers and did everything possible to maximize their pain and suffering (physically) not to mention that he played a sick trick on many of them by lying to them about the situation. What that tells me is the OP, and others, are more interested in the life of the fetus (and in this case, the babies) than the mothers. In this case, and this case alone, I also mourn the babies of course, and consider them fully human. But it does speak volumes to these people's view of women, and their place in society in my opinion.

http://www.snopes.com/politics/crime/gosnell.asp


2) I hadn't heard of this second story, and when I google her name the only links I get are from right wing media and blogs. I don't really doubt that this lady said this stupid thing, I just doubt that it's really all that important. It just seems like a stupid person who is really low on the ladder saying something stupid. Maybe it was taken out of context, or maybe it wasn't. It's like MSNBC screaming about some Congressional aide who said something dumb. These people have no power, and every person in the history of the world has said something dumb. If they really don't have any power to push their idiotic thoughts then let's move on. If they do have some power or influence, like say a Senator who says a woman can't get pregnant from being raped while sitting on a Committee on Science, then sure let's tar and feather them. But just like I didn't believe that jerk's comments represented everyone who happens to have an R next to their title, I don't believe some lady talking out of her ass represents everyone who does work at Planned Parenthood.

While we're on the subject, people need to stop trying so hard to make PP such a boogieman and educate themselves on the work the organization actually does. Actually, go ahead and educate yourselves on everything you hate. You'll likely find that you didn't really know that much about what you were so enraged about to start with.

And another point that is often raised: If men could get pregnant, there'd be a clinic on every corner and it would be less than $100. If you doubt that, remember Viagra was the fastest drug to be okayed by the FDA which is shocking considering all the HIV/AIDS and cancer treatments that are still in limbo.
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PostPosted: Thu Apr 18, 2013 1:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well said blackcat.
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PostPosted: Thu Apr 18, 2013 4:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

akcrono wrote:
TheUrbanMyth wrote:

But the flip side of that coin is that in many if not most cases there would have been no burden at all had the mother been more discriminating.

Besides which once the baby is born many single mothers do avail themselves of the "tax dollar" and go on welfare. And I don't know about America but in Canada you can also get extra money for children known euphemistically as the "baby bonus". So taxpayers are paying regardless of their willingness anyway.


Well, the very party trying to criminalize abortion is the same party trying to dismantle the welfare system. Geldedgoat may support a single payer system, but the majority of the people opposed to abortion do not. They also tend to oppose contraception and sex education, both of which helps prevent the abortions they don't like.

Furthermore, the welfare system does not adequately support mothers. One of the big problems is child care; a great piece in TNR is worth a read.



Yes but I'm not approaching this on ideological/party lines...I'm not American so I don't care either way.

What I am taking issue with is the stance that somehow those people that oppose abortion should be responsible for taking care of unwed single moms' children. They didn't force her to take off her clothes and sleep with some guy. SHE made that choice not them.

If you can't support a child don't engage in actions which may result in you having one or at the very least take precautions and insist that your partner does too. (admittedly this last is not perfect but would definitely reduce one's chances of getting pregnant).

It's not due to a lack of sex ed...I very much doubt that your average 15+ year old doesn't know all about the "birds and bees" whether formally or informally educated.

That said I'm not saying criminalizing abortion is the way to go. But I don't think it should be treated like a common medical/cosmetic procedure (like getting one's teeth cleaned) either.
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PostPosted: Thu Apr 18, 2013 5:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

TheUrbanMyth wrote:


What I am taking issue with is the stance that somehow those people that oppose abortion should be responsible for taking care of unwed single moms' children. They didn't force her to take off her clothes and sleep with some guy. SHE made that choice not them.


No, that is not what I said. I specifically distinguished between mere moral opposition to abortion (fine) and active advocacy of the criminalization of abortion. Yes, those who would throw women in jail for performing an abortion best be prepared to pay for their healthcare should women carry the feotus to term. Its just the pro-life position.
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PostPosted: Thu Apr 18, 2013 6:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I personally can't stand "pro-life" people. Anti-abortionists better be the ones raising those unwanted babies. You said I have to have it... so you f*cking raise it.
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PostPosted: Thu Apr 18, 2013 9:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Some points.....

1)I'm find myself confused at how women can say things like "hands off my body" and "its my choice, none of your business" and then 10 seconds after the thing has popped, turn around and demand child support. If it's none of men's business, fine. But then eliminate child support. If we continue to have child support, then yeah, it is men's business.

2)As someone who is adopted, and having talked to other adopted/orphan/"disadvantaged birth" people, I must say that many of us get a little...perturbed when hearing stuff like "Hands off my body" and "It's my choice". Uhm, I do believe that it is our body in question and I think we should have the choice whether or not our lives have value.

3)Roe v. Wade is in many senses a "Pro-Life" decision. Odd, one might say. Well, the thing Roe v. Wade did was it made the individual woman the arbiter, not the state. Roe v. Wade, while legalizing abortion, also sets up strong Constitutional barriers against things like forced abortion, such as what occurs in China.

4)The American tradition of individual conscience and liberty strongly supports the right of someone to refuse to carry out practices which they find extremely morally objectionable. We make allowances for those who do not want to serve in the military. Heck, we make allowances for people who don't want to eat pork. I think that tradition supports the right of a doctor to not be compelled to engage in the procedure.
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 19, 2013 12:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

TheUrbanMyth wrote:

Yes but I'm not approaching this on ideological/party lines...I'm not American so I don't care either way.

What I am taking issue with is the stance that somehow those people that oppose abortion should be responsible for taking care of unwed single moms' children. They didn't force her to take off her clothes and sleep with some guy. SHE made that choice not them.

If you can't support a child don't engage in actions which may result in you having one or at the very least take precautions and insist that your partner does too. (admittedly this last is not perfect but would definitely reduce one's chances of getting pregnant).

It's not due to a lack of sex ed...I very much doubt that your average 15+ year old doesn't know all about the "birds and bees" whether formally or informally educated.

That said I'm not saying criminalizing abortion is the way to go. But I don't think it should be treated like a common medical/cosmetic procedure (like getting one's teeth cleaned) either.


It's not so much a party lines issue as it is a support issue: those in the US who are insisting on criminalizing aborting are the same people who refuse to support the children at would otherwise not burden the system. It's the same people that also tend to oppose sex education and various forms of birth control.

And there is a massive lack of sex ed in the US, especially in the south. Abstinence only education enjoys a ridiculously high level of support.

As for the personal responsibly issue, there are two problems with this. First, many of these single mothers have children before the age of 18. Under the law, we consider those under 18 unable to make responsible decisions and do not treat them as adults under the law. I don't see why becoming pregnant should be treated as anything different.

The second is that while the mother should not be rewarded for making a bad decision, the child should not be punished, and it's virtually impossible to only punish the mother.

I also agree that abortion should not be a primary form of birth control or taken lightly, but for me, that's mostly concern over the health of the woman.
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 19, 2013 2:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Steelrails wrote:
Some points.....

1)I'm find myself confused at how women can say things like "hands off my body" and "its my choice, none of your business" and then 10 seconds after the thing has popped, turn around and demand child support. If it's none of men's business, fine. But then eliminate child support. If we continue to have child support, then yeah, it is men's business.

2)As someone who is adopted, and having talked to other adopted/orphan/"disadvantaged birth" people, I must say that many of us get a little...perturbed when hearing stuff like "Hands off my body" and "It's my choice". Uhm, I do believe that it is our body in question and I think we should have the choice whether or not our lives have value.

3)Roe v. Wade is in many senses a "Pro-Life" decision. Odd, one might say. Well, the thing Roe v. Wade did was it made the individual woman the arbiter, not the state. Roe v. Wade, while legalizing abortion, also sets up strong Constitutional barriers against things like forced abortion, such as what occurs in China.

4)The American tradition of individual conscience and liberty strongly supports the right of someone to refuse to carry out practices which they find extremely morally objectionable. We make allowances for those who do not want to serve in the military. Heck, we make allowances for people who don't want to eat pork. I think that tradition supports the right of a doctor to not be compelled to engage in the procedure.


Good points, but I have a couple issues.
1) Abortion would reduce the issue you are talking about. Also, many of the women who say one of those, don't say the other. I'm also confused as to why child support is related here, as a benefits check should not come with a reduction in rights. You're trying to argue that women's bodies are affecting you, but so are smokers, drinkers, poor eaters, etc. They don't get their rights taken away. Why should it be any different for women?

2) It's easy to talk about that as a concept for people we know, but then when is it not okay to stop a life? 22 months? 8 months? Conception? Copulation? Intent? Is it wrong that I have not impregnated every woman I possibly could at every chance I get? I bet all those unborn children would think so. A life not existing is neither a loss nor a gain.

4) This is a pro-choice argument, as I don't believe there are any laws (or any real pushes) to force doctors to perform abortions.
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 19, 2013 4:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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The second is that while the mother should not be rewarded for making a bad decision, the child should not be punished, and it's virtually impossible to only punish the mother.


What's the bad decision a mother makes? Is it her "decision" to be fertile? Is it her "decision" to conceive a child?
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 19, 2013 11:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kuros wrote:
akcrono wrote:

The second is that while the mother should not be rewarded for making a bad decision, the child should not be punished, and it's virtually impossible to only punish the mother.


What's the bad decision a mother makes? Is it her "decision" to be fertile? Is it her "decision" to conceive a child?


Right. This is a bullshit topic, and it's simply about control and weak minded males. I made my statement earlier, but what will it really take? People have been performing abortions forever. Creating a child is the most basic function in existence, it's not special. Anti-abortionists make you feel like it's special, people always believe their children are special.
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