Site Search:
 
TEFL International Supports Dave's ESL Cafe
TEFL Courses, TESOL Course, English Teaching Jobs - TEFL International
Korean Job Discussion Forums Forum Index Korean Job Discussion Forums
"The Internet's Meeting Place for ESL/EFL Teachers from Around the World!"
 
 FAQFAQ   SearchSearch   MemberlistMemberlist   UsergroupsUsergroups   RegisterRegister 
 ProfileProfile   Log in to check your private messagesLog in to check your private messages   Log inLog in 

So two guys rob a store
Goto page 1, 2, 3, 4  Next
 
Post new topic   Reply to topic    Korean Job Discussion Forums Forum Index -> Off-Topic Forum
View previous topic :: View next topic  
Author Message
Died By Bear



Joined: 13 Jul 2010
Location: On the big lake they call Gitche Gumee

PostPosted: Sat Nov 09, 2013 3:59 am    Post subject: So two guys rob a store Reply with quote

And get shot dead. Mom complains, "It's not fair"

see death pic here

(skip to 4 minutes to see mom complain)

See: Video of grieving mom here:
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
jvalmer



Joined: 06 Jun 2003

PostPosted: Sat Nov 09, 2013 8:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

They were carrying guns, and wearing friggin masks... MASKS, too bad for them. Good on the who shot them. You do something violent, with GUNS and MASKS... you deserve something violent in return. 'Not fair' my derriere...
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Died By Bear



Joined: 13 Jul 2010
Location: On the big lake they call Gitche Gumee

PostPosted: Sat Nov 09, 2013 11:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I respectfully disagree. They were shot by another 'concerned citizen', not the po-po, and besides one of the men had child support to pay so that's why he robbed the store. It was for a good cause. Kind of like Robin Hood.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
hellofaniceguy



Joined: 10 Jan 2003
Location: On your computer screen!

PostPosted: Sat Nov 09, 2013 1:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Died By Bear wrote:
I respectfully disagree. They were shot by another 'concerned citizen', not the po-po, and besides one of the men had child support to pay so that's why he robbed the store. It was for a good cause. Kind of like Robin Hood.


??!!??
They were shot by this citizen because the bad guys pulled their guns and were going to shoot him! He was just quicker!
What about if they had shot the citizen? Would that have been okay with you?
According to the article..he called the cops and told the bad guys to stand down and wait for the man. Now of course they are not going to wait for the man! Who would! They took a chance..and lost.
And the families are stating that these guys were decent, family loving men! What business do they have robbing folks if they are good family men?
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Died By Bear



Joined: 13 Jul 2010
Location: On the big lake they call Gitche Gumee

PostPosted: Sat Nov 09, 2013 1:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

He didn't have to kill them, he could've just arrested them and held them for the po-po. We don't need no more creepy ass Zimmermans.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Captain Corea



Joined: 28 Feb 2005
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Sat Nov 09, 2013 4:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Died By Bear wrote:
He didn't have to kill them, he could've just arrested them and held them for the po-po. We don't need no more creepy ass Zimmermans.


The article that I read said he did try that - asked them to stop and wait for the police - they turned and pulled their guns on him - and he shot them both. Apparently, it's all on camera.

I'm with jvalmer on this one - not much sympathy coming from my corner.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
optik404



Joined: 24 Jun 2008

PostPosted: Sat Nov 09, 2013 5:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Of course the mom is going to blame someone other than her son. Typical response to a grieving parent.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Leon



Joined: 31 May 2010

PostPosted: Sun Nov 10, 2013 6:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

optik404 wrote:
Of course the mom is going to blame someone other than her son. Typical response to a grieving parent.


Exactly, say what you will about how she could have raised them better or whatever, but to make fun of her or criticize her for her response after two of her kids died is kind of heartless. Unless this is somehow not as straight forward as it seems, not having sympathy for the two guys is appropriate, but I can sympathize with a mom who lost her kids regardless of how.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Died By Bear



Joined: 13 Jul 2010
Location: On the big lake they call Gitche Gumee

PostPosted: Sun Nov 10, 2013 9:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

While I respect each and every one of you who posted w/opinions, I most respectfully disagree. This 'concerned' armed citizen should have used his cell phone and run the other way. In no way should he have interfered with the robbery. From what I understand, they were on their way out of the store anyway. So what difference would a few dollars make to save the lives of two young men, just trying to feed their family? No, guns are very very bad things in the hands of vigilante justice fame seekers.

I feel for the mother. The 'Law of the Street' demands justice.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Died By Bear



Joined: 13 Jul 2010
Location: On the big lake they call Gitche Gumee

PostPosted: Sun Nov 10, 2013 9:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Here's a good read from 'Burned Out LEO'




Background

First, my info. I worked in the street of one of America's most violent, dangerous cities for 15 years. I usually worked in the worst part of that city. I spent 15 years in patrol. I liked patrol. It was wild. Most of the time I worked in areas covered in ghetto. By that I mean large housing projects combined with run down slum housing. I have worked all shifts. Later I became an investigator including a robbery investigator. I have spent countless hours in interrogation rooms talking to hold up men. I know them. I am still an investigator but have quit playing the Robbery game because my family was starting to forget what I looked like.

The Enemy

Some may object to me calling hold up men "the enemy". You can call them whatever you like. I can assure you however they are as deadly an enemy as you will find anywhere but the battlefield. Even many soldiers probably lack the viciousness and utter disregard for life most hold up men possess.

No one wakes up in the morning one day and decides to become an armed robber. It is a gradual process that requires some experience and desensitizing. Before a man will pick up a gun and threaten to kill people who have done him no harm in order to get their usually meager possessions he has to get comfortable with some things.

He has to get used to seeing others as objects for him to exploit. He has to accept he may be killed while robbing. He has to accept the felony conviction for Robbery will haunt him all his life. He has to accept he may need to kill a completely innocent person to get away with his crime.

This is a process that starts with stealing candy at the corner store as a child. It progresses through bigger property crimes that may also involve violence. But one day G gets tired of selling his stolen property for nothing and decides it would be better to steal cash. Cut out all that tiresome sales stuff.


Keep in mind many petty thieves, auto burglars, residential and commercial burglars, paper thieves, and hustlers will get to that point and decide not to become armed robbers. Most will. It is a special group of outliers who decide threatening to kill people for a few dollars is the way to go.

Once a man starts armed robbing he has crossed a line most won't. Don't forget that when you are looking these bastards in the eye. Their decision to kill you is already made. Your life means nothing to him. Only his does. His sole motivation for not killing you is he doesn't want a murder case. He has already accepted he may pick one up though.

We hunt hold up men around the clock once they are identified. We send teams of fire breathing fence jumper/door kickers to find them. We will bring their mother to the office and convince her she is going to jail if we don't have Junior in our office in an hour. We have her call her son crying hysterically for him to turn himself in before she is arrested and held without bond as a material witness and her home seized for harboring him. Most of the time they won't. *beep* their own momma.

We will hit all Juniors friends and family's houses. We make it so no one will harbor him. He is so hot no one will let him in their house or even talk on the phone with him. We put money on him so he knows he is right to be betrayed and set up. We do this because of one thing.

That thing is they WILL kill someone if they keep robbing. That is why the city is willing to pay all the overtime. They don't want the murders. Think about that when you see Junior coming. The more robberies he does the closer he is to killing someone. Maybe you.

The guys who hit you on the street are gang members. They are Gangster Disciples, Vice Lords, Crips, Sureonos, many others. They do not see themselves as part of society. The street is all they know. They don't expect to live long or stay out of prison. They take a delight in your fear and suffering. They are warped individuals for the most part. They can be extremely dangerous.

One time we were locking up a hold up man and having a conversation about how they target their victims. I was saying they pick easy ones, another guy was saying they preferred easy ones but would take anybody.

I pointed out a uniform Officer there was an NFL size guy to that hold up man. Frankly the dude was a monster. I asked hold up man if he would rob him. He said "If I needed the money".





You

Chances are good you are a law abiding person except for maybe a little light weed smoking and maybe driving a little drunk every once in a while. Most of your life you have been taught to be nice and don't point guns at people. You are the exact opposite of your enemy who was taught just the opposite. Remember a lot of street life is like prison life. Who's the man is everything. Violence is the currency of the street.

You do not possess total disregard for the lives of others and do not want to kill anyone. You are concerned about the ramifications of shooting someone. Your family, your possessions and finances on the line. Your enemy has none of these concerns.

The laws that keep you from carrying your gun in bars or where ever mean nothing to your enemy. Your reluctance to shoot someone works to is advantage. His greater experience in street violence and the element of surprise is on his side.

Everyone should call their local FBI office and get a copy of Law Enforcement Officers Killed and Assaulted. When it first came out it was ground breaking because it demonstrated to academics and other elites what street police knew all along. What did it show in interviews with cop killers? Nice guys finish dead. That's right. Most of those offenders commented that the Officer they killed set himself up to be killed because of reluctance to use force early in the encounter.

You can probably find it on line now. A lot of the victim Officers were a lot like a lot of other people, normal people. They were the opposite of their enemy.

Am I advocating becoming the enemy? No. I am saying the person who is robbing you has certain traits, attitudes, and background. That is all.

Dynamics of Encounters

Hold up men target victims on the street in an impulsive, opportunistic manner. They see someone and make a quick judgment call on whether to rob them. The time between when you are targeted and they are on you isn't long. Therefore, situational awareness is everything.

If you see G coming you are in good shape. If you don't you will be the victim who says "He came out of nowhere". No he didn't. There are many tricks to watching out but simply watching your back is the main thing. Watch your back. If you do it enough it becomes second nature and you won't even realize you are doing it.

Watching out is great but unfortunately many self defense courses stop there. You have parked you car in a well lit area, are aware of your surroundings, and looky here, here comes three guys across the parking lot and they start to kind of fan out.

When you lock eyes with G the very first thing you need to do it indicate you have a weapon. It doesn't matter if you do or not. If you are a woman put your gun hand in your purse and keep it there. If you are a man fan your shirt or coat tail with your gun hand. Make it clear to dude you are mentally prepared to draw and making sure your gun is clear. This will many times result in an about face by dude. It is the single best robbery avoidance tactic IMHO.

Not long ago I was walking down the sidewalk in my town to go get my car. I was holding a folding chair in my gun hand. A car slow rolled past me with 4 heads in it. The guys in the back seat turned around as they went by looking at me. They went a little farther and U turned in the street.

Here they come back. As they started to slow down I looked at them with as contemptuous a look as I could muster and switched the chair to my left hand and flicked my shirt tail with my right hand. They just drove on mad dogging me.

In another case I was at a Christmas party and walked a girl to her car about 3 am. As we said our good-byes two guys were walking across the parking lot. One went behind a dumpster. I though he was peeing. He came out from behind the dumpster with a bottle.

As they got closer I stepped clear of that girl and unzipped my jacket at those two guys. When I did the guy threw down the bottle and they walked by cussing at me. If someone challenges you after you indicate you are armed say "I don't have a gun". Then they will know you do.

Here is an opposite story. A girl my brother knows was walking her dog when a guy approached her. She was polite. Mistake. He talked to her about the dog and said she had pretty hair and reached out and touched her hair. She did not slap his hand down or aggressively object. Mistake. He asked her if her dog bit and she said "No". At that time he slapped the shit out of her, drug her into a wooded area, and raped her.

The answer in the street is always "No". Can I ask you something? No. Do you have a cigarette? No. Can you tell me what time it is? No. The answer is always "No". Don't be nice. Stop the encounter as soon as it starts.

When to draw

Despite warnings I often see on the Net I have yet to encounter an instance in which a hold up man called the police to report his intended victim threatened to shoot him. Thugs do not want to come into contact with the police. They may already be wanted or realize chances are good they have been identified in a recent robbery. Or what ever. They are not going to call the police if you draw on them.



Supposed two guys are approaching you in a parking lot and do the classic fan out maneuver. You indicate you have a weapon by clearing your gun hand and fanning your jacket at them. They are not discouraged. DRAW!

I am not saying you should pull your gun out, assume a Weaver stance, and scream "That's close enough motherfuckers!" What I am saying is draw your gun and hold it beside your leg as you start to move to cover. I am very fond of telephone poles. Anything will do though. They will see this. They will remember they have to be somewhere else. They will not call the police.

Then you can just put your gun back in the holster and go back to whatever you were doing like nothing happened. Why? Because nothing did happen. A happening is when shots are fired.

Do not hesitate to draw. If you are somewhere you are supposed to be and someone appears who is not supposed to be there like a closed business show him the end of your gun. Could it be Mother Teresa looking for her lost cat behind your closed business? No it is some *beep* up to no good. He won't call the police to report he was prowling a location when a guy ran him off.

When to shoot

The time to shoot is immediately upon seeing his weapon. You are not a police man who has to try to arrest the guy. No need to scream at him. No exposure while you yell for him to drop the gun.

In deer hunting the experienced hunter takes the first good shot. May not be the perfect shot but it never is. Novices pass up a doable shot waiting for a better shot and then the deer is gone. Take the first good shot you are offered. Hopefully your alertness and hostile cues will prevent you ever having to fire. But once you see his weapon, shoot.

If a guy is coming at you with a gun in his hand shoot him. Shoot him right then. If you don't shoot first you may not shoot at all. I have known more than one person who was shot and received life changing injuries and also shot their attacker. Their only regret was not shooting sooner. Like Bill Jordan said "Nothing disturbs your enemy's aim like a slug delivered to the belt buckle area".

Guns and weapons

The handgun is the best weapon you can carry easily. I understand it is not always possible to have one due to laws, restrictions, whatever. I am not telling anyone to disregard laws about carrying weapons. Each person has to decide for themselves what they are comfortable with. I will say there is no substitute for a pistol when you need one.


Also if you can not be trusted with a pistol after a few drinks you can't be trusted with a pistol period. Booze is liquid bad judgment no doubt but it shouldn't make you into a damn moron. If you are a moron sober I don't know what to tell you.

Types of guns and ammo are always debated and probably always will be. I have seen people shot with all common calibers. My conclusion is if you hit someone between the collar bone and the tip of their ribs three times with anything, they are handled. Bigger is better but something is better than nothing. Get your front sight on his shirt and stay on him as long as he is standing with whatever gun you have.

Just have a gun with sure fire ammo. Draw early and fire immediately upon seeing his weapon. That course of action is about all you can do to up your odds of ending things favorably. Guns like the Ruger LC9, SIG 239, Glock 26/27 are examples of guns small enough to carry but with enough power and capacity to be useful. Do not be afraid to use a French Lebelle if that is the only gun you have. A gun is a gun. I like a Glock 19.

Training

We all want the best training. It can be expensive if you are having to pay for it and it can be hard to find the time to do it. There is a whole lot of BS out there. What can you do? First, pistol handling is not rocket surgery. If you will learn the basics and practice on your own you can be fine. Smooth draw, quick pairs, reload. If you know those things well you can be OK.

I know a young man who shot down two hold up men in 2010 at very close range while he and his GF were walking home from the store. He in Wyatt Earp like fashion ignored the fire coming from the gunman and killed him and wounded his accomplice. He nor his GF were injured. He like many was willing to give them the money until he picked up on nonverbal cues that because of his GF they were not quite satisfied with the money. He had a Glock 27.

He had only the most basic of training in gun handling but did do some draws and some dry fire a couple times a week and live fired maybe once a month. That basic skill combined with knowing what to do was enough. He shot at the first possible moment despite having let the guys get the drop on them. When the gunman turned his head because a car drove by that was the opening. A split second is a long time sometimes.

Work on some one hand shooting at close range. That is a skill not as popular as it once was and you want to use two hands when you can. Often you can find yourself doing something with your off hand though so be able to shoot with one hand out to 5 yards or so.




After

If it comes to pass you are forced to shoot someone do not feel bad. When the police come just tell them a guy threatened you with deadly force and you were forced to fire. I know there are bad police out there in some parts of the country who don't support self defense. I can't help you with that.

Do not talk to them until you have your attorney present. Now most young guys don't have an attorney on retainer and you may have no idea who to call. That is OK. You will figure it out but in the mean time don't talk about what happened other than to say you were forced to fire. You don't have to be an asshole just remember wait for your attorney.

Hopefully you will not give a statement for a couple days. Remember if you are put in jail that doesn't mean you are charged. Most places can hold you 48 or 72 hours on a felony before charging you or letting you go. Breath deep and get an attorney.

Expect to never get your gun back. You may get it back one day but maybe not. Do not buy expensive guns for the street. Buy yourself a nice sporting gun if you want a nice gun. Keep your street guns basic. The factory Model 10 Smith and the GI 45 have done a lot of work over the years and aren't fancy.

Worlds

We all live in different worlds. My world is filled with felons and gang members. Violence is common place. No one would be surprised if one of their friends called and said they shot a hold up man at a place of business or parking lot. In the past when I made calls the fact that the guy who is beating his GF is also on parole for 2nd degree murder flavored my world.

You may live in a smaller, less violent place where shootings seldom occur and it would be a rare to shoot a hold up man. I envy you and will be moving to a place like your town as soon as I can.

But be advised no matter where you are a hold man is going to be about the same. Whether he is a home boy or a guy who just exited the interstate into your town and needs some quick money. He is going to have a vicious streak and no regard for your life. Treat him like he treats you.

Giving them the money, doing what they say, all that may work but there is no guarantee. If you have never read Jeff Cooper's book The Principles of Personal Defense I suggest you order a copy immediately. It is a short book but summarizes a lot of important things.

Last year we had a trial here regarding an armed robbery that occurred. Three or four guys took a young couple from a parking garage near a college out by some railroad tracks where they raped, shot, and beat them. Their lives will never be the same.

The lesser thugs all turned on the trigger man at trial. The trigger man's statement in the paper was after all that had happened he felt like he was a victim. Think about that. That is the mindset you are up against.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Jyang486



Joined: 25 Nov 2011

PostPosted: Sun Nov 10, 2013 10:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i don't think they deserved to die for their actions, but i don't see anything wrong with them being shot. sure they did it "to feed their families," or pay for child support, but what will prevent them from doing it again, armed robbery, if they succeed this time? and it's clear they aren't afraid to turn their guns on others, so, although hypothetical, more lives would possibly have been in danger later down the line if they got away.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Hokie21



Joined: 01 Mar 2011

PostPosted: Sun Nov 10, 2013 11:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

This happened relatively close to where I live. I have no sympathy for either of them. These guys were menaces in their neighbourhood and at least one of them was arrested for beating an old man with a baseball bat in an alley. Why did they beat him? Because they were racing around the neighbourhood in a car and he told them to slow down because there were kids around.



Also it should be noted that he DID call 911 and when they exited he told them to stay put and that police were on the way...THEN the two thugs turned their two guns on him so he acted in self defense. They dug their own graves. I say good riddance to them.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
nora



Joined: 14 Apr 2012

PostPosted: Sun Nov 10, 2013 4:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Died by bear -TLDR

I agree with the others on this one. They got what they had coming. Also, millions of others in the majority of the US agree with them as well. Most states allow the use of deadly force by a citizen to stop a violent UCR felony. Armed robbery is included in that.

I feel terrible for the guy that shot them - his life could turn very dark very quickly. There were two incidents like this in my hometown, about five years apart. Two kids skipped school and tried to rob a pawn shop. One was shot and killed, the other was shot and paralyzed for life. The owners of the pawnshop had to sell the store and move because of threats from the "victims" families.

Second incident, in a Walgreens around the corner from the pawn shop, another kid pulls a shotgun on the store clerk. An armed citizen confronts him, the kid points the shotgun at the guy and is killed. Turns out, it was unloaded. Why he didn't just drop it and run, who knows. Anyway, same story. The guy was threatened by the poor baby's family.

Died by bear - if you don't want to confront an armed felon, that's your choice, and I totally support it. The odds that something goes wrong and you die are very real. At the same time, anyone who makes the decision to carry knows (or should know) the very really choice that they could have to make one day - to take another human life. The opposite choice being, possibly, allowing someone else to take a human life. I doubt anyone really wakes up hoping to have to make that choice.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Leon



Joined: 31 May 2010

PostPosted: Sun Nov 10, 2013 4:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

nora wrote:
Died by bear -TLDR

I agree with the others on this one. They got what they had coming. Also, millions of others in the majority of the US agree with them as well. Most states allow the use of deadly force by a citizen to stop a violent UCR felony. Armed robbery is included in that.

I feel terrible for the guy that shot them - his life could turn very dark very quickly. There were two incidents like this in my hometown, about five years apart. Two kids skipped school and tried to rob a pawn shop. One was shot and killed, the other was shot and paralyzed for life. The owners of the pawnshop had to sell the store and move because of threats from the "victims" families.

Second incident, in a Walgreens around the corner from the pawn shop, another kid pulls a shotgun on the store clerk. An armed citizen confronts him, the kid points the shotgun at the guy and is killed. Turns out, it was unloaded. Why he didn't just drop it and run, who knows. Anyway, same story. The guy was threatened by the poor baby's family.

Died by bear - if you don't want to confront an armed felon, that's your choice, and I totally support it. The odds that something goes wrong and you die are very real. At the same time, anyone who makes the decision to carry knows (or should know) the very really choice that they could have to make one day - to take another human life. The opposite choice being, possibly, allowing someone else to take a human life. I doubt anyone really wakes up hoping to have to make that choice.


Do you really think died by bear is serious in this post about sticking up for the robbers...?
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Fox



Joined: 04 Mar 2009

PostPosted: Sun Nov 10, 2013 4:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Leon wrote:
optik404 wrote:
Of course the mom is going to blame someone other than her son. Typical response to a grieving parent.


Exactly, say what you will about how she could have raised them better or whatever, but to make fun of her or criticize her for her response after two of her kids died is kind of heartless. Unless this is somehow not as straight forward as it seems, not having sympathy for the two guys is appropriate, but I can sympathize with a mom who lost her kids regardless of how.


She's doing more than simply expressing remorse though, she's calling for "justice" to be inflicted upon the man who unfortunately had to defend himself from her son during his crime. No matter her emotional state that's unreasonable.
Back to top
View user's profile Send private message
Display posts from previous:   
Post new topic   Reply to topic    Korean Job Discussion Forums Forum Index -> Off-Topic Forum All times are GMT - 8 Hours
Goto page 1, 2, 3, 4  Next
Page 1 of 4

 
Jump to:  
You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot vote in polls in this forum


This page is maintained by the one and only Dave Sperling.
Contact Dave's ESL Cafe
Copyright © 2013 Dave Sperling. All Rights Reserved.

Powered by phpBB © 2001, 2002 phpBB Group

TEFL International Supports Dave's ESL Cafe
TEFL Courses, TESOL Course, English Teaching Jobs - TEFL International