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Bingo
Joined: 22 Jun 2006
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Posted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 6:28 pm Post subject: Explain this one for me. |
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Korean traffic 'culture' is abominable. But the one that really makes me go 'Huh' is this. When there is a narrow road and I'm half way down it, another car appears at the end. Instead of waiting for me to finish the journey, they proceed to carry on down thie lane directly towards me, leaving us both stuck at the middle. Now, either one of us must back up (forcing other cars behind us to back up onto busy main roads), or we spend the next fifteen minutes 'inching' past each other. What on earth is that about? It happened to me again yesterday in the taxi. And sometimes my students' parents will give me a lift to school. As they approach the narrow lane, despite the fact that another vehicle is coming towards them, they'll continue on down to the middle and stop, looking baffled. Then they start going 'sheesh' and complaining about the oncoming guy demanding the right to proceed. Can someone please explain to me what is going through their minds when they engage in this sort of behaviour? It's beyond me to figure it out. |
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Paddycakes
Joined: 05 May 2003 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 6:58 pm Post subject: |
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Do a search using the terms "Koreans who live in bubbles". |
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Privateer
Joined: 31 Aug 2005 Location: Easy Street.
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Posted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 7:00 pm Post subject: |
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When it happens again and you're at the beginning of a lane try saying something like 'Hey, look there's another car coming' and 'Don't you think we should back up and wait for it to pass?'. Just to test their reaction. |
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poet13
Joined: 22 Jan 2006 Location: Just over there....throwing lemons.
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Posted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 7:11 pm Post subject: |
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"When it happens again and you're at the beginning of a lane try saying something like 'Hey, look there's another car coming' and 'Don't you think we should back up and wait for it to pass?'. Just to test their reaction."
My co-workers are looking at me funny. A snort-laugh escaped from me when I read that... |
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oldfatfarang
Joined: 19 May 2005 Location: On the road to somewhere.
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Posted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 7:25 pm Post subject: |
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Korea is all about 'me', and 'my family', and 'my circle'.
People in other cars just don't exist.
As another poster aptly put, Korea is a tragedy of the commons writ large. |
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4 months left
Joined: 07 Feb 2003
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Posted: Wed Nov 08, 2006 10:17 pm Post subject: |
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The word you are looking for this and a lot of other similar stupidity is OBLIVIOUS. It baffles me everyday, I try to be oblivious to their oblivion but it is difficult. |
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Qinella
Joined: 25 Feb 2005 Location: the crib
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Posted: Thu Nov 09, 2006 12:07 am Post subject: |
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This is why I wonder what on earth Koreans who buy SUVs are thinking. It must be a real nightmare trying to drive on tiny roads and park in tiny spaces with those things. |
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Mr. BlackCat
Joined: 30 Nov 2005 Location: Insert witty remark HERE
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Posted: Thu Nov 09, 2006 11:58 am Post subject: |
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How about when you are standing stationary in one place, perhaps in the store or on the side of the sidewalk, and a Korean smashes right into you and reacts like you just jumped from the heavens to purposely distrupt his/her godly mission to be first in line for something? I always ask them "Do you walk into trees? Into parked cars? I've been here for hours."
Or when you're trying to get off the subway? Out of an elevator? Any type of passage that can reasonably allow one being to pass? Is this new? There are many things I like about Korea and Koreans, but ultra-competitiveness and obliviousness to others are not two of them. |
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wylies99
Joined: 13 May 2006 Location: I'm one cool cat!
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Posted: Thu Nov 09, 2006 3:38 pm Post subject: |
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This is why I wonder what on earth Koreans who buy SUVs are thinking. It must be a real nightmare trying to drive on tiny roads and park in tiny spaces with those things.
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Yes- and the gas mileage? You can tell who got hoodwinked by some salesperson- they own an SUV. |
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