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ad-miral · Joined: 01 Sep 2006 Posts: 1488

It's like "May the force be with you, young padawan"
Maybe I better shut up and listen.
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beancurdturtle · Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2007 9:51 pm Post subject:

I have a fish on the hook? Shocked

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ad-miral · Joined: 01 Sep 2006 Posts: 1488

oh yeah, thanks guys!
This tactic with fish and hook seems to be very good.
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If I say "I love you" to someone, then I also have to say "I also love everyone else inside you, I love the whole world because of you, I also love myself inside you." -- Erich Fromm, the Art of Love

ad-miral · Joined: 01 Sep 2006 Posts: 1488

Tone · Joined: 03 Sep 2006 Posts: 175

It's been really off the topic but it's fun to follow Laughing

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Oriani · Joined: 13 Oct 2006 Posts: 208 Location: Venezuela

I don't believe neither before nor after. Both are good If people do it well and with resposibilities. That's it.

nancyliu · Joined: 06 May 2008 Posts: 5 Location: BEIJING

i think this topic has been talked from generation to generation ,i was born in 1986, so i am the person in 80s . in my opinion ,i feel for this question ,it all depends on yourself, its totally your decision to have sex or not ,and personally ,i support to have sex before marriage, its good for your latter life ,coz sex is part of your marriage and its a very important one ,but i dont think its good to have sex too earlier ,coz you dont have ability to handle things if there would be anything bad things following ,so the perfect age for me is 25, at that time ,i am going to have a stable jobs, and i am capable to face anything .however ,i find that the people who were born in 90s are too open to sex, lots of girls already had experience of abortion which shock me alot ,thats too irresponsible for you and your future partner and also the baby .so i think when you are ready to have sex, do it ,otherwise dont do it .think before you do it .
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Tone · Joined: 03 Sep 2006 Posts: 175

I recently heard from one of my friend in Europe that his girlfriend is pregnant. They are not married but he told me like a normal situation. I didn't want to make him nervous that how terrible it was in my country because he seems so calm.

Well, interesting that we are living the same world with totally opposite way of thinking.
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finn1207 · Joined: 05 Dec 2006 Posts: 6 Location: Kaohsiung City

I believe that there is no exactly answers for this topic. No matter what people decide to do, I think having a wonderful and steady relationship with your couple that is the most important for me. In order to achieve this, men and women must stay calm and smart, that means to know, to understand; to observe before having a sex. In other words, you should do a lot of work to realise who is a "good" person, so that you could never regrets. Open your eyes, and think carefully. Love shouldn't be so complex or harmful, if do so, you must do the right choice --- to LEAVE that person. That's my opinion.

ps. take the relationship into serious account.