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clover
Joined: 31 May 2003 Posts: 3
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Posted: Sat May 31, 2003 10:19 pm Post subject: The notice of cancer |
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Hi, everybody! I am a Japanese student.
My grandmother has terminal cancer . But she don't know that, because it considered it more fortunate not to know that she has terminal cancer.
Do you want to be notified if you have tarminal cancer ? |
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toomuch
Joined: 08 Jun 2003 Posts: 5
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Posted: Tue Jun 10, 2003 2:49 am Post subject: |
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I`m sorry to heard about your grandmother,Clover.
Take care.
Niether I`ve been noticed nor not to be. I`ll accept the reality. |
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aa702
Joined: 06 May 2003 Posts: 4
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Posted: Thu Jun 12, 2003 8:12 pm Post subject: brave to accept the reality |
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I agree with the up one |
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river1974
Joined: 20 May 2003 Posts: 525 Location: Taiwan
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Posted: Fri Jun 20, 2003 1:06 am Post subject: |
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Regarding this question, I prefer to be notified. I have always wanted to be a man who can frankly face himself, even if dealing with the situation about death. Being notified of suffering from terminal cancer may be a great shock to me at the first time, but I think it's better for me to know the truth rather than being deceived. Since I still have many relatives and friends who are fairly concerned about me, I should get together with them well before departing from this life. |
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clover
Joined: 31 May 2003 Posts: 3
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Posted: Sun Jul 13, 2003 2:53 am Post subject: |
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Thank you for a lot of replies.
I'm sorry that a reply became very late
I asked to a doctor into what state people would lapse, if they are notified. There are two types. Those who think positively to how I will make a living, and those who wiil be in a depressed state and pass away with the state are needed.
My grandmother was a person who cared also a little poor health, so we decided not notify her.
This is a very difficult problem because a view changes with individuals.
In fact, she passed away. I'm very sad
However, we don't repent having not notified her. She passed away without being notified and we regard her as fortunate. |
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