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Rogerlz



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PostPosted: Tue May 22, 2007 9:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX


In Costa Rica the biggest part of the poblation had have sexual relation ships before the marriage, well at lest all my friends had have sex with someone. I thought that I'm the only one whose haven't had sexual relations in all Costa Rica!!! Very Happy Very Happy Very Happy Very Happy Very Happy Very Happy
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PostPosted: Tue May 22, 2007 1:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Rogerlz wrote:
I thought that I'm the only one whose haven't had sexual relations in all Costa Rica!!! Very Happy Very Happy Very Happy Very Happy Very Happy Very Happy
I don't believe you. Laughing
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ad-miral



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PostPosted: Tue May 22, 2007 1:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

RedRose wrote:
ad-miral wrote:
Mr. Green Mr. Green Mr. Green I'm very proud of my virginity


Me too Laughing
Laughing Laughing Laughing hey! I'm not joking! Don't you try to falsify my statements!

Ok, I agree, sometimes I think about it. But for my first girlfriend, I had too much to do in school so that the relationship cooled down. For my second girlfriend, (if you can call so) she is always called "fiancee" by my family but I only see her twice a year or so. I hate long-distance relationships. For my third "girlfriend", if you can call her so, I asked her everyday in school whether she wants to eat an ice or watch a movie with me until I finished highschool. For my fourth girlfriend, (that Kathi) she lied too much so at the end I was so afraid to hear her talking because it could either be lie or trick to get money.

And recently and finally I watched Spiderman3 with my third girlfriend if you can call her so and her sister. (Who was my classmate) I sent you a photo of the two girls, rr, do you remember? Laughing Two supermodels so sad you deleted it and I deleted it. Today, I'm in the middle, one left, one right. My glance went left, right.

I try to stay good friends with them. I don't like acting as a matcho. I like 细水长流 and hope it could be possible with ont of the two girls. And it would be great if sex comes as a bye-effect. But first I have to decide which of the two.
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PostPosted: Wed May 23, 2007 3:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sex like pills: BEFORE of every meals
Sex like toothbrush: AFTER every meal Laughing
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RedRose



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PostPosted: Wed May 23, 2007 6:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Admiral, 细水常流 dosen't work on sex.

elba wrote:
Sex like pills: BEFORE of every meals
Sex like toothbrush: AFTER every meal


You mean, sex is necessary for life, so we have to do it all day long and all night long? how about take a break when we are VERY tired Embarassed That'd be very healthy for sex itself Laughing
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garfield_jesse



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PostPosted: Wed May 23, 2007 8:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sex is necessary in life but i can live without sex for a long time Cool Cool Cool
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Dixie



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PostPosted: Thu May 24, 2007 4:26 am    Post subject: Re: Sex: before of after? Reply with quote

Tone wrote:
I know that it's very common for a couple nowaday to have sex before getting marry but in many countries, especially eastern countries. We still believe that it is not good to do that.

Personally, I agree that it's not good because we might have many problems afterward such as pregnancy or some venereal diseases. Understand that the world is chaning rapidly and sooner or later we will not care about this kind of culture anymore. Many people do not even believe in marriage anymore.....

Want to hear some good opinions about it.


I haven't read the thread so I don't know what others have said about it, but I wanted to participate also so here I am Laughing

This is what I think: Why should people wait to get married to have sex? Imagine you get married and then have sex with your wife or husband for the first time, and realize you're not compatible in bed. What do you do?

Same as to getting married before living together for some time first. What if you get married and in a few days or months or even years you realize you're not compatible and cannot possible endure living with them anymore?

I think it's a matter of brain. Think a little before things get complicated. Society tells you to wait until you get married, but why?

Diseases? Lots of solutions, i.e. condoms.
Pregnancies? Sorry, there are LOTS of contraceptives nowadays. That's not an excuse.
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PostPosted: Thu May 24, 2007 4:36 am    Post subject: Re: Sex: before of after? Reply with quote

Dixie wrote:
I think it's a matter of brain. Think a little before things get complicated. Society tells you to wait until you get married, but why?

Diseases? Lots of solutions, i.e. condoms.
Pregnancies? Sorry, there are LOTS of contraceptives nowadays. That's not an excuse.

I totally agree.

Society tells us to wait until we get married, then we do? where are our brains? and what's the brains for?? what's wrong with sleeping before getting married" Dose that hurt anyone? and dose it offend anyone?

Some of traditions or rules are stupid, like the worship of virginity, sexism, and the stupid no sleeping until you get married...

and it's even stupider for us to follow those stupid rules.
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garfield_jesse



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PostPosted: Thu May 24, 2007 5:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I totally agree too

But i dont know why some of my friends wanna keep their virgin till they get married. They are afraid of losing virgin before married...sigh. Actually i hate the notion about waiting until we get married.
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StephenLong



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PostPosted: Thu May 24, 2007 9:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

garfield_jesse wrote:
I totally agree too

But i dont know why some of my friends wanna keep their virgin till they get married. They are afraid of losing virgin before married...sigh. Actually i hate the notion about waiting until we get married.


it means those girls have no enough confidence with themselves and have to bet on their virginity to get their husbands to treat them better.
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PostPosted: Thu May 24, 2007 9:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Any man with confidence would prefer a woman with both confidence and experience.

Sex is a sensual thing like food. Nobody wants a meal prepared by an ignorant cook.
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RedRose



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PostPosted: Fri May 25, 2007 1:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

beancurdturtle wrote:
Any man with confidence would prefer a woman with both confidence and experience.

Sex is a sensual thing like food. Nobody wants a meal prepared by an ignorant cook.

I bet you are an experienced cook Laughing
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PostPosted: Fri May 25, 2007 4:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Any man with confidence would prefer a woman with both confidence and experience.


Bob said I'm confident. But I prefer women without so much experience.
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RedRose



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PostPosted: Fri May 25, 2007 4:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

ad-miral wrote:
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Any man with confidence would prefer a woman with both confidence and experience.


Bob said I'm confident. But I prefer women without so much experience.


maybe because you are a virgin yet.
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PostPosted: Fri May 25, 2007 6:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

RedRose wrote:
maybe because you are a virgin yet.

Yeah maybe, but however it's not right that any man with confidence prefer a woman with both confidence and experience.
Ok the German girl is very confident but I think as long as they like me and are sensible it's right, whether she is confident or not.

Haha maybe I'm still not very experienced
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