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Rogerlz
Joined: 30 Nov 2006 Posts: 216 Location: Costa Rica
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Posted: Tue May 22, 2007 9:13 am Post subject: |
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SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX
In Costa Rica the biggest part of the poblation had have sexual relation ships before the marriage, well at lest all my friends had have sex with someone. I thought that I'm the only one whose haven't had sexual relations in all Costa Rica!!! _________________
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hoshi
Joined: 01 Feb 2007 Posts: 564 Location: At the best place of your dreams :D Loveland
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Posted: Tue May 22, 2007 1:01 pm Post subject: |
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Rogerlz wrote: |
I thought that I'm the only one whose haven't had sexual relations in all Costa Rica!!! |
I don't believe you. _________________ God gave us two ears to hear, two eyes to see and two hands to hold. But why did God gave us only one heart? Because He wants us to find the other one! |
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ad-miral
Joined: 01 Sep 2006 Posts: 1488
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Posted: Tue May 22, 2007 1:05 pm Post subject: |
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RedRose wrote: |
ad-miral wrote: |
I'm very proud of my virginity |
Me too |
hey! I'm not joking! Don't you try to falsify my statements!
Ok, I agree, sometimes I think about it. But for my first girlfriend, I had too much to do in school so that the relationship cooled down. For my second girlfriend, (if you can call so) she is always called "fiancee" by my family but I only see her twice a year or so. I hate long-distance relationships. For my third "girlfriend", if you can call her so, I asked her everyday in school whether she wants to eat an ice or watch a movie with me until I finished highschool. For my fourth girlfriend, (that Kathi) she lied too much so at the end I was so afraid to hear her talking because it could either be lie or trick to get money.
And recently and finally I watched Spiderman3 with my third girlfriend if you can call her so and her sister. (Who was my classmate) I sent you a photo of the two girls, rr, do you remember? Two supermodels so sad you deleted it and I deleted it. Today, I'm in the middle, one left, one right. My glance went left, right.
I try to stay good friends with them. I don't like acting as a matcho. I like 细水长流 and hope it could be possible with ont of the two girls. And it would be great if sex comes as a bye-effect. But first I have to decide which of the two. _________________ If I say "I love you" to someone, then I also have to say "I also love everyone else inside you, I love the whole world because of you, I also love myself inside you." -- Erich Fromm, the Art of Love |
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elba
Joined: 29 Jul 2005 Posts: 66 Location: mexico
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Posted: Wed May 23, 2007 3:33 pm Post subject: |
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Sex like pills: BEFORE of every meals
Sex like toothbrush: AFTER every meal _________________ Only dream |
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RedRose
Joined: 21 May 2004 Posts: 2735 Location: GuangZhou, China
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Posted: Wed May 23, 2007 6:27 pm Post subject: |
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Admiral, 细水常流 dosen't work on sex.
elba wrote: |
Sex like pills: BEFORE of every meals
Sex like toothbrush: AFTER every meal |
You mean, sex is necessary for life, so we have to do it all day long and all night long? how about take a break when we are VERY tired That'd be very healthy for sex itself |
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garfield_jesse
Joined: 17 Oct 2005 Posts: 271
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Posted: Wed May 23, 2007 8:38 pm Post subject: |
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Sex is necessary in life but i can live without sex for a long time _________________ I'm smart, that's why i'm single...haha(^_^) |
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Dixie
Joined: 11 Nov 2005 Posts: 169 Location: Catalunya
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Posted: Thu May 24, 2007 4:26 am Post subject: Re: Sex: before of after? |
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Tone wrote: |
I know that it's very common for a couple nowaday to have sex before getting marry but in many countries, especially eastern countries. We still believe that it is not good to do that.
Personally, I agree that it's not good because we might have many problems afterward such as pregnancy or some venereal diseases. Understand that the world is chaning rapidly and sooner or later we will not care about this kind of culture anymore. Many people do not even believe in marriage anymore.....
Want to hear some good opinions about it. |
I haven't read the thread so I don't know what others have said about it, but I wanted to participate also so here I am
This is what I think: Why should people wait to get married to have sex? Imagine you get married and then have sex with your wife or husband for the first time, and realize you're not compatible in bed. What do you do?
Same as to getting married before living together for some time first. What if you get married and in a few days or months or even years you realize you're not compatible and cannot possible endure living with them anymore?
I think it's a matter of brain. Think a little before things get complicated. Society tells you to wait until you get married, but why?
Diseases? Lots of solutions, i.e. condoms.
Pregnancies? Sorry, there are LOTS of contraceptives nowadays. That's not an excuse. |
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RedRose
Joined: 21 May 2004 Posts: 2735 Location: GuangZhou, China
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Posted: Thu May 24, 2007 4:36 am Post subject: Re: Sex: before of after? |
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Dixie wrote: |
I think it's a matter of brain. Think a little before things get complicated. Society tells you to wait until you get married, but why?
Diseases? Lots of solutions, i.e. condoms.
Pregnancies? Sorry, there are LOTS of contraceptives nowadays. That's not an excuse. |
I totally agree.
Society tells us to wait until we get married, then we do? where are our brains? and what's the brains for?? what's wrong with sleeping before getting married" Dose that hurt anyone? and dose it offend anyone?
Some of traditions or rules are stupid, like the worship of virginity, sexism, and the stupid no sleeping until you get married...
and it's even stupider for us to follow those stupid rules. |
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garfield_jesse
Joined: 17 Oct 2005 Posts: 271
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Posted: Thu May 24, 2007 5:42 am Post subject: |
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I totally agree too
But i dont know why some of my friends wanna keep their virgin till they get married. They are afraid of losing virgin before married...sigh. Actually i hate the notion about waiting until we get married. _________________ I'm smart, that's why i'm single...haha(^_^) |
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StephenLong
Joined: 14 May 2007 Posts: 173
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Posted: Thu May 24, 2007 9:26 pm Post subject: |
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garfield_jesse wrote: |
I totally agree too
But i dont know why some of my friends wanna keep their virgin till they get married. They are afraid of losing virgin before married...sigh. Actually i hate the notion about waiting until we get married. |
it means those girls have no enough confidence with themselves and have to bet on their virginity to get their husbands to treat them better. |
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beancurdturtle
Joined: 23 Aug 2006 Posts: 1041 Location: Southern California
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Posted: Thu May 24, 2007 9:37 pm Post subject: |
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Any man with confidence would prefer a woman with both confidence and experience.
Sex is a sensual thing like food. Nobody wants a meal prepared by an ignorant cook. _________________ Daniel
�Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.�
--Dr. Seuss |
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RedRose
Joined: 21 May 2004 Posts: 2735 Location: GuangZhou, China
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Posted: Fri May 25, 2007 1:16 am Post subject: |
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beancurdturtle wrote: |
Any man with confidence would prefer a woman with both confidence and experience.
Sex is a sensual thing like food. Nobody wants a meal prepared by an ignorant cook. |
I bet you are an experienced cook |
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ad-miral
Joined: 01 Sep 2006 Posts: 1488
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Posted: Fri May 25, 2007 4:27 am Post subject: |
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Any man with confidence would prefer a woman with both confidence and experience. |
Bob said I'm confident. But I prefer women without so much experience. _________________ If I say "I love you" to someone, then I also have to say "I also love everyone else inside you, I love the whole world because of you, I also love myself inside you." -- Erich Fromm, the Art of Love |
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RedRose
Joined: 21 May 2004 Posts: 2735 Location: GuangZhou, China
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Posted: Fri May 25, 2007 4:35 am Post subject: |
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ad-miral wrote: |
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Any man with confidence would prefer a woman with both confidence and experience. |
Bob said I'm confident. But I prefer women without so much experience. |
maybe because you are a virgin yet. |
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ad-miral
Joined: 01 Sep 2006 Posts: 1488
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Posted: Fri May 25, 2007 6:13 am Post subject: |
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RedRose wrote: |
maybe because you are a virgin yet. |
Yeah maybe, but however it's not right that any man with confidence prefer a woman with both confidence and experience.
Ok the German girl is very confident but I think as long as they like me and are sensible it's right, whether she is confident or not.
Haha maybe I'm still not very experienced _________________ If I say "I love you" to someone, then I also have to say "I also love everyone else inside you, I love the whole world because of you, I also love myself inside you." -- Erich Fromm, the Art of Love |
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