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sheikher
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tacomaboywa

Joined: 18 Jan 2009 Posts: 194 Location: The Magic Kingdom
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Posted: Mon Jan 18, 2010 2:32 pm Post subject: |
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Thanks! Very useful information.
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lcanupp1964

Joined: 12 Dec 2009 Posts: 381
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Posted: Mon Jan 25, 2010 4:34 am Post subject: Yes! Thanks for the info... |
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As we all know (who has been to the magic kingdom) the "rules" are, at times, not enforced. The best advice I can offer is to be the most open-minded, patient and flexible person you can be while in the Middle East. I have the so-called �blue passport�, but a lot of us �Yanks� try to compare the world �with all its rich and divisive cultures � to how �we do things� in the USA. Big mistake! Relax, take a deep breath and grab life by the balls! Gee, I used way too many quotation marks.  |
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Mia Xanthi

Joined: 13 Mar 2008 Posts: 955 Location: why is my heart still in the Middle East while the rest of me isn't?
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Posted: Mon Jan 25, 2010 4:16 pm Post subject: |
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Rules for survival in KSA:
1) A smile and a sense of humor will get you more than all the yelling and demanding in the world.
2) Accept those offers of coffee and dates even if you hate coffee and dates
3) Spend time building rapport with your students and the Saudis that you work for. Your students want to know that they can trust you as a person. They will only respect you after they learn to like you. |
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Mon Jan 25, 2010 5:10 pm Post subject: |
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Dear Mia,
Very true - I would add only:
1) A smile, courtesy/politeness, and a sense of humor will get you more than all the yelling and demanding in the world.
2) Accept those offers of coffee anddates even if you hate coffee and dates.
And accept those Qurans and Islamic pamphlets with a smile and a thank you. Be flattered, not annoyed. That means they like you enough to want to save your soul.
Regards,
John |
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