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Girlfriend is having a breakdown...any advice?
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Xie Lin



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 17, 2012 4:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Prof.Gringo wrote:
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Blue collar work that pays more than teachers can ever dream of... Ahhh how I also love to have choosen such a path in life. No student loan debt, work with both my hands and my mind, upward mobility with a career path and benefits.


Fantasyland. "Career path?" Keep dreaming. "Upward mobility?" Not in my working class town. "Benefits?" Now few and far between. Where on earth have you been living?

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Dedicated



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 17, 2012 5:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Here in London, a plumber can command 100,000 GB pounds a year. The waiting list for a reputable plumber can be 2 months.

Courses at college in plumbing have been over-subscribed for about 3 years.
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Sashadroogie



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 17, 2012 6:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ah! A proletarian future!
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johnslat



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 17, 2012 6:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear Sasha,

Well, one with clean, well-functioning pipes, anyway Very Happy

Regards,
John
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Sashadroogie



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 17, 2012 6:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear Johnslat

Ah, you poor benighted creatures in the decadent West! You can only dream of having pipes of such well-functioning cleanliness as we take for granted in the Motherland. For you, you can only dream a veritable pipe-dream!

Sasha...hic!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iRXbiPsYGH4
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johnslat



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 17, 2012 8:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear Sasha,

Music to your ears:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=scGrk-1cNF8&feature=player_embedded

Regards,
John
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Sashadroogie



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 17, 2012 8:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sniff sniff.... and tears to my eyes..... ..... beautiful!
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Prof.Gringo



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 17, 2012 8:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sashadroogie wrote:
Ah! A proletarian future!


Power to the people Razz
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KenMc



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 24, 2012 2:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Better not send your girl overseas by herself if she is not the adventurous type. Explore your local options thoroughly first.
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La Reve



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 12, 2012 9:03 pm    Post subject: Girlfriend's Nervous Breakdown Reply with quote

Being unemployed for more than a few months naturally produces a nervous breakdown - financially and emotionally. Anti-depressants help a lot. They help motivate a person to do the right, healthy things such as eat properly, exercise, sleep eight hours a night, be sociable, etc.

When I finished my teaching credential work in the USA, at the age of 40, I finally found a job - as a waitress. Hurt the heck out of my legs.... but I did it. Until I was able to move on.

I don't understand why some people think being unemployed is far better than any job.... When young, life is often s*(%)@. Unless you have a trust fund. The rest of us work. and if a person can't find work, can't do what is necessary to find work, they need a kick in the butt. That said, I am certain the job situation in the States has many people in dire conditions, including some in my large extended family. And yes, being young is good for many things - such as teaching jobs in China or other places.

You might suggest your friend see a doctor about anti-depressants, get involved in a social-self-help group or group therapy, and accept the fact that being young and looking for work now is not easy. Heck, I graduated with a degree in psychology/writing but with Nixon's recession back in '73, I got a job as a clerk typist. Plus that was around the time all the mental hospitals were throwing the patients into the streets, so there were few entry level jobs in psychology.

Yes, that changed my dreams, my goals, my reality, my life. That's called living.

You might want to give her a deadline on your help. Deadlines motivate most of us. This is prime hiring season - she should be working full-time, at least five yours a day, looking for work EVERYWHERE possible.

Good luck.
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