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Expats just not learning Japanese
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rxk22



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PostPosted: Sun Dec 01, 2013 10:31 pm    Post subject: Expats just not learning Japanese Reply with quote

I have been back in the US for a while, but this always bothered me; Why do so many expats ( I mean those in Japan for more than a year or two) seem to not learn any Japanese at all? I know that there are many that do, but it seems as though 90% just don't bother to, past 'One more beer'.

I see this as really limiting, as you can not really have any meaningful relationship with most of the populace. You limit who you can befriend, to a small pool. Especially if you live outside of the larger cities.

Why not spend 10 minutes a day studying the language of the country that you reside in? Are they lazy? Do they just do enough to just get by? I just don't understand that mentality.

For those that do study, good for you, and keep on trucking. If you don't study, think of this as motivation to start. It really isn't that hard. Like exercise, the best plan is consistency.
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ssjup81



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PostPosted: Mon Dec 02, 2013 2:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

My Japanese is horrendous. My first time here it was passable to an extent and I studied more since it was ALT work and used Japanese on a daily basis. I returned home after the earthquake for a year and forgot a lot. Since returning last year, I've been doing Eikaiwa work, surrounded by English all the time and discouraged from using it in the workplace. I want to do lessons and start at the beginning again through work as it is provided but...my managers tend to schedule me for lessons during time that's free to me usually on ocassion which means no class.

I'm the type who learns best in a classroom setting, where I can ask questions to better understand. I guess for me though, I don't have many opportunities to use Japanese outside of basic stuff. You have less time to travel too compared to ALTs and less time because of the higher workload. Should I study more? Most definitely...just wish I had more consistency.
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nightsintodreams



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PostPosted: Mon Dec 02, 2013 4:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I often wonder the same thing. I'm going to speak openly here, get ready...

I didn't have any respect for foreigners living in my home country who couldn't speak English (Despised them to be honest), so I made sure as soon as I got here to study my arse off.

How people can live in a country for years without learning the basics, I just can't understand. If you don't have enough interest in the country to learn the language, why are you even here? Money alone? If that's the case, there's better countries to be teaching English in.

Another thing that grinds my balls, those gaijin you see walking around with some Japanese girl on their arm, talking in English publicly and loudly. Don't you see how bad that looks? You came here, stole one of their women and can't even be bothered to learn their language.
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rxk22



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PostPosted: Mon Dec 02, 2013 5:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

ssjup81 wrote:
My Japanese is horrendous. My first time here it was passable to an extent and I studied more since it was ALT work and used Japanese on a daily basis. I returned home after the earthquake for a year and forgot a lot. Since returning last year, I've been doing Eikaiwa work, surrounded by English all the time and discouraged from using it in the workplace. I want to do lessons and start at the beginning again through work as it is provided but...my managers tend to schedule me for lessons during time that's free to me usually on ocassion which means no class.

I'm the type who learns best in a classroom setting, where I can ask questions to better understand. I guess for me though, I don't have many opportunities to use Japanese outside of basic stuff. You have less time to travel too compared to ALTs and less time because of the higher workload. Should I study more? Most definitely...just wish I had more consistency.


What do you do outside of work? I did my time as an Eikaiwa monkey. It is rough, but I was able to study, do all the housework(wife was in college doing a tough major), hit the gym everyday, do the grocery shopping, and still squeezed in some study time.

Don't depend on people when it comes to improving yourself. You have to take control of it, and make your own way. Take classes at the local community center, and get a study buddy or a language exchange partner. Take ownership of your situation.
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rxk22



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PostPosted: Mon Dec 02, 2013 5:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

nightsintodreams wrote:
I often wonder the same thing. I'm going to speak openly here, get ready...

I didn't have any respect for foreigners living in my home country who couldn't speak English (Despised them to be honest), so I made sure as soon as I got here to study my arse off.

How people can live in a country for years without learning the basics, I just can't understand. If you don't have enough interest in the country to learn the language, why are you even here? Money alone? If that's the case, there's better countries to be teaching English in.

Another thing that grinds my balls, those gaijin you see walking around with some Japanese girl on their arm, talking in English publicly and loudly. Don't you see how bad that looks? You came here, stole one of their women and can't even be bothered to learn their language.


It does bother me to a degree as well. I think it is sad that some of these guys(usually guys) have to defend on their girl to do everything for them. Order at restaurants, do all the banking and what not. It is sad if you can't do any of that yourself.

If you are here for 5 or more years, learn the language already. I have met many who can't, and I can't believe they have been in Japan that long. Once you hit intermediate you start picking up a lot naturally. It really isn7t that hard, if you put in the effort.
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kah5217



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PostPosted: Mon Dec 02, 2013 7:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm going to play the devil's advocate here.

Speaking for myself, I just can't fit studying time into my schedule. It's complicated by the fact that I'm not a listening/speaking oriented learner. Even after 4 years of study and being here twice, I doubt I'd clear the N3. Put a sign or book in front of me, I can probably understand it. But reading aloud is very difficult.

It's easy for everyone here to say "learn it, it's not that hard", "don't speak English, you're in Japan", and "quit depending on others". Think of all the students we've taught. They have English class 3/4 times a week for 6 years in school, so how come they can't say anything besides "sankyuu" and "please give me" when they graduate? English isn't that hard if you put forth effort, after all.
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ssjup81



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PostPosted: Mon Dec 02, 2013 8:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

rxk22 wrote:
ssjup81 wrote:
My Japanese is horrendous. My first time here it was passable to an extent and I studied more since it was ALT work and used Japanese on a daily basis. I returned home after the earthquake for a year and forgot a lot. Since returning last year, I've been doing Eikaiwa work, surrounded by English all the time and discouraged from using it in the workplace. I want to do lessons and start at the beginning again through work as it is provided but...my managers tend to schedule me for lessons during time that's free to me usually on ocassion which means no class.

I'm the type who learns best in a classroom setting, where I can ask questions to better understand. I guess for me though, I don't have many opportunities to use Japanese outside of basic stuff. You have less time to travel too compared to ALTs and less time because of the higher workload. Should I study more? Most definitely...just wish I had more consistency.


What do you do outside of work? I did my time as an Eikaiwa monkey. It is rough, but I was able to study, do all the housework(wife was in college doing a tough major), hit the gym everyday, do the grocery shopping, and still squeezed in some study time.

Don't depend on people when it comes to improving yourself. You have to take control of it, and make your own way. Take classes at the local community center, and get a study buddy or a language exchange partner. Take ownership of your situation.
Usually working on something work related or making up sleep. The place I worked for last year I was the only teacher. This year I have more time so I do study a bit more, unless I'm stuck with extra lessons, like the entirety of September, but I still do best in a classroom.

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HLJHLJ



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PostPosted: Mon Dec 02, 2013 8:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I studied Japanese for a few months, and gave up when I realised I had no opportunity to practice it. The only Japanese people who want to speak to me want to practice their English. Even in stores they don't like it if I try and talk in (very bad) Japanese, but you've got to start somewhere!

I knew I was only going to be here for a couple of years, so I'd never get that far with it anyway. I didn't see the point in putting anymore time into it. I've got other stuff I'd rather be doing. If I was here for the long haul, then yeah, I would have made it a priority but as it is, I don't think it's made much difference to my time here.
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ssjup81



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PostPosted: Mon Dec 02, 2013 8:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yeah. That's the main problem. Nowhere to fully practice it outside of a classroom, w