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nightsintodreams



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PostPosted: Fri Dec 06, 2013 8:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Almost all of the direct hire gigs (with school or BOEs) require 'conversational' Japanese, whatever that means.
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fat_chris



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PostPosted: Fri Dec 06, 2013 9:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

mitsui wrote:
My boss in Casablanca invited all the teachers over and he had his own bar.
I was shocked.


I tell you something else that shocked me about Casablanca.

"I'm shocked! Shocked to find that gambling is going on in here."

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SjbPi00k_ME

Haha! See what I did there?

Cool

Warm regards,
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jmatt



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PostPosted: Fri Dec 06, 2013 11:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wow.

Interesting topic and thread, and thought I'd throw in---though I apologize if it's too long, rambling, and disjointed.

So, like many here, I came to Japan as a true beginner in the language. Spent the first year dealing with the job and figuring out how best to teach in the country and didn't make a huge effort to learn. The second year, I'd moved to Tokyo and tried a bit harder, but mostly focused on exploring the city, going to shows, eating, drinking, etc. I'd learned the basics, but not a whole hell of a lot more. After that year, I left and traveled around Asia for 2 years and that was when my ability seriously increased, strangely enough. I finally had tons of free time to study and put in a serious effort---learning how to read and write, and things really progressed. My Japanese GF (now wife) came out a few times and the time spent just studying made a massive difference.

When I came back to Japan, the difference was really noticeable and I threw myself into studying and since we were living together at that point, we spoke Japanese 80% of the time. After a year, I went back to the US to go on tour with a band I'd previously been in and after that, we decided to move back to the US. In preparation, I started working 7 days a week and we switched the focus to English---my feeling being that if we were to live there, I wanted my GF to be able to operate independently in English---just didn't want her to ever feel like she had to rely on me---and in the US, people don't really care---if you want to deal and have a life outside of a closed community you have to speak the language. So, while I spoke Japanese in social and everyday situations during that time without much difficulty, I didn't really improve much after that.

Fast forward 8 years. While my general casual communication was OK, I didn't progress much being in the US, and now we've been back here a year. The first few months I was fired up, studied like a fiend, and got back to my earlier level, but since I've started working again, I've hit a plateau. While I'm lucky to be working a lot, I spend so much time riding my bike all the *beep* over the city between jobs and have little energy to study. The fact that I'm in an English environment most of the day, then at home talking to my two young children in English isn't an excuse, but doesn't help. The fact that my 5 yr old daughter's Japanese is rapidly outpacing mine is worrying.

Like people here, I have long time friends here who speak very little Japanese. I used to be pretty critical of it, but I now just don't care. Or maybe I just understand, I guess. I mean, how strange is it in some ways to expect people who've been here a few years and have started from rock bottom to be fluent after a few years? having the basics, sure, but..

I'm sure a lot of you know many L2 learners in the US or UK---I used to teach, and work with loads in the in the US who had been in the country for years and still couldn't speak much English---they were too busy working their asses off, and had a L1 community to comfortably sink into when not. How many of you all are gonna say to them "What the *beep*? Learn the language! You're pathetic!" (maybe not so harshly, but...). Or some pithy shit like "Yoda says, there is no can, just do." In the real world, as an adult, with a shitload of priorities, it can be tough. And the canard that "You can just talk to people" is just that, at least in Tokyo. Sure, if you want to practice the basics it's OK to talk to people in the neighborhood in simple interactions, but beyond that, it's not like you can just approach random people and talk to them at length. Totally unrealistic. Best thing is to become a regular at a bunch of bars, which I used to do in my single and child-free days, but really difficult now.

And anyway, fluency is totally relative. Most people who claim to be "fluent" are not---or are just so in certain contexts. I can wax rhapsodic in certain contexts, but am clueless in others, like may people I'd guess.

Anyway, sorry for the rant...
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mitsui



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PostPosted: Fri Dec 06, 2013 1:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Gambling? No, no surprise.
It is not haram, I guess, according to the Koran.
Maybe since back in the 7th century, who had thought of it?
I guess gambling has always been around but liquor was a sin.
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mitsui



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PostPosted: Fri Dec 06, 2013 1:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

From what I read, in the UAE things are getting tougher but you can still make money in the Gulf, provided you are qualified.
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rxk22



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PostPosted: Fri Dec 06, 2013 5:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

nightsintodreams wrote:
Almost all of the direct hire gigs (with school or BOEs) require 'conversational' Japanese, whatever that means.


Direct hires makes sense. As there isn't a dispatch company to babysit/translate.

While some of the lower end ALT jobs want the same standards. Other times, they don't care at all
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rxk22



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PostPosted: Mon Dec 09, 2013 10:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Jmatt, I think we discussed it in this thread, we aren't looking for people to be fluent. We are looking for people to learn the basics. While many don't even do that.

People like this. are the ones that I really can not understand http://www.japan-guide.com/forum/quereadisplay.html?0+76279
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1983rm



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PostPosted: Tue Dec 10, 2013 5:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've been here about a year, and have studied on and off. Funnily enough my motivation goes up and down, and I'm at a point where I think I have kind of what I need in the essential sense. Helps if you have a Japanese gf though.

I've had a kind of extended break and am about to knuckle down again. Funny thing was when I was at my first "peak", I was really enjoying learning but found that largely what I learned I was only using in the classes, or if I arranged a language exchange. I've had to slap myself about a bit to get motivated again.

In fact I'd almost say it's a hobby, when it should be pretty much essential to living here.

I do think you need the basics though, and I haven't studied even a bit in a few months until last night but was able to recall most stuff with a bit of prompting. My students help me to keep it fresh before I tell em to talk in English.
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fat_chris



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PostPosted: Tue Dec 10, 2013 6:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

rxk22 wrote:
Jmatt, I think we discussed it in this thread, we aren't looking for people to be fluent. We are looking for people to learn the basics. While many don't even do that.


Seconded.

rxk22 wrote:
People like this. are the ones that I really can not understand http://www.japan-guide.com/forum/quereadisplay.html?0+76279


That forum was a very interesting read. Thanks for posting that.

I agree. Learning some Japanese is always better than having zero Japanese.

As for dudes living in Japan for 15 years and bragging about making the effort to NOT learn/use Japanese…completely asinine. I suspect this guy doesn't even realize how much of a tool he is when he spouts off like that.

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Vince



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PostPosted: Tue Dec 10, 2013 4:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

rxk22 wrote:
People like this. are the ones that I really can not understand http://www.japan-guide.com/forum/quereadisplay.html?0+76279

The guy in that post is completely wrong about being an honored guest. People might pamper him because they assume he's a visitor. But once they realize he's a long-term resident, he goes from visitor to idiot.

Learning Japanese isn't just about practicality, but about dignity. Educated people simply can't live in Japan for 15 years, have no Japanese, and consider themselves respectable people. It's understandable when it's an undereducated person from an impoverished background who came to Japan to work so that her kids will have a better future. But if you have a college education and are in Japan on a humanities specialist visa - come on!
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rxk22



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PostPosted: Tue Dec 10, 2013 9:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

fat_chris wrote:





That forum was a very interesting read. Thanks for posting that.

I agree. Learning some Japanese is always better than having zero Japanese.

As for dudes living in Japan for 15 years and bragging about making the effort to NOT learn/use Japanese…completely asinine. I suspect this guy doesn't even realize how much of a tool he is when he spouts off like that.

Warm regards,
fat_chris


Thing is, those kinda of people are not rare. If you ever are in the Kano area, there are tons of them.

To me, it seems like they enjoyed the first 3 months of being new in Japan. I guess by refusing to learn any Japanese, they can keep those going forever. It is almost like a diaper fetish to me.
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PostPosted: Tue Dec 10, 2013 9:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Vince wrote:
rxk22 wrote:
People like this. are the ones that I really can not understand http://www.japan-guide.com/forum/quereadisplay.html?0+76279

The guy in that post is completely wrong about being an honored guest. People might pamper him because they assume he's a visitor. But once they realize he's a long-term resident, he goes from visitor to idiot.

Learning Japanese isn't just about practicality, but about dignity. Educated people simply can't live in Japan for 15 years, have no Japanese, and consider themselves respectable people. It's understandable when it's an undereducated person from an impoverished background who came to Japan to work so that her kids will have a better future. But if you have a college education and are in Japan on a humanities specialist visa - come on!


In that thread a Japanese women said, that she wouldn't even want to talk to him. Seeing that he hadn't even bothered.

There is s huge difference between being a teacher with a 9-5 schedule, and someone who is barely making it by in a factory/what not. I find it embarrassing that I can't speak better than I can now. I can't imagine people who have been in Japan 5+ years who can't even squeeze out 2 basic sentences.
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PostPosted: Wed Dec 11, 2013 3:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am interested in this subject obviously.

A Japantgimes article http://www.japantoday.com/category/opinions/view/why-you-shouldnt-learn-japanese
Guy seems to speak/know Japanese, but has seen tons of people flame out.

I agree with the fact that it is hard to learn Japanese, and sometimes to get near fluent ( I mean actual fluent, like being able to watch TV and speak at speed) is pretty dang hard to do. Also, as with a cake, either do it or don't, don't half @$$ is.

But I disagree on not speaking Japanese to stay 'special'. Not sure why people think this is a GOOD thing?
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1983rm



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PostPosted: Wed Dec 11, 2013 3:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Perhaps there is some kind of psychological block ? If you've been here five years you know some Japanese, surely.

Perhaps some people would rather feign total ignorance than show a beginner level after five years ?

You could have a tough experience trying to speak it, get upset and then think 'well, sick of this embarrassment' and up goes a psychological wall. Then you just need any excuse really.

I get it with my students, they're kind of like "this is too hard". Once they've decided speaking English is difficult, it's quite hard to motivate them even if we are studying something that really isn't.
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1983rm



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PostPosted: Wed Dec 11, 2013 4:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's probably symptomatic of coming from cultures in which many people don't have the experience of learning a language, so don't really know the process and haven't experienced the peaks and troughs before.

Perhaps a lot of Native English speakers haven't got much of a clue how to learn a language efficiently
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