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Why Is It Hard For Japanese People to Live With Foreigners?
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Black_Beer_Man



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PostPosted: Sun Oct 19, 2014 1:36 am    Post subject: Why Is It Hard For Japanese People to Live With Foreigners? Reply with quote

Have a look at this job posting for a real estate agent position. It says that Japanese people have extreme difficulty living in apartment buildings occupied with foreigners. https://jobs.gaijinpot.com/job/view/job_id/99173#.VEMQY_mUdPE

"Despite this need to coexist with foreigners, it is difficult for Japanese people to live with them in harmony due to anxiety caused by cultural differences and the language barrier. These obstacles make it harder to organize a society of coexistence for both Japanese and foreigners. (Company name omitted) JAPAN was established in order to solve these problems in terms of renting and settling into a new environment."

It goes on to say "...we hope to raise the language barrier between customer and landlord, thus creating a harmonious living environment, free of anxiety and fear."

Fear? Really? Is dealing with foreigners THAT stressful? I've heard the cultural differences and language barrier arguments before. However, considering the fact that Japanese people hardly ever speak to their Japanese neighbors, they are already not likely to speak to their foreign ones. Therefore, I think this argument is invalid. If problems with the foreign tenants do arise, there should be at least one employee at the real estate company that manages the apartment that can speak enough English. If an English speaker does not exist at the real estate company, maybe the foreigner's employer can help with the communication.

In many other countries, the native people do not want people from specific cultural groups living in their apartment buildings (like the French and Muslim people). However, it seems like the Japanese are not comfortable with foreigners of ANY kind.

What do you think? Why is this so?
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 19, 2014 2:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Does "FLAT JAPAN" also think that the world is flat?
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 19, 2014 4:30 am    Post subject: Re: Why Is It Hard For Japanese People to Live With Foreigne Reply with quote

Black_Beer_Man wrote:
"Despite this need to coexist with foreigners, it is difficult for Japanese people to live with them in harmony due to anxiety caused by cultural differences and the language barrier. These obstacles make it harder to organize a society of coexistence for both Japanese and foreigners. (Company name omitted) JAPAN was established in order to solve these problems in terms of renting and settling into a new environment."

It goes on to say "...we hope to raise the language barrier between customer and landlord, thus creating a harmonious living environment, free of anxiety and fear."

Fear? Really? Is dealing with foreigners THAT stressful? I've heard the cultural differences and language barrier arguments before. However, considering the fact that Japanese people hardly ever speak to their Japanese neighbors, they are already not likely to speak to their foreign ones. Therefore, I think this argument is invalid.

I think there is often a certain amount of anxiety that many Japanese people would feel living next door to a 'foreigner' (i.e., Westerner). People would feel that anxiety whether or not there is any actual misunderstanding or any actual communication with the foreigner. But, I don't think it generally reaches a level where it affects much of anything, and wouldn't call it a 'fear'. But, then again, it sounds like this idea of 'Japanese people find it hard to live near foreigners' is how this company is making its niche in the market, so it's likely they would exaggerate the problem a bit.

Also, "we hope to raise the language barrier"... huh? Maybe they mean "raze"?

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However, it seems like the Japanese are not comfortable with foreigners of ANY kind.

What do you think? Why is this so?

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PostPosted: Sun Oct 19, 2014 6:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is a deeply intolerant society, but it goes beyond just foreigners.
Japanese do not trust each other and there are prejudices toward
foreigners, such as wondering if they will always pay there rent on time, are too loud, etc.

Fear is a lot of it. More intolerance seems to be in cities, more so in Honshu, especially Nagoya, and in Kanto, and in Osaka, somewhat.
25% of people are over 65 and the elderly don't tend to be progressive, in any country.

My ex-boss refuses to rent his apartment to foreign people and even had a Japanese tenant who paid his rent late.
The assumption is that foreigners are worse.

Rental agents and guarantors are needed by distrustful people.
And make the process more expensive.

Americans who own property could fix things themselves but not here.
No, some Japanese even act like rich Arabs who think they are too good
for manual labor.


Discrimination is not illegal here. It is just seen as a conservative attitude.
Morality does not enter the picture here since the Japanese are more secular than almost any nationality.

Housing discrimination is illegal in Kawasaki, but I think only in this city.

Things used to be worse, but with a surplus of housing, Japanese seem to be more interested in making money.
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G Cthulhu



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PostPosted: Sun Oct 19, 2014 1:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

mitsui wrote:
Morality does not enter the picture here since the Japanese are more secular than almost any nationality.


I can't be bothered with the rest of it, but that part stuck out as particularly...ignorant. Morality is not a function of religiousness or lack thereof.
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 19, 2014 1:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I would like to chirp in here.
A long time ago, I bought a summer house in Atami, Izu. When I lived in Japan I would use it during vacation time; however, when I moved to Korea and now that I live in the US, I rent it out, to pay off the loan rather than sell it. When it came to renting it out, I told the realtor, under no circumstance were they to rent to non-Japanese. You may find this strange coming from a non-Japanese, but when it comes to the no-foreigner renting rule I totally understand them.
A gaijin is more likely to walk around the house with their shoes on, less likely to maintain tatami and fusama. They are also more likely to not take out the trash and not pay utilities. Foreigners also come from more drug tolerant societies, so are more likely to partake in drug use and drink more than Japanese. It is much more likely that foreigners do a runner in the middle of the night or get screwed over by their eikaiwas or ALT dispatch companies. They are more likely to do house shares etc.. I would rather keep my place empty than rent to foreigners and with 99% of the population Japanese why bother taking the risk. I even thought of Air BnB to generate close to double the rental income, but being a gaijin myself and having wrecked a few sliding doors and tatami mats in my time, I know better.
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 19, 2014 7:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The more I monitor this board the more I understand her feelings of not returning...
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 19, 2014 10:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The Fifth Column wrote:
The more I monitor this board the more I understand her feelings of not returning...


I hear ya. A lot funny characters here, for sure.
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Black_Beer_Man



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PostPosted: Mon Oct 20, 2014 12:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

mateacher wrote:
I would like to chirp in here.
A long time ago, I bought a summer house in Atami, Izu. When I lived in Japan I would use it during vacation time; however, when I moved to Korea and now that I live in the US, I rent it out, to pay off the loan rather than sell it. When it came to renting it out, I told the realtor, under no circumstance were they to rent to non-Japanese. You may find this strange coming from a non-Japanese, but when it comes to the no-foreigner renting rule I totally understand them.
A gaijin is more likely to walk around the house with their shoes on, less likely to maintain tatami and fusama. They are also more likely to not take out the trash and not pay utilities. Foreigners also come from more drug tolerant societies, so are more likely to partake in drug use and drink more than Japanese. It is much more likely that foreigners do a runner in the middle of the night or get screwed over by their eikaiwas or ALT dispatch companies. They are more likely to do house shares etc.. I would rather keep my place empty than rent to foreigners and with 99% of the population Japanese why bother taking the risk. I even thought of Air BnB to generate close to double the rental income, but being a gaijin myself and having wrecked a few sliding doors and tatami mats in my time, I know better.



I think your arguments are weak.

1. Damage to the apartment. This is what the damage deposit is supposed to cover. When the tenant moves in, you tell him / her not to damage the tatami and sliding door or he won't get his deposit back later.

2. Doing a runner. In most cases, the foreigner has to pay the last month's rent up front, so I don't see the problem here.

3. Drink & Drug. I have heard plenty of "I got hurt when I was drunk." or "I don't remember doing that because I was drunk." stories from Japanese people. I think Japanese and foreigners are pretty equal there.

Anyway, in my country, some immigrants neglect their apartments and when they move out, they're in such bad condition that they need serious renovation. This is a money issue and can be solved with a damage deposit.

*** ATTENTION: In Japan, many real estate companies act like thugs and refuse to return your damage deposit when you move out (even if you have not damaged the apartment in any way and the wear and tear is minimal). They do this to Japanese tenants too. Fight them and you will probably get part if not all of the money back.

As for bad behavior, Japanese tenants don't always act well. Just this past Sunday morning (in the wee hours), the police showed up at my guest house because two Japanese tenants were shouting at each other because one of them had been making too much noise in his room.

I do agree with you that Japanese tenants tend to be better than foreign in general (as in fewer cases of these problems). However, to have and enforce policies that block foreigners from renting apartments in certain buildings is overt discrimination. This is unfair to well-behaving foreigners, reinforces the stereotype that foreigners are trouble makers and creates an negative image of Japan as an unfriendly country.
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 20, 2014 4:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Because the US knocked them down and then built them back up, they never had to fully account for their actions and they never "grew up" in spite of developing. They kept their racism and hostility towards outsiders while enduring them partially in their midst.
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Shimokitazawa



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PostPosted: Mon Oct 20, 2014 12:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Black_Beer_Man wrote:
*** ATTENTION: In Japan, many real estate companies act like thugs and refuse to return your damage deposit when you move out (even if you have not damaged the apartment in any way and the wear and tear is minimal). They do this to Japanese tenants too. Fight them and you will probably get part if not all of the money back.


Many real estate offices are owned by the Japanese yakuza.

Some of hte worst tenants I've seen around my area are Japanese. Dirty, noisy and crap laying out on their patios. Especially some of the younger Japanese living alone.

They l live like pigs.
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 20, 2014 12:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

mateacher wrote:
A gaijin is more likely to walk around the house with their shoes on, less likely to maintain tatami and fusama. They are also more likely to not take out the trash and not pay utilities.

Foreigners also come from more drug tolerant societies, so are more likely to partake in drug use and drink more than Japanese. It is much more likely that foreigners do a runner in the middle of the night or get screwed over by their eikaiwas or ALT dispatch companies.

They are more likely to do house shares etc.. I would rather keep my place empty than rent to foreigners and with 99% of the population Japanese why bother taking the risk.


Nice list and it makes sense.

What if you went back to Vancouver, Seattle or London and put out an advertisement in the local newspaper that read:

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Apartment for rent. Will NOT rent to Sikhs, Chinese or Homosexuals. All other nationalities welcome!


First, that is not legal in Vancouver or Sydney. That's discrimination based on race and the local government can fine you or shut you down; take away any permits or licenses you have if you're a business.

Second, You could also very easily make up some nice lists justifying why you would not rent to Aboriginal peoples, Koreans or Pakistanis, etc.

Look, an intelligent, wealthy, developed society that has a regard for human rights does not allow discrimination based on race , ethnicity, sexual orientation, religion, etc. Japan has to decide what kind of country it wants to be. But based on what I have experienced living here for years and what I am seeing in the media, Japan refuses to make any progress in these areas. And the Japanese government and politicians are blatantly right-wing and nationalistic - maybe even more overtly so in recent years.

You know, the fact that Japan was even awarded the 2020 Olympics blows my mind. They simply are NOT ready for it - linguistically or culturally. They are an ever increasing inward-looking country that just does not play well with the outside world.
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 20, 2014 12:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yes, I agree most Japanese live like pigs especially the otaku. They live in rooms littered with old nissin cup noodles, manga, tissues full of dried sperm surrounded by their porn and plastic models of school girls and Gundam robots covered in dust. But the single eikaiwa gaijin aren't any better. I had a friend who was so stingy he found a futon dumped by the side of the road and took it home and slept in it for at least a year. I knew another ALT who never cleaned his room in over 5 years. When I was at a friends house this other guy got extremely drunk and tried to stab me with a kitchen knife, so I hid in the bathroom and he kicked 3 huge holes in the door. Its not an opinion, all I am saying as a property owner I will no rent to gaijin, yet I have rented out successfully to single Japanese without them trashing my place. I do everything through a realtor, so I guess they check out the tenants first.
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 20, 2014 1:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

mitsui wrote:
This is a deeply intolerant society, but it goes beyond just foreigners.

Japanese do not trust each other and there are prejudices toward
foreigners, such as wondering if they will always pay there rent on time, are too loud, etc.


Good point, the Japanese don't even really trust each other.

Have you noticed how you're always being watched in Japan? From the moment you get off your bicycle to park it, someone has been hired to stand there and watch you. When you arrive at the school, a guard, or two or three, is there to watch you enter onto the property. When you enter the ATM or bank, there are 2 or 3 people standing there who work for the bank watching you, although they can't do anything for you in the the way of help. We are always being watched in Japan.

mitsui wrote:
Discrimination is not illegal here. It is just seen as a conservative attitude.


And that's why large groups of Japanese can march up and down the streets in Shin-Okubo or Shibuya and scream, "Kill the Korean Dogs! Slit their throats!"

It's not a crime to scream hate slurs and threaten non-Japanese people in Japan. In fact, I'd go so far as to say that many of the elite and politicians encourage it. The hatred is deep for their Asian neighbors. They don't lose any sleep over protests like that.

For me, though, my biggest complaint is that Japan is the most corrupt country I've ever lived in. It's in your face every day if you know what you're looking at. Except the thieves are often wearing a suit and necktie and smiling, saying: "Irashaymasei!!"
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PostPosted: Mon Oct 20, 2014 1:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Shimokitazawa wrote:
And the Japanese government and politicians are blatantly right-wing and nationalistic - maybe even more overtly so in recent years.

You know, the fact that Japan was even awarded the 2020 Olympics blows my mind. They simply are NOT ready for it - linguistically or culturally. They are an ever increasing inward-looking country that just does not play well with the outside world.


I agree after Koizumi its been run by the black van right wingers and their cronies, when I lived in Japan they were loving the foreigners, now it seems they are just sick of them.
I think they got the 2020 out of pity because of 311.
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