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RedLightning
Joined: 08 Aug 2015 Posts: 137 Location: United States
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Posted: Sun Sep 13, 2015 9:08 pm Post subject: Prayer Time - Etiquette? |
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Living in Iraq last year, albeit Kurdistan, business would carry on as usual during the prayer times- you would continue your tea and conversation while the prayer emanated from the mall speakers.
Compare this to Saudi Arabia where, as I understand it, everything shuts down. What then is the role of a (non-Muslim)Westerner?
If I am walking down the street when a prayer begins, do I stop what I am doing out of respect, perhaps even bow my head?
If I am in the middle of a lecture, does class 'stop'?
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Sun Sep 13, 2015 9:52 pm Post subject: |
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Dear RedLightening,
No, if you're outside, you don't have to stop and bow your head. In fact, you probably won't even be outside because you soon learn to schedule your events around prayer times. Why be outside if everything's closed?
You can go to restaurants before prayer time, and though the restaurant will lock up during payer time, you can keep dining.
The same holds true for classes, which, in my experience, were always scheduled taking prayer times into account.
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John |
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plumpy nut
Joined: 12 Mar 2011 Posts: 1652
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Posted: Mon Sep 14, 2015 1:03 am Post subject: |
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You do not have to stop doing what you're doing. Shops will do one of three things: lock you in for 30 minutes, shut down the registers for 30 minutes, or kick you out for 30 minutes, the length of the praying time in general. As for the teaching if a student wants out to pray when the calling begins, don't stop him regardless what the academy says, unless the academy has a high degree of control, it's for you to decide. Usually schools, academies have set times for prayer they may coincide with the calls or may not. Generally the set hours only mean there is a time around that time for praying. The wise give a lot leeway when it comes to praying,
On the other hand, keep in mind you're not teaching at Guantanamo, no throwing sacred books or farting when you walk past while they are praying in the prayer room. |
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sicklyman
Joined: 02 Feb 2013 Posts: 930
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Posted: Mon Sep 14, 2015 9:09 am Post subject: |
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plumpy nut wrote: |
you're not teaching at Guantanamo |
ah those were the days
One thing you might get chastised for is playing music during prayer time e.g. on your car stereo or in your flat with the windows open. |
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halebob
Joined: 03 Jun 2015 Posts: 31 Location: uk
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Posted: Mon Sep 14, 2015 5:52 pm Post subject: |
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I work at KSU women's campus and it is in the University rules that students aren't allowed to leave class to pray. They have time integrated within their timetables during the day for it. One of my classes finishes at 1240 and the students don their abayas and hijabs to pray in the classroom I teach them in. There are also prayer rooms dotted around the buildings.
I often go to the mall and purchase meal just before everywhere closes for prayer. I sit in the food court and chow down. There are many people who are still around, Muslims and non-Muslims alike. it isn't really an issue.
The local supermarket shuts but if you're inside you can continue shopping. You just can't pay for anything till it's over. |
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RedLightning
Joined: 08 Aug 2015 Posts: 137 Location: United States
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Posted: Tue Sep 15, 2015 1:10 am Post subject: |
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I appreciate the responses- for some reason it's hard to come by this type of information/advice |
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nomad soul

Joined: 31 Jan 2010 Posts: 11454 Location: The real world
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Posted: Tue Sep 15, 2015 1:22 am Post subject: |
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Your teaching colleagues will be quite helpful for these types of questions. |
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buravirgil
Joined: 23 Jan 2014 Posts: 967 Location: Jiangxi Province, China
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Posted: Tue Sep 15, 2015 4:01 am Post subject: |
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nomad soul wrote: |
Your teaching colleagues will be quite helpful for these types of questions. |
That's relative.
I contradict you because, well, you can take it, and secondly, the difference between a developing program and an established one is great. The business model of contractors relies on one-year commitments-- from everyone. I managed to last through three turns of staff and, man, the differences were acute. The assumptions, misgivings, and assertions were surprising from year to year. |
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In the heat of the moment

Joined: 22 May 2015 Posts: 393 Location: Italy
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Posted: Tue Sep 15, 2015 5:49 am Post subject: |
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sicklyman wrote: |
plumpy nut wrote: |
you're not teaching at Guantanamo |
ah those were the days
One thing you might get chastised for is playing music during prayer time e.g. on your car stereo or in your flat with the windows open. |
Playing music - loud enough for Joe Schmoe to hear, and especially in classrooms - will often be discouraged at any time. It isn't the 'done thing' with many people in Saudi, I very rarely see a Saudi male with headphones in although I suppose the headdress could be disguising them.
RedLightning, how was teaching in Kurdistan, and were the classroom practices developing as quickly as the region is? |
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sicklyman
Joined: 02 Feb 2013 Posts: 930
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Posted: Tue Sep 15, 2015 9:08 am Post subject: |
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In the heat of the moment wrote: |
I very rarely see a Saudi male with headphones in |
Seriously? It was very common in class where I taught... and no, they weren't listening to recitation  |
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nomad soul

Joined: 31 Jan 2010 Posts: 11454 Location: The real world
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Posted: Tue Sep 15, 2015 11:53 am Post subject: |
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buravirgil wrote: |
nomad soul wrote: |
Your teaching colleagues will be quite helpful for these types of questions. |
That's relative.
I contradict you because, well, you can take it, and secondly, the difference between a developing program and an established one is great. The business model of contractors relies on one-year commitments-- from everyone. I managed to last through three turns of staff and, man, the differences were acute. The assumptions, misgivings, and assertions were surprising from year to year. |
Huh? I'm referring to culture/lifestyle questions like when is the best time to shop for groceries, where can I get passport-sized photos, what teaching topics are taboo, should I cover my tattoos, do I tip waiters, etc. |
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buravirgil
Joined: 23 Jan 2014 Posts: 967 Location: Jiangxi Province, China
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Posted: Tue Sep 15, 2015 12:14 pm Post subject: |
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nomad soul wrote: |
Huh? I'm referring to culture/lifestyle questions like when is the best time to shop for groceries, where can I get passport-sized photos, what teaching topics are taboo, should I cover my tattoos, do I tip waiters, etc. |
I don't believe I misunderstood.
I see your point with something like passport-sized photos, but with the rest of your list, in my experience of three years, the advice, instructions, opinions, or tips varied widely among "experienced" staffers. I attribute it to the nature of developing programs staffed by contractors because the majority of them were only in the country for a year. A lot of the blind leading the blind among developing programs versus an established one. |
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scot47

Joined: 10 Jan 2003 Posts: 15343
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Posted: Tue Sep 15, 2015 1:24 pm Post subject: |
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Sensible employers - which are few and far between - will have some system in place of giving newbies a mentor to show them around.
The dodgier employers of course, have no one who has lasted more than a few months. |
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buravirgil
Joined: 23 Jan 2014 Posts: 967 Location: Jiangxi Province, China
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Posted: Tue Sep 15, 2015 2:45 pm Post subject: |
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Good shorthand, Scot47. |
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In the heat of the moment

Joined: 22 May 2015 Posts: 393 Location: Italy
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Posted: Tue Sep 15, 2015 3:14 pm Post subject: |
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sicklyman wrote: |
In the heat of the moment wrote: |
I very rarely see a Saudi male with headphones in |
Seriously? It was very common in class where I taught... and no, they weren't listening to recitation  |
Yep; no sarcasm. Many - inside and outside the classroom - are glued to their phones but not visibly wearing headphones. |
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