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daily chai



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PostPosted: Mon Dec 13, 2004 6:08 am    Post subject: Western women & the ME Reply with quote

Very sorry to be so uninformed about ME in general, and probably starting a thread that comes up with despairing regularity in this forum. But out of curiosity, where do most Western women feel comfortable and make a decent living in the ME? From perusing on the boards, it seems the female-friendly (not TOO friendly, KWIM), countries are Turkey, Morocco, Lebanon & Syria, possibly with Egypt too. But do they make a good living there (teaching at college/university)? I know other countries boast higher salaries but can be more challenging for Westerners to adapt to. Some of them may not be safe now for people who are obviously Western.

No flames please, I'm just trying to sort the wheat from the chaff. Looking forward to what you have to say.
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PostPosted: Mon Dec 13, 2004 3:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Daily Chai,

Yes, the topic does sort of come up regularly in various guises. Smile First off it is hard to answer without knowing something of your education and experience. The Middle East tends to draw quite different teachers than the Far East.

North Africa and the Levant tend to have more open lifestyles and lower pay. You can find a few jobs with just a BA+ a cert of some kind (and pick up a few private lessons) but you will get few or any benefits. You can live, but not terribly luxuriously. Smile If you have an MA and a few years experience, there are a few good university jobs that provide better pay and also benefits - tickets, furnished flats - but they normally hire those with extensive experience teaching Arabic speakers.

The money is in the oil-rich countries of the Gulf. Here you tend to find older experienced teachers with MAs and most tertiary institutions require them. If you have a BA, CELTA, and years of teaching academic English (particularly reading and writing), there are only a few places. There are national and private colleges/universities in Kuwait, Bahrain, KSA, Qatar, UAE and Oman. The cost of living (and lifestyle) is more like Europe or the US than like North Africa or the Levant.

As a single American woman who taught - lived and traveled - in this part of the world for much of the last 20 years, I found adapting little or no problem at all. It take a minimum of cultural sensitivity, a slight adjustment in wardrobe, (longer skirts and sleeves), and common sense. Cool I suspect that you are typically misled by the media that everywhere in the Middle East is like Saudi Arabia, whereas it is the odd man out. Other than in Cairo with its cheap taxis and horrible traffic, I always owned a car, went anywhere I wanted, could take a walk at midnight in complete safety, and only made slight wardrobe adjustments.

As to safety, I wouldn't recommend Iraq right now and other than that, only Saudi Arabia has had any obviously targeted attacks on Westerners - not many, but enough to make a few people nervous. But they rarely hire women teachers from outside anyway.

VS
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dmb



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PostPosted: Mon Dec 13, 2004 3:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

In terms of Culture and lifestyle, Turkey is not in the Middle East. Istanbul, where most teaching jobs are, is much more European. However, you can get decent salaries, have a good standard of living and save a bit of money. Of course it all depends on your experience and qualifications. I'd suggest looking at the individual boards of the countries you are interested in.
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daily chai



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PostPosted: Mon Dec 13, 2004 3:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thank you VS & DMB for such quick responses! VS, I'm just amazed at how brainwashed I am with the media. I never would have imagined that cultural sensitivity + (slight!) wardrobe adjustments were all that was necessary.

Thanks DMB for correcting my ignorance on Turkey and directing me to the country-specific boards. I will check them out again. Smile

In more detail, I have several years of teaching experience at university and with adults in private schools. I have an MS Ed in TESOL and, by the time I apply, will be a PhD candidate in Education. My French is more than reasonable, but my Arabic non-existant. Smile A former employer offered to cover tuition for learning Arabic for a year, but I left the job. Ah! Hindsight. Shocked

VS, I'm going to look carefully at the salaries in N. Africa and the Levant before accepting employment there. Both my husband and I are more keen on this area than what we know of the Gulf, but just getting by doesn't appeal at this stage in the game. NE Asian salaries made us prefer a certain standard of living.

Is it true that KSA only allows women (and children) to leave with permission of a male first-degree relative? Are there other countries like that?

More pertinent to TEFL, would a university in the Levant overlook a lack of Arab teaching experience when a hiring candidate is a doctoral candidate or has a PhD? At my institution PhDs are so sought after that the interview is virtually a formality.
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PostPosted: Mon Dec 13, 2004 4:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

daily chai,

KSA has the most stringent rules for women, but this is not uncommon in other Muslim cultures. It will not affect you though. Knowing Arabic is not required, but it is certainly helpful - in the Gulf, it is actually rare for teachers to know much of anything about it. Sad

You may want to read about on these boards and narrow down some of your questions.

With your qualifications, you should be eligible at most of the best places. You may want to send me a PM so we can be more specific as to your personal situation. Smile

Time for me to leave Dave's for now and get some work done...

VS
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PostPosted: Tue Dec 14, 2004 3:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

"Is it true that KSA only allows women (and children) to leave with permission of a male first-degree relative? Are there other countries like that? "

Expat men and women alike - unless they are lucky enough to have friends in high places - all have to have the explicit permission of their employers in order to get the exit visa required to leave KSA.

In the case of Saudi women, the written permission of a male relative is indeed required to leave the country (similar rules apply throughout much of the Gulf). For non-working foreign woman, I'm not entirely sure, but I would say that once you have the exit visa in your passport (getting this would be the responsibility of your husband's employers) you can leave with or without hubby.

What I DO know is that a single woman has to have a representative from her employers to 'sign for her" on arrival in the country. If this man (and yes of course it has to be a man) does not turn up, she will be unable to clear Immigration and will have to hang around in the female only waiting roon until such time as he can be summoned. Trust me, I know...
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PostPosted: Wed Dec 15, 2004 2:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

daily chai,

I just wanted to make it clear that it is only KSA that has that rule for single women.

To be honest, I never really paid much attention to whether wives of fellow expat teachers had to have signed permission in the other countries. Wives and husbands often traveled separately for vacations and such - leaving at different times. I don't recall anyone discussing this... and I very much suspect that we would have heard complaints if they did. Smile

Hopefully a married person will come on if they know anything more. (I suspect that if your husband were Muslim - even an expat Muslim - this permission rule would come into effect.)

VS
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daily chai



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PostPosted: Thu Dec 16, 2004 4:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

First I just want to thank VS & Cleo for being so active on these boards, and giving thoughtful answers to so many. What would the ME boards be without them?

Cleo, sounds like you had a rough landing after a long haul flight! Confused Yuck. I'm glad you got through it. I hope you were able to take the stuffing out of whomever came to pick you up, within the cultural parameters.

VS, thanks for inviting me to PM you. Smile I appreciate that. I thought I had researched on the boards and forum pretty well before asking, but obviously Embarassed I need more time looking through all the information. My DH is more interested in living in the Levant because he's been there and liked the atmosphere, nightlife, etc. It sounds like KSA would be a lovely place for when we have a family. But DH is such a butterfly, and now is asking about SEA. Oy! Looks like I'll be the one to decide where we go.
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