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Is confidence still a virtue?

 
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CndnEnrgy



Joined: 15 Mar 2005
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Location: Toronto

PostPosted: Thu Apr 14, 2005 1:02 am    Post subject: Is confidence still a virtue? Reply with quote

About to fly to Taipei without anything lined up, but I'm fairly personable and confident, so I'm not too worried.

What I began to think about though, was whether or not my interpersonal skills which are so successful here in Canada will apply in Taiwan. Will all the classics of North American personal skills work (maintaining eye contact, confidence, speaking loudly/clearly)? Are there stigmas against these aggressive mannerisms like those Japanese stereotypes of deference and humility?

As well, is it worth it to bring a full, businesslike suit (black, etc) with matching shirt/tie combos? Or can I get away with khakis and a dress shirt? If it will seriously help my job-hunting skills to the point where I'll get more money/better work conditions I'll bring the suit...

Any advice would be great.

Cheers.
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TaoyuanSteve



Joined: 05 Feb 2003
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PostPosted: Thu Apr 14, 2005 4:43 am    Post subject: Re: Is confidence still a virtue? Reply with quote

CndnEnrgy wrote:
About to fly to Taipei without anything lined up, but I'm fairly personable and confident, so I'm not too worried.

What I began to think about though, was whether or not my interpersonal skills which are so successful here in Canada will apply in Taiwan. Will all the classics of North American personal skills work (maintaining eye contact, confidence, speaking loudly/clearly)? Are there stigmas against these aggressive mannerisms like those Japanese stereotypes of deference and humility?

As well, is it worth it to bring a full, businesslike suit (black, etc) with matching shirt/tie combos? Or can I get away with khakis and a dress shirt? If it will seriously help my job-hunting skills to the point where I'll get more money/better work conditions I'll bring the suit...

Any advice would be great.

Cheers.


Forget the suit. Not necessary in most situations. As for the rest about personality, just be yourself. The only attribute I'd add/work on is patience. I haven't had to alter my personality style to any great degree, other than learning to be patient and tolerant of the different cultural realities and perceptions of people here.
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Ilanian



Joined: 08 Mar 2005
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PostPosted: Thu Apr 14, 2005 8:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Khakis and dress shirt, you'll be the best dressed teacher on campus (in most situations), yes, I would say appearance will set you apart from most. A suit will make you stand out far too much (loser! Laughing ) The personality attributes you mentioned will help you to be a successful teacher, if you are indeed coming to ply the EFL trade.
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Pop Fly



Joined: 15 Feb 2003
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 16, 2005 4:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

First of all, let me say: Great questions!

The local populi, whilst not shy amongst their own, become paralyzed with fear at the prospect of engaging in an English conversation. Part of the Confucian philosophy that permeates the society here is fear of making a mistake. This has been so ingrained in the Taiwanese, that if the slightest possibility of making a mistake exists, better to just not try.

To test my theory, all you "old school" teachers out there try this: Walk into your next class and ask for a volunteer. You'll be hard-pressed to get 2 students to raise their hand. Kids or adults, it makes no difference.

I find myself teaching them confidence as much as I do grammar (I don't teach grammar, bad example, but that's another story).

So when I am hiring, the first thing I am looking for is self-confidence.

The second thing I am looking for is how well dressed you are. I wear a suit when I have to meet clients, my clients all wear suits. While I don't require it (cough, cough Wall Street, cough), it impresses me.

And my company pays top dollar. Unfortunately, for the OP, the 3rd thing I look for is 2 years of in-country experience teaching adults.


Good luck. This will be the adventure of your life.

Remember: Professional is as Professional does.
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CndnEnrgy



Joined: 15 Mar 2005
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 16, 2005 8:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

So... contrary to the last two posts, you like the confidence and you think I should bring the suit...?


To be honest, I don't mind standing out... (I do it anyway... Razz)
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mr.bojangles



Joined: 13 Dec 2004
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 16, 2005 8:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Too much worry over a suit mate! This man does not make the suit.
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mr.bojangles



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PostPosted: Sat Apr 16, 2005 8:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ooops! That may have sounded offensive...I meant THE SUIT DOES NOT MAKE THE MAN.
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puiwaihin



Joined: 16 Mar 2005
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PostPosted: Sun Apr 17, 2005 2:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

There are very few teaching jobs here where a suit is necessary, or even encouraged. Shirt and tie will get you at least as far as a suit. I brought I suit, but I only use it for formal situations (e.g. judging a speech contest or MCing a graduation presentation) and not classroom situations. I don't even where the suit to interviews.

Confidence, on the other hand, that will get you hired.
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Pop Fly



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PostPosted: Sun Apr 17, 2005 5:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You got a suit, bring it. You never know. I buy 3 new ones every time I go to Bangkok.
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logician



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PostPosted: Mon Apr 18, 2005 7:38 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Pop Fly wrote:
You got a suit, bring it. You never know. I buy 3 new ones every time I go to Bangkok.


I would wear suits if I had some very lightweight ones - cotton or silk.

If you bring a wool suit, you may find that it's far too hot and humid to wear. On the bright side, a dark suit can cover perspiration marks on a light shirt. Taiwan is a remarkably casual culture when it comes to clothing and traffic laws.
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CndnEnrgy



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PostPosted: Mon Apr 18, 2005 5:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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And my company pays top dollar. Unfortunately, for the OP, the 3rd thing I look for is 2 years of in-country experience teaching adults.


There's always room for exceptions. Wink
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Pop Fly



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PostPosted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 2:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

CndnEnrgy wrote:
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And my company pays top dollar. Unfortunately, for the OP, the 3rd thing I look for is 2 years of in-country experience teaching adults.


There's always room for exceptions. Wink


And we have an exceptional rate of pay for such cases. Wink
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DirtGuy



Joined: 28 Dec 2004
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PostPosted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 7:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Gotta stick my 2 cents in here.

Have traveled around the world a bit (including Taiwan) and dealt a lot with local people. The higher up you go in a business sense, the more formal the dress is. This is also where there is usually lots of money. You want the money or whatever this segment of a society offers, then you have to have the "look." Maybe not a full blown suit but at least a sport coat, slacks, shirt and tie.

Check out a company called "Travel Smith." They are on the net. Clothes designed for traveling and looking good while doing so. Lots of the new synthetic fibers designed for use in hot weather. I wore their clothes the last time I was in Taiwan and they really worked. I absolutely hate hot and humid weather but I was able to dress professionally and not die in the process. Plus these fabrics typically do not need to be dry cleaned or pressed.

Think about it this way: Suppose you buy one nice outfit and by wearing it you make a better impression than other applicants and get a good job. Even if you never wear the clothes again, wasn't it worth the expense to buy them? And don't you simply feel more confident when you are well dressed? I do.

Good luck.
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Aristotle



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Tue Apr 19, 2005 8:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It is important to keep in mind that in Taiwan that foreign teachers are usually hired for the way they look.
It is possible to overdress for an interview. It might help to take a look at what other people there are wearing before the interview.
If you are not sure, bushibans are usually casual. Business classes tend to be more formal.
For most Taiwanese a persons perceived ability is much more important than a persons actual ability.
Good luck.
A.
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