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Was Japan all that you've expected?
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Is Japan better or worse than expected?
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Glenski



Joined: 15 Jan 2003
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Location: Hokkaido, JAPAN

PostPosted: Fri May 13, 2005 5:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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A simple yes would do it. Not looking for a term paper like Glenski.

Ok, then how's this?

I can't answer your question because it's too vague. I'm not snobby or prissy.

To attack people for being unable to answer a question is the mark of a person who just can't accept reality.
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Glenski



Joined: 15 Jan 2003
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Location: Hokkaido, JAPAN

PostPosted: Fri May 13, 2005 5:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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A simple yes would do it. Not looking for a term paper like Glenski.

Ok, then how's this?

I can't answer your question because it's too vague. I'm not snobby or prissy.

To attack people for being unable to answer a question is the mark of a person who just can't accept reality. Don't attack people for your own shortcomings (or that of your survey).

By the way, what would you have gained if the only answer you got from people was "yes"? Not a heckuva lot.
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SEndrigo



Joined: 28 Apr 2004
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PostPosted: Fri May 13, 2005 2:50 pm    Post subject: you wanted answers? Reply with quote

Here are some answers for you Travel Zen:

1. Most foreigners in Japan are absolute tossers

2. Japan is a great country and in spite of its shortcomings is a good place to live

3. You should stay in Mongolia, Korea, or wherever you are at the moment

4. Your original question can only be answered with a "yes" or "no", since it is completely vague. If this is OK for you, then I'll just say "YES" and shake my head at the fact that you have so much free time to waste asking inane questions

best,
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Mike L.



Joined: 28 Feb 2003
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PostPosted: Fri May 13, 2005 3:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sendrigo wrote:

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1. Most foreigners in Japan are absolute tossers


But wait, let me guess, your not?

Do go on.......
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SEndrigo



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PostPosted: Fri May 13, 2005 4:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hey Mike,

There's no need to get defensive, you know exactly what I meant by that statement....let's just be honest, for whatever reason, Japan attracts the best and worst foreigners...

You've been here for 5 years so you can attest to that...perhaps I shouldn't have said "most", but rather, "many". I still stand by that statement, though.

And perhaps it's a Tokyo thing, but I've met few foreigners here who I could hold a basic conversation with, let alone create a friendship....and of course, it wasn't because of language barrier!!
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Mike L.



Joined: 28 Feb 2003
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PostPosted: Sat May 14, 2005 1:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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There's no need to get defensive, you know exactly what I meant by that statement....let's just be honest, for whatever reason, Japan attracts the best and worst foreigners...

You've been here for 5 years so you can attest to that...perhaps I shouldn't have said "most", but rather, "many". I still stand by that statement, though.


Fair enough, I'd say it's true anywhere the "best and the worst" that is.

Cool, peace!!!
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may be going



Joined: 18 May 2004
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Location: australia

PostPosted: Sat May 14, 2005 9:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

well i've only been here 2 months but thus far it has been everything i expected. having lived in korea, samoa and thailand teaching english, i wanted a place that wasn't in the west but had a lot of western traits.

i've lived in some way out places so i wanted somewhere that was foreign but still easy to live in with all your mod cons. i'm just outside tokyo and thus far everyhting has been sweet.

i can buy all the goodies i like back home, or if i choose i can buy whatever japanese goodies i need. i can watch english football, super 12 rugby and all kinds of surfing, or i can go see sumo, kendo or aikido if i choose.

having the option to live like you do at home or live like you're in a new world is, so far, lovely. it's what i hoped for before i came and so far it's panned out. i've even been surfing 4 times already and will buy a car soon and surf every weekend.

not much different from home in a lot of ways but if you want the 'japanese' experience it's very readily available.
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SEndrigo



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PostPosted: Sat May 14, 2005 1:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hey may be going,

Japan only seems Western on the outside....it is not, in fact, Western....once you've spent more time here, you'll notice that the mindset of most people here is not Western at all.

Mind you, I'm not making a value judgement and saying this is good or bad, just that Japan is not a Western country in most aspects.

And, other than being able to watch footy, you cannot live here like you did back home...Japan is nothing like Australia.

I'm not trying to rain on your parade, only preparing you for the moments where you will get frustrated and punch your 5 cm solid steel door Smile

And, you talk about buying a car.......do you know what buying a car entails?

This is a great place....but it is not like your home country and never will be.

cheers
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Brooks



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
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Location: Sagamihara

PostPosted: Sat May 14, 2005 1:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

true. I bought a car in March. What a pain.
It costs more than it does in the US, and gas is expensive.
I have a parking place in Sagami-Ono, but I had to pay for it six months up front.
In Kanagawa there is only one department of motor vehicles and there were so many people there when I went. Like in a 3rd world country. I want to get a license but I have only completed the first step, which is to get my NY license translated. I don`t have time to take the road test, written test, and `physical` test since I work six days a week.

There will be times when we misunderstand Japan. It is not like how we think it is before we go. My brother preferred Kyoto to Tokyo since he got to see maiko and temples. In Japan we look for things that live in the past but we live in the 21st century.

I find Japanese people to be kind of set in their ways and the challenge is that we have to be flexible. We have to adapt.
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Gordon



Joined: 28 Jan 2003
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Location: Japan

PostPosted: Sat May 14, 2005 1:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have not had such a tough time with cars; we currently have 2 cars. You need a Japanese friend whom you can trust. There really is a lot of paperwork and the shaken is a real stupid idea. People throw away perfectly good cars because they don't want to take it through the expensive inspection process (shaken). K cars are the way to go as they are much cheaper for tax and insurance and tolls. Where we live a car is vital, but most people in the city who are single can easily go without one.
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SEndrigo



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PostPosted: Sun May 15, 2005 12:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hey Brooks,

I was under the impression that if you're American, you cannot get your licence translated, and that you have to take the driving exam...is this not true?

I figure your parking must have cost 10,000 yen a month eh? That's probably the going price around SagamiOno.
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Brooks



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PostPosted: Sun May 15, 2005 2:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am from New York.

Actually I had to pay 9,000 yen a month for my parking place.

Yep I had to get my license translated and I have to take the road test. In fact Americans have to do everything a Japanese person does to get a license. I fail to see why I had to shell out over 3,000 yen to get my license translated.

The only good thing is that the written test is in English in Kanagawa.
(and Chinese, Korean, Spanish, etc.)

Canada and Australia, I think, sent Japan reports on traffic violations from their provinces but the USA has not from the 50 states.
Before 2002 Americans didn`t have to take a road test.

So Japan makes Americans take the road test. The US did a study on driving in Japan, and it turns out that there are fewer violations in the US than in Japan.
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Brooks



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Sun May 15, 2005 3:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

yeah Gordon, Kei cars are the way to go. The one I got is kind of small but the price was right. Insurance is less than the US. My wife got a good deal on it (I guess due to her driving record in Japan).

The previous owner just used it on the weekends, and thought having a car wasn`t worth it.
My wife has a job in Atsugi, Kanagawa, and before she used to have to take the train and a bus, which was a pain.
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Big John Stud



Joined: 07 Oct 2004
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PostPosted: Mon May 16, 2005 5:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

SEndrigo wrote:
Hey may be going,

Japan only seems Western on the outside....it is not, in fact, Western....once you've spent more time here, you'll notice that the mindset of most people here is not Western at all.

Mind you, I'm not making a value judgement and saying this is good or bad, just that Japan is not a Western country in most aspects.

And, other than being able to watch footy, you cannot live here like you did back home...Japan is nothing like Australia.

I'm not trying to rain on your parade, only preparing you for the moments where you will get frustrated and punch your 5 cm solid steel door Smile

And, you talk about buying a car.......do you know what buying a car entails?

This is a great place....but it is not like your home country and never will be.

cheers



Talk about being a tosser Exclamation SEndrigo who do you think you are Question That was some pretty mean words you wrote! Twisted Evil

And a message to May Be Going: no two people experience a place in the same way anyway!
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may be going



Joined: 18 May 2004
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Location: australia

PostPosted: Mon May 16, 2005 11:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

SEndrigo wrote:
Hey may be going,

Japan only seems Western on the outside....it is not, in fact, Western....once you've spent more time here, you'll notice that the mindset of most people here is not Western at all.

Mind you, I'm not making a value judgement and saying this is good or bad, just that Japan is not a Western country in most aspects.

And, other than being able to watch footy, you cannot live here like you did back home...Japan is nothing like Australia.

I'm not trying to rain on your parade, only preparing you for the moments where you will get frustrated and punch your 5 cm solid steel door Smile

And, you talk about buying a car.......do you know what buying a car entails?

This is a great place....but it is not like your home country and never will be.

cheers


ummmmmm thanks SEndrigo but i think you kind of missed what i said. i'm not sure what you thought i said but it certainly wasn't anything connected with the kind of generalised, misinformed babble you responded with.

i didn't say japan was western i said it has a lot of western traits. take my area for example. where i live has carrefour, costco, and a couple other japanese dept. stores very close by, which provide all the things i like to have. it also has coffee shops, cafes, international restaurants and a cineplex. i can go to the movies like i did at home, i can go eat at different rest. like i did at home, i can use high speed internet like i did at home. i can watch almost all the shows i liked watching at home on cable tv and i can go for a walk along the river that runs by my house and feeds into tokyo bay. at home i used to walk along the river that ran out into the ocean. similar so far in those regards wouldn't you say? i came here expecting that and so far it has panned out. my job is great and i love going to work.

but as i said if you want the 'japanese experience' then it's also readily available and accessible. you can have all the sumo, tea ceremonies, ikebana, japanese gardens, kimonos and anime that your heart desires. you have the choice.

and as for mindset....where did i mention anything about mindset? in fact where did i mention anyhting about japanese people at all? telling me that the japanese mindset isn't western is at best patronising.

if you'd read my post more closely you'd have seen that i've lived and worked in samoa, thailand and korea. though i haven't lived in japan long i think i have perhaps a slight awareness of cultural differences, culture shock, frustrations and the like you seem so keen to tell me about.

i said i came to japan hoping and somewhat expecting i would be able to live a similar life with similar luxuries to those i had back in australia. i didn't say i expected japan to be like australia. note the difference SEndrigo.

thus far i have been able to live similarly to the way i did back in oz. again, similarly, not the same.

so thanks for the tips SEndrigo but i reckon i might just be ok without them for now. but should i run into the kind of obstacles you have kindly warned me of, i shall not hesitate in seeking your advice.
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