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bjwellgo8
Joined: 13 Oct 2005 Posts: 34
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Posted: Mon Oct 17, 2005 8:30 am Post subject: Get Real, this is China!!!!!!! |
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Get Real, this is China!!!!
I got a phone call from a college in Changsha, Hunan one morning. Again, it's about a gentleman who landed a job at the school through us. He contacted us in late August for possible teaching opportunities in China. When I told him about the college in Changsha the next day, he seemed to be very excited and jumped at the opportunity because he "loved" the city. A new school year starts in late August or early September. Most openings were filled by that time.
He talked to the the FAO director and teachers working there, visited their website, got the offer, had a letter of invitation from the school and local government, booked the air ticket and arrived.
Things took a 180 degree turn upon his arrival at the school. The FAO director called me the third day, telling me that the person refused to talk to anyone in the school and telling the students who tried to befriend him "don't waste my f***king time." The confused FAO director asked him what went wrong and didn't get any response. I contacted him and his response was that the school breached the contract. The reason? The school said there will be broadband Internet access in the dorminatory but it turned out that it's not real broadband, not 10 mb/second.
Get real! I almost heard myself shouting. You are in China. And you HAVE BEEN IN CHINA FOR SIX YEARS! Don't be so naive! I soon found out that he has his hidden agenda. He is not naive. Before he got in touch with me and the school, he had tried to land a job in Shanghai and received favorable response from a German chemical company in Shanghai. That company wants to have him but the problem is that the company can't handle his visa issue. What a shame!
This is an unusual case. On the other hand, I do know some people who initially wanted to experience China but changed their mind after they came to China. They want to stay in Beijing, Shanghai or Guangzhou. They want to stay away from the rest of China. I am not in a position to tell people where to live. But I am just curious, if you can't live without KFC or Big Mac for a single day, why bother to come to China or any other country? Of course, everyone has a REAL reason and a dozen other reasons to cover that reason for going to other country. Probably it's just our human nature. Many of us are just like the poor dragon-loving guy in the old Chinese tale. A guy called Mr Ye loves dragon so much that he paints the images of dragon everywhere: on the walls, on his clothes, on his shoes, cups... everywhere. A dragon hears about Mr Ye and decides to pay him a visit. At the sight of the dragon, Mr Ye passes out and never wakes up.
I feel that many of those who come to China from other countries are misled by the surreal description of China. So are Chinese who leave China for another country. Yes, China is not like what it was like 100 years ago. Men don't wear pig tails and women don't wear Golden Lotus shoes. Yes, China is going to hold 2008 Olympics. Yes, some of the most expensive cars are sold in China. But remember, China is still a developing country. That means that everyone in it is developing. So are you and I. So let's get real. Enjoy what we have while we can and leave everything bad aside.
Jeff Lee
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Roger
Joined: 19 Jan 2003 Posts: 9138
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Posted: Tue Oct 18, 2005 4:27 pm Post subject: |
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You said it way too diplomatically, buddy! I think you are a kindhearted person and in principle I agree with you; problem is that your pleading would only be taken to heart by like-minded TEFLers; unfortunately a large number of our colleagues are in a totally different drawer! To be a little blunt: an increasing number of them don't give a hoot about what they should expect since they come to other countries with an acute entitlement attitudinal syndrome that should be surgically removed!
The market is getting swamped by people it is a dishonour to associate with.
The schools might eventually come up with an INTEGRITY TEST for newbies! I might support them! |
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Keath

Joined: 02 Apr 2005 Posts: 129 Location: USA / CHINA / AUSTRALIA
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Posted: Tue Oct 18, 2005 11:17 pm Post subject: |
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Well said Roger.. Sorry to hear you had that trouble Jeff. We've got a few very interesting stories about foreign teachers who passed our screening only to find they too had hidden agendas..
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bjwellgo8
Joined: 13 Oct 2005 Posts: 34
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Posted: Wed Oct 19, 2005 3:39 am Post subject: |
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I believe that most people are honest and decent. They are disappointed or angry for justified reasons. But there are bad apples everywhere and they tarnished the reputation of the group they belong to. The person I talked about literally threatened me that he would ask his connections at PSB to cause trouble to my company when I asked him to deal with his dipute with the school in a reasonable manner and be careful with possible legal consequences.
A foreign teacher who does recruiting in China told me lately that she was "scr..ed" by two guys who accepted the offers of a school that she got for them, arrived at the school, got the airfare reimbursement and disappeared just in time after all the paperwork was done for them. She lost not only the service fee the school was supposed to pay her but also her reputation and needless to say, time. |
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vikdk
Joined: 25 Jun 2003 Posts: 1676
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Posted: Wed Oct 19, 2005 3:50 am Post subject: |
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Germany held the olympics in 1936 - Watch out with the comparisons Jeff � they can let you down  |
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kev7161
Joined: 06 Feb 2004 Posts: 5880 Location: Suzhou, China
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Posted: Wed Oct 19, 2005 5:17 am Post subject: |
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But I am just curious, if you can't live without KFC or Big Mac for a single day, why bother to come to China or any other country? |
I know this quote is not the point of the post, but I really hate hearing/reading this anymore. I didn't come to China to eat. I eat because I have to in order to stay alive. Sometimes I eat even when I really don't have to. But some of the daily Chinese food (at school, for example) is downright nasty. So if I succumb to the culinary delights of KFC or McD's does not mean I can't live without them. Get off our freakin' backs about having a Big Mac (by the way, my personal delight is a double cheeseburger)!!
As for the post, I have been known for going off for some perceived slight, but that's because it seems (seemed actually; Suzhou is quite nice for me) every other day there was something going wrong. The power is out, the water stops in the middle of my shower, the internet is on the fritz, classes have been canceled/changed with no notice, lazy students and who-cares administration, people pushing and shoving and staring and laughing. After a while these things can get to you and the smallest hills seem like HUGE mountains.
This is not to imply I'm sympathizing with the subject of your post. I'm just saying that, unjustified or not, little temper tantrums can sometimes be understood. |
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mmm... pancakes

Joined: 07 Sep 2005 Posts: 92
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Posted: Wed Oct 19, 2005 6:42 am Post subject: |
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Kev, do you remember back to when the double cheeseburgers were only 5 kuai??? It was bliss. Damn their evil marketing strategies that got me hooked, before raising the prices three dastardly RMB!
(I second what Kev said.) |
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Starry Night
Joined: 24 Sep 2005 Posts: 62 Location: Hubei (Central China), a long way from the ocean
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Posted: Wed Oct 19, 2005 1:36 pm Post subject: |
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bjwellgo8 wrote: |
A foreign teacher who does recruiting in China told me lately that she was "scr..ed" by two guys who accepted the offers of a school that she got for them, arrived at the school, got the airfare reimbursement and disappeared just in time after all the paperwork was done for them. She lost not only the service fee the school was supposed to pay her but also her reputation and needless to say, time. |
I thought airfare reimbursement was traditionally paid after 6 months of teaching, paying it upfront is just asking for trouble... |
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nolefan

Joined: 14 Jan 2004 Posts: 1458 Location: on the run
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Posted: Wed Oct 19, 2005 2:21 pm Post subject: |
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some schools will go ahead and pay upon arrival but they are far and in between. My university does that but they've been lucky and have not had any bad experiences with teachers as of yet.
I'm glad that some of us understand that all teachers are not saints and that some of them have issues/hidden agendas that cannot be foreseen before they get here. |
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bjwellgo8
Joined: 13 Oct 2005 Posts: 34
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Posted: Thu Oct 20, 2005 7:58 am Post subject: |
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Starry Night wrote: |
bjwellgo8 wrote: |
A foreign teacher who does recruiting in China told me lately that she was "scr..ed" by two guys who accepted the offers of a school that she got for them, arrived at the school, got the airfare reimbursement and disappeared just in time after all the paperwork was done for them. She lost not only the service fee the school was supposed to pay her but also her reputation and needless to say, time. |
I thought airfare reimbursement was traditionally paid after 6 months of teaching, paying it upfront is just asking for trouble... |
agree. normally half of the airfare was paid after six months of teaching and the half after the completion of the contract. perhaps that school was deparate in need of FTs or put in great trust in the FT doing recruiting. |
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bjwellgo8
Joined: 13 Oct 2005 Posts: 34
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Posted: Thu Oct 20, 2005 8:06 am Post subject: |
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(by the way, my personal delight is a double cheeseburger)!!
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no offense, kev, about the food thing. actually mac or kfc come by easily in major cities in china. i would get a big mac too when i am fed up with spicy and greasy sichuan food. |
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PamK
Joined: 03 Mar 2004 Posts: 16 Location: Guangzhou, Guangdong, China
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Posted: Thu Oct 20, 2005 10:29 pm Post subject: MSG... and McD |
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Not to mention I react strongly to MSG, is there Chinese food without it? Food in and around an isolated Chinese campus is not the best representation of Chinese cusine! Way too much oil in all of it. I cook at home almost exclusively. It is an hour away to a double cheeseburger! |
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Don McChesney
Joined: 25 Jun 2005 Posts: 656
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If you walk each way for the double cheeseburger, think of it as a Health Food item. |
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myesl

Joined: 04 Jun 2004 Posts: 307 Location: Luckily not in China.
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Posted: Wed Feb 08, 2006 2:09 pm Post subject: |
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If the contract said broadband and it doesn't have it, then the school is run by liars. When are Chinese people going to stop pretending to be surprised that the entire rest of the world thinks there is value in being truthful? Don't say broadband if it doesn't have it. For many a Laowai, this one included, broadband is important. And what's wrong with not liking the local food? Hasn't stopped me from being able to read books in Chinese. And you jeff, I think I know who you are. You tried to recruit me for a job once. I'm even more glad now that I didn't take it.
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7969

Joined: 26 Mar 2003 Posts: 5782 Location: Coastal Guangdong
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Posted: Thu Feb 09, 2006 2:31 am Post subject: ...... |
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regarding not being able to live in china without big macs and KFC, seems that most chinese immigrants in my country head straight for chinatown (and its chinese food) when they look for a place to live. noone condemns them for that.
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