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bdawg



Joined: 25 Feb 2004
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Location: Nanjing

PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 9:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

What would happen if you did this in the States?

If you ran off with pile of cash over a tiff regarding one or two days of make up classes?

I agree with Babala...a few folks here seem to be cheering you on...I'm not too sure why...but I think your just helping to further reinforce the negative image of foreigners in China.
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kev7161



Joined: 06 Feb 2004
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Location: Suzhou, China

PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 9:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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If you ran off with pile of cash over a tiff regarding one or two days of make up classes?
(bold mine)

The point isn't a "tiff" over a couple of extra classes, it's foremost the lack of notification and communication. . . . and professional courtesy. And, from what I gather and what I've experienced, it isn't an uncommon occurance where you can say, "Well, it's just this once - - no big deal!" It happens much too often to just shrug it off - for me at least.

I supported (and still do) the OP's decision not to teach those classes because it's simply not professional of the school to expect you to just "know" what's going on. I don't support a "runner" situation and I posted later on with some possible solutions as opposed to just up and quitting. Personally, I feel one should go ahead and finish up a contract and then not re-sign once the end of the term is nearing.

But I still understand where Jeff is coming from.
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jeffinflorida



Joined: 22 Dec 2004
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Location: "I'm too proud to beg and too lazy to work" Uncle Fester, The Addams Family season two

PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 11:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Babala wrote:


Jeff what you did was wrong.

If China isn't about the money for you, why didn't you return the airfare?



I disagree with you. Obviously you are a Bible Thumping Pro Chinese do- gooder. I don't have to explain myself to you.

The school knows nothing about professionalism or how to treat FTs. When I asked why all the FTs got paid a day late the response was "The chinese teachers get paid late all the time and they don't complain." And they don't complain when the water is off for 2 days, the electricity goes off and there is no cable. Oh and they don't complain when they get paid $100 a month to be slaves to the Boss. I do complain because I am not a chinese. And if they treat me like a chinese then I will make my own decisions. Besides if I gave them back their airfare they would know I was leaving and call psb and have my visa revoked. Why give them the chance to make my life even more difficult?

I don't own the school anything. They gave me nothing and they got that in return.

I am way above them in morals, culture, ethics, and education. They would cheat me in an instant and they would given the chance. Last term they stole the year end (travel) bonus of 2200 rmb from two teachers for the simple reason that the teachers didn't stay the full length of the contract. School ended July 1 and the contract had the teachers staying there until July 15. Even though the teachers were told they could leave at the end of school the school decided they "violated" the contract by leaving before the 15th - even though all grades were turned in and the students were gone. And these teachers wanted to go back home to Australia and the U.S. One of these teachers came back for a second term and regrets this decision very much.

Anyone think this school is different than any other chinese business? Not a chance. They lie and steal and cheat just like the rest.

Like I said, I HAVE NO REGRETS. And I urge others, if your school gives you BS and no action, GET UP AND WALK.
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7969



Joined: 26 Mar 2003
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PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 12:06 pm    Post subject: hmmmm Reply with quote

i can certainly see where jeff is coming from here and understand his anger. in my case, after getting nowhere verbally, i handed in a memo to the school where i work demanding (mildly) that they give me some essentials that day without delay (textbooks, schedule, place to access internet, portable cd player blahblahblah among other things.) i also gave them three days to furnish my apartment and get my ass into it. on the day i handed in my memo, i was paid and they sorted out 3/X on my list of immediate to do's. for that i was grateful and willing to compromise a bit with them. however since then, they've pulled a disappearing act and my apartment is "still being furnished" four days later, i still have not had a hot shower in three weeks, (except for the ones i had in beijing last weekend) and have nowhere to wash my clothes properly. and the person in charge of sorting it out for me wasnt in town today to take my calls.

interestingly enough, our other FT called the foreign affairs office in town here and reported the school for some alleged violations of his contract. this was brought to my attention by the FAO the other day and all i could think of while listening to the story was "maybe its about time and maybe you're being sent a message here." if other teachers go through similar instances then i'm surprised more FTs dont just pack up and leave....

instead of FTs giving foreigners a bad name, maybe we should be thinking that some schools and their employees are giving china a bad name.....
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jeffinflorida



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Location: "I'm too proud to beg and too lazy to work" Uncle Fester, The Addams Family season two

PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 12:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

bdawg wrote:


but I think your just helping to further reinforce the negative image of foreigners in China.



the chinese view FTs pretty much the same way as they do a carcass dragging off the back of a bicycle.

We are MEAT TO them. They will use us, screw us, lie to us, and cheat us and they when we leave they will find some poor dumb schmuck to take our place until he/she realizes the situation.

This cycle is perpetuated by the chinese lack of common sense and business ethic and the way they are used to treating their own employees. You think this people working in a factory making 2 rmb an hour are happy? You think management or the chinese government really cares about their happiness? No they fill a need and when they die or get sick or leave there are many more warm bodies to fill their slots.

The cycle of the FT to the chinese is no different.

That is the image of the FT to the chinese.
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mmm... pancakes



Joined: 07 Sep 2005
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PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 1:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

jeffinflorida wrote:
Babala wrote:


Jeff what you did was wrong.

If China isn't about the money for you, why didn't you return the airfare?

I disagree with you. Obviously you are a Bible Thumping Pro Chinese do- gooder. I don't have to explain myself to you.


Jeff, whether or not I agree with what you did here is not impt to my point: Your post (quoted above) is absurd and offensive. There was no part of Babala's post that made reference to, or quoted the Bible, or was excessively moralistic. S/he (??) said he disagreed with you, saying what you did was wrong. You obviously don't agree, but to come back and say he's a "Bible Thumping blah blah" is no better than someone randomly calling you a lazy, thiefing redneck GW-loving criminal hick.

Let me spell it out: I am not in any way religious, nor a Chinese apologist. But what you posted was rude, mean, and without basis. There is nothing "obvious" about Babala except that he disagreed with you.
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tw



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PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 1:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

jeffinflorida wrote:
The school knows nothing about professionalism or how to treat FTs.


Two wrongs don't make a right.

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the chinese view FTs pretty much the same way as they do a carcass dragging off the back of a bicycle.

We are MEAT TO them. They will use us, screw us, lie to us, and cheat us and they when we leave they will find some poor dumb schmuck to take our place until he/she realizes the situation.


That's a bit too general don't you think? Just because YOU had a bad employer doesn't necessarily mean that ALL Chinese employers are like that. There are plenty of us who are quite happy with our employer.

Also, I think if I were the FAO right now, I'd be wishing that I should've been more of a chooser than a beggar. In all fairness Jeff, I think you should look long and hard at how far your former employer went to your demands when they were recruiting you. After all, didn't you tell us in one post that you demanded that your twenty-one year girlfriend be allowed to stay overnight in your apartment AND be given a set of your apartment keys? I may not have been in China for as long as some of the male FT's, or have worked lived on too many campuses. But none of my former and current employers ever allowed overnight guests (my former employer allowed a female FT's mother staying for a couple nights when she came to visit her), let alone being able to enter and leave your apartment at will. They were obviously desperate enough to have allowed that. But you should be thankful and consider that something of a friendly gesture on their part. They obviously tried very hard to convince the university's Secretary to allow this (imagine the students hearing about it). So, don't keep talking about only the cheats, lies, deceptions, blah blah blah. Doing so makes you no better than a spoiled, immature, arrogant little boy who throws a tantrum when things don't go his way.

Also, look back and tell youself. Did your former employer get its money's worth in hiring you? Were you a good teacher? Did you try to help all of the studnets, or just the "good" students and/or the pretty girls? Did you show up in lessons prepared and being presentable?

mmm... pancakes wrote:
There is nothing "obvious" about Babala except that he disagreed with you.


Babala is a SHE. Wink
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therock



Joined: 31 Jul 2005
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PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 5:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

We should do a topic poll, on Jeff - Do you agree with what Jeff did? Also should Jeff give his airfare money back?

I vote disgree with what he did.

I vote Jeff shouldn't give the money back.
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jeffinflorida



Joined: 22 Dec 2004
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Location: "I'm too proud to beg and too lazy to work" Uncle Fester, The Addams Family season two

PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 9:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

therock wrote:
We should do a topic poll, on Jeff - Do you agree with what Jeff did? Also should Jeff give his airfare money back?

I vote disgree with what he did.

I vote Jeff shouldn't give the money back.


Jeff's reply:

I vote with The Rock:

Disagree with what he did.

Keep the money.
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clark.w.griswald



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PostPosted: Fri Oct 28, 2005 12:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I also find Jeff's comments and actions to be offensive to the rest of us.

There was a thread and a poll a while ago about the payment of airfare allowances. The OP posted this poll as he believed that schools should pay airfares upfront or at least upon arrival in China. Jeff was the only one to post that he had received his full airfare reimburement upon arrival, and he noted how happy he was about this. His case was certainly the odd one out as most people either got half upfront and half at the end, or all of it at the end. I suggested in that thread that the reason that most schools don't pay upfront is that they have probably been burned in the past. Future teachers at the school where Jeff was working, now only have Jeff to thank for the fact that airfare allowances are very unlikely to be paid by that school in advance! Thanks Jeff.

This is the thing that really stinks in my opinion. Here we have a school that was trying to do the right thing and they got screwed for it. I hate it when I hear that a foreign teacher is doing the right thing and gets screwed by a school, and I feel equally bad about a situation when a foreign teacher screws a school. This is effectively what Jeff has done. Let's face it, very few schools in China are perfect. Jeff's school was not perfect, but I don't see that they were dishonest. I don't see that they stole from Jeff. I don't see that they lied to him for their own benefit. I do however see Jeff lieing to them for his own benefit and stealing money that is not his. It seems to me that Jeff's decision to steal from the school invalidates all the wrongs that they have done in my opinion and means that Jeff is in the wrong.

Jeff you talk a lot about morals, yet you exhibit so few yourself. If you no longer wanted to work at that school then you had the right to leave. Despite your attempts at justifying otherwise, you had absolutely no right however to take money that was given to you in good faith. What you have done and attempted to justify is exactly what bad schools in China do? They are dishonest, they cheat legitimate teachers, all based upon the fact that the teacher could have cheated them if given the chance. This is wrong and counter productive to improving conditions here in China.

All the other stuff that you waffle on about in an attempt to justify your theft of that money is just that - waffle. You are a thief. A foreign thief. And your actions just serve to give us all a bad name.
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tw



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PostPosted: Fri Oct 28, 2005 12:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

jeffinflorida wrote:
I am way above them in morals, culture, ethics, and education.


That has to be the biggest hyprocratic statement you've made thus far, Jeff.

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They found out I was gone from another FT who when asked if he had seen me simply responded " Jeff Left..."

Besides if I gave them back their airfare they would know I was leaving and call psb and have my visa revoked.


If you are no longer in China right now, then I think you can pretty well forget about your chances of ever working LEGALLY in China. Somewhere out there, I am quite certain that your name has now been blacklisted. If you ever show up in Huabei region, I will be the first one to report you to the PSB, count on it.
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Starry Night



Joined: 24 Sep 2005
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PostPosted: Fri Oct 28, 2005 1:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

jeffinflorida wrote:

I am way above them in morals, culture, ethics, and education.

Like I said, I HAVE NO REGRETS. And I urge others, if your school gives you BS and no action, GET UP AND WALK.


Your last sentence directly contradicts the first, if you think you have any morals, think again. You don't DESERVE to be in China.
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jeffinflorida



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Location: "I'm too proud to beg and too lazy to work" Uncle Fester, The Addams Family season two

PostPosted: Fri Oct 28, 2005 1:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

To all those who don't agree with what I did **** YOU. I don't really care about what you think.

Report me to the PSB, give it a shot if it makes you feel better.

Maybe I'll report you to the PSB for that bag of dope in your backpack.

And, by the way, the school has never asked me to return any monies formally or otherwise.
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YearOfTheDog



Joined: 22 Jan 2005
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PostPosted: Fri Oct 28, 2005 2:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

jeffinflorida wrote:
Babala wrote:


Jeff did you happen to return the airfare they gave you up-front?



No.

In a meeting after the National Day Make Up Meeting Fiasco, FAO girl said to me I could return the upfront airfare and leave the school if I wish. .........


Then you say....

Quote:
And, by the way, the school has never asked me to return any monies formally or otherwise.


So Let me get the facts straight...the school gave you 18 000 RMB for airfare...with the intention of you staying the full year. You have a disagreement about 'professionalism"
and jump ship. You don't think you should have to return the money given to you in good faith, because all chinese people are evil and you are the perfect citizen of the world.
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Babala



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PostPosted: Fri Oct 28, 2005 3:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Jeff, I am neither a do-gooder or a bible-thumper as you implied. I do however know right from wrong. I think your last post sums up your maturity and temperment. You tell others they have no right to judge you but then why did you post it in the first place. I guess you were looking for the slaps on the back you feel you deserve.
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