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JimDunlop2



Joined: 31 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 19, 2006 6:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

callmesim: Not at all true. As I mentioned, my wife has ADD and she wasn't diagnosed until I brought it up a few years after we started dating. I was the first person to ever mention it to her, even though she had all the symptoms since childhood (that part IS necessary in order to be diagnosed)... It took several trips to a psychologist, required a number of diagnostic tests, including a standardized IQ test. Many people go through life and never get diagnosed for it, as it can be an elusive condition to nail down -- the way it manifests itself relies heavily on an individual's personality so many people (especially the ones who know you best - like your family may not spot the symptoms).

XMizer: The reason why it's a good idea to get diagnosed is because you can begin to get support and treatment for it. There exist many opportunities for people with ADD/ADHD in the way of medication, support groups, government-funded programs, employment assistance, etc... But the key is -- you MUST have it on paper that you have this condition.

In my wife's case, being diagnosed meant additional help when she was styudying in college. It meant she could write her exams alone in a quiet room or request extra time to complete her exams or assignments, for instance. It also meant that she could get prescriptions for medications aimed to help her concentration levels -- medications which normal doctors could not perscribe with normal prescription sheets (as they are highly regulated in the province of Alberta)... For a senior-level beahvioral psycholgoy class in uni, I actually did an analysis and study of resources available to learning-disabled students at post-secondary institutions in Alberta. The entire report was almost 50 pages and very detailed.

In any event, everyone's situation is different, but knowing (and having a doctor confirm) that you have ADHD is the first step in getting support in areas that you are having troubles with. For my wife, getting diagnosed was a huge burden lifted. It allowed us to start looking at specific strategies to help her cope with and function in a regular, full-time job (it's unbelievablly difficult for someone with ADHD to get and hold down a good job for any length of time) , and just improving her life in general.
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tokyo story



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PostPosted: Mon Jun 19, 2006 8:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I was also rejected by NOVA. It was partially my fault. My heart wasn't really in it and it probably showed. But a NOVA interview is no reflection on whether you can teach or not (whatever that really means), it's about filling the certain requirements they have.
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OnTime



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PostPosted: Mon Jun 19, 2006 8:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Some one on page two of this thread mentioned that many that pass interviews with JET, Nova etc have no right to be near a room of learners. I would absolutely agree.

Just because you have been declined by these enterprises doesn't mean anything really. The JET scheme are mostly interested in your social background; university attended, parents occupations etc. This sounds odd, but it also sounds like that well known Japanese concept of social pretence. Nova and other McDonalds style edu-businesses don't even pretend to be schools - heavens no! If you think you're being judged on your ability to teach you're not. Very popular and skilled teachers are rejected by Nova and all on a regular basis. In fact if you do consider yourself a teacher you probably wouldn't stay at Nova too long or even apply there. Also, if you think you're being judged on any deep aspect of your character...well...once again, you're not. Don't take rejection from these set-meal serving fast-food joints personally at all. In fact take it as a commendation and once you have feasted your eyes on Japan, take off to a country where English language learning actually matters.
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Dipso



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PostPosted: Mon Jun 19, 2006 12:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

JET are interested in your parents' occupations? I don't quite understand what you're intimating there. I was a JET participant for three years and no enquiries into my social background were ever made, neither at the interview nor in my schools. I am not from a remotely privileged background, btw.

As for the eikaiwa, at the same time as I applied for Aeon (for whom I now work), I also applied to Geos. I didn't so much as get a reply from Geos, let alone an interview. (I have a CELTA plus several years EFL experience, as well as my three years on JET.) Who knows what the eikaiwa are looking for sometimes? An Aeon recruiter also rather candidly told me that the company sometimes had problems with experienced teachers "who think that they have nothing to learn from us, but I am sure you won't be like that". Hmmm!
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earthmonkey



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Location: Meguro-Ku Tokyo

PostPosted: Mon Jun 19, 2006 3:14 pm    Post subject: Re: Rejected Over and Over Reply with quote

XMizer wrote:
I have been rejected bey JET, Nova, AEON, and GEOs. I am really depressed about it. I really think I have ADHD and it may have hindered my abilities to perform during interviews and teaching demonstrations.

I know it may sound like an excuse but I honestly never heard of a failure story equal or worse than mine.


Mr or Ms XMizer.
Failure? I think not.

You experience anxiety and low self esteem. One of these problems, anxiety, can be effectively treated in the short term, i.e., the time required for a job interview, with drugs.

Have you considered visiting your doctor and telling him/her about your problem? There are anti-anxiety medications which could help you through the interview.

A job interview is not a normal social situation. Do not judge yourself, or your potential teaching ability, by your performance, or lack thereof, in a job interview.

edited (I was drinking)


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callmesim



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PostPosted: Mon Jun 19, 2006 4:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

JimDunlop: Not at all true. ADD and ADHD are two completely different conditions. Attention Deficit Disorder and Attention Deficit Hyperctivity Disorder. It sounds to be like you're getting the two mixed up.

There are too many cases of incorrect diagnoses out there but if someone suffers ADHD, they would have been a hell of a child at school and been near impossible to teach. Thinking "hmm, I might be ADHD" is like saying "I might be a manic depressive" because you are sad one day and laugh at a joke the next.

Doing my best to ignore it, living with a psychologist for 10 years taught me some things.

As far as I am aware, ADD can possibly go undetected like Dyslexia but ADHD cannot.

So XMixer, that's why I don't think it would be ADHD. If you passed High School and university without treatment, the chances of you having ADHD are slim to none. Though stranger things have happened.
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XMizer



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PostPosted: Mon Jun 19, 2006 9:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

ADHD is the new term for ADD.

I did pass school and university. In fact, I still managed to get above average in university but that's cuz I worked much harder than most people.

But when I study, it is highly ineffective. When I read a textbook it may take me 30 mins or 1 hr to read a page. And sometimes, I would read 15 pages without realizing it. For example, I could be page 210 and then page 225 the next minute without realizing what I read in between but I remember what I was thinking during that time and it got nothing to do with school.
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ripslyme



Joined: 29 Jan 2005
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PostPosted: Mon Jun 19, 2006 10:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dipso wrote:
An Aeon recruiter also rather candidly told me that the company sometimes had problems with experienced teachers "who think that they have nothing to learn from us, but I am sure you won't be like that". Hmmm!


A similar thing happened to me as well. I interviewed with Aeon and didn't get the job because I was overqualified. Their position "I'm sorry, but unfortunately applicants with your qualifications and experience just do not have a good track record with our company."

(At the time I had just finished 2 years of JET and was in the last semester of my MA-TESOL.)

Interestingly enough, I then interviewed with Nova and they offered me a position.
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guest of Japan



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PostPosted: Mon Jun 19, 2006 11:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

XMiser wrote:

Quote:
ADHD is the new term for ADD.


No it is not. It is a different disorder. The fact that you can actually sit down and read a book for more than 5 minutes shows that you don't have ADHD.
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XMizer



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PostPosted: Mon Jun 19, 2006 11:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The only difference is the hyperactivity. Otherwise, it's the same.
And just cuz I can read a book for 5 minutes doesn't mean I don't have ADD. I may look like a person reading my book from a third person perspective but my mind is not. I don't call that reading.

And when I read a sentence, it usually takes me around 5 times to read it before I grasp what it means.

And there are people that tend to do well in school with ADHD.
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JimDunlop2



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PostPosted: Tue Jun 20, 2006 12:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thank you very much, I haven't lived with a psychologst for 10 years, but my degree IS IN psychology and I've done enough reading of the DSM-IV to know this condition -- all the more so since I do live with someone who has it and was diagnosed having it later in life.

ADD and ADHD are very similar. The first two letters: AD (Attention deficit) may be of either the hyperactive type or the inattentive type. If there is no hyperactivity, merely ADD should be used. ADHD is the term used when there is also hyperactivity in addition to the attention deficit. The two conditions are similar enough and thought to have the same root cause, so even the DSM-IV treats them as a collective whole rather than dedicating separate sections to them.

callmesim, your statements are completely off-base and incorrect. It shows how little you know about the topic. It is completely possible for people to remain diagnosed for a long time. Just because someone gets through school means nothing. If ANYTHING, living with a psychologist for 10 years should have shown you by now is that psychological illnesses are NOT like a common cold -- you don't either have it or not... Each and every illness has an extremely wide range of symptoms and to what extent they are present or not. The same way, not everyone with major depression wants to commit suicide, and not everyone with psychopathy wants to kill you. To say that if you had ADD/ADHD you wouldn't have even made it through school is just plain false. The only place age has in making a diagnosis is WHEN did the symptoms start -- NOT when they were first recognized for what they were.

In fact, in some individuals, the condition changes over time. It is completely possible to have ADHD as a child, but later in life to lose the hyperactivity. This is not a set condition. I also know enough people with ADHD who have no formal diagnosis -- that is very common. Everyone's situation is different. I spent enough hours in my "abnormal and clinal psych" classes to know that.
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kdynamic



Joined: 05 Nov 2005
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PostPosted: Tue Jun 20, 2006 12:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am sure we could go around and round about ADHD vs ADD for several more pages, but getting back on topic: XMizer, if it makes you feel better about yourself to rationalize your repeated rejections with claims of a learning disability, that's fine. But if you really have such problems, I can see why they don't want to hire you, and it seems like it would be a disservice to the students to have you as a teacher if it's as bad as you say. Many people overcome learning disabilities to do whatever they want with their lives. So either pick yourself up and get it under control and realize your goals, or else reasses your goals. But don't have a pity party for yourself.

There are thousands of people who want to come to Japan and teach, and they get picked for employment for a reason. Either you make the cut, or you don't. Either you can do the job, or you can't. No one owes you a job in Japan. Instead of focusing on past failures, why not spend your energy working to improve yourself to become qualified and suited for the job you want?

Sorry, I don't want to see harsh, but this thread made me feel like this: Rolling Eyes
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callmesim



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PostPosted: Tue Jun 20, 2006 2:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

JimDunlop2 wrote:
my degree IS IN psychology


Okay, I'm out. There's no way I can compete with that. Very Happy

I guess I just cringe when people try to diagnose themselves or each other. I always tend to go on the "you're fine" until proven otherwise with such arguments. Call it a hang-up left over from high-school.

I shall now take my bat and ball and go home.
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movinaround



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PostPosted: Tue Jun 20, 2006 4:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

kdynamic wrote:
I am sure we could go around and round about ADHD vs ADD for several more pages, but getting back on topic: XMizer, if it makes you feel better about yourself to rationalize your repeated rejections with claims of a learning disability, that's fine. But if you really have such problems, I can see why they don't want to hire you, and it seems like it would be a disservice to the students to have you as a teacher if it's as bad as you say. Many people overcome learning disabilities to do whatever they want with their lives. So either pick yourself up and get it under control and realize your goals, or else reasses your goals. But don't have a pity party for yourself.

There are thousands of people who want to come to Japan and teach, and they get picked for employment for a reason. Either you make the cut, or you don't. Either you can do the job, or you can't. No one owes you a job in Japan. Instead of focusing on past failures, why not spend your energy working to improve yourself to become qualified and suited for the job you want?

Sorry, I don't want to see harsh, but this thread made me feel like this: Rolling Eyes


Are you kidding? That wasn't harsh at all. You said exactly what should be said in a constructive way (offering constructive suggestions). The problem with North American society (and I am pretty sure British now too) is that we tippy toe (not a word, I know) around everything now and it just doesn't help people. If a kid fails a grade, hold them back. If a person just can't cut it as a brain surgeon, let them know so they have time to go for something else. If your girlfriend asks if she looks fat in that dress, LIE (the last one is one of the few exeptions that should be followed always Wink )
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shuize



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PostPosted: Tue Jun 20, 2006 6:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

callmesim wrote:
Doing my best to ignore it, living with a psychologist for 10 years taught me some things.

Living with a psychologist for 10 years should have taught you that psychologists are usually the biggest nutters around.

I believe that ADD and ADHD are legitimate concerns in some cases. However, I also believe

1) people are way over-medicating their kids in cases in which they are neither ADD nor ADHD and,

2) both are often used as just a lame excuse for poor performance.

In fact, as to the second point, I remember students in college later admitting they had talked professors into giving them extra time on exams by getting the family doctor to "diagnose" them with ADD ... just in time for finals.
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