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Women are better teachers than men
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fat_chris



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 28, 2003 6:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wolf wrote:

"Is this a "girls are bad at math but good at being nurses and teachers' thing? Bases on my life experience, I doubt that girls are bad at math and boys are bad at foreign language teaching or learning."

In China it most certainly is. Man, that would drive me crazy, hearing that women are better learners of languages (even though I could come up with several examples to counter this). This penchant for the mass generalization. Everything is either black or white, not grey.
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chinasyndrome



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 28, 2003 6:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

[quote="shmooj"]

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What about in general ed? Are there predominantly more females than males and who teaches better?


Well, dyak, look what you've started! Wink Shmooj made an interesting point about general education. Thinking back on it, the best teacher I ever had was a male and the worst was also a male.

The uni lecturers in my discipline tended to be male and they were without doubt the biggest bunch of self-important boring windbags I've ever had the displeasure to fail to avoid meeting. (!!!)

I've met a lot of trainers over the years (mostly business trainers) who seem to be very good at providing immediate motivation but I've often questioned whether they actually impart inspiration that lasts. How important is it to promote a love of learning and provide the tools required for further self-education?

My dad became a specialist teacher after his retirement and I recall all his students saying that he was technically excellent. Some went on to become highly technically proficient, which has in my experience often - but not always - come at a cost of poor or barely adequate 'people skills'. My sister is a primary school teacher (26 years - even though you only get 10 for murder) and while she's also technically very good I see her as being more a 'promoter of the person'.

Obviously we have to generalize because we're talking about a very large industry that effects billions of people in some way. The nicest teacher I ever had was my high school music teacher. She was great, but I'm still lousy at playing the trumpet and sax and I can't remember how to read music 'fluently'.

Technical excellence and humanity/motivation. Are each of these more the province of one sex?

Who was the best and worst teacher you ever had and what made them so?
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Gordon



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 28, 2003 6:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Gordon: Why would women be exempt from earning enough to support their family? I knew a lot of female ESL teachers - including single parents - who were worried about just that.


Women aren't exempt, there are single parents of both sexes. That wasn't what I was referring to. However, when one parent is at home and one is in the workforce, it is the man who is usually the one in the workforce (barring unemployment situations).
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shmooj



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 28, 2003 7:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

chinasyndrome wrote:


Who was the best and worst teacher you ever had and what made them so?


BEST: Mr. Robinson, English Literature: One of the don't-smile-before-Christmas brigade who would send you out of the room, I kid you not, for sneezing without permission. We were terrified of him by Christmas. So, in January he released the pressure and had a class of totally respectful kids by Easter. By summer, we loved his class. Taught me a lot about teaching. Still hate "Lord of the Flies" though Rolling Eyes

WORST: Mr. Harcourt, Geography: you'd come in the room and there he'd be, behind a newspaper with his feet on the desk. His entire teaching approach could be summarised by his regular command to "Do pages xx-xx." That was all the guidance he would give you. And, if you didn't do it he would throw a wooden board eraser at your head with deadly accuracy. He would be locked up now (I hope). He taught me a lot about teaching. Still love all aspects of geography.

Ironically these two teachers taught next door to each other at the same school.
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Capergirl



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 28, 2003 10:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wolf wrote:

Is this a "girls are bad at math but good at being nurses and teachers" thing? Bases on my life experience, I doubt that girls are bad at math and boys are bad at foreign language teaching or learning.

The bit about teaching being "womans' work" might have something to do with imbalances "back home."


Since the woman's job comment was mine, allow me to clarify. I was referring to the fact that this was what most people believed in years past. It's not what most believe now (including me). Wink I've had some great teachers, male and female. I do think that some people are just plain not cut out for teaching, but it has nothing at all to do with gender.

Wolf wrote:
Gordon: Why would women be exempt from earning enough to support their family? I knew a lot of female ESL teachers - including single parents - who were worried about just that.


I am a single mom ESL teacher and yes, I am the sole "bread-winner". Although teaching ESL isn't really the most lucrative job a person could have, it pays more than many of the jobs where I live. Nonetheless, the main reason I do it is because I love it. You couldn't pay me enough to work in a hospital or a lab. Wink

By the way, Wolf, your "girls being bad at math" analogy reminds me of when Mattel released their talking Barbie. A lot of people were surprised to pull her string and hear her say, "Math is hard!" Laughing
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dyak



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 28, 2003 10:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Interesting, this thread of yours, chinasyndromeWink

Just had a thought - maybe it�s because our first �teachers� are our mothers (for the majority of people) and that�s why students (of both sexes) seem to prefer female teachers.

The best teachers I had (by a long way) were all women, but then they just happen to be teaching languages, which I loved.
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Wolf



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 28, 2003 10:57 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Capergirl wrote:

By the way, Wolf, your "girls being bad at math" analogy reminds me of when Mattel released their talking Barbie. A lot of people were surprised to pull her string and hear her say, "Math is hard!" Laughing


As do I, which is why I used that particular example. I hope everyone realizes that i disagree with this line of thinking, by the way.
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denise



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 28, 2003 11:38 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

This thread in a way reminds me of the "women bosses in Europe" one--although this one is considerably more polite! Very Happy

I think the similarity I see is in my feeling that I can't base quality teaching on sex (meaning man/woman, of course!). I've had excellent male teachers, excellent female teachers, crappy male teachers, and crappy female teachers.

I think the factor that distinguished the excellent from the crap was their interest in teaching vs. what I saw as their desire to keep the class on task. Some of my worst teachers have in fact been language teachers (native Spanish speakers, going back to the whole native/non-native issue). They were grad students teaching undergrad language classes, and one of them really seemed to view her job as just a form of financial aid--she put no effort, no heart, nothing at all into her teaching. Our class every day was something like this: correct homework, learn new grammar structure from book, practice new grammar structure in book, get new homework assigned. At the time I had no idea that I would end up teaching a language myself, but even back then I got all sorts of ideas about what not to do as a teacher.

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woza17



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 28, 2003 1:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Have you thought about how one sex communicates with another on all levels, a male teacher may be more protective to the females and the female more caring to the male. I see my own dynamic when I am teaching I expect the girls to be clever and I don't protect them On the other hand with the males I cajole them. Just a thought
Cheers Carol
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Tong Dawei



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PostPosted: Sun Sep 28, 2003 2:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Is it possible the society plays an important part in determining who the best teachers are at any point in time? Capergirl said that "women are smarter". I believe that because a group of scientists told me so. Someone said that men, i believe, go for the psycho bucks. Capergirl also added that gender roles are in flux. I believe that the male teachers that i was exposed to way back when were more effective becuase they were more able to communicate to the students due to the fact that back then it was the males that were the ones telling everyone what to do. Well, Bush and Rumsfeld, wolfowitz, Bolton, Cheney, Pearle and that undersec of defense guy are still busy telling everyone what to do, But, more and more women are doing the speaking (i.e., H. horses asz Clinton). I think it comes down to who is in the position to communicate to the kids. If EVERYTHING was equal societally then i think women would be the best cause there is more of a natural connection between women and underlings. Lemme know what you think, okay?

p.s. I did cringed back in that "female bosses" thread when some one blamed bad female bosses on trying to emulate men.... I'll see you over there for that one.
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Dr.J



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PostPosted: Mon Sep 29, 2003 2:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

There are some classroom 'atmospheres' and one to one relationships that male teachers can create that female teachers find harder to create, and vice versa.

Whether these lead to better teaching depends mainly on the student. Some students find that a teacher of their own sex can understand them better and thus teach them better, others find it more uhm...stimulating to be taught by a teacher of the opposite sex.

People are more ready to accept women teachers as it is a socially acceptable role for women, especially at primary school, as it relates to the 'mother' role, and primary school teachers have to be part parent anyway.

I didn't notice any particular difference in effectiveness between the male and female teachers at my high school; if there was a gender-barrier the good teachers did their job, and their personality overcame it.
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Corey



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PostPosted: Mon Sep 29, 2003 6:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dr.J wrote:

I didn't notice any particular difference in effectiveness between the male and female teachers at my high school; if there was a gender-barrier the good teachers did their job, and their personality overcame it.


Agreed.

This whole m vs f debate is a complete 100% false dichotomy.
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