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apfennig
Joined: 08 Jun 2005 Posts: 4 Location: USA
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Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2006 9:18 pm Post subject: Trying to figure out my life's path...any advice will help. |
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I have always thought I wanted to teach English overseas and immerse myself in another culture and learn at least one other language. Making lots of money was never an issue to me and I always thought I'd be doing this in a European or Central/South American country; however, when the reality of my student loan payment hit this past weekend, (after first freaking out and thinking my dream would never be reality...!) I realized that I had two options:
(1) Leave my job and take another job here in the States, particularly in my current city, where I can easily make $10K-$15K more year than I make now....thus, no longer scraping to live, enjoying some money in the pocket to go out and possibly paying off my student loans earlier as well as save for retirement. Also, if I get on at a University I could have my Masters paid for, but I don't even know if I need it at all.
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(2) Leave my job and head overseas to Korea so that I could make a similar income to what I make now with some housing and flight reimbursement included. Plus, I could send back money for student loans and credit cards back to the States plus still have a decent living. Sure, I won't be out of student loan debt any sooner and I may not be able to save as much for retirement, but I would be teaching, learning a new language and experiencing a new culture; however, not the country I originally planned.
Do you think living and teaching in another country is worth it for the soul rather than doing the same ol' job thing here in the USA? I've always been one who wants to travel and explore the world and I just think that if I stay, even for $50-60K (it could happen!) that I still wouldn't feel fulfilled.
I just would appreciate any thoughts. Thanks. |
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Glenski

Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Posts: 12844 Location: Hokkaido, JAPAN
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Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2006 10:01 pm Post subject: |
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Lots of things to consider. Are you running toward something or away from something? (rhetorial question, ok?) If you just want to experience teaching for a year or so, then you have to think about what you're going to do when it's finished. That brings up a real question:
What is your degree in, and how had you planned to use it?
Some people take a "gap year" in their studies just to go someplace and have fun. You might say that about teaching overseas. Returning to a work environment may be a little tougher depending on the job and how employers back home perceive your overseas teaching experience.
You can get a lot of answers about whether teaching abroad is "worth it for the soul ", but that's a terribly personal thing, and only you can answer that after you've done it. You might get a bad position abroad; you might get a mediocre one; you might get a fantastic one. With so much uncertainty coming from your post, I would recommend thinking very hard about where to go. Try to determine what place and type of job would be the easiest on your emotional state and yet still allow you to make some money. Korea would not be my first choice, and if you know anything about that country, you would know why. Heck, even the Korea forum here is locked out because of a lot of complaints in it. Korea has a reputation for bad/unscrupulous school managers, and if you lose your job or quit it, you also lose your work visa there. This is not so in many (most?) other countries. Lots of xenophobia there, too. Can you hack that? |
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Pollux
Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 224 Location: PL
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Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2006 10:10 pm Post subject: |
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It normally takes some qualifications to take a job somewhere. Before you quit your job and head out into the blue yonder you should think about what you can do. How about applying first, and if you get some replies, then your choice will be a bit more concrete. |
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Guy Courchesne

Joined: 10 Mar 2003 Posts: 9650 Location: Mexico City
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Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2006 10:34 pm Post subject: |
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Do you think living and teaching in another country is worth it for the soul rather than doing the same ol' job thing here in the USA? I've always been one who wants to travel and explore the world and I just think that if I stay, even for $50-60K (it could happen!) that I still wouldn't feel fulfilled. |
Tough choice, and only you can make it. Problem is, it's difficult to go back if you find you made the wrong choice. The red pill or the blue pill, right?
My choice was to go abroad and fight it out there. The gamble worked and I would never think of going back home to the rat race there. But...you give up a lot doing so, and, the reality is it's much more difficult to keep on traveling once you've gotten your fill of one place. |
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JZer
Joined: 16 Jan 2005 Posts: 3898 Location: Pittsburgh
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Posted: Thu Aug 24, 2006 11:17 pm Post subject: |
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Sure, I won't be out of student loan debt any sooner and I may not be able to save as much for retirement, |
I think most people in Korea save more than those in the US. Most people don't have a car like back home and food is cheaper. You can drink every weekend and still save $1000 a month. Some people even save $20,000 USD a year. |
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tedkarma

Joined: 17 May 2004 Posts: 1598 Location: The World is my Oyster
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Posted: Fri Aug 25, 2006 12:55 am Post subject: |
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Personally, I think the transition is worth it.
But, if you intend to do it for the long run, a relevant graduate degree will help tremendously. In fact, it is almost a different career - it is certainly a different experience.
I believe that my financial circumstances are better having worked overseas - than they would have been back home. Uh . . . probably. BUT - positively - my soul is in a better place.
Since 1989, I have lived in Botswana, Korea, Taiwan, Thailand, and Saudi Arabia. Almost a Ph.D. in cultures, languages and international relations. It IS a fascinating world out here. |
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denise

Joined: 23 Apr 2003 Posts: 3419 Location: finally home-ish
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Posted: Fri Aug 25, 2006 5:07 pm Post subject: |
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If you only want to do it for a year and you don't want to be limited to countries that will pay enough to cover your loan payments, you can defer your payments for a year. I'm in Peru right now, and I've just recently had my payments deferred. It's not something that you should do lightly, obviously (financial responsibility and whatnot...), but if you know in your heart that you want to travel, then it would be a shame to let money stand in the way when there is an easy temporary solution. (I say "easy" not because it's something that you should do on a whim, but because when you call your loan providers and explain your situation, the actual process of deferment is fairly painless.)
If you want to do this long-term, then the deferment option won't work.
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rusmeister
Joined: 15 Jun 2006 Posts: 867 Location: Russia
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Posted: Fri Aug 25, 2006 5:38 pm Post subject: |
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Everyone has made good comments here. Definitely get out for a year and see a different part of the world. BE the foreigner for once. Be careful, don't do it to run away, but get out there for a bit. It's a life-changing experience (surely for the better). Once you live among a people and see their lives, it's a lot harder to talk about dropping bombs on them if nothing else. |
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khmerhit
Joined: 31 May 2003 Posts: 1874 Location: Reverse Culture Shock Unit
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Posted: Mon Aug 28, 2006 3:26 pm Post subject: |
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Do you think living and teaching in another country is worth it for the soul rather than doing the same ol' job thing here in the USA? I've always been one who wants to travel and explore the world and I just think that if I stay, even for $50-60K (it could happen!) that I still wouldn't feel fulfilled.
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there are not a lot of things to consider. Just take a deep breath and GO.
And go somewhere interesting, please, like Mongoia, or Bhutan, or, dare
I say it-------??????
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M109A3
Joined: 20 Aug 2006 Posts: 99
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Posted: Tue Aug 29, 2006 2:11 pm Post subject: |
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Apfennig,
If you haven't heard the sucking sound of all the jobs here going overseas, you will shortly. Since you are interested in teaching overseas why not take advantage of positioning yourself to transition into a decent overseas position as an "expert" for some multinational? I'm planning on teaching and moving up the educational career ladder. My wife is planning to get her foot in the door as a teacher and then move back to corporate business when the right opportunity presents itself. Those $60K jobs won't last your working lifetime here. BTW, if you get a masters you'll definitely price yourself out of the job market here but open a TREMENDOUS world of opportunities overseas you can't begin to imagine. It's happening to me. |
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Mchristophermsw
Joined: 14 Apr 2005 Posts: 228
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Posted: Tue Aug 29, 2006 7:24 pm Post subject: |
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GUY---I love it! that is so classic.....The RED PILL OR BLUE ONE?
The reality is that most people never even stop to make a choice. They just play follow the leader and do what everyone else is doing.
apfennig,
At this point in your life, it appears you have nothing to loose if you try it.
Your student loans and Jobs will be there waiting for you when/if you come back and you can pick up right from where you left off.
But if you don't venture out, you may never leave other than a two week vacation. Which Pill will it be, RED OR BLUE?
As for me, I have lived overseas and I loved it! I came back to the US to take care some family obligations and pay off some debt but after that, I am back over seas to build my life. For me, there's a sense of peace and everything in my world just seems to have a better "fit".
But that chioce is easy for me because I have been on both sides of the fence.
As that 50-60K year job and retirement? That is not a bad deal--if that is the road that fits for you. I landed a job in the US starting at 64K and will be top off at 75k within 1 1/2 years. And trust me, after taxes, deductions for retirement, rent, bills and living expenses in the greater bay area, it does not get you very far. If you have children and a mortgage--pray to GOD that you never get sick or laid off--then you will be ruined. That's real pressa! |
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newtefler

Joined: 23 Jun 2006 Posts: 80
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Posted: Tue Aug 29, 2006 7:37 pm Post subject: |
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Hi... I guess a part of your decision is based on financial security. There is no way I could afford to live where I do now on a TEFL wage. In saying that there is no reason why I couldn't have taken a year out straight after uni and eventually have earned the same wage and still be in the same situation now.. if I had allowed one year.. any longer you run risks of not being able to survive in your home economy. It all depends on your expectations. |
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Mchristophermsw
Joined: 14 Apr 2005 Posts: 228
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Posted: Wed Aug 30, 2006 1:08 am Post subject: |
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NewTefler,
Great advice but I just have one issue that I would like to add a different perspective to, you stated that ""if I had allowed one year.. any longer you run risks of not being able to survive in your home economy.""
The longer you stay away the harder the adjustment and it will take longer to make those professional and social connections---but it can be done. Keep in touch with people while your overseas--EX bosses, friends, faculty, etc. keep your thumb on the communities heart beat; send your network of people emails, cards from time to time.
These techniques will make it easier to transition back if you stay more than a year...err say maybe 2 or 3 years. |
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JZer
Joined: 16 Jan 2005 Posts: 3898 Location: Pittsburgh
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Posted: Wed Aug 30, 2006 8:12 am Post subject: |
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if I had allowed one year.. any longer you run risks of not being able to survive in your home economy. It all depends on your expectations. |
I guess it really depends what you are planning to do when you get home. Some people learn valuable skills abroad that lead to jobs. For example, I know that one poster on here lived in China and then became a medical interpreter for Chinese in Maryland. If you learned Chinese or Korean you may put your self in a good position to work in the ESL or study abroad office at an American university or community college. I have seen advertisements in which the university wanted someone who can speak and Asia language to help the students who come to that university.
I would sum this up by saying that it really depends on what skills you develop while abroad. |
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thrifty
Joined: 25 Apr 2006 Posts: 1665 Location: chip van
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Posted: Wed Aug 30, 2006 3:22 pm Post subject: |
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Skills like drinking, miserliness and whinging it in class. |
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