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shuize
Joined: 04 Sep 2004 Posts: 1270
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Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 12:22 pm Post subject: |
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shuize
Joined: 04 Sep 2004 Posts: 1270
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Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 12:35 pm Post subject: |
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| The U.S. is 8-2-1 against Mexico since 2000 (7-0-1 at home). |
That is a source of shame here... |
As it should be.
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| it will only make the next win that much sweeter. |
Look, bad sportsmanship aside, if Mexico manages to win the next match, that would pull their record against the U.S. up to only a slightly less pathetic 3-8-1. Hardly anything to write home about. Especially considering it's against a country where soccer, when it's given any thought at all, is usually regarded as the kind of activity pre-adolescents participate in before they're physically fit enough to engage in "real" sports.
Really, losing soccer matches to the U.S. on such a regular basis would be sort of like if 5 Mexicans just decided to pick up basketball on a whim and then held the very best players America could put on the court to only 2 wins in 11 games. Or perhaps a better analogy for a Canadian: Mexico defeating the Canadian national hockey team 8 out of 11 times.
Shameful and pathetic to say the least. |
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sickbag

Joined: 10 Jan 2005 Posts: 155 Location: Blighty
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Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 2:25 pm Post subject: |
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| Guy Courchesne wrote: |
From the story...
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Emotions flared late, with Marquez and American forward Eddie Johnson exchanging shoves. After the final whistle, the Mexicans strode off the field without shaking the Americans' hands or exchanging jerseys, as is customary.
"The sportsmanship -- it would be nice if you guys (reporters) and the Mexican press talked about it, because it's really poor," Donovan said. "When we lose to them there, we shake their hands and say, `Good job.' There's none of that reciprocally, and it's kind of disappointing." |
That is pretty snotty conduct. There was a lot of emotion invested in Hugo for this match, but that's no excuse. |
Not exclusive to Mexicans. Argentina have been exactly the same the last couple of times they've lost to us (England) - which I like, cos it shows how much they are hurting
As for the racism thing. I have been beckoned to the front of the line at clubs here in Puebla based on my colour (and the misconception that I have money) - which leads me not to frequent those clubs.
Aside from that I haven't experienced a great deal of racism toward me. The worst I've heard was one of my students calling a classmate a pinche negro to somebody who was a fraction of a degree darker than himself. |
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Guy Courchesne

Joined: 10 Mar 2003 Posts: 9650 Location: Mexico City
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Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 2:40 pm Post subject: |
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Sniff...sniff...snort. Shuize, that does indeed smell like bait...
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| Especially considering it's against a country where soccer, when it's given any thought at all, is usually regarded as the kind of activity pre-adolescents participate in before they're physically fit enough to engage in "real" sports. |
...by those same 90% that have no idea?
National chest-thumping aside, that the US has been performing well in soccer is nothing but good for the sport as a whole...it raises the bar worldwide, injects new money and talent, and makes the whole enterprise more interesting. You bring up basketball...that's a better example than hockey. The 90's Dream Team elevation to the Olympics did wonders for the sport, and other countries promptly mastered it.
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| if Mexico manages to win the next match, that would pull their record against the U.S. up to only a slightly less pathetic 3-8-1. |
True, but soccer is played one match at a time, and what I meant was that the next match is at the Americas Tourney (CONCACAF). |
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sickbag

Joined: 10 Jan 2005 Posts: 155 Location: Blighty
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Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 2:47 pm Post subject: |
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[quote="shuize"]
Look, bad sportsmanship aside, if Mexico manages to win the next match, that would pull their record against the U.S. up to only a slightly less pathetic 3-8-1. Hardly anything to write home about. Especially considering it's against a country where soccer, when it's given any thought at all, is usually regarded as the kind of activity pre-adolescents participate in before they're physically fit enough to engage in "real" sports.[/quote]
Maybe you should look at how many of those games have been played in Mexico and how many have been played in the U.S. And when was the last time the U.S. beat Mexico in Mexico (or in a competitive game)? I don't know the answer to this, just an interested onlooker.
Try telling the European based U.S. players that they're not engaged in a 'real' sport. |
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Ben Round de Bloc
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Posts: 1946
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Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 3:31 pm Post subject: |
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| As for the racism thing. I have been beckoned to the front of the line at clubs here in Puebla based on my colour (and the misconception that I have money) - which leads me not to frequent those clubs. |
Whatever your color, I bet if you had arrived in an expensive car, wearing expensive clothes, acting like a fresa, and had 3 or 4 pretty girls with you, you wouldn't have even gotten to the queue. Instead, you'd have been ushered directly to the door. I don't think it's so much direct racism as the idea of associating how one looks with how much money he has (which is more a social class issue than race.) In that sense, it's no different from clubs here in Merida and lots of up-scale clubs in U.S. cities, where the same routine is standard procedure. |
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shuize
Joined: 04 Sep 2004 Posts: 1270
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Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 3:34 pm Post subject: |
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| Guy Courchesne wrote: |
Sniff...sniff...snort. Shuize, that does indeed smell like bait...  |
Yes, I freely admit I'm baiting. And laughing. Laughing my ass off at the fact that even though the sport that is held in such low esteem in the United States and such high esteem in Mexico, the United States has still managed to kick Mexico's ass repeatedly in recent years. In response, the Mexicans walk off the field like a bunch of spoiled children (thus the relevance to this thread), refusing to even shake hands. If I hadn't read about that in the article I posted above, I wouldn't have run with this for nearly as long.
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| ...by those same 90% that have no idea? |
As I recall, you agreed with me on this point above. But if you want to argue that soccer really is anywhere close to football, baseball, basketball or even hockey as a significant sport in the United States, please feel free. I stand by my claim that the vast -- vast -- majority of Americans view soccer as a "kids" game. Which makes it even more hilarious (does that make me a racist for thinking so?) when the U.S. trounces Mexico -- a country where I'm sure you will agree it is held in considerably higher esteem.
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| National chest-thumping aside, that the US has been performing well in soccer is nothing but good for the sport as a whole...it raises the bar worldwide, injects new money and talent, and makes the whole enterprise more interesting. You bring up basketball...that's a better example than hockey. The 90's Dream Team elevation to the Olympics did wonders for the sport, and other countries promptly mastered it. |
Yes. A very good thing for the sport. Although, I don't believe Mexico has as yet humiliated the U.S. in basketball to the same degree as the 8-2-1 record posted above.
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if Mexico manages to win the next match, that would pull their record against the U.S. up to only a slightly less pathetic 3-8-1.
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| True, but soccer is played one match at a time, and what I meant was that the next match is at the Americas Tourney (CONCACAF). |
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Yes. One match at a time. And over the last 11 times, Mexico has won all of 2 matches against the U.S. side.
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| Maybe you should look at how many of those games have been played in Mexico and how many have been played in the U.S. And when was the last time the U.S. beat Mexico in Mexico (or in a competitive game)? I don't know the answer to this, just an interested onlooker. |
First, are you seriously claiming these matches weren't competitive? -- Oh, O.K., man.
Second, is this really the excuse they use in Mexico? Since Mexico didn't play all the matches at home, they really couldn't have been expected to win more than 2 matches out of 11? Please. That's even more pathetic than their win/loss record.
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| Try telling the European based U.S. players that they're not engaged in a 'real' sport. |
I'm not making the claim. My quotes around real above were to emphasis that it is not viewed as a "real" sport by the vast majority of Americans. Which underscores the obvious point that the vast majority of our most talented athletes never even consider playing soccer. |
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sickbag

Joined: 10 Jan 2005 Posts: 155 Location: Blighty
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Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 3:37 pm Post subject: |
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| Whatever your color, I bet if you had arrived in an expensive car, wearing expensive clothes, acting like a fresa, and had 3 or 4 pretty girls with you, you wouldn't have even gotten to the queue. Instead, you'd have been ushered directly to the door. I don't think it's so much direct racism as the idea of associating how one looks with how much money he has (which is more a social class issue than race.) In that sense, it's no different from clubs here in Merida and lots of up-scale clubs in U.S. cities, where the same routine is standard procedure. |
Maybe you're right. But, I'm sure the people who are made to wait in line consider it to be racism. |
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sickbag

Joined: 10 Jan 2005 Posts: 155 Location: Blighty
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Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 3:51 pm Post subject: |
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In response to Shuize:
Home advantage makes a big difference. I'm not sure Mexicans use it as an excuse but it does make a difference. I wanted Mexico to win last week but actually placed several (small) bets with my students that the U.S. would win - Mexico just don't have the 'balls' when it comes to winning in the U.S.
As for the U.S. not taking football seriously - long may it continue. I still cringe when I think of the changes to the game that were mooted when the World Cup took place in 1994. |
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Ben Round de Bloc
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Posts: 1946
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Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 4:23 pm Post subject: |
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| Maybe you're right. But, I'm sure the people who are made to wait in line consider it to be racism. |
What if lots of people waiting in line are of the same race as those who are beckoned to the front of the line? What if gueros are made to wait in line, while non-gueros are invited in? Maybe in Puebla the color of one's skin is a major issue. I don't know. In Merida color and social class aren't so clearly connected to each other. For example, a very prominant part of the upper social class in Merida is of Lebanese heritage. Any club owner who wanted to stay in business certainly wouldn't make the sons and daughters of those families wait in line to get in, and the word guero definitely wouldn't be used to describe them. Trust me on this one; they would get in before you would. What many of us foreigners would see as racial or class discrimination is considered an acceptable part of Mexican culture. I'm not saying that's right or wrong, just that that's the way it is. In general, the Mexicans that I know aren't nearly as quick to call something racist as people from my home country are. |
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corporatehuman
Joined: 09 Jan 2006 Posts: 198 Location: Mexico City
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Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 6:01 pm Post subject: |
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In Chiapas, at least in my town, and I think in general, there is more classicism than racism. However, being that those that have money so often have a lighter shade of skin, the two can get confused.
I have not, besides one or two people calling me a gringo in the street, experienced any racism for being white. I also always try to treat everyone I meet with respect, speak Spanish, and am friendly.
Many people here have Mayan blood, or as they say indigenous blood, but they do not acknowledge it. I know people who are from the villages outside of San Cristobal that will lie if you ask them where they are from. There is a sentiment of shame with people of darker skin. I think they feel inferior, and are made to feel inferior. I�ve hung out with groups of Mexicans where often the most darkest was made fun of for his skin. Not in a hateful way, or even necessarily cruel, just like how all the guys I know here call each other gay every five seconds. So they will call this one kid gay and sometimes a blackie...etc...
But in terms of the indigenous population, who sell wares in the park and are always together, wearing bright colored clothes, blues here, and women with braided hair. I�ve never seen them interact with a Mexican besides buying and selling, and they are regarded as inferiors.
Also in terms of where I am from...I have always told people I am from America, and maybe only once or twice, that resulted in bad reactions. Because I know the reputation Americans have, I feel even more obligated to tell people where I am from, so they can see that not all Americans are like the ones they find in Cancun. And even though, with everything that has happened in the last 8 years, and the general history of my country, I do take pride in where I am from, because I regard it as my home, so I make sure when asked, to reply honestly.
Anyway I find this thread really interesting and am still struggling to understand the particular type of racism here in Mexico, and also am struggling to figure out how I fit in here, in Chiapas. I was honestly much more comfortable, felt much more anonymous, in Guadaljara. And I met a number of people that were friendly, but I was only there for 2 weeks.
Anyway look forward to reading everyones responses. And I forgot who said it, but it is true no one in America, I�d put the number at 95%, cares at all about soccer. Just take a look at SportsCenter in America and see what sports they cover. In my whole time watching it, I had never seen them cover American soccer.
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Guy Courchesne

Joined: 10 Mar 2003 Posts: 9650 Location: Mexico City
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Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 7:11 pm Post subject: |
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| As I recall, you agreed with me on this point above. But if you want to argue that soccer really is anywhere close to football, baseball, basketball or even hockey as a significant sport in the United States, please feel free. I stand by my claim that the vast -- vast -- majority of Americans view soccer as a "kids" game. Which makes it even more hilarious (does that make me a racist for thinking so?) when the U.S. trounces Mexico -- a country where I'm sure you will agree it is held in considerably higher esteem. |
No, I don't see racism here at all...I think we're just having some fun with the idea. I can't put together the two ideas you present though...that 90% of Americans have no idea of the game and that the vast majority think it is a kids game. Are you knocking American ignorance of the sport or knocking the sport? Maybe there's something on topic in that.
This idea of things held in high esteem/things held in low esteem is a good topic...generator of many a cultural difference between Mexico and the US. |
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geaaronson
Joined: 19 Apr 2005 Posts: 948 Location: Mexico City
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Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 7:17 pm Post subject: |
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And if the American is third generation Mexican-American and has decidedly Spanish or MesoAmerican features, is his maltreatment by a Guadalajaran waiter racist? Or if the American is Chino- or Japanese-American, again is there racism involved?
This question is directed to the parties who used prejudice or discrimination against Americans an example of racism. |
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thelmadatter
Joined: 31 Mar 2003 Posts: 1212 Location: in el Distrito Federal x fin!
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Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 10:08 pm Post subject: racism |
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Herein often lies the problem with discussing so-called "racism" As often as not, we are talking about discrimination against a person for belonging to a certain category of people. I guess because race has been such a glaring issue for the US, everything gets mixed up with and/or associated with race....
The issue is discrimination because someone is somehow (by appearance or otherwise) know or believed to be of a certain social grouping.
With such a broad definition, that would probably mean that everyone on the planet is "racist" in some way shape or form. |
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gordogringo
Joined: 15 Jul 2005 Posts: 159 Location: Tijuana
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Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 10:54 pm Post subject: |
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I am an American. But even I don't like Americans very much. Especially the New York and LA crowd that shapes the world opinions of us. I always try to distance myself from Americans as much as possible. Is key to survival as an ex-pat. I do not see that much racism on the border, though.You are targeted by everybody to pay more. No matter where I go and what I buy my gf can always get it for quite a bit less. She calls it the Mexican price. When we travel together I have heard other women ask her "How much is he paying you" despite the fact she is 4 years older than me. As if there is no way a Mexicana would be with a gringo unless it was a business arrangement.
Much of this "thank goodness your Canadian" stuff I don't buy at all. If you speak the language or make an effort to you will be welcomed. Logically more Americans can and should speak Spanish. It is the language of our largest border country. Right now only about 30% speak at least some Spanish but within ten years that number should be around 70%. As high as 90% on the west coast. Maybe that will make us more popular in Mexico. If we could get just one other country besides England to like us..........
A story was published in the San Diego Union Tribune by a famous Mexican American immigration writer, Ruben Navarette.Below is a summary of that story on why Americans visit Mexico. Is not so far from the truth and you could see why some people in tourist areas might not like gringos.
Two dogs climbed the hill each day in Tijuana to look into California. They loved to watch the American dogs coming and going, crossing the border. After a while they asked themselves, why? Why do these dogs always come to visit us? So they met a dog walking across the border and asked him.Where do you live, they said. Malibu,he responded. I spend each day being pampered, cared for, walked in only the finest parks.My every need is catered to.Then the dogs asked him why would you come here then? You have everything there. The American dog answered, because every dog needs a place to bark. |
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