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veiledsentiments



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PostPosted: Fri Apr 06, 2007 1:59 pm    Post subject: Re: proper attire for western men Reply with quote

goingbald wrote:

2. Short sleeved thobes (otherwise known as "dishdashas") are generally considered to be bedroom/house attire by the majority of the populace here.

Just for the benefit of those that don't live in the Gulf, but may do a search on dress codes. Outside of Saudi, if you are in say the Emirates or Oman, a 'dishdasha' is what the men wear in public and it definitely doesn't have short sleeves. The word 'thobe' is not used.

Good thread men!!

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 06, 2007 2:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hey DMB,

in Saudi a kilt is only acceptable attire if accompanied by a Dundee United top (it got me big respect). The following link will explain all (although I'm sure DMB knows what I'm talking about):

www.arabfever.co.uk
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 06, 2007 2:46 pm    Post subject: Re: proper attire for western men Reply with quote

veiledsentiments wrote:
goingbald wrote:

2. Short sleeved thobes (otherwise known as "dishdashas") are generally considered to be bedroom/house attire by the majority of the populace here.

Just for the benefit of those that don't live in the Gulf, but may do a search on dress codes. Outside of Saudi, if you are in say the Emirates or Oman, a 'dishdasha' is what the men wear in public and it definitely doesn't have short sleeves. The word 'thobe' is not used.

Good thread men!!

VS
Yup, that was what I meant. NOT short sleeves.
Now, not being a man, I am bowing out...
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 06, 2007 6:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

ALPH wrote:
So there might be a case to be made for Men only / women only Forums ...

Alph, do you want this forum to be segregated like what is happening in Saudi Arabia. Laughing

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..and then some agreed middle ground where they can confer. It would at least cut out all the squabbling and squawking that pass for 'Discussion' on these boards

I think we need this type of squabbling and squawking in our discussion, is like 'salt in the food', because without salt the food is not testy, also by analogy a discussion without squabbling/squawking (especially from women) will not have a flavor.
Laughing

I have a feeling that some 'virtual' missiles will be launched to me from some of our respected ladies. Laughing
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 06, 2007 7:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

007 wrote:

I think we need this type of squabbling and squawking in our discussion, is like 'salt in the food', because without salt the food is not testy, also by analogy a discussion without squabbling/squawking (especially from women) will not have a flavor.


salt is fine 007, in small doses. But too much sodium causes water retention and increased blood pressure leading to heart disease.

Tell you what, a Utopian Forum should cater to all tastes and creeds. We could have one forum for men, one for women and one for the Undecideds. There are a whole bunch of Undecideds out there. We could make you Acting Chief for the Undecideds. Deal ?
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 06, 2007 7:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

ALPH wrote:
salt is fine 007, in small doses. But too much sodium causes water retention and increased blood pressure leading to heart disease.

You know Alph, I completely forgot that high dose of salts causes high blood pressure. Now I understand why women are the ones who are more subjected to high blood pressure. Laughing


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..Tell you what, a Utopian Forum should cater to all tastes and creeds. We could have one forum for men, one for women and one for the Undecideds. There are a whole bunch of Undecideds out there. We could make you Acting Chief for the Undecideds. Deal ?

Deal, but not Acting Chief, I prefer to be a Co-ordinator for the undecided, because 'acting chief' they will accuse me of 'dictatorship' and lack of 'Demo-Crazy' Laughing
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 07, 2007 1:47 pm    Post subject: Re: proper attire for western men Reply with quote

goingbald wrote:
Good morning all,

This is a rather interesting and an unusually beneficial thread, so I thought I'd add my two penn'o'th.

Personally, I wear a thobe to work all the time, because I am a Muslim, and because it's allowed in my workplace. (Note: wearing a thobe is not obligatory for any male Muslim. I would also wear it in non-Muslim countries)


Do you mind explaining the theory behind this to me? I have always wondered why some men, who are not Saudi or from the Gulf prefer to wear thobes? Is it because of the comfort, or that they want to be associated with Gulf Arabs? They are simply traditionaly attire for men in the Gulf countries, much like salwar and Kemis is for Pakistanis and Afghanis, or a sari is for women in India and other nearby regions of Asia. It is not a mark of a Muslim, nor a religious requirement to wear a thobe either, and I know many Muslims who do not wear them, who are from other Arab and non-Arab countries. I would be curious to understand this link with the thobes, if you dont mind taking the time to explain it to me, and perhaps to other who are equally curious. Thanks!
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 07, 2007 7:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Q of S,

Maybe it's for the same reason that some female Muslims (particularly converts) insist on wearing the black abaya, tarha and niqabb, even when they are in the 'West'. Like the thobe, this 'uniform' is not 'Islamic" dress as such, but rather is the traditional attire of Gulf women. Muslim women in other parts of the world do not of course dress like this, so why do some 'Western' Muslims insist on adopting this traditional dress?
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 07, 2007 7:39 pm    Post subject: Re: proper attire for western men Reply with quote

Queen of Sheba wrote:
.. I have always wondered why some men, who are not Saudi or from the Gulf prefer to wear thobes? Is it because of the comfort, or that they want to be associated with Gulf Arabs?


It is rare to find Arabs wearing thobe during work in university or colleges. Except, in other areas of work like private companies, shops, restaurant, etc. But, outside work, most Arabs from Egypt, Syria, Sudan, Lebanon, Tunisia, and Morocco wear thobes or short sleeve khamis , because it is more comfortable, and some Arabs (Egyptians & Sudanese) use their tradional thobes as in Egypt and Sudan.
There are other Arab people who wear Saudi thobes for personal reasons!
BTW, King Cobra, during work wears his black suit with blue/purple tie and black Clarks shoes, in the afternoon he wears his Tunisian style Kamis with Clarks/Omani sandal.
For example when I am in UK, I would not wear a thobe in the public. Eventhough, the Indian Muslim from Gujarat, I have seen them wearing white kamis with selwar in public in UK.

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.. They are simply traditionaly attire for men in the Gulf countries, much like salwar and Kemis is for Pakistanis and Afghanis, or a sari is for women in India and other nearby regions of Asia. It is not a mark of a Muslim, nor a religious requirement to wear a thobe either, and I know many Muslims who do not wear them, who are from other Arab and non-Arab countries. I would be curious to understand this link with the thobes, if you dont mind taking the time to explain it to me, and perhaps to other who are equally curious. Thanks!

The thobe is not a mark for a Muslim, and it has nothing to do with Islamic religion. It is more related to the tradition than to the religion. For example, you will find that in Egypt they use their own type of thobe called Galabiya with very wide sleeve and big hidden pockets (the same name is used in Tunisia and Morocco), in Tunisia and Algeria they use Cachabia and Barnous, which are types of thobes used in winter, but are in decline with young generations. In the Gulf area they have their own tradional thobes (Saudi, Omani, Kuwaiti, etc), and some are similar in design. The most modern style of thobes are Tunisian, Morrocan khamis, and King thobes of some of the gu;lf countries, and are expensive in price.

The only thing that Muslim men should not wear is Silk or gold jewelry.
Also, men's robes or shirts should extend down from halfway below the shin but over the ankles, but not so long as to trail behind on the ground.
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 07, 2007 7:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well done 007, once again you have restated and reinforced what I just said. It�s just done in a slightly antagonistic way. So are you saying you agree and merely providing the evidence to support my claims, or are you just going off again? I can�t figure out whether you are coming or going or just posting information on the topic for the sake of posting. Either way I guess it doesn�t really matter because you have not, nor can you reasonably, since you don�t wear a thobe to work or on the street, answer the question I have asked; why do some non Gulf men like to wear thobes? I am genuinely curious and would prefer that someone like goingbald, who says he prefers to wear the thobe answer, and of course anybody else who has their own theories on that topic.
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 07, 2007 8:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Queen of Sheba wrote:
..why do some non Gulf men like to wear thobes? [/i] I am genuinely curious and would prefer that someone like goingbald, who says he prefers to wear the thobe answer, and of course anybody else who has their own theories on that topic.


Be specific, your question is not clear! What do you mean by non Gulf men? Do you mean the non-Muslims and Muslims, including the non-Gulf Arabs? or do you mean the Muslims and Non-Muslim Western native speakers?
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 07, 2007 9:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I had a UK colleague of Arab descent who on occasion would wear a thob and red checked headscarf.

When I mentioned the fact he said:"Well, I'd didn't feel like doing much work today, so I thought I'd dress for the part."
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PostPosted: Sun Apr 08, 2007 8:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

QoS:

�Do you mind explaining the theory behind this to me? I have always wondered why some men, who are not Saudi or from the Gulf prefer to wear thobes? Is it because of the comfort, or that they want to be associated with Gulf Arabs? They are simply traditionaly attire for men in the Gulf countries�

Even though I didn�t raise the issue, I would like to offer some reasons behind this phenomenon. It is true that the �Thobe� is the traditional attire of the Gulf Arabs however it is no longer exclusively an Arab dress inasmuch as the suit is no longer the exclusive dress of the White European as once it was. The thobe is worn in Muslim countries in Africa, Asia (Pakistan, India, Sri Lanka, Malaysia, Indonesia, etc) as is it worn in many Western countries. This is nothing strange as the world is becoming a smaller place and people are becoming more open towards other cultures.

Why do some Muslims in the west of non Arab descent wear a thobe in the West?

When many Muslims in the west decided to return to their Islamic roots they wanted to assert their Islamic identity visibly by adopting a dress which was alien to their home culture. The Gulf Arab or Saudi �thobe� was chosen simply due to the fact that the Prophet of Islam was an Arab from the Arabian peninsula and therefore his dress would have been close to that of the dress of the Gulf Arabs of today (this may not be the case). In addition these Muslims wear the thobe so that it conforms to the Islamic tradition unlike many of the Gulf Arabs. They make sure that the thobe remains above their ankles (as comes in many prophetic traditions) and they make sure it is loose enough not to show the shape of their bodies. (in sauid we see that the Saudis were thobes below their ankles sometimes dragging on the floor, also their thobes can be very tight)

Therefore it was for two main reasons: 1) to assert their own identity in a dominate culture and, 2) to resemble (in some way) the prophet of Islam and thereby the spirit of Islam.

In the end, an individual can wear whatever he/she wants from whatever culture he/she wants as long as it�s not illegal in the country they are living.

Cleo:

�Maybe it's for the same reason that some female Muslims (particularly converts) insist on wearing the black abaya, tarha and niqabb, even when they are in the 'West'. Like the thobe, this 'uniform' is not 'Islamic" dress as such, but rather is the traditional attire of Gulf women. Muslim women in other parts of the world do not of course dress like this, so why do some 'Western' Muslims insist on adopting this traditional dress?�

This is not the case. Even though Muslim men�s dress has been left quite open (as long as it covers from the navel to the knee), Muslim women�s public dress has been limited by the Islamic teachings. The Quran states in different places as does the prophet (if anyone would like specific quotes PM me) that women must cover their hair completely and draw a cloak over the rest of their bodies. Islamic scholars (past and present) have provided Muslim women with conditions for their dress being acceptable based upon Quran text and prophetic traditions (e.g. It must be loose, it must cover the body, it must not attract attention, it must be dull in colour, its must not be a dress of fame, etc.) The difference of opinion that exists amongst the Islamic scholars is whether a woman must cover her face and hands or whether that is just recommended.

Hence, the Saudi woman�s �uniform� (without its patterns, colours and fancy stuff) is an Islamic dress for Muslim women all over the world, however it is not the only one. This is the majority view of traditional orthodox Muslims (past and present) globally, so it is not for others to decide what is Islamic and what is not!
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PostPosted: Sun Apr 08, 2007 9:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The only religious requirement on a Muslim women's attire is that it should be decent. There is no requirement whatsoever to cover the hair, and the Saudi government has stated this when requested by foreign embassies.

If MA student disagrees please contact the Saudi Foreign Office and the Gran Mufti of France, amongst others, and not waste his time arguing with us.
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PostPosted: Sun Apr 08, 2007 9:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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There is no requirement whatsoever to cover the hair, and the Saudi government has stated this when requested by foreign embassies.


I find this very odd. Most Muslims - including those who do not neccessarily follow the rule themselves - would say that the hadith clearly state that women should cover their hair. I would find it strange that KSA, of all countries, should publically and officially state that Muslim women do not need to cover their hair. Plus, if the government does not belive in this requrement, why is it that the government sponsered mutaween can still be found instructing all women, not just Muslims, to cover their hair? Personally, I put more credence into what actually happens on the ground than into what the Saudis may or may not tell foreign diplo-types.

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The Quran states in different places as does the prophet (if anyone would like specific quotes PM me) that women must cover their hair completely and draw a cloak over the rest of their bodies.


Sure - but why adopt the Gulf style? As I've said, most of the world's Muslim women do not dress in this way, and they have no doubt that they are following the precepts of their faith. One can easily dress modestly without having to imitate Gulf women. Indeed, one could argue that dressing in such a style outside the Gulf will only serve to draw attention to the person, which surely defeats the whole purpose of the dress code in the first place?
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