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Relocating to China with a NNS spouse/raising a family
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bdawg



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 4:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Your Children will have to enjoy the culture of Chinese schools


While I think I could possibly accept local kindergartens and even primary schools for a child's education, I would never, never subject a child to the hell that is Chinese middle/high school. Furthermore, a graduate from a Chinese education program is more likely to face more hurdles in reaching a good, western university.

It is thinking very long term, but if I had a child who was reaching those levels of education, I would send them to an international school in preparation for studying at a western university. Unfortunately, the tuition required is most likely beyond that of even a well paid ESL worker.

Nanjing International school K-12 tuition is 158,000RMB/year.

Personally, I don't think I would raise children past a primary school age in China unless I would pulling in some serious dough, as I wouldn't feel that I would be able to offer them everything that my parents had offered me. Mandarin is a possible benefit, but I don't think it outweighs the numerous disadvantages and financial strains.
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naturegirl321



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 4:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

bdawg wrote:
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Your Children will have to enjoy the culture of Chinese schools

While I think I could possibly accept local kindergartens and even primary schools for a child's education, I would never, never subject a child to the hell that is Chinese middle/high school. Furthermore, a graduate from a Chinese education program is more likely to face more hurdles in reaching a good, western university.
It is thinking very long term, but if I had a child who was reaching those levels of education, I would send them to an international school in preparation for studying at a western university. Unfortunately, the tuition required is most likely beyond that of even a well paid ESL worker.
Nanjing International school K-12 tuition is 158,000RMB/year.
Personally, I don't think I would raise children past a primary school age in China unless I would pulling in some serious dough, as I wouldn't feel that I would be able to offer them everything that my parents had offered me. Mandarin is a possible benefit, but I don't think it outweighs the numerous disadvantages and financial strains.

We only want to stay in CHina for primary, secondary would be back in Peru. The stress over grades is too much, and besides here in Peru, most of the schools are religious which is an added benefit and they would learn how to do academic writing in Spanish as well as English.
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vikuk



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 5:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kindy and primary education are vital foundations for building those skills to take a child into further educational levels - homing in on the child's social development and problem solving capabilities. Here in China the focus is on just producing a child that on the surface seems to have learnt something - being able to recite poetry, sing songs, identify characters, play a musical instrument like a machine, copy pictures etc etc - but deeper down, being able to realise their own potential and take responsibility for their own lives these children - processed by rote learning - are often empty shells. You guys in middle school/uni see the product - these kids take years to form.
Sending your kid to kindy/primary school in China - in my opinion - would pose great problems if that child was to then move out of China to take secondary education. Of course all children and parents are different, as are schools, and situations - and this post must be taken as a genralisation - just food for thought. I�m sure a family that was really clued up could send their kids to a normal Chinese school with whole thing being a positive experience � but I�m sure it would take a lot of work and energy just monitoring the situation � before even acting on any eventual problems.
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naturegirl321



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 5:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

vikuk wrote:
Kindy and primary education are vital foundations for building those skills to take a child into further educational levels - homing in on the child's social development and problem solving capabilities. Here in China the focus is on just producing a child that on the surface seems to have learnt something - being able to recite poetry, sing songs, identify characters, play a musical instrument like a machine, copy pictures etc etc - but deeper down, being able to realise their own potential and take responsibility for their own lives these children - processed by rote learning - are often empty shells. You guys in middle school/uni see the product - these kids take years to form.
Sending your kid to kindy/primary school in China - in my opinion - would


I don't think that rote learning is limited to China. I memorised all the continents in the world for exams, math formulas that I never used, Chemistry charts and more.

Here in Peru, the emphasis is on quantity and not quality, with kids taking 12 courses a week. I don't konw how they can learn Chem in 45 minutes a week. . . .

YOu're right, a lot of it boils down to what's done at home.
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vikuk



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 5:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I don't think that rote learning is limited to China. I memorised all the continents in the world for exams, math formulas that I never used, Chemistry charts and more.

Here rote learning is everything - even for uni students. Before exams you see them reciting books memorising texts - its appaling!!!!
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tw



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 5:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The most important issue to keep in mind is your husband's visa. While the school will have an obligation to sponsor a Z visa for you, they don't have to do so for your husband and as such, he'll have to come with a tourist visa and getting it extended every month or every three months can be quite a hassle.

The only solution is to find a school that is looking for English AND Spanish FT's.
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naturegirl321



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 6:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

tw wrote:
The most important issue to keep in mind is your husband's visa. While the school will have an obligation to sponsor a Z visa for you, they don't have to do so for your husband and as such, he'll have to come with a tourist visa and getting it extended every month or every three months can be quite a hassle.

The only solution is to find a school that is looking for English AND Spanish FT's.


Really? The FT where I worked had the school do the Z visas for his wife and four kids. He's worked at four schools and all have done this. Plus one of them paid for all of them to go back to NZ for two weeks. And this teacher didn't even have a BA, just life experience and he was a great teacher.
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Steppenwolf



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 6:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It is terribly hard to give someone so obsessed with coming to CHina any sound advice: you have set your mind and won't tolerate diverging opinions...

Has it occurred to you that your Peruvian husband might dislike China? Or the Changchun climate? Or the social life that revolves around meeting fellow English speakers to the detriment of Spanish speakers?

And you should take your child's interests more seriously! It seems transplanting families to China in the interest of making one's progeny bilingual has become a major fashion statement to make; you don't know how hard up foreign children are in Chinese classrooms where they stand out like a green Mars man.

Others have pointed out the gruelling quality of Chinese classroom management: it's not just rote-learning - it's the killing off at a tender age of the child his or her ability to think for themselves, to imagine things, to think outside a box.

And it's the never-ending cascade of homework assignments to keep them busy rather than to teach them anything useful. Their spare time gets controlled this way; there is little time left for pure recreational activities.

Your child, once accustomed to the Chinese teaching methodology, will find it hard to adjust to a different style.

I think a western child should not be put through a Chinese kindergarten; if you want to do your child a favour and benefit from local Mandarin instruction, enrol him or her at a primary school for one year. One year is enough! After that, your child deserves better, and Mandarin can be taught as an extra subject anywhere in the world. Maybe you can practise with your child by then! But putting your child through more than one year deprives your child of the avenues a humane education has to offer!

And don't forget - foreign kids are also viewed as cash cows now by Chinese schools of every level!
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naturegirl321



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 6:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Steppenwolf wrote:
It is terribly hard to give someone so obsessed with coming to CHina any sound advice: you have set your mind and won't tolerate diverging opinions...
Has it occurred to you that your Peruvian husband might dislike China? Or the Changchun climate? Or the social life that revolves around meeting fellow English speakers to the detriment of Spanish speakers?
And you should take your child's interests more seriously! It seems transplanting families to China in the interest of making one's progeny bilingual has become a major fashion statement to make; you don't know how hard up foreign children are in Chinese classrooms where they stand out like a green Mars man.
Others have pointed out the gruelling quality of Chinese classroom management: it's not just rote-learning - it's the killing off at a tender age of the child his or her ability to think for themselves, to imagine things, to think outside a box.
And it's the never-ending cascade of homework assignments to keep them busy rather than to teach them anything useful. Their spare time gets controlled this way; there is little time left for pure recreational activities.
Your child, once accustomed to the Chinese teaching methodology, will find it hard to adjust to a different style.
I think a western child should not be put through a Chinese kindergarten; if you want to do your child a favour and benefit from local Mandarin instruction, enrol him or her at a primary school for one year. One year is enough! After that, your child deserves better, and Mandarin can be taught as an extra subject anywhere in the world. Maybe you can practise with your child by then! But putting your child through more than one year deprives your child of the avenues a humane education has to offer!
And don't forget - foreign kids are also viewed as cash cows now by Chinese schools of every level!


My husband have talked about moving to China, before we married. ANd as for the cold weather, he's excited, never even seen snow except on TV. As for kids, well, we don't have them yet, first we want to move to another country before having them, so there's no adjusting to do. About being cash cows, FTs are also regarded as such.
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tw



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 6:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

naturegirl321 wrote:
ANd as for the cold weather, he's excited, never even seen snow except on TV.


He could be in for a hell of a shock when he gets a taste of Changchun's winter. Ask him how he feels about -20 to -30 Celsius.
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blowinlicks



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 7:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Perdoname, pero usted hablas espanol, no? Hablame en mi correo: deebartok@ yahoo.com. Puedo ayudarse...

DM Dowse
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colonel



Joined: 19 Jul 2005
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Location: Nanyang and Cha-Am

PostPosted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 9:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Steppenwolf wrote:


Your opinion or evidential? My daughter is here purely to learn Mandarin and learn how to socialise with her peer group(s). She's attending an excellent, well resourced kindergarden which is as good as I've seen in the West and; better than anything local to me in Thailand, where safety issues are not on the agenda. The O.P. asked a subjective question and for you to answer in the above manner is not constructive.
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colonel



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 9:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

P.S.

[quote="Steppenwolf"]

I think a western child should not be put through a Chinese kindergarten; if you want to do your child a favour and benefit from local Mandarin instruction, enrol him or her at a primary school for one year. One year is enough! quote]
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lychee



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 11:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have a friend in China whose children attend local schools and have done for many years.

They are amazing. They are confident outgoing, speak like the natives and are doing well in school. A pleasure to talk to. Their father has a business here though so money is never a problem but they chose to send their kids to local schools.

I met another foreign kid a month ago, grade six,again lovely, no problem with the local school. He had a British accent, had only been there once and can read and write both languages well.

I asked one of the kids who is in primary school did the teacher let you do other stuff in English class? No, I have to follow the lesson like the other children. That I thought was stupid

I know this is anecdotal but I was very impressed with these kids.

OP I would be looking for a city that needs Spanish teachers and then you find a job in that city.

Good luck with whatever you decide on
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HunanForeignGuy



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 17, 2007 11:48 am    Post subject: China Reply with quote

Your Z visa and resident permit should automatically be extended to your husband and to your children. You just need to indicate that on all of the relevant applications where you are asked with whom you are travelling.

There are Spanish available here in China; they come up irregularly but they are hard to fill when they do come up. There is one prominent university in Jilin that comes to mind as well as various schools in other provinces. Your husband will most likely need to have a university degree and I hope that he does as that will gain him access to the university jobs.

As for coming to China on a Romanian or Peruvian passport to teach English, that would complicate your life beyond all complications and cause you to loose many good jobs.

Next, you can pull this entire thing off with just a little difficulty but you will need to check all of the sites that offer jobs for Spanish teachers. Such sites do exist.

All the best,


HFG
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