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Susan WW



Joined: 24 Jul 2007
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Location: Japan

PostPosted: Sun Jul 29, 2007 12:49 am    Post subject: working in Saudi Arabia Reply with quote

Any possiblity to hear feedback from expats who are non-americans or british.. who has been in KSA working and living..
All I have heard so far is negative responses...and complaints about humidity, prison like accomodation, visa procedure, same gender harasssment, certified documents problems....etc.
I need not hear stories which expats cannot/aren`t allowed to do...
just want to know how to enjoy and make the most of it while one is there..
If you know any good things one should look forward to, share it with me, and with all readers.
Or anyone could give me info on any website or local one,etc. to hear the other side of stories..
Thanks Very Happy
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007



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PostPosted: Sun Jul 29, 2007 6:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Susan wrote:
Any possiblity to hear feedback from expats who are non-americans or british.. who has been in KSA working and living..
All I have heard so far is negative responses...and complaints about humidity, prison like accomodation, visa procedure, same gender harasssment, certified documents problems....etc.

Unfortunately, the majority of non-Americans and non-British expats complaint about working and living in the magic kingdom, but their complaints are different from those of Americans and British. The majority of the non-Americans and non-British complaints are about: ill-treatment from the Saudis, low salary compared to native speakers with blue/green eyes, getting visit-visa to close family members, employer discrimination, etc.

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just want to know how to enjoy and make the most of it while one is there..

The Saudi ambassador to USA once said the following:
"fire warms the body, the body and friendship warms the heart."
So, I do not know what he meant by that, but I think he said it for some kind of propaganda for the magic kingdom!

My opinion, if you want to enjoy your life in KSA, you need to have:

1. Low expectations
2. Big patience
3. Big 'shock absorption' of Saudi culture
4. the 'acceptability' from you side to 'forget' and 'leave' some of your 'female' rights in Japan.
5. Etc,

Remember, the above are my opinions, and it is up to you how you are going to implement, or ignore them.
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Susan WW



Joined: 24 Jul 2007
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 29, 2007 11:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thank you for your side of the story.
Still your answer is not what I really wanted. Perhaps, you didnt understand my question., or I didnt make myself clear,heehee.

Anyway, For information, I am not from Japan, just happen to be teaching in Japan for the time being.
It was unbelievebly hard when I first arrived to Japan 2 years ago,I was teaching at Public schools, between Japanese school teachers/Education Authority staff, and me, mutual misunderstanding, negative responses,etc..
As of today, I could strike a converstaion in Japanese with any Locals, ranging from Prime Minister Abe`s advisor to some country/village people(not YMCA/Macho man) who speak local dialect. I can even ask any principal to sing a song for me. They love karaoke, you all know that. Yes, how to break Japanese ice, this is what I have learnt, so anyone coming to Japan, please PM me.more than happy to share.

All the same, the complaints I read about KSA/Mid-east are really useful for a new comer, and thanks.
Tell me more if you come up with any more D`s and Dont`s.
Susan
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trapezius



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PostPosted: Sun Jul 29, 2007 2:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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just want to know how to enjoy


eating at restaurants
shopping in malls
going to the beach (if on coast)

that's it.

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As of today, I could strike a converstaion in Japanese with any Locals, ranging from Prime Minister Abe`s advisor to some country/village people(not YMCA/Macho man) who speak local dialect. I can even ask any principal to sing a song for me.


forget about that here! chances are nearly 100% that you will leave this country speaking at most 10 phrases/sentences, even after 3 or 4 years. that's how much you will learn from your environment naturally. of course, if you buy a language pack with a book and cds to learn arabic yourself, and then try to practise it, that's up to you.
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Susan WW



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PostPosted: Sun Jul 29, 2007 9:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Are you saying that arab colleagues dont talk to you(me) at work , do they only use English, do all of them speak English but dont socialize with expat(teacher) outside work hours?? Can all students speak English
( I wonder they speak better Englsih then I do??)??What do they (arab colleagues) do after work, go home spend time with family or any visible activity they enjoy in public????
How about local arab speaking people, do they speak to foreigners/you??Or do you chat with them?Or is it fobidden too?
Sounds like hostile unsociable people living in KSA, Sad
I know many muslims from all over the world in NZ and they are very sociable, and happy to say Hi to anyone, and chat.
life must be very hard for Arab muslims under religious constraints.
Some of my students from Asian countries, learning English in NZ, ended up leaving NZ being unable to communicate effectively in English, because they all stick to thier own flock, eat thier own food, and not open up to locals. Some`d join local churches (impossible in KSA for non Muslims), or night classes/ local cook classes,etc.. (possible in KSA??)., doing better.
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Stephen Jones



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PostPosted: Sun Jul 29, 2007 10:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The problem with learning Arabic in Saudi is twofold.

The first problem is that because of your line of work you will not need Arabic to get on with colleagues. The second is that because most shop assistants and service personnel come from Asia they will speak English rather than Arabic. Their jobs are becoming Saudiized but they are being Saudiized by Saudis who speak good English.

The second problem is identity. When I lived in Catalonia I didn't need Catalan as I spoke fluent Spanish. But I learnt it because I wanted to be a Catalan. Much as I like many aspects of Saudi Arabia I don't want to be a Saudi.
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007



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PostPosted: Sun Jul 29, 2007 10:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Stephen Jones wrote:
Much as I like many aspects of Saudi Arabia I don't want to be a Saudi.

Why?

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The second problem is identity

Is the identity problem only valid for Arabic language, or is a general problem with any language?

I know some people did not live in America or Britain and do not like many aspects of America or Britain, but still they speak English!
And some Indians/Pakistani were born in Britain and speak fluent English (native speaker), BUT still have identity problem (British/Indian/Pakistani).
So, how do you explain this?
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Bob Gorn



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PostPosted: Sun Jul 29, 2007 10:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The problem is NOT that Saudis are hostile or unfriendly. In fact, you will find most of them to be almost heartbreakingly friendly and somewhat desperate to give you a good impression of themselves and their country. Most Saudis that I have met are very talkative and willing to go out of their way to show you the best side of KSA. It will be very different from the usual experience in Japan. Saudis do not hesitate to develop close, personal friendships with foreigners.

As for liking the country....I'm from the US, and I know you asked for non-US replies, but this is my two cents anyway. You won't find many non-Muslims who like Saudi Arabia. The country is sand and ugly concrete buildings, and even the deserts and the beaches are loaded with trash. Even looking beyond the restrictions on Western lifestyles, there is nothing to do... even conservative Muslims complain of boredom in KSA.

However, the good news is that you will find plenty of people who enjoy their lives in Saudi Arabia. They may not like the place, but it is possible for people to develop a circle of friends, have a healthy family life, and enjoy work. I've even known British teenagers who loved their lives in the Kingdom so much that they didn't want to leave to go to college. Life on a compound can result in close personal bonds with others, and if you can stand that kind of closeness, you might really enjoy yourself.
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trapezius



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PostPosted: Sun Jul 29, 2007 11:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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In fact, you will find most of them to be almost heartbreakingly friendly and somewhat desperate to give you a good impression of themselves and their country. Most Saudis that I have met are very talkative and willing to go out of their way to show you the best side of KSA.


Qualification of that statement: True in general only if you are white and/or speak fluent English without a non-Western accent.
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Susan WW



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PostPosted: Mon Jul 30, 2007 3:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

[quote="trapezius"]
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True in general only if you are white and/or speak fluent English without a non-Western accent.
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Susan WW



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PostPosted: Mon Jul 30, 2007 3:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

[quote="trapezius"]
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eating at restaurants
shopping in malls
going to the beach (if on coast)





Does one need to be in KSA to enjoy these activities, but sounds like
good restaurants, and nice beaches to swim... but what can one buy at shooping mall??


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scot47



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PostPosted: Mon Jul 30, 2007 3:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

' Does one needs to be in KSA '

Maybe this sort of basic grammatical error explains why Saudi employers prefer native speakers ?
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Susan WW



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PostPosted: Mon Jul 30, 2007 4:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

scot47 wrote:
' Does one needs to be in KSA '

Maybe this sort of basic grammatical error explains why Saudi employers prefer native speakers ?


well, there are two sides of the coin..
cant you view this as typing error??
Remember we are only communicating and you are the one who answers my q, . I didnt know you had a paid job on this site here.
My advice to you is "Focus on fluency rather than accuracy if you want to be in a social circle." Wink
Are you a native speaker who holds educational qualifications ?? Rolling Eyes
If so, how about some on line private lessons??PM me. Laughing
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The_Prodiigy



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PostPosted: Mon Jul 30, 2007 11:56 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Saudi Arabia is an unendearing place. Physically there is little to offer - a dearth of variety (lots of sand; the cities ugly and sprawling)

The roads are jammed, the streets dirty and dusty, the architecture horrid.

Without exception, shops and offices close for prayer time, the corner mosques bellowing out the wotsits with brass bells loudly.

Non-muslims are exempt, but the sounds constantly disturb any inner-peace you may have.

I found the administration of the schools and colleges shockingly inept and adhoc. The students, with few noble exceptions lazy and highly prone to cheating. Music is halal, art and free-thinking discouraged and no decent Thorntons or opportunities to jam.

Closed-mind country that sticks two fingers up to logical thinking.
They have created a false society that imposes draconian restriction on movement, speech, relationships, humour ... ... ... ....

Satire is non-existent there.

When you see the hypocricy between what the "princes" teach and the lifestyles they lead regular folk become cynical and furious.

Unique.
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PostPosted: Mon Jul 30, 2007 11:57 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I am reluctant to write to people who use GREEN ! Attention-seeking behaviour which indicates a deeply neurotic and exhibitionist personality.

This is even more true where this GREEN person has expressed a desire not to hear from USANIANS or UKANIANS, and admits to having adopted the 'One True Faith'.
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