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Fullman
Joined: 23 Jun 2006 Posts: 3
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Posted: Sat Nov 03, 2007 7:34 am Post subject: Greater constraints on 'Muslim' women teachers? |
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I am considering teaching in the Middle East and whilst I have the usual concerns I imagine many women moving to the area might have, in my case there may be additional complicating factors.
I hold a UK passport, I am a native speaker and all of my degrees were obtained in the UK. However, I was not born in the UK, I have a 'brown face' and an obviously Muslim name. I'm wondering if anyone has any thoughts about how this is likely to impact on my experience of working in the ME and on expectations of me.
In particular, I am concerned about the sorts of constraints a female teacher of apparently Muslim faith might face compared to her non-Muslim counterparts.
I say apparently because I am a 'non-practising' Muslim.
In your opinion, how is this likely to influence expectations regarding my behaviour and tolerance towards any obvious differences in my behaviour compared to local norms?
Are people less likely to be accepting of my adopting a more 'Western' dress code for example? I�m not talking about walking around the local market in shorts and t-shirt, rather not necessarily covering my hair even if that's the norm locally but not among 'Western' women.
Are there likely to be expectations that I will conform strictly to local/Muslim codes of conduct? Am I likely to be expected to pray or fast, for example, and what is likely to be the reaction if I don't?
Are employers likely to discriminate in terms of the offers I might receive simply because I might not be perceived to be English despite being British.
Are there any other issues I haven't anticipated that might be problematic? Are other foreign teachers likely to make assumptions, for instance that I am not a native-speaker or not qualified.
Conversely, are there likely to be any advantages?
Or am I simply blowing this out of all proportion?
I realise these probably are difficult questions to respond to since as far as I can tell there are no other female teachers of a similar �profile� posting on these forums. Nonetheless, any relevant suggestions or thoughts would be most welcome.
I imagine there are probably vast differences between countries. As part of this is trying to work out which might be the most comfortable (by which I mean the least intrusive) to live in, I�d be grateful, too, for any thoughts about cross-country differences, assuming people feel about to comment.
Thanks very much!
(I did try a search, but couldn't find much that was directly relevant to my questions, except for some, sometimes contradictory, references to the dis/advantages of being a Muslim and/or being 'non-White' with a British or American passport.) |
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Sheikh Inal Ovar

Joined: 04 Dec 2005 Posts: 1208 Location: Melo Drama School
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Posted: Sat Nov 03, 2007 10:12 am Post subject: |
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In the UAE, there is no standard attire for female muslims .. the ladies dress pretty much as they would in their own (muslim) countries ... some in the abbaya, headscarf & veil ... some in loose clothes and a headscarf ... some in tight fitting clothes and a headscarf ... and some in whatever they fancy .. be it a blouse and slacks, or just jeans and a t-shirt - the only difference being that they might not wear the racier outfits they would feel comfortable in back home ..
My wife, a muslim, is working at a high-school where many of the other teachers have a more conservative understanding of the faith than she possesses, and they all get on fine .. of course, she's not invited to Koran reading parties and her soul is prayed for from time to time .. but she receives no pressure or hostility from her (mainly Egyptian & Lebanese) colleagues ... |
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007

Joined: 30 Oct 2006 Posts: 2684 Location: UK/Veteran of the Magic Kingdom
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Posted: Sat Nov 03, 2007 10:43 am Post subject: Re: Greater constraints on 'Muslim' women teachers? |
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Fullman wrote: |
Are there likely to be expectations that I will conform strictly to local/Muslim codes of conduct? Am I likely to be expected to pray or fast, for example, and what is likely to be the reaction if I don't?
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I do not think that in UAE anybody will oblige you to conform strictly to Muslim codes of conduct! But, I guess if other Muslims (even non-practising ones) will look at you with a disrespect if, for example, in Ramadan you do not fast and eat in public in front of them, in this case you will not be respected even from non-Muslim, because you will be contracting yourself!
I know a lot of �non-practising� Muslims in UK, even some of them drinks, but when it comes to fasting, they fast as any other Muslim. And if they do not fast they keep it secret between themselves and their God.
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..references to the dis/advantages of being a Muslim and/or being 'non-White' with a British or American passport. .. |
Definitely, being a Muslim, �non-white� with a RED passport is advantageous compared with somebody with similar characteristics but without the RED passport. |
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Sheikh Inal Ovar

Joined: 04 Dec 2005 Posts: 1208 Location: Melo Drama School
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Posted: Sat Nov 03, 2007 2:56 pm Post subject: Re: Greater constraints on 'Muslim' women teachers? |
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00-Zero wrote: |
I do not think that in UAE anybody will oblige you to conform strictly to Muslim codes of conduct! But, I guess if other Muslims (even non-practising ones) will look at you with a disrespect if, for example, in Ramadan you do not fast and eat in public in front of them, in this case you will not be respected even from non-Muslim, because you will be contracting yourself!
I know a lot of �non-practising� Muslims in UK, even some of them drinks, but when it comes to fasting, they fast as any other Muslim. And if they do not fast they keep it secret between themselves and their God.
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There's a rather big difference between (a) not fasting and (b) eating in public in front of someone who is fasting ....
You will not be disrepected by all muslims for being a non-fasting Muslim - although it seems you can count on little or zero respect from 00-Zero ... and you would almost certainly not be disrespected by non-Muslims for not fasting ... but ...
... you could theoretically be arrested by the police for eating in public ... |
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mishmumkin
Joined: 01 Sep 2007 Posts: 929
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Posted: Sat Nov 03, 2007 9:03 pm Post subject: |
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There are 'religious' schools in the UAE that will require the Muslim women on staff to veil...School of Research Science comes to mind first. They expect a high level of modesty from all teachers, but Muslim teachers, regardless of where they're from, are required to veil. This does happen in other K-12 schools like Research Science, though I wouldn't say it's commonplace. |
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