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Paul76 · Joined: 09 Nov 2007 Posts: 6

Can an unmarried couple live together in UAE?

mishmumkin · Joined: 01 Sep 2007 Posts: 929

Legally, no. Though in reality it does happen. This is probably easier to do in Dubai or Abu Dhabi and less so in the more conservative parts of the country. For the neighbours' collective benefit (and many/most of your colleagues) I would still tell people that you're married. I' worked w/ teaching couples who were instructed by our employer to tell everyone that they were married. Other employers would completely object if they knew.

Does your partner have a job in the UAE already?

veiledsentiments · Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA

I agree with mishmumkin. I would add two caveats... if you are in a bi-racial relationship, you may very likely draw attention that could demand proof of marriage. Two Westerners would rarely be bothered.

But... it is illegal, and can be used against you by neighbors who may be offended. So, it is best to tell everyone that you are married.

Another issue is long term visas. If only one of you has a job, you can't sponsor the other person. so, also check into visa rules.

VS

adorabilly · Joined: 20 May 2006 Posts: 430 Location: Ras Al Khaimah

I saw this thread yesterday and thought of replying to it.

1. Visas would be an issue. If both of you are working, then your visa's would be provided by your employers so it works. If one of you are not working, the visa becomes a real issue.
2. Housing.- again if both of you are working you will be provided housing by your seperate employers.. no problem. But if one of you are not working and you ask your employer to provide larger housing because of your gf/bf, the employer may not help you out.. or may even turn you in.
3. Living together- again if both of you are working, keep both sets of housing, and just live in one. Go back to the other flat from time to time to pick up things, to drop things off (or use it for work purposes)

Most folks won't care as long as you keep it discrete and are not flaunting it in the faces of your neighbors (who may be muslim and would not approve).

Paul76 · Joined: 09 Nov 2007 Posts: 6

Thank you for the information. I am very grateful for everyones help.