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Bondi007
Joined: 29 Jan 2008 Posts: 214 Location: recovering Chinaholic...smelling the clean beach air, Sydney Australia
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Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 3:58 pm Post subject: |
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| I hope I've picked the right school...anyway I arrive in China on Monday...fingers crossed! |
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Bondi007
Joined: 29 Jan 2008 Posts: 214 Location: recovering Chinaholic...smelling the clean beach air, Sydney Australia
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Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 3:37 am Post subject: |
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OK...so I've just arrived. Most of the things I've read about China seem to be true...positives: good teaching job, cheap everything, great students, curious stares, slower pace, interesting people, funny Chinglish...negatives: spitting, difficult language to learn, drivers, dirt, pollution, alienation (not knowing the language) etc.
I supposed time will tell and I'll enjoy the place a lot more when I establish a base of friends here (Chinese and Foreign).
How do you meet people/women without knowing much Chinese??? |
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dialogger
Joined: 14 Mar 2005 Posts: 419 Location: China
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Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 5:02 am Post subject: |
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Hey Bondi - great you've made it.
Remember Dalian is one of the better places! |
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voodikon

Joined: 23 Sep 2004 Posts: 1363 Location: chengdu
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Posted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 6:35 am Post subject: |
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| How do you meet people/women without knowing much Chinese??? |
presuming you're a man--but then again, even if you're not--one good place to start might be to mentally include "women" in the category "people."
anyway, welcome and all that. there's a lot more here to offer than fast hookups, and if you've just arrived, chances are you came here seeking something (if that something was a girlfriend/wife, ignore this), so why not focus on finding that first? |
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Bondi007
Joined: 29 Jan 2008 Posts: 214 Location: recovering Chinaholic...smelling the clean beach air, Sydney Australia
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Posted: Tue Mar 11, 2008 4:02 pm Post subject: |
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| Yes, male...my long time girlfriend didn't want to come to China...so we broke up on the 11th hour and here I am. The idea was for us to teach here together...therefore I didn't come here to 'find' a Chinese women. Now that I'm here I was wondering how the whole 'dating' thing works in conjunction with my original plans of teaching in China. Also I agree with you of course women are in the 'people' category! Just came out wrong. |
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voodikon

Joined: 23 Sep 2004 Posts: 1363 Location: chengdu
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| well, there are plenty of chinese folk who can speak decent english. there are also foreigners who will likely speak english. and, of course, you can always start working on learning chinese. and then there are always those who don't mind not sharing a common language with the person they're dating. but mostly, from what i've seen, how the "whole dating thing works" (at least for the foreigners here) is that it doesn't. |
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2 over lee

Joined: 07 Sep 2004 Posts: 1125 Location: www.specialbrewman.blogspot.com
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Posted: Tue Mar 11, 2008 11:04 pm Post subject: |
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| presuming you're a man--but then again, even if you're not--one good place to start might be to mentally include "women" in the category "people." |
I've read some weird stuff on these forums to be sure, but this, THIS, is going too far
Bondi, I advise that you don't rush things. Most guys I know who got married in China (I don't know too many women who got married in China) landed themselves in a relationship pretty quickly and then sometimes regretted this later (or not of course as the case may be).
As you are here for longer naturally you'll have a better idea as to the character and aims of the local women - and therefore be more able to deal with their expectations as well as fulfilling your own.
So just play around for a bit is what I guess I am wafflingly suggesting. |
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arioch36
Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 3589
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Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 7:32 am Post subject: |
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| Depends on what kind of women you want to meet. Many know English |
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2 over lee

Joined: 07 Sep 2004 Posts: 1125 Location: www.specialbrewman.blogspot.com
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Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2008 9:21 am Post subject: |
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| they know English and know what you may want to hear |
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andrewtphelps
Joined: 31 Mar 2008 Posts: 24 Location: U.S.A.
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Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 7:13 am Post subject: |
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| I was hoping some of you could tell me about some good schools to teach at? That would be so helpful in my search. Also, when is a good time of year to apply? |
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Saiops
Joined: 11 Jun 2007 Posts: 11 Location: Beijing,
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Posted: Fri Apr 11, 2008 1:55 pm Post subject: GO figure if it is related |
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LOL Sounds more like my girlfriend.
Actually, was going to go back to the states, but after they lost 1 million votes in Ohio because they didn't expect a high turn out I thought things were still the same. I have done the S.E. asia thing but China is comfortable.
Lots of my teachers don't think they can go back to a 40 hour week again. These 12-20 hour dealies are easy to get used to LOL |
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Brian Caulfield
Joined: 14 Sep 2004 Posts: 1247 Location: China
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Posted: Sat Apr 12, 2008 6:22 am Post subject: |
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I have been here for four years and don't have a pot to pizz in for it . My passport is gone and the best that can happen is deportation.
Bring lots of money and enjoy China. Make sure all your valuables are insured and you have a good medical program. |
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2 over lee

Joined: 07 Sep 2004 Posts: 1125 Location: www.specialbrewman.blogspot.com
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| Hi Brian, that doesn't sound too good man. What happened to your passport? Can you share with us here on Dave's? In any case good luck... |
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lf_aristotle69
Joined: 06 May 2006 Posts: 546 Location: HangZhou, China
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2008 4:18 am Post subject: |
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Brian, that would suck. I hope you've got your embassy and the law/PSB involved, especially if it was a school that took it and not some random bag snatch. (For the pedants - Yes, of course those parties should be involved, no matter what.)
For Bondi007. Try the guide to teaching and living in China here:
http://middlekingdomlife.com/website/files/FT_Guide_to_China.pdf
It's been linked to a few times here on Daves, and it seems to get good reviews... It looks like the website is a good idea, but doesn't seem to get much traffic unfortunately. It's good that the guide is available though.
There're a couple of pure ESL teaching guides around as well. I'll see if I can find a link to one I like... Good to supplement whatever training a beginner has had.
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Here's a beginning ESL teaching guide (well, it's actually for a particular program) that has good theoretical and practical advice on ESL teaching; including preparation, methodology and classroom issues.
http://www.britishcouncil.org/languageassistant-manual.htm
You can also find some good stuff on the "Teaching Updates" link on the left side of the page.
Another BBC/British Council site that has some good info is:
http://www.teachingenglish.org.uk/
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LFA
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Brian Caulfield
Joined: 14 Sep 2004 Posts: 1247 Location: China
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2008 6:17 am Post subject: |
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It is my fault for not signing a contract. The school wanted to make sure I passed my medical and was not a bad teacher. So I think it was offed by a teacher I live with who insulted me in my house. He has many late night fights with his ex wife. She was at our home when he stormed out probably with my passport. I didn't notice it missing till I was asked for it . In China my passport gets asked for five times a month . So quite often it is left on the desk by the front door.
I can't prove that he took it . And the last thing you do with embassies is say it was stolen. You must say it was misplaced and then they will ask you and have you write where it was misplaced. Kind of a dumb question.
. So when I lost the passport I went to Shanghai did the all the paper work and now the school says I must have the passport by next week. The consolate says it will take three weeks. So that is the rub.
But what happens if I have nothing? Can I be deported? I have had my fill of China and this you lose lose system and they win win is getting tiring.
This top school I work at now has student teachers working for them. A great deal for them. Free teachers. At the same time the jerk who probably ripped me off is getting 200 per class because he runs his classrooms like a nazi. The students here expect it. They want you to make them learn English. |
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