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Joined: 30 Oct 2006 Posts: 2684 Location: UK/Veteran of the Magic Kingdom
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Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 10:55 am Post subject: |
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Aliskander wrote: |
.. as a non Muslim woman in an abbaya and no headscarf is often thought to be a prostitute or a 'loose woman'. |
I do not think so, in the contrary, the majority of Muslim population, whether in Oman or elsewhere, they interpret that a non-Muslim woman wearing an abbaya is a respect for the local culture, nothing else.
Also, I think it is, for example in Dubai, that the Russian prostitutes wear abbayas to hide their �dirty� business while they work in some of the hotels, in this context, yes may be some Arab men while they are in the �red� zones interpret the Western/Russian women with abbayas as �prostitutes�, but it is a minority view!
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Wearing of traditional style long dresses or any type of long dress with long sleeves or a blouse / cardigan on top is very accepted and liked as it does show that are a 'good person'. |
Well, what about 'bad person'? Is it the opposite?
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I can wear any material and it does not affect my body temperatur, |
Well, it may not affect your body temperature, but I guess it will affect the temperature of the other person who is looking at you! .
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My usual work attire is either a skirt or dress (that sweep the floor!) or a suit with a blouse or smart t shirt underneath. |
What about the shoes/sandals? Any specific type or style? |
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lall
Joined: 30 Dec 2006 Posts: 358
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Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 12:09 pm Post subject: Statement |
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Aliskander wrote: |
Being a teacher in Oman is still a position to be respected and you would be expected to reinforce that by your dress code. |
Imho, I think that the statement above just about sums it up.
The locals are smart enough to sense whether your wearing of the abaya is just for novelty's sake or otherwise. Conservative dressing in your native style would yield better results, I think. |
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fof
Joined: 08 Apr 2008 Posts: 20
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Posted: Sun Apr 27, 2008 9:56 am Post subject: |
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You were right Duffy, Aliskander's advice was excellent..had I known she was a woman there wouldn't have been any misgivings on my part
Thanks for the interesting comments and good advice everyone. |
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fof
Joined: 08 Apr 2008 Posts: 20
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 8:59 am Post subject: |
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[Generally locals don't mind to see a westerner in an abbaya but think it is a bit odd as you are not a Muslim so why would you try and portray yourself as one?]
Hmm..I wasn't really thinking of an abbaya as being "Muslim" truth told, but rather "Omani" or "Arab"..in the west a lot of Muslims wear western style clothing + headscarf, not "Christian" clothing, in India a lot of non-Hindus (including Christians) wear Salwar Kameez (not "Hindu" clothing...)...but, I guess there is a closer link with religion and clothing in the Gulf. |
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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 1:47 pm Post subject: |
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Actually, when I arrived in Oman, it was very rare to even see an abaya and only Sur (and the Bedu at Wahiba) used facial coverings. Traditional Omani women's dress has always been very different from the rest of the Gulf - very VERY colorful and more like the Shalwar Khamis. (the style obviously came from Baluchistan)
In the UAE, the abaya and the face veil appear to be almost universal. In Kuwait, less than 10% of the women in my section of KU wore an abaya and none covered their faces. In Egypt, an abaya is only worn by the country women.
Although I do tend to think of the abaya as "Muslim," it is merely a traditional fashion around the Middle East and still worn by rural Christians in some places.
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