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spunkmonkey



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PostPosted: Fri Jun 19, 2009 4:39 am    Post subject: social life in Saudi? Reply with quote

I am curious about the type of social life one can enjoy working in Saudi.

Without access to a beer and all the eye-candy being covered up, what si there to do?
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sugardaddy22



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Location: Al Ain

PostPosted: Fri Jun 19, 2009 6:57 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wait for a your exit/re-entry visa and go to Bahrain, go to Bahrain, go to Bahrain...with any luck you will be posted near "the Gates of Heaven" ie. the Kind Fahd Causeway.
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mouse5



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PostPosted: Fri Jun 19, 2009 6:59 am    Post subject: social life!!!!!!!!! Reply with quote

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Without access to a beer and all the eye-candy being covered up, what si there to do?


Devour mountains of pulp fiction paperbacks. Sit glued to the TV. Browse the Net all day. Read every single post on this website. Get stoned on homebrew. Fantasize about what you'd find under that abeya if you had the chance.

Apply to join the panel on this one.

http://www.theaustralian.news.com.au/story/0,25197,25447636-29677,00.html

or this one

http://www.anorak.co.uk/strange-but-true/209795.html

Applications are limited to blind clerics over the age of 90.

You might want to take some time to prepare your lessons. A few minutes should do it.
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spunkmonkey



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PostPosted: Fri Jun 19, 2009 10:36 am    Post subject: * Reply with quote

If there really isn't anything to do, why do people choose to teach in Saudi (with the exception of the money - which doesn't seem to be such an incentive when compared to the lifetyle choices detailed above)?

Is this all there really is?
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Cleopatra



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PostPosted: Fri Jun 19, 2009 11:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Is this all there really is?


Actually no.

Nobody will claim that Riyadh is Paris, but there are some options. There are plenty of compound parties or embassy/consulate parties if you can get invites. And yes, 'refreshments' will be available and you can drool over the uncovered 'eye candy' - though be aware, as a male, that the proportion of single women to single men is not in your favour.

If you're into sports there are some excellent facilities, and the winter weather in most parts of KSA is perfect for outdoor activities. If you live in a compound, you may have everything you need literally on your doorstep. There are also some good restaurants in the cities, though the atmosphere can be severely lacking.

One thing I will say about any form of a social life in KSA is that you have to be assertive and go looking for it. If you expect it to simply present itself to you on a plate, you may well find yourself having the sort of lifestyle mouse describes.
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veiledsentiments



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PostPosted: Fri Jun 19, 2009 1:48 pm    Post subject: Re: * Reply with quote

spunkmonkey wrote:
If there really isn't anything to do, why do people choose to teach in Saudi (with the exception of the money - which doesn't seem to be such an incentive when compared to the lifetyle choices detailed above)?

This is why your find an older crowd teaching in the Gulf. Many are married with families which provide plenty to do. Many have "been there and done that" and need to save for retirement, and the quiet lifestyle of relaxing at home with books, TV, or the net is good enough... especially when you have a nice long summer holiday with a ticket in your hand.

It is certainly not the best choice for the 20-something party crowd. Laughing

VS
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johnslat



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PostPosted: Fri Jun 19, 2009 4:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear sugardaddy22,

"Wait for a your exit/re-entry visa and go to Bahrain, go to Bahrain, go to Bahrain...with any luck you will be posted near "the Gates of Heaven" ie. the Kind Fahd Causeway."

Ah, but will "the Gates of Heaven" soon be locked?

June 9, 2009

MANAMA, Bahrain -- Every weekend, bumper-to-bumper traffic blocks the causeway into this small island nation as visitors from nearby Saudi Arabia flock to delights unavailable at home: movie theaters, bars and, for some, commercial sex.

With few other attractions, Bahrain's booming tourism industry thrives on the island's reputation as a freewheeling oasis just a short drive from major Saudi cities. Bahrain has little oil of its own; tourism, mostly by the four million Saudis who cross the causeway each year, accounts for a tenth of its economy.

All of this is endangered, as Bahraini legislators press to scrap the country's drinking laws -- currently the most liberal in the Persian Gulf -- and to impose near-total prohibition."

http://online.wsj.com/article/SB124450701841896319.html

Answer: Probably not - who kills the goose that lays the golden eggs?
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spunkmonkey



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PostPosted: Sat Jun 20, 2009 4:11 am    Post subject: * Reply with quote

Thank you. I have a clearer picture now.

I was wondering about commercial gyms in Saudi. Are they plentiful and affordable?

Also, is the internet heavily censored/restricted?

Thank you for your patience regarding my questions.

S&M
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Cleopatra



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PostPosted: Sat Jun 20, 2009 1:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Plenty of gyms, almost always gender segregated. Cost, as elsewhere depends on facilities available. If you are lucky, good sports facilities may be available for free in your housing and/or place of work.

AS for the internet, there have been plenty of discussions on this subject before. Basically, unless you want to surf porn or dissident Arabic news sites, you should barely notice any censorship.
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Noor



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PostPosted: Sat Jun 20, 2009 11:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Regarding internet censorship, I wonder if anyone here has experience using VPN in Saudi and wouldn't mind commenting on it here?
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mistral



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PostPosted: Sun Jun 21, 2009 3:02 am    Post subject: Recreation Reply with quote

I recall there are plenty of private gyms. You can set up your own satellite (uncensored) internet connection. TDSL - much slower but cheaper - is censored but you can get hold of software to bypass the God squad blocked websites.
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sugardaddy22



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PostPosted: Mon Jun 22, 2009 4:53 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Social life in Saudi?

Hmmm, plan insurrections? .... Stand up to brute authoritarianism...

Or, just do what everybody else does in Saudi.
For instance..........Go shopping at Ikea, stare blankly into space, go shopping at Carrefour,..plan your escape, go shoppiing at Carrefour.... Did I mention staring blankly into space?
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bollidarling



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PostPosted: Mon Jun 22, 2009 5:23 pm    Post subject: Social life in Saudi Reply with quote

I have found opportunities for socialising in Saudi in abundance! Yes you have to be assertive and get on lists but within two weeks of living in Riyadh I found myself at a party or Embassy function at least twice a week and actually had to turn down invitations. Alcohol is in abundance although some of it seriously bad! Every Wednesday and Thursday night there are bands playing, people ancing, an abundance of booze AND after parties which don't stop till the sun comes up.. and then its time for bacon and eggs for breakfast - and on one occasion a bbq with a pig on a spit.

Don't believe what you read - its all underground - Saudi is one of the most hypocrital countries on earth (look out for the driver of a pink Hummer - a female from the Royal Family) ... and of course go to Bahrain for a change every now and then Smile

And by the way I am a single female over 40!
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johnslat



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PostPosted: Mon Jun 22, 2009 5:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear bollidarling,
I agree - I've always told people that a full social life is quite possible in Saudi, but you have to actively pursue it: establish and maintain contacts.

I never felt the need for much "social activity", but some of my colleagues were out every weekend and sometimes during the week at night.

Of course, having a car helps a lot, too.

Regards,
John
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Never Ceased To Be Amazed



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PostPosted: Mon Jun 22, 2009 11:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yawn...

NCTBA Mr. Green
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