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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Sat Aug 01, 2009 2:17 pm Post subject: |
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Dear Amenti,
"In defense . . ." ???????
Huh???? I must have missed something - where in this thread has Cleopatra been "attacked?"
" . . . she is one of the most independent women I know!!! "
I'm sure she is - which is something I consider to be an admirable quality and which I mentioned in my previous post:
"Quite true - there is no rule. However, in my experience, most of the ladies seemed to feel more "comfortable" going about accompanied when possible.
(I would suspect, though, that Cleopatra would not be one such.)"
Is THAT what you consider to be an attack??
Regards,
John |
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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Sat Aug 01, 2009 3:07 pm Post subject: |
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Actually, I don't think anything negative has been said on this thread about our friend, Cleo. And even if there had been, she is certainly capable of defending herself.
VS
(John & I seem to posting in tandem in the US time zones.) |
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Sat Aug 01, 2009 7:11 pm Post subject: |
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Hi Amenti, and all my pals (yes, they exist, even on DAve's ESL!a
In response to the OP:
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| I thought that women needed to go out with a male member of their family. |
VS has already said what I myself have said many times on this board: The notion that women have to be accompanied by a male relative at all times is false. These days, even Saudi women go out accompanied only by female friends.
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| I have also read that unrelated men and women can't be together in public. So how do the teachers deal with this situation? I mean in terms of socializing or going on outings? |
It's true that according to Saudi law, unrelated men and women may not be together, whether in public or in private. However, these days it's very rare for anyone to ask a 'Western' group if all members are related. However, technically this is illegal, and very occasionally you do hear of people getting into trouble for this. I suggest you look up one of the old threads where there was a lenghty discussion about ways of getting round this particular regulation. In brief: One is to ensure that at least one marrried couple is with you at all times (this 'legitimitises' the whole group!),a dn the other is to only socialise with members of the opposite sex in private homes or compounds, where you should have no problems at all.
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| does anyone know how much this would cost? |
As a single woman you can't sponsor or employ a driver full-time: what people mean when they talk of having a 'private driver' is that you have a regular driver who you call whenever you need him, or have an arrangement that he takes you to and from work (or wherever) every day. This normally works out quite well. It's impossible to put a figure on it, as distances and times vary, but rates are very reasonable compared to Europe, for example, particularly if you use the driver a lot and can arrange a good deal with him.
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| Are you harrassed if you are out alone? |
In a word... yes. As others have said, it's unpleasant rather than dangerous (normally taking the form of men slowing down and tailing you in their cars, or incessantly shouting and gesturing at you from their cars), but it can be annoying enough to put a lot of people off walking in the city, especially alone. Also, distances in cities are long, the urban landscape is hardly scenic, pavements are often non-existant, and it's horribly hot much of the year. All in all, KSA is not a pedestrian's paradise! |
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scot47

Joined: 10 Jan 2003 Posts: 15343
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Posted: Sun Aug 02, 2009 5:52 am Post subject: |
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| Cleo is COOL ! |
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I Rub Ruchi
Joined: 23 Jun 2008 Posts: 45 Location: USA
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Posted: Sun Aug 02, 2009 9:42 am Post subject: |
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From a male:
After being in Riyadh for a year, I have yet to see a city bus with a designated section for women. I really can't remember any woman on any city bus here.
I did take the VIP bus to Kobar and sat with a Palistinian woman, her nanny, and three small sons. On the return trip I sat with some nurses from the Philipines. |
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scot47

Joined: 10 Jan 2003 Posts: 15343
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Posted: Sun Aug 02, 2009 10:07 am Post subject: |
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| Buses in Jeddah have a designated area at the back for females. Separate doors. Separate but equal. Dunno about Riyadh. |
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Sun Aug 02, 2009 2:43 pm Post subject: |
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Well, I know that the city buses in Riyadh certainly used to have a designated, small area in the back for women. This could have changed, of course, but it's hard to see why it would (especially in Riyadh.)
I'll check with some people who are still there to see if I can find out whether the "separate compartments" still exist.
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John |
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Sun Aug 02, 2009 2:50 pm Post subject: |
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| Well, I know that the city buses in Riyadh certainly used to have a designated, small area in the back for women. |
That's interesting.
I've lived in Riyadh since 2001, Iand have never seen a bus with a 'female section'. Not that it's any great loss: the buses are filthy, ancient hulks of metal used exclusively by male labourers who presumably can't afford any other form of transport. I don't know anyone - male or female - who has ever used public transport in Riyadh.
Why thank you Scot! |
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Sun Aug 02, 2009 2:58 pm Post subject: |
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Dear Cleo,
Living fairly close to Batha as I did, I often used to hop on a city bus for the short ride down there.
Now I'm getting on in years, but I KNOW I recall that boarded-off, small women's section in the back. And, as I said, the ladies used to ride free since, of course, the driver couldn't go back there to collect the 2 SR.
But maybe it's changed now.
Regards,
John
P.S. After doing a little online research:
"An overview of Riyadh in Saudi Arabia also includes interesting tit-bits of information . . . Women should wear long clothes and ride in the separate women's section at the back of buses. "
http://www.asiarooms.com/travel-guide/saudi-arabia/riyadh/riyadh-overview/index.html
Riyadh (but in 2001): "If she rides a city bus, she must always ride in the rear women's compartment. There is a buzzer in the back to signal a stop, but it may or may not work..."
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Sun Aug 02, 2009 3:19 pm Post subject: |
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| I'm pretty sure it has changed, John. I have NEVER seen a woman on or boarding a bus in Riyadh (except the intercity ones). Anyway, even if women are allowed on these buses (which as far as I know they are not) I really don't think a newly arrived female teacher would want to use them. |
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Bebsi
Joined: 07 Feb 2005 Posts: 958
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Posted: Sun Aug 02, 2009 3:43 pm Post subject: |
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The only people who use city buses in Riyadh (those ancient orange thingies spewing enough carbon monoxide to melt the planet) are male migrant workers, i.e. Bangladeshis etc, who would use any other form of transport if they could afford it.
Members of the 1,000-Club excepted, of course!!
On the other hand, members of the super-elite 500-Club wouldn't be seen dead on them, as they'd prefer to walk. Just on principle, you understand!  |
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Sun Aug 02, 2009 3:50 pm Post subject: |
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Dear Bebsi,
I don't recall the SAPTCO buses' being orange. Has the color changed, too?
Regards,
John |
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reneebcc
Joined: 26 Jan 2009 Posts: 60 Location: Georgia
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Posted: Sun Aug 02, 2009 9:13 pm Post subject: 1,000 Club |
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Bebsi,
Could you explain the "1,000 Club". I've heard something about a living allowance but was vague. Does this mean a person can live off 1,000SAR a month? Is this from a male/female perspective. I suppose not having much to do in the Kingdom besides on Western compounds, one could have a low cost of living. |
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