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Hot2GlobeTrot
Joined: 01 Sep 2009 Posts: 82 Location: Calgary, Canada
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Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2009 5:02 am Post subject: What exactly is so bad about Saudi Arabia? |
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I was tossing around either SA or UAE in a couple years but have read posters on here calling the Kingdom a hellhole, being stripped of rights etc etc....What exactly are we talking about here?
and aside from the stuff we all know-no alcohol, no women, no movies etc-what is so bad about SA compared to UAE? |
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MixtecaMike

Joined: 19 Nov 2003 Posts: 643 Location: Guatebad
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Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2009 5:08 am Post subject: |
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If you're married, your wife will probably be very bored and limited to going out always accompanied by you. Apart from that, and the snail's pace to do any paperwork, I can't find anything to complain about here. |
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2009 5:17 am Post subject: |
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Given the choice, and all other things being equal, most people would go for the UAE because it offers more personal freedoms such as driving for women, cinemas, bars etc. Most people probably find it a more 'normal' and easier environment. Human rights (or lack of same) are similar in both countries.
Personally, however, I am happy here in KSA and would choose it over the UAE. I'm not interested in the latter's sleazy nightlife, can live without the cinema (you can get everything here on pirated DVD within weeks of its release anyway) and am not bothered by the abaya or the driving ban. I also dislike the ?=UAE's palpable desperation to please the Rich White Man. As someone with an interest in world affairs, I also find it far more interesting to be in one fo the world's most crucial countries, rather than in a minuscule Sheikhdom of no importance, hitting the headlines only when someone gets arrested for 'public indecency' in 'liberal' Dubai, or when the latest resort of mind numbing vulgarity opens with a display of sleaze. |
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The Lathe of Heaven

Joined: 02 Sep 2009 Posts: 162 Location: drifting from dream to dream from future to future
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Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2009 5:54 am Post subject: |
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Everytime I decide to go out and buy something it seems I always hit the selah prayer and there is a half hour down time before everything is up and running again. I guess this is not specific to Saudi but some of the other Gulf states too.
It is not a bother to me as I am pretty amused at my timing all the time, I also like shinny objects.
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2009 5:59 am Post subject: |
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Everytime I decide to go out and buy something it seems I always hit the selah prayer and there is a half hour down time before everything is up and running again. I guess this is not specific to Saudi but some of the other Gulf states too. |
NO, it is specific to KSA, the only country in the world (AFAIK) which imposes this rule.
And it's a real pain. |
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The Lathe of Heaven

Joined: 02 Sep 2009 Posts: 162 Location: drifting from dream to dream from future to future
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Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2009 6:11 am Post subject: |
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I also wish that there was some sort of public transport in some of the major cities in Saudi. Couldn't they have a women's bus, a family bus and a guys bus?
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desultude

Joined: 19 Jan 2003 Posts: 614
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Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2009 6:12 am Post subject: |
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I am now in Oman, after teaching in the Kingdom for 2 years.
I was in Carrefour the other day shopping, and something just felt different- more relaxed. Then I realized that I had all the time in the world to do my shopping, as there was no prayer time closing.
The hassle of trying to accomplish anything, especially as a woman, around prayer times, available drivers, the completely arbitrary schedule of work, etc, cannot be overstated.
On the other hand, if you are seeking to complete your magnus opus, you may be in just the right place. |
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2009 6:15 am Post subject: |
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I also wish that there was some sort of public transport in some of the major cities in Saudi. |
There are public buses in Riyadh (men only) but they are filthy and overcrowded, used only by labourers from Third World countries.
I believe that there are buses in Jeddah with women's sections, but I'm not sure. |
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scot47

Joined: 10 Jan 2003 Posts: 15343
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Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2009 7:54 am Post subject: |
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SAPTCO buses in Jeddah have segregated women's sections at the back.
The private minibuses in Jeddah are men-only. There are buses in Dammam/Khobar but I have never used them. Cannot say if they have women's sections. Many employers run shopping buses for their employees and dependants.
There is talk about building metro systems (Well Dubai has one so KSA has to follow !)
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The Lathe of Heaven

Joined: 02 Sep 2009 Posts: 162 Location: drifting from dream to dream from future to future
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Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2009 8:03 am Post subject: |
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scot47 wrote: |
SAPTCO buses in Jeddah have segregated women's sections at the back.
The private minibuses in Jeddah are men0only. There are buses in Dammam/Khobar but I have never used them. Cannoty say if they have women's sections. Many employers run shopping buses for their employees and dependants.
There is talk about building metro systems (Well Dubai has one so KSA has to follow !) |
How exactly will a Subway in Riyadh work, If at all? Separate entrances for women and segrigated cars for families?
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scot47

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Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2009 8:59 am Post subject: |
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I wonder how it works in Dubai ? Railways in Britain (pre WW1 ?) had separate cariages for ladies travelling alone - and ladies waiting rooms. I am surprised the feminists have not asked us to return to that !
Would Cleo and VS vote for women-only carriages ? |
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Kalima Shahada

Joined: 11 Sep 2009 Posts: 198 Location: I live in a house, but my home is in the stable.
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Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2009 9:08 am Post subject: |
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The Lathe of Heaven wrote: |
scot47 wrote: |
SAPTCO buses in Jeddah have segregated women's sections at the back.
The private minibuses in Jeddah are men0only. There are buses in Dammam/Khobar but I have never used them. Cannoty say if they have women's sections. Many employers run shopping buses for their employees and dependants.
There is talk about building metro systems (Well Dubai has one so KSA has to follow !) |
How exactly will a Subway in Riyadh work, If at all? Separate entrances for women and segrigated cars for families?
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Same as the trains and restaurants - single women sit in the family section. I quite like the trains in Saudi myself (very comfortable)! It really would be nice if the cities decided to have subways. I'd feel safer than in a car and it's more convenient.
My biggest complaint about Saudi is the total lack of planning and organization when it comes to doing anything important. That's been my major complaint in a number of countries where I've either worked or visited. My next biggest complaint has to do with the expats who come from various different countries, especially those who (haven't taken a shower in weeks) don't speak Arabic or English and work as taxi drivers. You'll find them in the UAE too, but less so. |
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scot47

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Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2009 9:58 am Post subject: |
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What about thoise who have been so influenced by their culture that they cannot handle functioning in a different one? I am thinking of thoose who have bizarre concepts like "queueing" which they have learned in theoir own societies.
You also find those who cannot handle being interrupted. And those who expect clerks to attend to |
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2009 10:01 am Post subject: |
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I once met a guy who was working on the proposed Riyadh Metro. He assured me that it would soon be up and running, and that segregation would not be an issue. That was in 2005. Mind you, there have been massive roadworks in Riyadh for the past year, and if rumours are correct, they are the first stage in the planned metro system.
I dont' think segregation would be a huge problem. Similar systems in Cairo and Tehran (and possibly in some Indian cities too) have women only carriages, though in those cities, women are not obliged to use them and may also travel in mixed carriages.
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Would Cleo and VS vote for women-only carriages ? |
Can't speak for anyone else, but as for me I can't think of a single reason to recommend such a system, at least outside of countries where segregation is the norm. |
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Stephen Jones
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Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2009 10:06 am Post subject: |
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My next biggest complaint has to do with the expats who come from various different countries, especially those who (haven't taken a shower in weeks) don't speak Arabic or English and work as taxi drivers |
I once got into a taxi at the exit to the driving school (I'd just picked up my license). The taxi driver evidently had done the same. He didn't know where the Exhibition Centre was. He only knew two destinations; 'Riyadh' and 'Airport'.
Then there was the restaurant we used to go to regularly that had a complete overhaul of staff. We tried to order using every language we knew, Arabic, English, Urdu, Tagalog, German, but only when the one person who spoke Arabic and English came back did we find out that the whole staff of the restaurant, bar him, only spoke Pashto or Dari. Then the boss wondered why his customers tailed off. |
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