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drjtrekker
Joined: 16 Feb 2008 Posts: 251
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Posted: Thu Dec 17, 2009 3:24 pm Post subject: |
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Oh man, Norwalk, u sure are an "interesting" individual.
Ur 4.5 quai meal was for dinner.
What's the point?
Remember, what started this last batch of comments toward u was that u stated u ate for 5 quai a day, and then started to describe the big stew that fills u up all day....and then continued on about how ur metabolism is slower now, etc.
A couple people had mentioned that they commented on ur statement so that others, newbies, would not be mislead into thinking that life is Soooo cheap here that they could take a small salary and still live great like u!
U did add though, that with ur monkish lifestyle that a low salary can go far. Of course it can, but remember, there are reasons to have extra money each month, and thats the point.
But, that's when i chimed in and added that there are often extra costs that come up, even if one does not go to the bar, drinking, western foods, etc. and that's why its good to Not settle for a low salary, because extra money will come in handy for a variety of issues, i.e. medical costs, personal needs of supplies, and travel.
I think u are simply oversimplifying living here.
Most people will tire of street food, if not get sick, and will want some other stuff that will cost more than 5 quai a day. Maybe u will never crave any liquid besides water, but most will. Maybe u will eat one meal a day....but most of us dont.
Most of us dont accept that one can live off of 5 quai a day. In fact, it will be false for most everyone.
So i dont think there is any point to u listing ur daily expenses to try and prove ur point.
I think what u should do is get back to us in about 6 months.
I would be curious if have kept to ur 5 quai a day diet. |
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cormac
Joined: 04 Nov 2008 Posts: 768 Location: Xi'an (XTU)
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Posted: Thu Dec 17, 2009 9:17 pm Post subject: |
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| norwalkesl wrote: |
It is not misleading. Your assumptions are your responsibility. You should do the same and read your posts from the pov of a 50 year old. Some call me a liar and trouble maker, all because you assume everyone is like you. I know that everyone is not like me, yet I can only post my own experience and let you read it or not. You need more meals, I need fewer. Terrific! Both pov's are valid.
Honestly I am at a loss to explain attitudes such as yours, zootowns and kevs.
Good Luck and Karma to all! |
Of course, anyone's assumptions are their own responsibility.
However, can you agree that most posters here on this forum coming to China for the first time are younger (20-30), and unlikely to be interested in the "quiet life" like yourself, or eat as little as you need?
You also missed the point when I asked what kind of teaching you were doing, since kinder classes drain more energy than many other types of teaching.
Lastly, I've responded to your post without any digs at you, in spite of your "tone". But I'll change that by wondering at your own maturity if you're in your 50's and suggesting this kind of advice regardless of the age of the readers... |
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cormac
Joined: 04 Nov 2008 Posts: 768 Location: Xi'an (XTU)
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Posted: Thu Dec 17, 2009 9:27 pm Post subject: |
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I think its worth noting that with a salary under 3500 you're unlikely to be saving any money to travel within China or get anything sent back home as presents (as the need arises).
So unless the FT brings savings with them (which they don't spend) they're not going to have the funds to enjoy their short holidays, or explore the region all that way. Unless you want to travel and live like a Chinese, doubling up with Chinese in Dormitory style lodges.
So, if you have extra income coming from abroad, or savings you're confident you won't touch until needed, you might be able to live on the low income.. you won't have much of a social life, and you'll have to be frugal on just about everything, but its doable. Lastly, if you're single, be prepared for rather boring dates...  |
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zootown
Joined: 27 Nov 2009 Posts: 310
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Posted: Thu Dec 17, 2009 9:45 pm Post subject: |
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| norwalkesl wrote: |
Dinner food from street stalls:
Hotdog: 1.5 RMB
Grilled curly fries style tofu, spicey: 1 RMB
Toasted bread with spicey tofu paste in between two pieces: 1 RMB
2 English Muffin-ish pieces of homemade bread, warm, freshly grilled: 1 RMB
Total cost 4.5 RMB. |
If that's your staple diet good luck on making 60 |
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norwalkesl
Joined: 22 Oct 2009 Posts: 366 Location: Ch-Ch-Ch-Ch-China
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Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2009 4:37 am Post subject: |
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| A'Moo wrote: |
| norwalkesl wrote: |
Dinner food from street stalls:
Hotdog: 1.5 RMB
Grilled curly fries style tofu, spicey: 1 RMB
Toasted bread with spicey tofu paste in between two pieces: 1 RMB
2 English Muffin-ish pieces of homemade bread, warm, freshly grilled: 1 RMB
Total cost 4.5 RMB. |
How much was the veggie dog with swiss and sauerkraut? And a bottle of Perrier? |
Well there isn't much in the way of cheese here in China, and the hotdog was definitely of the meat variety. The bottled water tastes like metallicy tap water - it is actually not as good as regular tap back in L.A.! But it is much better than the soapy water from the tap.
I am going out with another FT and our two assistants for Xmas dinner next Friday.I think we will go into the larger neighboring city and have a large Xmas style feast if we can find one. I will invite one and all and see what transpires.
Of course I will share the details with my fanclub in this thread... |
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CJD
Joined: 19 Jun 2009 Posts: 116
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Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2009 6:31 am Post subject: |
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| 30yuan can get you a kickass meal) |
In Chengdu???? Well I suppose kickass is an abstract term.
Please tell us the menu of this 30RMB meal - then we'll better be able to understand the kickass behind it.
4000 a month = 133RMB/day
Don't sound too much kickass about that - even if you could budget your eating to 50RMB/day. |
You make it sound like it's hard to only spend 50RMB a day on food in Chengdu. lol
Maybe you're one of those people who only eats at western-style resturaunts?
Go out with a few friends, order 5 dishes which totals 70RMB... that's less than 25RMB each person for more food than we can usually eat.
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Do you save enough to go on your 2 month holidays?
What do you do on the other five days a week off? Apart from spending very little money. |
4,000 a month in Chengdu is not ''very little money.''
50-60 RMB a day on food, which is enough to eat very well, equals about 1,500-1800RMB a month.
What do you usually spend your money on? |
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Hansen
Joined: 13 Oct 2008 Posts: 737 Location: central China
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Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2009 8:11 am Post subject: |
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A person who buys a rice steamer and vegetables can live on the cheap. Steam the vegetables while the rice is cooking. When the rice is done, toss the vegetables into a wok in which some garlic and onions have been fried in a little oil. The powdered soup mixes and soy sauce or sesame oil can also be added for flavor.
Meat and fish cost money. Vegetables are very inexpensive, as is rice. I prefer the dongbei long grain. A rice steamer can save you a lot of money. |
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cormac
Joined: 04 Nov 2008 Posts: 768 Location: Xi'an (XTU)
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Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2009 4:41 pm Post subject: |
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Look. lets be realistic here. If you have been in China for some decent amount of time, and speak some Chinese you can live on smaller amounts of money. You won't get hit by foreigner prices as much, and you'll know the different dishes available. You'll also be more comfortable about ordering food in any place. You'll also likely have a circle of Chinese friends who will introduce you to either good cheap eateries, or nice inexpensive dishes.
However if you're new to China and don't speak Chinese expect to pay a lot more for everything. You'll be charged more since you won't be able to either haggle, or know the local prices.
So if you're new to China expect to need more money to survive here. Its that simple. |
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norwalkesl
Joined: 22 Oct 2009 Posts: 366 Location: Ch-Ch-Ch-Ch-China
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Posted: Sat Dec 19, 2009 1:24 am Post subject: |
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Went out with the other FT's and assistants last night, purchased 5+ kilos of candy, pop, popcorn and other goodies for movie night at one of the FT"s houses.
Total cost for a total junkfood binge for 4 including marshmallows over an open candle:
60 RMB.
I and then other FT's paid and the assistants enjoyed free of charge. |
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The Ever-changing Cleric

Joined: 19 Feb 2009 Posts: 1523
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Posted: Sat Dec 19, 2009 1:26 am Post subject: |
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| norwalkesl wrote: |
| Went out with the other FT's and assistants last night, purchased 5+ kilos of candy, pop, popcorn and other goodies for movie night at one of the FT"s houses. |
ah good stuff. sugar has always been one of the neglected food groups  |
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zootown
Joined: 27 Nov 2009 Posts: 310
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Posted: Sat Dec 19, 2009 2:42 am Post subject: |
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| norwalkesl wrote: |
Went out with the other FT's and assistants last night, purchased 5+ kilos of candy, pop, popcorn and other goodies for movie night at one of the FT"s houses.
Total cost for a total junkfood binge for 4 including marshmallows over an open candle:
60 RMB.
I and then other FT's paid and the assistants enjoyed free of charge. |
Ahh yes Assistants will be most impressed by this.
Maybe you could do the same for the directors. |
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cormac
Joined: 04 Nov 2008 Posts: 768 Location: Xi'an (XTU)
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Posted: Sat Dec 19, 2009 3:04 am Post subject: |
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| zootown wrote: |
| norwalkesl wrote: |
Went out with the other FT's and assistants last night, purchased 5+ kilos of candy, pop, popcorn and other goodies for movie night at one of the FT"s houses.
Total cost for a total junkfood binge for 4 including marshmallows over an open candle:
60 RMB.
I and then other FT's paid and the assistants enjoyed free of charge. |
Ahh yes Assistants will be most impressed by this.
Maybe you could do the same for the directors. |
I like buying those cakes for 15 rmb which I can cut up and share amongst the TA's before class. Most places will give you plates and plastic knives.. Goes down well with them, and makes working life easier.
I have to wonder how much FT's spend on their classes a month.. I usually spend some on lollipops, sucky sweets, and cakes for special occasions. Usually around 50-100 rmb a month depending the number of "open" classes held (parents sitting in). Not countinh stickers and other such nonsense. |
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norwalkesl
Joined: 22 Oct 2009 Posts: 366 Location: Ch-Ch-Ch-Ch-China
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Posted: Sat Dec 19, 2009 7:56 pm Post subject: |
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-Purchased a bunch of household goods for the kitchen and living room. 42 RMB. The biggest expense being a 7 outlet extension so that I can plug in my cellphone charger, laptop, etc. That was 23 RMB haggled down from 25.
-Chiropractic massage is 20 RMB for 90 minutes. Although I am so sore afterwards I think I am going to skip this in the future. This guys usual client base consists of rural farmers and their wives. I am simply not as sturdy.
-Street vendors sell homemade bread/rolls baked over an open coal fire, 2 for 1 RMB. They are flakey when eaten hot. Would be excellent with any spread or jam or minced meat filling. Not so good when they cool down.
-Items in a box bag or bottle, processed food, are the most expensive. 2 or 3 RMB for a soda, but a meal is 3 or 4 RMB from a stall or at a restaurant.
-Rumour has it that there is a restaurant in town that serves turkey and possibly gravy. We are headed there for an Xmas dinner on Friday, FT's treating the assistants of course.
-The assistants make a point of letting the FT's know they earn 750 - 1000 RMB per month living in their unheated 10' X 15' room with the bath and kitchen across the courtyard, unheated. Some FT's have not quite figured out that gloating over how cheap things are or how much we earn in comparison is not the best form. The local Uni Professors with advanced degrees earn 3k. Magnanimousness is the order of the day. Buy folks dinner, be a gentleman host, efc.
-Continue to people watch, observe and learn. One can learn bookloads by watching people interact and listening. |
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A'Moo

Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1067 Location: a supermarket that sells cheese
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Posted: Sat Dec 19, 2009 10:40 pm Post subject: |
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| norwalkesl wrote: |
-Purchased a bunch of household goods for the kitchen and living room. 42 RMB. The biggest expense being a 7 outlet extension so that I can plug in my cellphone charger, laptop, etc. That was 23 RMB haggled down from 25.
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Probably want to enlist a Chinese friend to get it down to 10y. |
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LanGuTou
Joined: 23 Mar 2009 Posts: 621 Location: Shandong
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Posted: Sun Dec 20, 2009 12:04 am Post subject: |
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OK NorWalk:
I guess your long list of daily activity is designed to show that a person can get by on a frugal living here in China. 3000 rmb per month should easily be enough for anyone. Too True! If you live within the confines of a very small box!
Let's step outside the box for a minute:
Recently, I had to return home. Return air ticket 7225 rmb and domestic flights (x2) 1320 rmb.
Money needed to get by at home 600 GBP or c. 6600 rmb.
I have a long standing relationship with a girl in China. We decided to get married next year. First there is the engagement:
I took my girlfriend to the jewellers yesterday. Bought a ring with a 50% discount from 14500 rmb to 7250 rmb.
We decided to have a western style engagement dinner party on Christmas Day. Ordered some roses, some wine and and the food 700 rmb.
Following our Western engagement, I will have further expenses related to traditional Chinese customs of engagement. A not so inconsiderable amount of money is traditionally paid to the fiancee's family. Typical sums of money are 66,666 rmb, 77,777 rmb or 88,888 rmb. This has not been fixed yet but there is another 60,000+ rmb.
Following engagements, comes the small matter of a marriage ceremony. Nothing over the top planned but I will reckon to budget another 20,000 rmb.
To live any kind of satisfactory lifestyle in China, I also have to think about investing in property and a vehicle. Not within the bounds of a few hundred rmb per month.
And maybe a family:
But you could say all of these expenses are unnecessary! After all, the Chinese teachers don't get married and have families, buy property etc., do they?
I could be frugal and celebate. Get by on 3000 rmb per month. However, I have found it a preferable option to have someone to love and come home to.
In fact, frankly speaking, I find the money that I am paid for being a FT in a Chinese University wholly unacceptable. Fortunately, I came to China with a sound financial base and this will certainly be the last year I teach. Officially, my contract ends July next year but I am using every method that I can to get out of it now.
As an aside, I posed the question to my students:
"What do you think would be a reasonable income level for an ordinary family in China with one child and possibly a very ordinary car".
The concensus of opinion was somewhere between 5000 to 6000 rmb per month.
I listen and learn. This rhetoric related to we only get xxxx rmb now goes in one ear and out of the other.
Some people in China are down trodden. That is the complex nature of Chinese society, population and politics. China is unfair in many aspects of social justice but how many of them attend university, buy fashionable clothes, buy cellphones, find money to travel, eat everyday in restaurants and still fulfill their life needs? How many of them find money for motorcars?
Moreover, how can practically every family come up with the finances to support engagement, marriage, house purchases and raising a family? |
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