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Abu Dhabi Women's Manager
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maxxnoo



Joined: 15 Mar 2010
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 6:31 am    Post subject: Abu Dhabi Women's Manager Reply with quote

I'm relatively new here and I'm having a hard time trying understand what some of the managers want us to do. Am I the only one who feels this way?
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bje



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PostPosted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 8:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ask for clarification. Failing that, do what you're told- or, if you don't like 'being managed' to the point where you are unwilling to get used to it, then leaving the Gulf region is always an option.
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veiledsentiments



Joined: 20 Feb 2003
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 2:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Remember... it's the mysterious Middle East... Cool

Your best source is often the other teachers who are teaching the same or similar courses that you are. As bje said, ask questions... and don't offer too many (or any) opinions if you're very new to the system.

Your emphasis on "female" may suggest that do not like being supervised by women - which is likely as much your problem as theirs. Personally I interacted with supervisors as little as possible... whatever their sex.

VS
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antonia v



Joined: 27 Mar 2005
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 4:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

bje wrote:
Ask for clarification. Failing that, do what you're told- or, if you don't like 'being managed' to the point where you are unwilling to get used to it, then leaving the Gulf region is always an option.


bje always has the same helpful advice--if you don't like, get out.
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adorabilly



Joined: 20 May 2006
Posts: 430
Location: Ras Al Khaimah

PostPosted: Fri Mar 19, 2010 6:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

antonia v wrote:
bje wrote:
Ask for clarification. Failing that, do what you're told- or, if you don't like 'being managed' to the point where you are unwilling to get used to it, then leaving the Gulf region is always an option.


bje always has the same helpful advice--if you don't like, get out.


Antonia.

In general it is good advice.

No one is being kept here as a slave (unless you count the sub continent laborers) and in general it is good advice.

I'm sorry if you feel it is too rough.
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secretsquirrel



Joined: 26 Oct 2009
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Location: Next to Dick Dastardly!

PostPosted: Sat Mar 20, 2010 8:42 am    Post subject: ADWC Reply with quote

As always, the craven apologists say 'if you don't like it here, leave the Gulf', whereas there is quite a lot you can do to change things.

The first thing to remember, maxxnoo, is that not all colleges are equally bad, so moving from one to another can often solve the problem. The other thing is that pressure can be applied to certain spots, in order to get the result you want.

But sometimes it takes a lot of effort and real courage, a quality that VS and her acolytes don't usually display on these pages.

If you're having real problems with ADWC, just remember that they are at present the worst in the HCT pile. There are plenty of better places in the UAE to choose from.

As I'm a former inmate of ADWC, you can PM me for specific details. I can't reveal them here because of the ban on naming names.
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maxxnoo



Joined: 15 Mar 2010
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 20, 2010 2:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks to everyone for the help. I did some research on this site and I can see my particular worries about one of the ADWC managment people have already been talked about on this forum. I've just come a little late to the party. It looks like other teachers have faced similar difficulties with her in RAK too. Some of her decisions and rules make me crazy. O well at least the students are fun. Very Happy
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 20, 2010 2:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The squirrelly one is a bit behind the times. The word on the grapevine is that transferring out of ADWC is currently not an option. Many are trying... and/or desiring to do so, but unless you have some wasta in the right places, you're probably there for the duration.

HCT is famous for having rules considered odd by many and everyone has to deal with them in their own way. Choose your battles carefully... the line between courage and stupidity is often blurry.

Meanwhile, enjoy your students... they have always been what made the job worth it for most of us.

VS
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helenl



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