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spiral78

Joined: 05 Apr 2004 Posts: 11534 Location: On a Short Leash
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Posted: Tue May 04, 2010 6:31 pm Post subject: Saudi Students Abroad |
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It's slightly off-topic, as this is a country-specific forum. But I've worked with Saudi students in both Canada and the Netherlands, and am attempting to code-crack a bit (having just been assigned two groups of Saudis after a three year hiatus, doing other things).
Today I met a new group of pre-med students. They have been here a week, and are studying in a mixed group: half women, half men. This is (I think) intended to ease them gradually into 'real' classes with local students - obviously quite a cultural leap for them.
In the past, the girls (they're young) have all been consistently quite conservative, though they interact readily in the mixed groups, especially after an initial integration period. I'm quite happy to be patient with the process - it must be pretty challenging for them.
Today, the new group included one young lady wearing no head scarf. No comment from anyone, including her (good on her) but the men will need some time to adjust to this, I think. It seems to be more challenging than accepting European women and their far more revealing styles.
Any insights into the situation as a whole? I don't want to imply that I think Saudi young people are unsophisticated entirely - there are always a few in each of our groups who have had six months or a year abroad already, and are really happy to talk about their experiences. But the majority are away from home for the first time, and are here without families.
They have a lot to adjust to both outside and inside the classroom. I'd like to support their success as much as I can (short of getting personally involved or involved outside of class - but creating an understanding and accepting classroom environment can help quite a bit, I hope).
Tips/insights? I'd appreciate anything you might have to offer! |
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007

Joined: 30 Oct 2006 Posts: 2684 Location: UK/Veteran of the Magic Kingdom
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Posted: Tue May 04, 2010 7:03 pm Post subject: Re: Saudi Students Abroad |
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spiral78 wrote: |
It's slightly off-topic, as this is a country-specific forum. But I've worked with Saudi students in both Canada and the Netherlands, and am attempting to code-crack a bit (having just been assigned two groups of Saudis after a three year hiatus, doing other things).
Today I met a new group of pre-med students. They have been here a week, and are studying in a mixed group: half women, half men. This is (I think) intended to ease them gradually into 'real' classes with local students - obviously quite a cultural leap for them.
In the past, the girls (they're young) have all been consistently quite conservative, though they interact readily in the mixed groups, especially after an initial integration period. I'm quite happy to be patient with the process - it must be pretty challenging for them.
Today, the new group included one young lady wearing no head scarf. No comment from anyone, including her (good on her) but the men will need some time to adjust to this, I think. It seems to be more challenging than accepting European women and their far more revealing styles.
Any insights into the situation as a whole? I don't want to imply that I think Saudi young people are unsophisticated entirely - there are always a few in each of our groups who have had six months or a year abroad already, and are really happy to talk about their experiences. But the majority are away from home for the first time, and are here without families.
They have a lot to adjust to both outside and inside the classroom. I'd like to support their success as much as I can (short of getting personally involved or involved outside of class - but creating an understanding and accepting classroom environment can help quite a bit, I hope).
Tips/insights? I'd appreciate anything you might have to offer! |
Well, I suggest you divide the seating plan into two or four rows (depending on the number of students), and put the male student in the first rows, and the female students in the last rows, at least with this seating plan the male students will concentrate on the lecture instead of watching the bodies or hair of female students. Try this for 3 months and see how the output will be? During this period avoid using mixed gender in a study group skills until you are confident that the studenst are confortable with the new environment.
Also, it would be better if you consult with the male and female students for any teaching methods/technique to be used with them to check their views if it is acceptable or not.
I think with time, and good and correct management, they will adjust to your teaching environment.
Good luck with your 'special' students from the Magic Kingdom. |
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Sheikh N Bake

Joined: 26 Apr 2007 Posts: 1307 Location: Dis ting of ours
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Posted: Tue May 04, 2010 7:15 pm Post subject: |
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Oh, get lost. |
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007

Joined: 30 Oct 2006 Posts: 2684 Location: UK/Veteran of the Magic Kingdom
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Posted: Tue May 04, 2010 8:01 pm Post subject: |
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Why are you barking? |
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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Tue May 04, 2010 9:52 pm Post subject: |
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Well SnB, in this case, I rather agree with 007. In Oman, among the first year students, it was usually the boys who were most uncomfortable with having women in the classroom. Starting out with the women to the back is a good idea... and from then on, let them decide when they are ready to move.
That said, pre-med students are usually more relaxed about these things. It was in my pre-med classes in Oman where the girls sat to the right and the men to the left from the first day.
Personally, I would have a private meet with the women and ask their opinions. Because they are outside of their culture, the rules are definitely more bendable. They may be fine with mixed group work from the start. But, I would emphasize to them that it is a requirement of the course and that they need to be able to accept it - sooner rather than later.
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Seditious
Joined: 09 Feb 2010 Posts: 26
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Posted: Wed May 05, 2010 1:13 am Post subject: Re: Saudi Students Abroad |
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spiral78 wrote: |
It's slightly off-topic, as this is a country-specific forum. But I've worked with Saudi students in both Canada and the Netherlands, and am attempting to code-crack a bit (having just been assigned two groups of Saudis after a three year hiatus, doing other things).
Today I met a new group of pre-med students. They have been here a week, and are studying in a mixed group: half women, half men. This is (I think) intended to ease them gradually into 'real' classes with local students - obviously quite a cultural leap for them.
In the past, the girls (they're young) have all been consistently quite conservative, though they interact readily in the mixed groups, especially after an initial integration period. I'm quite happy to be patient with the process - it must be pretty challenging for them.
Today, the new group included one young lady wearing no head scarf. No comment from anyone, including her (good on her) but the men will need some time to adjust to this, I think. It seems to be more challenging than accepting European women and their far more revealing styles.
Any insights into the situation as a whole? I don't want to imply that I think Saudi young people are unsophisticated entirely - there are always a few in each of our groups who have had six months or a year abroad already, and are really happy to talk about their experiences. But the majority are away from home for the first time, and are here without families.
They have a lot to adjust to both outside and inside the classroom. I'd like to support their success as much as I can (short of getting personally involved or involved outside of class - but creating an understanding and accepting classroom environment can help quite a bit, I hope).
Tips/insights? I'd appreciate anything you might have to offer! |
While I don't have as much experience at the above posters, I've got a few cents laying around...
1) Are any of the guys related to any of the females?
If yes, this would be where any conflict would arise. Muslim guys tend to be very protective of their sisters. Keep the siblings together.
2) What subject are you teaching them?
The best way to open them up to understanding and accepting each other is by forcing them to respect each other. Challenge them to speak their minds and ask questions. A bit of competition might be in order. I've found moral issues to be the best way to open students up and have them engage in lively conversation.
I am not sure I agree with the put the women in the back idea. They see a lot of that crap from idiots at the Mosques and at home. Side by side cuts off the view almost as effectively while elevating them to an equal position. Just put a larger than normal space between them. Or better yet let them seat themselves. Let the guys ogle until they either get an eye full or get insulted. That will solve that problem faster than 3 months.
Don't sell those girls short, if you engage them you'll be surprised at how outgoing they can be (in fact you might regret that a bit ). Just keep them engaged... they can be a bit flighty.
From all the middle eastern guys I've met, unless you got a set from some backwater village, you'll do fine to treat them like everyone else. They're a bunch of softies. Around their Muslim "sisters" they are going to be on their best behavior and very shy (we think we're being respectful this way) and around non Muslims they act like everyone else.
Hope that helps a bit. |
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Mia Xanthi

Joined: 13 Mar 2008 Posts: 955 Location: why is my heart still in the Middle East while the rest of me isn't?
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Posted: Wed May 05, 2010 2:25 am Post subject: |
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I would suggest letting them choose their own seating arrangements from the start. Tribe, status, and religious sect (Sunni or Shia) can all play into how comfortable they feel with each other, and in many cases these factors may even override gender considerations.
Spend your first week building rapport. Treat them as individuals and start out with no pre-conceived assumptions about what they may want or find important in a classroom. Make time to talk to each one individually and create a family-like bond with them individually. These things are far more important than any seating plan. |
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trapezius

Joined: 13 Aug 2006 Posts: 1670 Location: Land of Culture of Death & Destruction
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Posted: Wed May 05, 2010 2:46 am Post subject: |
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Left-right split
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Let them seat themselves where they wish |
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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Wed May 05, 2010 3:26 am Post subject: |
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All good ideas, but as to the women in the back idea. Unlike Seditious, even as a long time American feminist... after working with this system for 4 years in Oman, I saw that it was not a negative. It was NOT that the "poor" women were "forced" to take a back seat.
It allowed both groups to relax... and concentrate on the classroom information... not worrying about each other. The men didn't have to always be either trying to sneak a peek... or to not sneak a peek. The women truly felt that being in the back put them in power. They could control who could see them or not. (going to the situation of having relatives in the room)
It wasn't long before both the men and women relaxed and would freely come up to the front and write things on the board. It was very interesting watching the dynamic change and improve along with the students. Granted, these students were not as worldly as Pre-Med students studying abroad would be.
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Seditious
Joined: 09 Feb 2010 Posts: 26
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Posted: Wed May 05, 2010 5:34 am Post subject: |
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veiledsentiments wrote: |
All good ideas, but as to the women in the back idea. Unlike Seditious, even as a long time American feminist... after working with this system for 4 years in Oman, I saw that it was not a negative. It was NOT that the "poor" women were "forced" to take a back seat.
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I couldn't agree more with the first part. I don't feel sorry for or any need to coddle these "abused" girls. I am not misguided in that regard. I guess I was attempting to combat the more insidious mentality of accepted segregation (well this kind anyway). The supposed power these girls feel here is akin to American girls claiming the worthless power from the ability to "turn a mans head".
In most regular classrooms (average teacher) students in the front rows tend to receive more attention from the teacher. Studies have also shown that students who sit in the front rows, closer to the teacher, tend to do better that those in the rows further from the teacher.
I don't know what the OPs group looks like but it's been my experience that the girls will be the ones doing the more aggressive peeking. The guys will probably be more fascinated with the uncovered girls.
At my university in FL, we had quite a number of middle eastern students in the undergrad pre-med program. The guys ranged from obnoxious to well mannered and the girls relatively the same. The Hijab/abaya will probably disappear once social pressures start to hit the less self-confident girls. Both groups pursued relations with those that were not Muslim while there but eventually married Muslims.
I suspect the OP is worrying too much. Just go ahead and do your thing... make adjustments as necessary. Consider this a learning experience  |
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spiral78

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Posted: Wed May 05, 2010 7:23 am Post subject: |
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HMMM. My OP must not have been very clear.
This program has been going on (successfully) for three years. Not my or our first experience with Saudi students abroad. Just a bit of extra insight might be useful, I thought.
But seating and respect and getting them talking isn't any problem.....
007: we have no rows or lectures. Not anywhere in the whole university - our 13,000 students all work in integrated teams with teachers as facilitators. They might attend 3 or 4 'lectures' per year. It's a whole new world, man.
I'm not concerned about seating arrangments. The girls naturally form a team, and the men as well - I'm not forcing them to work on the same small teams together, though they are required (and accomplish with some facility) to do whole-group/class work and reporting as well. They were able to do this on day 1.
The girls (no hijabs ever, by the way) have never appeared traumatised - in fact, I think they generally enjoy the experience both in and out of class. They form friendships with each other pretty readily and travel around by bus and train to other cities together. One famous weekend, they all made arrangements to have their hair cut into bangs in front that show beneath the headscarves. Seditious!
Speaking of which, Seditious,
The best way to open them up to understanding and accepting each other is by forcing them to respect each other. Challenge them to speak their minds and ask questions. A bit of competition might be in order. I've found moral issues to be the best way to open students up and have them engage in lively conversation.
Hmm. They're talking freely already. There's no indication that they don't respect each other. We prefer co-operative to competitive work, as this bridges them into their future studies here. I'm certainly not going to challenge their moral ideas - they are living in the Netherlands, after all - their daily environment is challenging enough!! No, there are no family relationships among them, either.
Again, sorry if I was misleading in my aims here. These aren't the first students here - the program's been going on successfully for three years. It's a new batch, yes, and we've got one apparent radical without a headscarf , but I was going for something a bit more subtle, I think, in terms of helping to bridge them into the European education system and environment.
I really appreciate the comments and interest, and hope for more - but the basics of classroom management stuff are going OK, and that's kinda not where I was hoping to go with this.
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spiral78

Joined: 05 Apr 2004 Posts: 11534 Location: On a Short Leash
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Posted: Wed May 05, 2010 8:21 am Post subject: |
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Make time to talk to each one individually and create a family-like bond with them individually. These things are far more important than any seating plan
I've only got four hours with them weekly - and I have 150+ other students. Personal bonds aren't really practical, or even allowed, honestly. I'm not the parental type, either...
I've never imposed any seating plan on any of my students. They're all adults and I'm totally ok with whatever seating decisions they want to make. Occasionally, in a large class with mixed nationalities I ask students to choose teammates from different (or the same) language background for some pedagogical purpose, but that's for one task only in most cases.
Wow, sorry - I really did a poor job of setting the scene here, I'm afraid. |
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trapezius

Joined: 13 Aug 2006 Posts: 1670 Location: Land of Culture of Death & Destruction
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Posted: Wed May 05, 2010 9:35 am Post subject: |
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Buy a large batch of magic brownies and bring them to class and give them to your students... that should be ample introduction to the Dutch environment!  |
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spiral78

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Posted: Wed May 05, 2010 9:43 am Post subject: |
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They do tend to discover some strange new stuff here - we had one last year who OD'd on Red Bull He was drinking them on the hour. |
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Wed May 05, 2010 12:07 pm Post subject: |
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Dear spiral78,
That's a lot of Bull!
Regards,
John |
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