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waywardschrimpfs
Joined: 19 Jan 2010 Posts: 5
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Posted: Tue May 11, 2010 7:48 pm Post subject: New blood to China! Family advice, Job Help, etc. |
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Hello, everyone!
I'm a long-time lurker, and first-time poster. I've been reading Dave's since I started my ESL classes in college (at the request of the professor) and now that I've got a degree and a year of State-side teaching under my belt, I figure it's time to make the leap.
Here are the details:
-Married, with a 6 month old son
-No school debt
-Around $8000 (~55,000 yuan) savings, after buying plane ticket
-Need to send ~$300 (~2000yuan) home a month to parents to help them out
My question is this; What salary should I be aiming for working in cities like Beijing, Shanghai, Kunming, Chengdu, or Dalian? Obviously, we've saved some money to supplement our excursion, but we don't plan on living extravagantly by any means. Mostly, my wife has some dietary restrictions she can't meet on the cheap. Also, coming from the Midwest, we'd like to live somewhere that's maximally as warm as our current location, but not much hotter if we can avoid it.
Also, are there any other families here that have any advice for raising a family here? Please keep comments like "Don't do it" or anything else snarky to yourselves.
I've sent out my resume to a few agencies and individual schools, but since a lot of places are still in session, I figure the big wave of job openings won't be happening for another month or so. In light of that information, does anyone have any job offers or hints in the aforementioned cities? I'll be sure to tell them you sent me, if that will confer some sort of recruiter bonus to you!
Thanks for the help! |
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Zero
Joined: 08 Sep 2004 Posts: 1402
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Posted: Tue May 11, 2010 8:00 pm Post subject: |
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Curious about a couple of additional things. None of this is meant to be snarky, just think a fuller picture will help people to advise you.
-Do you and your wife both plan to work, or just you?
-What qualifications do you have? Are you a certified teacher?
-How long do you plan to stay in China?
-Are you just trying to meet expenses, or also save?
From your post, I also wasn't quite clear about whether you are asking what sort of salary your qualifications should be able to snag, or how much money your family would need. |
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Jayray
Joined: 28 Feb 2009 Posts: 373 Location: Back East
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Posted: Tue May 11, 2010 8:10 pm Post subject: |
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Go look at abroadchina.org. It lists a LOT of jobs available all over China. You can select the region that you're interested in. This may not be the best place to LOOK for a good job, but it will give you the big picture pretty quickly.
Whether you can live on the wages offered by the advertisers on that forum, or if you are qualified for all or most of them, or if you'd even WANT any of them is for you to decide. On that board, you'll see the good, the bad, and the ugly.
You may not be able to distinguish among the three, but at least you'll get a pretty good idea of what's out there. |
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waywardschrimpfs
Joined: 19 Jan 2010 Posts: 5
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Posted: Tue May 11, 2010 8:53 pm Post subject: |
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Zero wrote: |
Curious about a couple of additional things. None of this is meant to be snarky, just think a fuller picture will help people to advise you.
-Do you and your wife both plan to work, or just you?
-What qualifications do you have? Are you a certified teacher?
-How long do you plan to stay in China?
-Are you just trying to meet expenses, or also save?
From your post, I also wasn't quite clear about whether you are asking what sort of salary your qualifications should be able to snag, or how much money your family would need. |
Don't worry, my snark detector didn't go off at all! To answer your questions:
1. My wife will be a SAHM; maybe sneak some "English Immersion Baby Sitting" in as a side job.
2. I have a BA in English with an Emphasis in TESOL.
3. Length of stay depends on how well we acclimate, how well the wife likes it, etc. Looking at maybe 3-4 years total.
4. Ideally, everyone would like to save, as would we. However, our basic aim is to meet living expenses as a family (which, coincidentally I have no clue what they'd be).
I was asking for both, really. I haven't even been able to contact a school yet to begin negotiations, but I know that whatever I'm offered, someone here will tell me that it's too low and I should have the decency to ask for more. However, we're used to living on extremely modest budgets, and I'm convinced whatever we make in China will allow us a lot more mobility than here. So really, it's whatever.
And also, a rough estimation of what family expenses should be. Infant food costs are nil, since the wife breastfeeds, we cloth diaper so no disposables, etc. Basic costs for living, rent (undoubtedly I will be looking for subsidies of some sort, as we'd like a nicer place to live), etc. |
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Zero
Joined: 08 Sep 2004 Posts: 1402
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Posted: Tue May 11, 2010 10:03 pm Post subject: |
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I will let other posters advise you on what sorts of jobs you will qualify for and how far they will take you and your family.
Meanwhile, I will give you an overall impression: You should make saving a priority. It sounds like you and your wife may be pretty young. It is a good time to start building savings. Don't be content with paycheck-to-paycheck, if you can help it. It would be fine if you came from a wealthy family, but it sounds like you may not have that advantage.
So many things will come up, especially since you have a child. These years you plan to spend overseas make it all the harder to reestablish back in your home country later. To cushion the blow, you will need cash, the more the better. You'll have to establish housing, transportation, etc.
Specific to China, one thing that concerns me is health care, particularly for the baby. If anything serious should come up, god forbid, you will need to pay out-of-pocket, and the costs could eat up the $8,000 you have saved. Run through it all, and then what? I would advise looking into international health insurance (expat insurance, whatever they call it). That will add to your expenses, but it's needed.
There is good money to be made in Beijing and Shanghai, but given that you will probably need nicer housing, and you are on the lower end of the experience spectrum, I think it could be a struggle. A second- or third-tier city might be better -- cheaper, lower-key. Someplace like Hangzhou or Suzhou.
I have to ask, why do you want to go to China at this point? It seems to me that now might be a stage in your life when it's better to get your career on track, get yourself established, and then see if a year or a few abroad might work out for your family. |
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waywardschrimpfs
Joined: 19 Jan 2010 Posts: 5
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Posted: Wed May 12, 2010 8:29 am Post subject: |
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@Zero, thanks for the post. Full of good information, but yes, we're keen on saving.
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I have to ask, why do you want to go to China at this point? It seems to me that now might be a stage in your life when it's better to get your career on track, get yourself established, and then see if a year or a few abroad might work out for your family. |
Well, she's younger than me, but we're both adventurous spirits and looking to experience life while we're young and in the prime of our lives. ESL *is* my career, and what better place to get experience than China? We won't plan to be in China indefinitely, though, as we've got our eyes on Taiwan, Japan, Korea and India. I know lots of money can be made in Korea and Japan specifically, so we're not worried about that part of the equation. We've never had money problems, we've just never had a lot of money, if that makes any sense. We're frugal, low-impact sorts of people.
Besides, we're bored to death here in Ohio and need a change of scenery. I don't feel like moving to Florida, Texas, or California to tap into one of the few ESL markets here Stateside, so we're going abroad. Life's an adventure  |
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powerrose
Joined: 14 Apr 2003 Posts: 119 Location: Shenzhen, China
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Posted: Wed May 12, 2010 12:47 pm Post subject: |
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For us Americans, getting a "career on track" is kindof a joke these days, isn't it? I spent 4 years after JET trying to get a career on track and it was the biggest waste of time (except meeting my husband and moving back to Asia).
You should also think about a nanny? They're affordable here, especially part-time, and you're wife may want to work or go to school in the evenings or on the weekends or something............. |
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askiptochina
Joined: 26 Feb 2010 Posts: 488 Location: Beijing
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Posted: Wed May 12, 2010 7:08 pm Post subject: |
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My question is this; What salary should I be aiming for working in cities like Beijing, Shanghai, Kunming, Chengdu, or Dalian? |
Why China? The salary sucks. If I was married with a child, I would NOT be depending on China income to pay for family. You are looking at $850/month, $500 after you add on your filial responsibilities.
Korea pays twice as much and you'll work the same hours in a cleaner country. Something to think about.
I had a 2.5 million won ($2,212.19) job easily way out in the country. The only reason why I gave it up was because I didn't have a family and was single.
Do you think you'll find a 13,000/RMB job where you teach less than 25 hours? |
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Zero
Joined: 08 Sep 2004 Posts: 1402
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Posted: Wed May 12, 2010 8:41 pm Post subject: |
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powerrose wrote: |
For us Americans, getting a "career on track" is kindof a joke these days, isn't it? |
Very good point! |
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The Ever-changing Cleric

Joined: 19 Feb 2009 Posts: 1523
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Posted: Wed May 12, 2010 9:48 pm Post subject: |
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askiptochina wrote: |
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My question is this; What salary should I be aiming for working in cities like Beijing, Shanghai, Kunming, Chengdu, or Dalian? |
Why China? The salary sucks. If I was married with a child, I would NOT be depending on China income to pay for family. You are looking at $850/month, $500 after you add on your filial responsibilities.
Korea pays twice as much and you'll work the same hours in a cleaner country. Something to think about. |
actually if he works at a university in china he'll only be working half as much as in korea (14-16 hours/wk v. 30/wk in your average korean hagwon). some of that free time can be used in overtime/part-time teaching at/or outside the regular job to earn some extra cash (two of my colleagues double their salary in this way). not only that but the holidays offered in china are far more generous (6-7 weeks mid year and national holidays). finally, if one likes to travel a bit geography dictates that china has far more to see during your free time than korea. a few other things to think about. |
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poompui
Joined: 27 Apr 2010 Posts: 9
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Posted: Thu May 13, 2010 8:04 am Post subject: |
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i suggest looking at qingdao. it's clean, safe and the local people are wonderful. stay far far far away from korea... i have several friends here who are married and have a family. they are all happy. the medical care here, from what i have found at the international clinics, is fine. have you been to an american hospital lately? scarry... give china a chance.  |
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