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Qaaolchoura
Joined: 10 Oct 2008 Posts: 539 Location: 21 miles from the Syrian border
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Posted: Fri Sep 24, 2010 4:52 pm Post subject: Dress to impress? |
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So obviously first impressions matter a great deal. I'm planning on flying to Istanbul in mid October if I don't get a job offer in another country before then, but regardless of whether I'm going out for an interview or simply meeting the school, I want to look appropriate. So I've got some questions about fashion.
1. In the US glasses are seen as both a mark of erudition and an object of humor, but most people are fairly indifferent. However I've heard that in come countries glasses are seen as a sign of a physical defect. Personally, I think I look better with glasses, however I've had enough people tell me the opposite that I've been using pictures where I don't wear glasses.
Honestly I don't really need glasses to see. I can compensate for my mild visual impairment to the point that I actually have 20/15 vision, however doing so causes for prolonged periods of time causes eyestrain and headaches. Most of the time I don't need them, but wear them out of comfort. I usually only avoid them completely if I'm driving or in a context where it would be hard to clean them. (And no, I won't wear contact lenses. Don't ask why, I have my reasons.) Any rate, I suppose it doesn't matter all that much, but I'm curious--are there serious cultural differences in how glasses are perceived?
2. The other thing is facial hair. I've never grown a beard because I've always been under the impression that a clean shaven face is more professional than even a neatly-trimmed beard. However I don't think I've been told this. And I know that, at least in the US, a lot of men avoid beards because women hate them. So I don't really know if beards are verboten even in the US, or it's just a personal fashion thing.
Beards are easier to maintain, and a I feel like they give more of an impression of authority, however I really don't know how facial hair is perceived in foreign countries (except to the extent that mustache-free beards are a sign of piety in Muslim countries). Are their countries where it would tend to matter one way or the other, or would any effect the beard had on school heads and colleagues be pretty much dependent on the individual? And do male teachers in your country generally wear beards?
3. Clothes. Normally I wear shorts in the summer, slacks and sweaters in the winter, and t-shirts, slacks, and a jacket, or slacks and a turtleneck in the spring. If I want to dress formally I wear slacks and a dress shirt, regardless of the season. I often got made fun of at my school as a result, but then, this was college. My friends insisted that I looked too uptight, and I had several people tell me that they assumed I was a professor when it became clear that I was a student. Though I took that last as a compliment.
Now I assume that dress code varies considerably from school to school. I suspect that some schools would force me to wear a tie, however in the schools which have websites with pictures, the teachers generally seem to be dressed in clothes which wouldn't be out of place among hipsters and art students. From your experiences, about what fraction of schools would my normal "nice dressing" (slacks and button-down shirt) be seen as appropriate, what fraction would I have to wear a tie and what fraction of schools have no dress code whatsoever?
Thanks,
~Q |
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Phil_K
Joined: 25 Jan 2007 Posts: 2041 Location: A World of my Own
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Posted: Fri Sep 24, 2010 5:43 pm Post subject: |
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Some advice I received early in my career was: Dress like your students. I'm not sure that would apply to teaching school-age children, although the standard of dressing for schoolteachers seems to have declined since my long-ago schooldays.
In the case of corporate classes, and speaking for Mexico, as that's all I know, I would think you're just about right in your choice. I used to wear formal pants, shirt and a tie (no jacket), but now I dispense with the tie, as that's how most of my students dress. I think these days that is considered professional enough. |
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Sashadroogie

Joined: 17 Apr 2007 Posts: 11061 Location: Moskva, The Workers' Paradise
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Posted: Fri Sep 24, 2010 5:57 pm Post subject: |
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Dress up in Istanbul. Shirt tie etc. Image is everything. |
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scot47

Joined: 10 Jan 2003 Posts: 15343
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Posted: Fri Sep 24, 2010 6:46 pm Post subject: |
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Wear a beard and people will assume that you are one of the Faithful. |
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Glenski

Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Posts: 12844 Location: Hokkaido, JAPAN
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Posted: Fri Sep 24, 2010 10:35 pm Post subject: Re: Dress to impress? |
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Qaaolchoura wrote: |
1. I'm curious--are there serious cultural differences in how glasses are perceived? |
Not where I work (Japan).
Qaaolchoura wrote: |
2. Are their countries where it would tend to matter one way or the other, or would any effect the beard had on school heads and colleagues be pretty much dependent on the individual? And do male teachers in your country generally wear beards? |
Beards in Japan are quite rare, whether for Japanese or foreigners.
Qaaolchoura wrote: |
3. Clothes. Normally I wear shorts in the summer, slacks and sweaters in the winter, and t-shirts, slacks, and a jacket, or slacks and a turtleneck in the spring. |
Outside of class, shorts and T-shirtare ok. In class, no. In Japan stick to dress clothing (tie is optional, depending on the employer).
Qaaolchoura wrote: |
If I want to dress formally I wear slacks and a dress shirt, regardless of the season. I often got made fun of at my school as a result, but then, this was college. |
I don't understand the humor. Usually, a university is seen as a place of respect.
Qaaolchoura wrote: |
My friends insisted that I looked too uptight, and I had several people tell me that they assumed I was a professor when it became clear that I was a student. |
Ah! You didn't say that at first. I still say wear whatever nice clothes you like (as student or teacher). Don't splurge on Armani clothes, though, especially as a student.
Qaaolchoura wrote: |
From your experiences, about what fraction of schools would my normal "nice dressing" (slacks and button-down shirt) be seen as appropriate, what fraction would I have to wear a tie and what fraction of schools have no dress code whatsoever? |
For conversation schools, dress clothing is the norm (except if you have very young kids who you are supposed to play on the floor with). I think less than 10% of conversation schools require ties. In public schools, you should start out with suit and tie. University varies considerably. |
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Justin Trullinger

Joined: 28 Jan 2005 Posts: 3110 Location: Seoul, South Korea and Myanmar for a bit
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Posted: Mon Sep 27, 2010 12:42 am Post subject: |
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Everywhere I've lived in the world, glasses are seen as a sign that you're using correction for a visual impairment. Nothing else that I can think of.
Some people will say they make you look smart, but they's true everyplace as well.
I've never heard of them being a problem; I've taught, with glasses, in maybe four countries now. They're just too commonplace to have any particular interpretation attached to them.
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Justin |
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Zero
Joined: 08 Sep 2004 Posts: 1402
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Posted: Mon Sep 27, 2010 3:27 am Post subject: |
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First order of business: Stop saying "slacks"! |
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johntpartee
Joined: 02 Mar 2010 Posts: 3258
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Posted: Mon Sep 27, 2010 3:53 am Post subject: |
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Whaddya call 'em? |
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Perilla

Joined: 09 Jul 2010 Posts: 792 Location: Hong Kong
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Posted: Mon Sep 27, 2010 4:50 am Post subject: |
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johntpartee wrote: |
Whaddya call 'em? |
In the UK, trousers or pants.
I've never come across a place where glasses are a problem, nor a beard. IMO, dressing smartly doesn't do any harm. If it turns out that you're overdoing it, dress down accordingly. |
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johntpartee
Joined: 02 Mar 2010 Posts: 3258
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Posted: Mon Sep 27, 2010 5:44 am Post subject: |
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Yes, I thought it would be trousers or pants; however, here (stress HERE) in China, if you call them trousers or pants, you're just as likely to be talking about jeans. "Slacks" will specify the more formal wear. |
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naturegirl321

Joined: 04 May 2003 Posts: 9041 Location: home sweet home
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Posted: Mon Sep 27, 2010 3:27 pm Post subject: |
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Justin Trullinger wrote: |
Everywhere I've lived in the world, glasses are seen as a sign that you're using correction for a visual impairment. Nothing else that I can think of.
Some people will say they make you look smart, but they's true everyplace as well.
I've never heard of them being a problem; I've taught, with glasses, in maybe four countries now. They're just too commonplace to have any particular interpretation attached to them.
Best,
Justin |
Justin, we live in the same place. People here wear glasses so their eyes look big I've seen people with frames and no glass inside. I went against the grain and got Lasek.
To the OP, I think it depends where you are and the person. I work with a guy who wear a suit and tie, all the time. And I work with people who wear jeans and t shirts. It depends on the person, though I would nix shorts, short skirts, and tank tops. |
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Paul D.
Joined: 19 Aug 2010 Posts: 55
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Posted: Mon Sep 27, 2010 5:09 pm Post subject: |
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johntpartee wrote: |
Yes, I thought it would be trousers or pants; however, here (stress HERE) in China, if you call them trousers or pants, you're just as likely to be talking about jeans. "Slacks" will specify the more formal wear. |
Sorry to disagree, but, I've never met a person in China who understood the word - slacks. Most don't even know what pants are.
You can't always believe what trolls type though! Forgive me for typing the truth. |
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Zero
Joined: 08 Sep 2004 Posts: 1402
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Posted: Mon Sep 27, 2010 10:39 pm Post subject: |
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It is a valid word where I come from. But to me it sounds ... not quite masculine enough. |
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Mon Sep 27, 2010 10:52 pm Post subject: |
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It's OK for johntpartee, After all, he's quite the slacker
Regards,
John |
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johntpartee
Joined: 02 Mar 2010 Posts: 3258
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Posted: Tue Sep 28, 2010 12:28 am Post subject: |
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johnslat, I was wondering where you were! How's Joe? |
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