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Never Ceased To Be Amazed

Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 3500 Location: Shhh...don't talk to me...I'm playin' dead...
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Posted: Sun Dec 05, 2010 3:47 pm Post subject: |
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| It amazes me how students who are generally so lax about time... |
Luckily, it Never Cease(s) To (Be) Amaze(d) me! ... ...
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eha
Joined: 26 May 2005 Posts: 355 Location: ME
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Posted: Sun Dec 05, 2010 6:06 pm Post subject: |
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'I cared because by that point in my life I'd learned that if you don't protect your standards, your integrity, well, you can use all the excuses you want, but when you let them make you do something you know is wrong, the payback isn't worth it.'
Johnslat: Of course, I agree with you in principle; but how do you deal with the SHEER NASTINESS that you then encounter from--- well, just about everyone around you? Not only students and the misery they can cause--- but management, to whom you're causing headaches, and who 99% of the time prefer to believe the students; and even (this I found the most unkindest cut of all) your colleagues, who are often naively unaware
that it could be their turn tomorrow. If you really stick to your guns, life can become impossible.... and moving on isn't always an option for everybody. |
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Never Ceased To Be Amazed

Joined: 22 Oct 2004 Posts: 3500 Location: Shhh...don't talk to me...I'm playin' dead...
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Posted: Sun Dec 05, 2010 6:32 pm Post subject: |
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It wuz fer me! Hallelujah!!!
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Sun Dec 05, 2010 7:59 pm Post subject: |
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Dear eha,
"If you really stick to your guns, life can become impossible.."
No, it can become extremely difficult, but if you don't, then it becomes impossible - depending on how sensitive your conscience is.
And having been in both places, I will always go with extremely difficult.
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Citizenkane
Joined: 14 Jun 2009 Posts: 234 Location: Xanadu
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Posted: Mon Dec 06, 2010 8:17 am Post subject: |
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| No, it can become extremely difficult, but if you don't, then it becomes impossible - depending on how sensitive your conscience is. |
Actually, John, it can become impossible.
The fact is, if you refuse repeatedly to go along with management's requests to 'pass' students, you run a serious risk of losing your job. Now, maybe you can afford that, or feel you could easily pick up another job quickly (where of course you'd likely face the same issues). Or perhaps, since you worked in a governmental organization, you simply didn't face the very real pressure to keep passing students which those of us who've worked in private colleges have faced.
Incidentally, some might say that in working for an institution sponsored by a government notorious for human rights abuses, you have already compromised your integrity. I say this not to have a dig at you, I'm simply pointing out that the whole issue of integrity may not be as cut and dried as you seem to think. |
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007

Joined: 30 Oct 2006 Posts: 2684 Location: UK/Veteran of the Magic Kingdom
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Posted: Mon Dec 06, 2010 12:39 pm Post subject: |
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| Incidentally, some might say that in working for an institution sponsored by a government notorious for human rights abuses, you have already compromised your integrity. I say this not to have a dig at you, I'm simply pointing out that the whole issue of integrity may not be as cut and dried as you seem to think. |
Well, in this case, Uncle Sam also has lost his integrity because is supporting a government which is notorious for human rights abuses!
I would say that you compromise your integrity when you see a wrongdoing in your place of work and you keep your mouth shut-up because of fear of losing your job!
In this case you have lost both your integrity and dignity!  |
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Cleopatra

Joined: 28 Jun 2003 Posts: 3657 Location: Tuamago Archipelago
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Posted: Mon Dec 06, 2010 3:28 pm Post subject: |
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I agree with eha and Citizenkane.
It's all very well to talk about 'principles' but it's difficult to overestimate the sheer hassle and headache factor involved in 'standing up for what you believe in'. None of us think it's right that students' grades can be 'tweaked' to give the 'right' result, or that students who are 'sick' on exam day get a personalised re-sit exam - at their leisure. But the fact is we are being paid by people who do consider this sort of thing quite acceptable. As far as they are concerned, if we refuse to co-operate, we are simply not doing our job.
I think if you're going to survive here without being eaten up with stress, you simply have to accept that things like the above-mentioned are part of the job, and try not to let it bother you. Not always possible, but what's the alternative? Fight with management every time someone presents an 'eggskoos' weeks after the exam she missed and now demands to 'make up'? Refuse to teach the extra classes reuqired to bring a group of failed students 'up to the level'? You can try, but as CK says, do this often enough and you'll find yourself looking for another job - where you'll face the same nonsense all over again. And for what?
Which isn't to say anything goes. We all have our 'red lines'. I, for example, will not give 'bonus' assignments to individual students who are in danger of failing, despite their requests. Other teachers are happy to do so. As CK also said, 'integrity' isn't neccessarily a clear-cut issue. |
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Bebsi
Joined: 07 Feb 2005 Posts: 958
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Posted: Tue Dec 07, 2010 4:24 pm Post subject: |
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I cared because by that point in my life I'd learned that if you don't protect your standards, your integrity, well, you can use all the excuses you want, but when you let them make you do something you know is wrong, the payback isn't worth it.
We are all we have - if we compromise regarding what we think is right, all we can do is learn from our experiences and never do it again. My motives were strictly personal. I've found that it's much easier to live with myself when I don't feel guilty about having sold out (and yes, I learned that the hard way in the USMC; I screwed up, back when I was in my 20s - I've since learned that doing what others tell you is right, even when you know it's wrong is a very bad way to try to live your life.) |
Well said, John. If we don't have our integrity, we have nothing. Whenever I was asked to 'help' (yes, it is depressingly familiar) a student who had failed, I always responded, "It depends on what you mean by help". If the pass mark, for example, was 60 and he got 58, OK, I would be happy go over the paper and see what I could do. In fact, I am inclined to do that anyway, to give the student the full benefit of a margin of error.
If, however, he gets 50 and the pass mark is 60, no way. I would tell the admin in question, "Well, you do what you want, this is what I've given the student and that's it." I wouldn't budge from that position, ever, and in fairness, I have never really been victimized for it. I would get some hassle, yes, but nothing as drastic as a job loss. I found that in such a case, the admin themselves would find a way to help the student, which was fine by me as my conscience was clear. My sense of fairness was a different matter, and I was never comfortable in such an environment.
Many people do suffer serious consequences, as Cleo points out, and there are those who cannot afford but to compromise. It's ultimately a matter of personal conscience.
I would draw a major distinction between public and private universities in this respect. This pressure to 'help' failing students was something I only ever saw in private institutions, never in public ones. In the latter, yes you get pressure from students themselves, but that's a completely different matter, and indeed I have seen pressure from students in the west also.
I've always told such students, "No, sorry, you have failed and I can't change that. I can help you in other ways, by analyzing where you went wrong, or whatever, but I'm not changing your marks." More often than not, they accepted that. Some went further up the admin line, but their imprecations would fall on deaf ears, at least in government universities.
It is indeed an area that is not as clear cut as we would feel comfortable with, but I would reiterate that, as John says, being able to live with it and with yourself is very important. |
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Tue Dec 07, 2010 5:30 pm Post subject: |
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Dear Citizenkane,
"Incidentally, some might say that in working for an institution sponsored by a government notorious for human rights abuses, you have already compromised your integrity. I say this not to have a dig at you, I'm simply pointing out that the whole issue of integrity may not be as cut and dried as you seem to think."
I can't control what others, including the Saudi government, do (and wouldn't want to.) Along those same lines, I'm not always happy with the way my government spends my tax dollars. Do I, then, refuse to pay taxes? Well, only if I thought that my going to jail would somehow make the world a better place (and there might be some who think it would. )
I don't know if I'd call it "clear cut," but my belief is that my integrity is based only on what I do or don't do.
I suppose an argument could be made that because I pay taxes and because tax dollars are being used by the US military, I'm responsible for
all the actions of those armed forces.
But if that line of reasoning is valid, I wonder how many of us would have ANY integrity (though there'd certainly be enough guilt to go around.)
And, by the way, it's strictly a matter of personal choice. I certainly don't suppose I'm in any way "better" than others who, for various reasons, may behave differently.
My ulterior motive is simple: I like to be able to live with myself - a totally selfish reason.
Regards,
John |
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sliim
Joined: 27 Jan 2006 Posts: 55
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Posted: Wed Dec 08, 2010 5:01 pm Post subject: |
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So to summarize what I have read:
(1) No NOC, no return unless you clean the slate with a new passport.
(2) One mistake, and you are out.
(3) While employed in KSA, observe the "academic code of conduct."
(4) Take abuse with a smile.
Why, why, why would anyone want to waste their short time on earth to do this for a living?
A couple of years working in the ME and feeback from others doing the same thing made me say...no.
You are all educated and worthy people: why? |
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WhatTimeFinish?
Joined: 27 Sep 2010 Posts: 22 Location: On the sofa, in my pants
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Posted: Wed Dec 08, 2010 7:20 pm Post subject: |
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| sliim wrote: |
So to summarize what I have read:
(1) No NOC, no return unless you clean the slate with a new passport.
(2) One mistake, and you are out.
(3) While employed in KSA, observe the "academic code of conduct."
(4) Take abuse with a smile.
Why, why, why would anyone want to waste their short time on earth to do this for a living?
A couple of years working in the ME and feeback from others doing the same thing made me say...no.
You are all educated and worthy people: why? |
Mucho dinero
Oddles of wonga
Not inconsiderable tender
Expansive renumeration
Yet more loot
Just a wild guess, mind! If anyone has any other theories feel free etc etc
BTW not condemning or condoning. We're all able to choose our own path, for our own reasons. I don't expect you to really understand mine just as I wouldn't assume I could really understand yours.
The monetary angle is something which integrates many different emotions and feelings, some which are at the base of a person's psyche, so although my post looks simplistic there are many inherent, genealogical factors within it.
Don't overlook the fact that in some countries the role of teacher is not as respected as you may be used to. You may actually hail from a country which holds the post in an unusually high regard, compared to others possibly more 'deserving', in some opinions.
"but the jingling of the guinea helps the hurt that honor feels" [Tennyson]
BTW The KSA is not for me, either, as are many things. |
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sheikher
Joined: 13 Jul 2009 Posts: 291
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Posted: Wed Dec 08, 2010 7:29 pm Post subject: |
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"KSA is not for me."
I agree. My theory: There's no renumeration anywhere in sight. |
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Bebsi
Joined: 07 Feb 2005 Posts: 958
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Posted: Wed Dec 08, 2010 8:28 pm Post subject: |
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(1) No NOC, no return unless you clean the slate with a new passport.
(2) One mistake, and you are out.
(3) While employed in KSA, observe the "academic code of conduct."
(4) Take abuse with a smile. |
To comment on your conclusion:
1. No, not true. It depends on what embassies have been apprised of the new situation, but by now most have. The London embassy, I am given to believe, now only requires evidence that you left the previous job without breaking your contract (doing a runner). This can be established by your presenting a copy of the final-exit slip given to you on departure. If you don't have this, they may either check the system, which takes time, or ask you for a letter from your last employer stating that you left in accordance with your contract, and not giving his consent to your returning.
2. Depends on what the mistake is, as is the case anywhere. The reputable employers are not intolerant monsters, and many transgressions will indeed be forgiven. Serious transgressions will get you in trouble no matter where you go.
3. I would have thought that you would have a code of conduct to observe anywhere in the world? Again, whether it is reasonable or not depends.
4. No, you don't have to take abuse with a smile...or take it at all, if you are with a decent employer.
As WTF says, everyone is free to choose his own path. Different folks have had different experiences in Saudi, and sometimes, even the same person can have different experiences at different times. |
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cassava
Joined: 24 Feb 2007 Posts: 175
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Posted: Sat Dec 11, 2010 7:27 pm Post subject: |
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I wonder if at least a part of the reason for that might be (gasp) envy/guilt. I mean most of us have MAs from universities in the US, GB, etc. whereas some/many of the "academic lectures" degrees are from places where getting such a degree often depends on how much you can afford.
"Would you like an MA or a PhD?"
"Hmm. I think I'll take the PhD. It's not that much more."
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I assume that the writer is suggesting that some or many professors in Saudi Arabia hold doctorates that are fake. This accusation is couched in a flippant manner, but it is extremely serious.
Would the writer care to provide us with the evidence that led him to this conclusion? |
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Sat Dec 11, 2010 7:37 pm Post subject: |
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Dear cassava,
I wonder - can a "suggestion" be an "accusation?"
Evidence:
1. Personal experience: during my nineteen years in the kingdom, there were at least a half dozen such cases I can recall at the IPA.
2. Reported news:
"A long list of people who had purchased or attempted to purchase fake university diplomas in the United States has spurred the Saudi education authorities to launch an investigation into the issue of Saudis and expatriates who may be working in the Kingdom on counterfeit certificates.
However, Shoura Council member Abdullah Al-Tuwairqi called the reaction to the list �disappointing,� and expressed concern that education officials would have a death-by-committee mentality in addressing the issue.
The Spokesman-Review newspaper in Washington state recently obtained and posted online a list of nearly 10,000 names of people who had spent $7.3 million on purchasing or attempting to purchase fake diplomas from an illegal operation. The US Department of Justice shut down the illegal enterprise and compiled a list of its clients. The list was then leaked to the newspaper, which posted it online at:
http://www.spokesmanreview.com/data/diploma-mill/.
The list contains at least 70 Saudis, or persons who listed their country of residence as Saudi Arabia. For example, one of the names on the list is a Saudi woman who bought degrees in obstetrics and gynecology. The newspaper reported that US federal investigators do not know if the woman is currently working as a medical doctor in the Kingdom.
Deputy Minister of Higher Education Muhammad Al-Ouhali told Al-Watan newspaper that the ministry would investigate people on the list who may be working in Saudi Arabia on fake documents. He said that if the US Department of Justice�s list were accurate then Saudi education officials would take necessary action.
Al-Tuwairqi lambasted newspapers for publishing advertisements from institutes promising college diplomas without background checks. He blames both the government and the media for promoting these illegitimate operations that churn out unqualified degree holders who then �unfairly� compete with people who worked hard for their academic achievements at real universities.
Abdullah Al-Qahtani, head of the Certificates Accreditation Department at the Ministry of Higher Education, told Asharq Al-Awsat newspaper that his department had won an approval from higher authorities to form an investigative committee. The committee would include members from the Ministry of Higher Education, the Interior Ministry, the Ministry of Culture and Information, the Ministry of Commerce and Industry and the Ministry of Labor and would also receive assistance from the King Abdul Aziz City for Science and Technology.
�The Ministry of Higher Education expresses its worries regarding the increasing number of agencies that lure students into nonexisting universities and obtaining unaccredited certificates,� said Al-Qahtani, referring to the issue of local unaccredited institutions and degree mills.
Al-Qahtani also said the Ministry of Higher Education is now consulting the Ministry of Culture and Information to put a stop to the publication of advertisements from unaccredited institutions offering sketchy diplomas. He also called on newspapers and magazines to cooperate with the Ministry of Culture and Information to ensure the accuracy of information provided by universities that want to advertise their services.
According to Al-Watan, there are roughly 18 branches of unauthorized universities, with over 5,000 students in the Kingdom. Last year, 70 staff members at different girls� colleges around the Kingdom were fired for having fake diplomas."
http://archive.arabnews.com/?page=1§ion=0&article=113144&d=21&m=8&y=2008
A google search will turn up more articles should you be interested.
Regards,
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