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ssjup81
Joined: 15 Jun 2009 Posts: 664 Location: Adachi-ku, Tokyo, Japan
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Posted: Fri Jun 17, 2011 4:05 pm Post subject: |
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| seklarwia wrote: |
| ssjup81 wrote: |
I never saw the point in getting drunk (purposely), period.  |
Hear hear! I'll drink to that... alcohol free, of course  |
*Toasts back*
I went to one of those after school parties, and I think I got borderline drunk. I'm not sure. I mean I could still think on my own and stuff, but I was very tipsy, more than I'd ever been before. I kept drinking some kind of a mixed drink, and you didn't taste the alcohol and it was all you can eat/drink. The drink was good and fruity and I didn't really feel it until I stood up to leave.
I was so tired and tipsy and queasy, I took a cab home as opposed to walking to the nearby station and then walking the mile from my stop after the train. All I wanted to do was sleep. I didn't feel bad the next morning, though. So who knows.
Anyway, I hated that feeling, so to me, I don't get why anyone would even want to be drunk. |
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think_balance
Joined: 02 Jul 2008 Posts: 67 Location: Japan
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Posted: Fri Jun 17, 2011 4:16 pm Post subject: |
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| Also read the comment from way back about dating Japanese guys for a cheap night out. I've tried that and I'd much rather pay my own way than be fighting off a frisky salaryman all night! |
And by not dating people for a cheap night out, you're also not using someone and leading them on just so you can get a free meal or entertainment. |
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think_balance
Joined: 02 Jul 2008 Posts: 67 Location: Japan
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Posted: Fri Jun 17, 2011 4:19 pm Post subject: |
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| seklarwia wrote: |
| But more importantly, I wouldn't date anyone simply to use them as a wallet (because a)it's wrong to use people and, b) there are names for girls like that ranging from goldigga to far worse depending on what the "dating" actually involved) and would lose all respect for anyone who would seriously suggest that. |
Great to hear that!
btw - is your profile correct? Are you in Nagano still? What's it like there in terms of culture, people, expats, architecture, etc.? |
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OneJoelFifty
Joined: 06 Oct 2009 Posts: 463
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Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2011 6:58 am Post subject: |
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| Drinking gets more fun the more you do it, trust me! |
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seklarwia
Joined: 20 Jan 2009 Posts: 1546 Location: Monkey onsen, Nagano
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Posted: Mon Jun 20, 2011 10:34 am Post subject: |
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| OneJoelFifty wrote: |
| Drinking gets more fun the more you do it, trust me! |
Yeah right! I'll believe that when hell freezes over.
I was a cheerleader in a team sponsored by an Oz themed bar in my uni days. That meant all the free booze you could drink (even if you didn't want to).
The more I drank and the more nasty drunks I had to deal with, the more I despised alcohol and its effects.
I don't mind drinking parties with Japanese friends so much. But I avoid ALT/foreigner gatherings like the plague because something annoying always happen; if I'm not having to avoid that obnoxious guy who spends the whole night either looking or trying to stick things down my dress then I've got some drunk girl I barely know clinging to my arm and rubbing her vomit covered clothes against me in the process. |
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rxk22
Joined: 19 May 2010 Posts: 1629
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2011 12:53 am Post subject: |
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| seklarwia wrote: |
| OneJoelFifty wrote: |
| Drinking gets more fun the more you do it, trust me! |
Yeah right! I'll believe that when hell freezes over.
I was a cheerleader in a team sponsored by an Oz themed bar in my uni days. That meant all the free booze you could drink (even if you didn't want to).
The more I drank and the more nasty drunks I had to deal with, the more I despised alcohol and its effects.
I don't mind drinking parties with Japanese friends so much. But I avoid ALT/foreigner gatherings like the plague because something annoying always happen; if I'm not having to avoid that obnoxious guy who spends the whole night either looking or trying to stick things down my dress then I've got some drunk girl I barely know clinging to my arm and rubbing her vomit covered clothes against me in the process. |
It depends on what is fun for you. I persoanlly don't like drinking all thatmuch. I get hung over badly. but I have done some interesting things here. I was at a bar and a drunk newhalf model was hitting on me. I even helped her throw up. I wouldn't have gotten that xp if I had stayed in  |
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ssjup81
Joined: 15 Jun 2009 Posts: 664 Location: Adachi-ku, Tokyo, Japan
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Posted: Tue Jun 21, 2011 6:01 am Post subject: |
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| OneJoelFifty wrote: |
| Drinking gets more fun the more you do it, trust me! |
Maybe if alcohol tasted better, I'd agree. Outside of cocktails where you really don't taste it, I don't particularly like the taste of most alcoholic beverages I've tasted.
That aside, drinking for fun just doesn't seem fun to me. I'd rather try different foods that are foreign to my American palette as opposed to drinking alcoholic beverages that don't even taste good. |
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Paul RVA
Joined: 26 Oct 2010 Posts: 11 Location: Richmond, VA, USA
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JohnnyTrippia
Joined: 19 Sep 2010 Posts: 22
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Posted: Thu Jul 21, 2011 2:13 pm Post subject: Great |
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I've really enjoyed this thread and had to resurrect it. If I could turn back time, I could, and probably should have lots more money, opportunities etc.
Some of my favorites from other posters:
Storing boiling water in a thermos flask for future tea usage,
shopping baskets for laundry,
surge protectors to save on power (didn't think of that either),
and of course frugal living cuts down on unnecessary waste.
Cycling is great for your health, the environment, and so the health of those around you, and your pocket - triple benefit at least!
Sharing cooking days with friends seems to be the smartest option for eating. I know people that did this. You cook for 7 people once a week, and eat well every day for a week and have more variety - healthy, and reasonably energy efficient.
I've certainly (accidentally) held onto hotel towels before and made use of them.
A few more:
1) Old packaging boxes can make useful storage space for stationery etc. It always feels that whenever I relocate I am minus bags, so when I do inevitably come across a decent canvas bag, that's my new laundry bag.
2) If you're in a hurry and think you need to take a relatively long taxi somewhere, and don't have time to take 3 different subway lines, just take one subway line as far as it can go that's closest to your destination, and [i]then[/i] take a taxi.
3) I often reuse coffee beans at least once or with a combination of fresh coffee before I start afresh.
4) One I don't use enough - trading sites like Amazon and E-bay. I believe these sites are the future, as long as they're not taxing you too much or at all. In inflationary times, there's no harm in gathering all manner of different items, so long as they have decent resale value. Just don't hold onto them for very long, and you don't want to be stuck with clutter as a foreigner that moves around allot. Probably best to save this one for when you are settled - I'm not. :? You could even make this an investment option if you are buying precious metals like silver for example.
5) Take out leftovers (especially in an expensive place) If you can't finish that nice curry, take it home, with at most a very modest tax for the temporary container used to keep it, and future deliciousness :wink:
It is unfortunate that being frugal often comes at the price of spontaneity but you can't be spontaneous forever I guess. |
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