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PostPosted: Thu Nov 10, 2011 2:57 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you choose to go live in another country which doesn't share your beliefs, you live by their rules if you expect them to give you a nice big pay check. Outside of Saudi, they do allow churches to function as long as they don't play the "evangelist" game. If one doesn't like it, one can stay in one's own country where one get to set the rules.

Their ball... their court... their rules...

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 10, 2011 3:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

veiledsentiments wrote:
If you choose to go live in another country which doesn't share your beliefs, you live by their rules if you expect them to give you a nice big pay check. Outside of Saudi, they do allow churches to function as long as they don't play the "evangelist" game. If one doesn't like it, one can stay in one's own country where one get to set the rules.

Their ball... their court... their rules...

VS


Exactly. And their rule book says....
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 10, 2011 4:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

... that there are only Islamic holidays given...

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It's Scary!



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PostPosted: Thu Nov 10, 2011 11:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

veiledsentiments wrote:
... that there are only Islamic holidays given...

VS


Well, it's not their fault that our parents took us away from the one true religion, is it?!? Laughing Laughing Laughing

It's a asinine point-of-view!
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 12, 2011 6:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Are we, or are we not, having this conversation in the "Middle East" forum?

There are probably as many rule books in Middle East as there are souks. When there's a question, they all go back to the Books - the trilogy of The Big Three with The Last being "the best" - and look for the answer.

Sure you can't knock on doors to spread the good word (although I saw it on the street in Egypt, a Protestant Christian passing out pamphlets), but anyone who ascribes to any of The Only Three is free to practice, without disturbing others ... which can quickly be deemed "threatening security" and, in that case, severe consequences.

Honestly, in my experience, it was easy to be Christian in Egypt and Turkey. Others may have different experiences other places. Like, they may have tried to sneak a Bible into Saudi or something. I simply noticed the mistake in my contract, which didn't include paid time off for my religious observation, and didn't see it as a point of negotiation. I got it. Very Happy
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 12, 2011 10:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It's Scary! wrote:
veiledsentiments wrote:
... that there are only Islamic holidays given...

VS


Well, it's not their fault that our parents took us away from the one true religion, is it?!? Laughing Laughing Laughing

It's a asinine point-of-view!


Not necessarily!

Really, living in IBMland does have its advantages, especially when your answer to everything can indeed be one of three words: Insh'Allah ("God willing" or "God's will"), bookra ("tomorrow"), or mumkin ("maybe" or "I can't").



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PostPosted: Sat Nov 12, 2011 10:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear justcolleen,

Or all three words together: Inshallah, bookra, mumpkin


which I heard probably a few thousand times. Very Happy


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John
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 12, 2011 11:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

johnslat wrote:
Dear justcolleen,

Or all three words together: Inshallah, bookra, mumpkin


which I heard probably a few thousand times. Very Happy


Regards,

John


Was that during the course of one taxi ride?
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 13, 2011 1:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear justcolleen,


Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing Laughing

Yup, one VERY short taxi ride.

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PostPosted: Sun Nov 13, 2011 2:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Except that in Egypt, IBM is Insha'Allah, Bukra, & Ma'alish. Laughing Mumkin actually means 'possible' and in Egypt one of the first phrases that you learn is "mish mumkin" ... "impossible."

justcolleen... this is the big difference between teaching in the Levant or North Africa where there are indigenous Christians and the Gulf where there are none but us expats. I started out in Egypt where we got two Christmases, 2 Easters, and 2 Eids... and then went to Oman where many of my students had never even met a Christian until they arrived at the university from their village.

It was a shock to many to learn that Christmas was just a regular workday. It was the same in the Emirates. My students thought it was terrible that we had to work on our major religious days.

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PostPosted: Sun Nov 13, 2011 10:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

veiledsentiments wrote:
Except that in Egypt, IBM is Insha'Allah, Bukra, & Ma'alish. Laughing Mumkin actually means 'possible' and in Egypt one of the first phrases that you learn is "mish mumkin" ... "impossible."
VS


Or "maybe" or "I can't".

Then there's always fil mish-mish, right?
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 13, 2011 11:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

veiledsentiments wrote:
justcolleen... this is the big difference between teaching in the Levant or North Africa where there are indigenous Christians and the Gulf where there are none but us expats. I started out in Egypt where we got two Christmases, 2 Easters, and 2 Eids... and then went to Oman where many of my students had never even met a Christian until they arrived at the university from their village.

It was a shock to many to learn that Christmas was just a regular workday. It was the same in the Emirates. My students thought it was terrible that we had to work on our major religious days.

VS


That's all? I got two Christmases and two Christmas Eves, two Easters one Ash Wednesday and one Good Friday, two New Years, one Ramadan and two Eids, one Prophet Mohamed's Birthday, and my birthday as paid holidays every year. Thanksgiving was a non-religious event, much to the locals' surprise (and as it should have been), and included a traditional meal, music, games, and belly dancing in my office. Very Happy
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 13, 2011 1:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

And people wonder why I loved Egypt. Laughing

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PostPosted: Mon Nov 14, 2011 10:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Uhm...I still wonder, VS. And you're the one who'd rather vacation in Cairo or the hills of Iran than Tahiti/Firenze/San Fran!
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 15, 2011 12:53 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

There is just no accounting for taste, is there... Cool

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