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shenyanggerry
Joined: 02 Nov 2003 Posts: 619 Location: Canada
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Posted: Mon May 17, 2004 12:52 am Post subject: |
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Come to China! You can find jobs that give you time off to do what you want along with teaching. I teach fourteen fifty periods per week in pairs of two. That means one two hour lesson plan per week - varied according to the different class levels. If I wanted more money, I could teach part time on the side. I don't need the extra cash so I don't bother. Coming from the US, I'd suggest you pick an area in China with an equivalent climate.
Yes there are stressfull things here. Compared to a North American classroom, they're mickey mouse.
I make under $450 (USD) per month. I live comfortably. I eat out 4 - 10 times a week, mostly travel by taxi and drink to my heart's (but not my liver's) content. I also get my clothes tailor made for a fraction of what off-the-shelf costs at home. |
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Talkdoc
Joined: 03 Mar 2004 Posts: 696
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Posted: Mon May 17, 2004 12:57 am Post subject: |
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Ludwig

Joined: 26 Apr 2004 Posts: 1096 Location: 22� 20' N, 114� 11' E
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Posted: Mon May 17, 2004 3:42 am Post subject: |
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'TalkDoc', touchy, touchy. Don't get your knickers in a twist. All because you were treated as a kid during your time in Asia does not mean everyone else is. I suppose it must be somewhat annoying however to hear of those that secured the posts that you never could. This does not mean, however, that other prospective parties should not hear of their existence.
I see you avoided two (trivial) questions regarding your viva; that is very instructive.
Why do you not just simply write spontaneously? Why do you have to pre-compose your messages on Word? |
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James_T_Kirk

Joined: 20 Sep 2003 Posts: 357 Location: Ten Forward
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Posted: Mon May 17, 2004 3:44 am Post subject: |
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Doc has provided you with some food for thought. Since I'm probably not as old as Doc (I am in my late 20s), and thus probably not as wise, take the following comments with a grain of salt:
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| However, and saving the discussion on finances for later, there are many other sources of stress here that more than replace the �CYA issues� you addressed. |
Speaking from the perspective of a guy that has both taught English in China and worked in a corporate environment in America, I find this statement misleading. Don't get me wrong, the other sources of stress that Doc discussed certainly do exist, but they are nothing compared to the sources of stress that we deal with on a daily basis here in the United States! Granted, I am not the father of a 13 year old boy, but, everything else being equal, I believe you will find life much less stressful in China.
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EFL teaching in China, as I see it, is most appropriate for pre-career and post-career (retired) people (and, I imagine, also for people in their 30s and 40s who only maintained marginal existences back home anyway). You will, if you are lucky, earn enough to live on comfortably while you are here but, as William Wallace harrowingly points out above, you will soon become an economic prisoner of China unless you have considerable savings to fall back on to restart your life when your �stress-free� life here grows old. There is no way you can live comfortably here and still have remaining income with which to pay-off credit-card debt, car loans, student loans, mortgage payments, etc. This means, you will have to rent out your house, if you have one, and then satisfy all of your indebtedness before coming here. You will need to leave a cushion of several thousand dollars in your savings account to pay for unforeseen medical and other expenses and as seed-money to refinance your life when and if you return home.
Don�t do it. No matter how stressful life is for you back home; just don�t do it. This is not the answer for you, believe me. If it were me, I would start a treatment of anti-depressants and anxiolytics before I would turn my life upside down in order to move to China, especially with a 13 year-old son. Finish your career back home, no matter how stressful it is. Wait until your son graduates college, then come here on a six-month contract and see what you think.
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Doc is assuming that you have a lot of personal debt that needs to be addressed. If this is the case, he is right...China is not the place for you. However, if you are in good shape financially, why not go for it? I only spent one year in China (I should have stayed longer), and it was the best year of my life. I think you would have a similar experience. As for your son, children adapt very quickly to change, and while he might initially be homesick at first, he will ultimately get so much out of the experience. And hey, if you get to China and hate it after six months, there is nothing stopping you from returning to the United States.
Go for it! As Mark Twain once said, "Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." Whatever you decide to do, good luck!
Cheers,
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windsorman1972

Joined: 12 May 2004 Posts: 26 Location: China - Here for the Cheap Sex Only
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Posted: Mon May 17, 2004 4:35 am Post subject: |
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| Why do you not just simply write spontaneously? Why do you have to pre-compose your messages on Word? |
Are we now penalising and critising posters for giving some intelligent thought and form to their replies?? I wish everybody would. Lee_Odden is right, you need to get a life.
The man is a retired university professor from America (which, I have no trouble believing). Do you really think he is envious of your EFL position in Hong Kong??? Are you that stupid or just totally immature?
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ilunga

Joined: 17 Oct 2003 Posts: 842 Location: China
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Posted: Mon May 17, 2004 4:40 am Post subject: |
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Ludwig may have gone a little OTT but he makes a good point.
The way talkdoc was treated isn't relevant to whether the original poster should choose to come to China.
Every city in China is in some way different. It all comes down to how you cope with the 'attention'. Some people can't handle it. They shouldn't use that fact to try and put off someone who could quite conceivably cope much better in a similar situation. |
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Talkdoc
Joined: 03 Mar 2004 Posts: 696
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Talkdoc
Joined: 03 Mar 2004 Posts: 696
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Posted: Mon May 17, 2004 6:27 am Post subject: |
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goeastyoung(ish)man!

Joined: 09 Jun 2003 Posts: 139 Location: back in US
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Posted: Mon May 17, 2004 8:09 am Post subject: |
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Back to the original question...........
Trebek, I think you are referring to the trend in the US to leave no child behind by teaching to the test and discouraging or even prohibiting any type of creative teaching. I only have experience in a University here and only this school year. However it is obvious that the poor teaching methods and (due to?) ENDLESS EXAMS that students are subjected to here have led to some cra.ppy English. I tell my students that their education lacks a lot, but that my country is learning their Confucing methods.
As far as failing students, I failed some English Composition students for plagiarism, and maybe the failing marks stuck or maybe they didn't. Many people here, Chinese and otherwise, tell me that cheating is widespread, and frowned on. Frowned on and then accepted with a sigh. I definitely have a different attitude towards it than my colleagues. However, they point out correctly, that it is different since I am an outsider and especially a foreigner. (It is a source of stress and also of power here. - "Don't disappoint the foreigner!")
Since you are a real, that is certified and experienced teacher, you should check with the international schools, since they often pay much higher than Chinese schools. It might be late for most of those schools for this fall. |
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windsorman1972

Joined: 12 May 2004 Posts: 26 Location: China - Here for the Cheap Sex Only
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Posted: Mon May 17, 2004 8:27 am Post subject: |
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| Many people here, Chinese and otherwise, tell me that cheating is widespread, and frowned on. Frowned on and then accepted with a sigh. I definitely have a different attitude towards it than my colleagues. |
In my 3 years here I can tell you that cheating and lying are definitely widespread in China. The Chinese do it without thinking and, yes, it is widely accepted and tolerated. When I first got here I thought is was so cool that people bargained on the price for everything until I realised that the reason for it is that there is an assumption that you will definitely be cheated if you don't.
I applaud you for taking a position and failing those students. That took a lot of courage!
Hey Doc, good work with Ludwig! That should quiet the forum's baby for a while. But like you said, he'll just come back under a different name.
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senor boogie woogie

Joined: 25 Feb 2003 Posts: 676 Location: Beautiful Hangzhou China
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Posted: Mon May 17, 2004 8:42 am Post subject: |
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Hola!
I suggest www.escapeartists.com to check out other information about work positions and opportunities outside the USA.
What is your son like? Is he a mature and responsible individual? Does he like being around a lot of people (social and outgoing) or does he stay by himself? If he is a loner, he will change his tune here.
Never been to Vietnam, but what i have researched, they pay the best salary of the three nations that you have mentioned. I have been to Thailand once, totally love it, but I was (and will be again) a tourist, not an alien resident. Much difference.
China is a 100 percent opposite of the USA/Canada. "Soprano guy" states that China is a "tragic and evil" land. i will tell you that he is full of s h i t. China is an incredible nation, the vast majority of the people are very nice and outgoing, the landscape is a sight to behold, and you can find a nice city to live in, be treated very well and live a quality lifestyle on very little money. Also, remember, China is a huge nation with a massive population. It is really about 5 countries in one. There are wonderful cities to live here besides Shanghai and Beijing:
Hangzhou (my home)
Suzhou
Qingdao
Xiamen
Nanjing
Kunming
Chengdu
Dalian
Guangzhou
Shenzhen
Ningbo
I would not choose Northeast China, too cold and too polluted.
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gingermeggs

Joined: 29 Jan 2004 Posts: 162
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Posted: Mon May 17, 2004 9:34 am Post subject: |
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Trebek, come to China....you will find minor stresses, for sure, BUT, if you come here with an open mind, a realisation that you have come to an entirely different culture, and a willingness to fit into that culture, you and your son will have a great time.
HOWEVER!!.....You will have noticed on this Forum a great deal of juvenile nit-picking, bitching, boasting,and in many cases, downright nastiness. Unfortunately, a lot of these people profess to be teachers here.
Ponder the advice from sensible people, ignore the ranters and ravers, and make your decision.
The world consists of many different countries, so why not get out there snd experience one or two? Go for it. |
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ilunga

Joined: 17 Oct 2003 Posts: 842 Location: China
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Posted: Mon May 17, 2004 9:39 am Post subject: |
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| Could someone please point me in the direction of the post where ludwig questioned talkdoc's qualifications? |
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windsorman1972

Joined: 12 May 2004 Posts: 26 Location: China - Here for the Cheap Sex Only
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Posted: Mon May 17, 2004 10:35 am Post subject: |
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| Could someone please point me in the direction of the post where ludwig questioned talkdoc's qualifications? |
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| Now that the parade is over [...] |
Well, I am not the one who claims to be a Harvard PhD, now, am I?
(By the way, who was your supervisor and who were the external examiners at your viva?) |
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| I see you avoided two (trivial) questions regarding your viva; that is very instructive. |
Is there any other way to read that? This joker listed (paraded) his credentials and then asked Talkdoc to prove his. |
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Lee_Odden

Joined: 22 Apr 2004 Posts: 172
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Posted: Mon May 17, 2004 12:29 pm Post subject: |
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I am very sorry here but there is something pretty irresponsible about advising a man with a 13 year old son to come to China in order to make what - 500 dollars per month, 800 dollars per month, maybe if he is real lucky 1,000 dollars per month? Do people make a lot more than that teaching EFL in China? Not really. Sure, there will be exceptions (I'm one) but 6,000 - 8,000 RMB is the norm in China; especially at universities. Schools and universities that pay considerably more only do so because the cost of living is much higher like in places such as Shanghai and Hong Kong. You need to make at least 20,000 RMB per month in Shanghai to have the same buying power as someone making 8,000 RMB per month in Anhui or Liaoning Province.
Obviously, Trebek is a grown man and he will make his own decisions. But what is going to happen if Trebek's son becomes ill? What's going to happen if Trebek becomes ill and the school docks his pay? I make 10,000 RMB (about $1200 US) in Anhui province which is considered, by Chinese standards, a lot of money. And it is if you live like a lower-class Chinese native. Buy a bed, medication for hypertension, require nasal surgery (like I did 3 months ago), buy a cell phone, a DVD player, a nice throw-rug for the floor, extra appliances for the apartment and you know what? There isn't anything left at the end of the month and you are going into your money at home to pay for things.
I agree with William Wallace, Norman, Doc and others - teaching EFL in China is not for "mid-careeer" people in their 40s with legitimate degrees and certificates.
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