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Is teaching in SA as horrific as I'm reading it to be?
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scot47



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PostPosted: Tue Mar 11, 2014 10:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have been in KSA but I have never been a woamn. I am a bit surpriswed that a desire tro go to medical school would take you to KSA. How much do you need for that? How much do you imagine you can save in a year in KSA ?
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SENTINEL33



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PostPosted: Tue Mar 11, 2014 4:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Usually, when someone mentions he “welcomes constructive feedback”, he (generic “he”) is actually saying:……… kindly don’t reply unless you agree with me.

That is not going to happen here…..completely out of the question. There's going to be disagreement from the get-go.

You’re an exceptional writer, to be sure, and quite convincing. Nevertheless, your goals and plans belong to the Realm of Oz – they’re grounded in pure fantasy peppered with pie in the sky notions that have no basis in reality.

It’s an astonishing display of naïveté from which you have to wean yourself away, difficult though it may be.

1. Your very first statements confirm that you are not really a teacher…you’re an amateur, a dabbler with no real interest in the ESL field. It’s just a gig on your way to something bigger and better. You have absolutely no preparation in teaching and have bought - hook, line and sinker - into the notion that “anyone can teach English overseas by getting a TESL certificate”. Keep dreaming.

2. The days when an English teacher could work in KSA a couple of years and then go home and buy a condo with his petro-dollars have long since receded into the sulphuric mists of history. That couple of years has now become at least a decade long. So the idea that you can work in KSA “teaching” English for a couple of years and then – SHAZAM – you’ll be able to afford your med school tuition is delusional. It’s not going to happen – no matter how much you want it to.

3. The idea that KSA is an “extreme” country has always struck me as laughable. It’s a complete misnomer and totally mischaracterizes the country. In fact, KSA is exactly the opposite…..it’s not extreme. Instead, it's an immobile, mute monolith, fossilized in space and time, peering out at the rest of the world in disbelief, horror and fear. A westerner’s greatest danger in KSA is not the “laws” and all that. Instead it’s the menacing, creeping, clawing state of utter boredom that can leave the unsuspecting in a lobotomized trance for the duration. Nothing of fundamental importance has changed in 2000 years – and there are no real prospect of that changing anytime soon.

4. “ It would be “nice’ to learn Arabic.” Prepare for a 10 year sojourn then, because that’s how long it’s going to take to reach a basic speaking level.

5. I just want to be safe in terms of having a boss who possesses integrity. I don't want to get cheated or be forced into a distressful situation that makes me want to leave. I don't want to be in a shady situation with co-workers who are out to get me.

Nobody can guarantee this or suggest ways to avoid it. Not just in KSA but anywhere. This is just another pie in the sky notion of how you feel the world should be (rather than how it is).

I strongly suggest a complete change in direction for you. If you’re truly bent on going to med school, you’re simply wasting your time in this field and in this part of the world. It’s not what you think it is….not even close.
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bootita



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PostPosted: Wed Mar 12, 2014 4:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi!!

I say just GO. Go and try it. listen to your heart and give it a shot because why not?????
What doesn't kill you....

and if you want to be a DOCTOR????? then you need to be tough. Go to KSA, even if its with a shady contractor....because again, why not??? everyone is looking for the perfect situation...well it doesn't sound like that exists in KSA especially "nowadays"...
it might suck and you might have to leave early somehow, BUT it might (and probably will) be one of the most amazing experiences of your life.

JUST DO IT.

good luck.
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johnslat



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PostPosted: Wed Mar 12, 2014 12:29 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear bootita,

"JUST DO IT."

You're not the same person who gave me the same advice about joining the Marines in 1963 - just before the Vietnam War started escalating, are you? Very Happy

Regards,
John
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Gulezar



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PostPosted: Wed Mar 12, 2014 1:04 pm    Post subject: Re: Is teaching in SA as horrific as I'm reading it to be? Reply with quote

teacheverywhere wrote:
I have a strong desire to experience many things in life, and I would like to know what it is like to live in an extreme country. It would also be nice to learn Arabic. I want the ability to empathize with people who live in such a heavily governed society. If I do obtain a teaching job in SA, my lifestyle would not even be comparable to that of its female citizens, I don't think. I would never be fully submerged in the culture, but I'll have a hands on experience or glimpse into their world. That is important to me. I can't relate if I can't feel. I seek to understand and to improve the wellness of humanity.


Please be careful about telling Saudi women that they live in a heavily governed society. Please be careful about telling them your ideas about how to make humanity well. You see, they already know that they live in the perfect society and that all is well there, and if they express a different opinion than that to you, you may be accused of indoctrinating them with these heretical ideas. You will find that there are many non-locals and their lives may be an even more eye-opening and heart-breaking experience for you.

Aside from that, as long as you are aware that it is no picnic, you will be fine. Expect the worse and you might be pleasantly surprised and you will have lots of time to study and save some money. You'll have stories to tell about your sojourn in the Kingdom and you will have something to commiserate about if you meet Muslims outside of KSA.
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lcanupp1964



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PostPosted: Wed Mar 12, 2014 1:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ya see that big ol’ dark, deep hole out yonder in the middle of nowhere? You know the one I mean. It’s the hole that has that ridiculous warning sign. Do we really need the sign all lit-up and fancy like in bright neon? Walk towards the screams. You see it now? Great. Jump. Just do it. Have a little faith my brother. Ignore the chipped bone fragments and dried blood you see incrusting the jagged edges of what we people in these parts call “The Mister-Happy Fun Hole of Naivety”. Dive right in like a ravenous learning disabled otter chasing after a plump, tasty catfish. Why do you need a “perfect situation” like having knowledge, experience and the advice of countless others that have told people to stay away from that teacher sucking vortex? Who needs crazy things like safety equipment, rope, food, water – just close your eyes. Don’t waste all those precious minutes reading and asking questions. Studying is for wimps and solid, reliable research is for docile-tiny-little-baby lambs. Yes sir! Three bags full! All that silly information about that hole and how many people (they all kind-of remind me of you, actually) have plummeted to their demise. Just do it!

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SENTINEL33



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PostPosted: Wed Mar 12, 2014 2:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

bootita wrote:
Hi!!

I say just GO. Go and try it. listen to your heart and give it a shot because why not?????
What doesn't kill you....

and if you want to be a DOCTOR????? then you need to be tough. Go to KSA, even if its with a shady contractor....because again, why not??? everyone is looking for the perfect situation...well it doesn't sound like that exists in KSA especially "nowadays"...
it might suck and you might have to leave early somehow, BUT it might (and probably will) be one of the most amazing experiences of your life.

JUST DO IT.

good luck.


I agree. JUST GO. Just do it......Who cares anyway? You only have one life to live.....Listen to your heart.....Ignore those hate-mongers.....Wanna be a doctor? No problem.....just do it......just be tough.....why not?......It might be amazing.......May as well get pregnant along the way......why not?......Then you'll really have memories.......Everyone's looking for the perfect situation.....Not you....you found it !....And who cares anyway?......No teaching credentials?.....Who cares......Just do it......Why not?.....Ha Ha.........Nothing to lose....You're amazing.......Go with a shady contractor?......why not? You might be surprised.....It could be like heaven!.....It might suck, but then you just get out !......Nothing ventured, nothing gained........What doesn't kill you.......Even if it does, just do it....Why not?.......Who'd care anyway?

Somethings are best left unsaid as we pass by in silence.
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cmp45



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PostPosted: Wed Mar 12, 2014 5:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Interesting comments...worth considering all the opinions; much of what has been stated up this point is all very valid ...do your research as thoroughly as you can.

blind risk(just do it) Versus a calculated risk(doing your research first and weighing the pros and cons)

I think most sane people would choose the later strategy; however, to be fair...Part of being sane, is being a little bit crazy(Quote by Janet Long). Just do it!?

Laughing
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fledex



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PostPosted: Wed Mar 12, 2014 5:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm a "just say yes and do it" kind of guy, and 95% of the time it all works out great; never look back. Getting to the other 5%, I have to say that the time I spent with Edex (especially in Qassim) has to be the worst, most regrettable, waste of time in my life, and downright dangerous at that. I like adventure, but there was no adventure in it, just boredom at best.
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lcanupp1964



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PostPosted: Wed Mar 12, 2014 7:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I wonder if some of the newer posters with zero experience teaching in KSA might feel that we are trying to trick them in not coming because we want all the riches to ourselves (???). Laughing

Even through this place has warped my since of humor a little, I sincerely hope that everybody thinking about coming over here truly realizes that it will take incapable amounts of sweat, tears, moments of rage (hopefully in the privacy of ones' apartment), utter boredom, and gushes after gushes of frustration.

It took me more than half my teaching career to figure out the secret to my success. It's only one easy thing; you just have to figure out which of the billions of things it could be and tailor that one thing to you.
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plumpy nut



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 6:10 am    Post subject: Re: Is teaching in SA as horrific as I'm reading it to be? Reply with quote

teacheverywhere wrote:
It's the lack of professionalism and honesty from the employers that concern me.


You will experience both very heavily. There will not be a day where it won't pop up in your mind. However if the money is worth it go ahead and come. Although be very careful of coming on anything other than a visa that leads to an Iqama.
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teacheverywhere



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 1:38 pm    Post subject: Re: Is teaching in SA as horrific as I'm reading it to be? Reply with quote

Gulezar wrote:
teacheverywhere wrote:
I have a strong desire to experience many things in life, and I would like to know what it is like to live in an extreme country. It would also be nice to learn Arabic. I want the ability to empathize with people who live in such a heavily governed society. If I do obtain a teaching job in SA, my lifestyle would not even be comparable to that of its female citizens, I don't think. I would never be fully submerged in the culture, but I'll have a hands on experience or glimpse into their world. That is important to me. I can't relate if I can't feel. I seek to understand and to improve the wellness of humanity.


Please be careful about telling Saudi women that they live in a heavily governed society. Please be careful about telling them your ideas about how to make humanity well. You see, they already know that they live in the perfect society and that all is well there, and if they express a different opinion than that to you, you may be accused of indoctrinating them with these heretical ideas. You will find that there are many non-locals and their lives may be an even more eye-opening and heart-breaking experience for you.

Aside from that, as long as you are aware that it is no picnic, you will be fine. Expect the worse and you might be pleasantly surprised and you will have lots of time to study and save some money. You'll have stories to tell about your sojourn in the Kingdom and you will have something to commiserate about if you meet Muslims outside of KSA.


Over the summer, I had a conversation with my female Hindu friend about the symbolism of women in her home country. She made me revise my entire opinion about the matter. Furthermore, she made me realize just how differently relatively narrow I had been thinking. We were discussing the role of women in India, and the recent nationally known sexual assault cases in her country. She said, and I'm going to paraphrase here, 'Why do Americans think that we hate our women? That we cover them up as a way to shun them from society or privilege? In India, we guard our women, and we protect them because they are sacred. People outside our culture think that we want to oppress our women by covering them with fabric. We are only protecting them from the misbehaviors of men.' Then, among other related things, we discussed the aberrations that have lead to violent sexual assaults and atrocities in India.

In that moment, I felt almost disappointed in myself for not having known all of what she had said. At the same time, I felt an immense gush of gratitude towards her for making my field of vision wider.

All of that is to say this: I understand what you mean.
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sicklyman



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 3:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I hope she (and you) understand that the logical premise of her point of view is that the problem with the world is men.

Unsurprisingly, I've yet to find anyone in Saudi who has espoused this idea of female protectionism while also confessing that this is an essential feature in any society with endemic perversion of the male.
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mzuri



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 3:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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In India, we guard our women, and we protect them because they are sacred. People outside our culture think that we want to oppress our women by covering them with fabric. We are only protecting them from the misbehaviors of men.' Then, among other related things, we discussed the aberrations that have lead to violent sexual assaults and atrocities in India.


Seriously???? And you accepted this as a reasonable rationale for denying half the human species self-determination? Or perhaps because it was a woman who defended the cultural practice?

Similar arguments have justified slavery and colonialism.

If we were talking about livestock or small children, the argument might make more sense.
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teacheverywhere



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 4:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

mzuri wrote:
Quote:
In India, we guard our women, and we protect them because they are sacred. People outside our culture think that we want to oppress our women by covering them with fabric. We are only protecting them from the misbehaviors of men.' Then, among other related things, we discussed the aberrations that have lead to violent sexual assaults and atrocities in India.


Seriously???? And you accepted this as a reasonable rationale for denying half the human species self-determination? Or perhaps because it was a woman who defended the cultural practice?

Similar arguments have justified slavery and colonialism.

If we were talking about livestock or small children, the argument might make more sense.


The purpose of my story was to show a shift in how I viewed something. A way to look at something differently, and an attempt to understand another culture. My opinion on whether that justifies the on-goings in India was not expressed. You are making a judgement call on my ability to reason because of something I didn't say/do.

"Over the summer, I had a conversation with my female Hindu friend about the symbolism of women in her home country. She made me revise my entire opinion about the matter." ----Changed my opinion about the matter is in reference to the first sentence- not to justifying why women are brutally treated in a certain part of the world. Even she did not use that as a justification for brutality.

Thanks for everyone who helped me with my request. I greatly appreciate it.
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