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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2014 2:41 pm Post subject: |
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| bigdurian wrote: |
| Never had a problem getting a MEV. It's worth it if you're going away a lot. |
Are you female?
How many female teachers easily get such?
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rwright
Joined: 12 Jun 2014 Posts: 7 Location: United States
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Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2014 2:50 pm Post subject: |
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Thank you all for the warnings; it is likely that I am going to turn down the EdEx contract though I am going to wait a couple of days longer to assess my options in Korea (I have another interview tonight but still haven't received my FBI check back and am hoping there aren't any problems).
I really appreciate the thoughtful (and thought-provoking) comments. I am an older teacher (39). I ignored the 'red flags' and advice about a bad school when taking my first teaching gig...and got screwed. I don't want to make the same mistake twice! |
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nomad soul

Joined: 31 Jan 2010 Posts: 11454 Location: The real world
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Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2014 2:53 pm Post subject: |
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| veiledsentiments wrote: |
| bigdurian wrote: |
| Never had a problem getting a MEV. It's worth it if you're going away a lot. |
Are you female?
How many female teachers easily get such? |
More specifically, EdEx teachers. |
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rwright
Joined: 12 Jun 2014 Posts: 7 Location: United States
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Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2014 2:55 pm Post subject: |
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| I would like to know this, too; is there a difference between men and women being provided a MEV via EdEx? |
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cultofpersonality
Joined: 12 Jan 2012 Posts: 94
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Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2014 12:31 am Post subject: |
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| Female teachers are not easy to retain...they need an incentive. In my old company some of the females had multiple exits for this very reason. Men are far more expendable than female teachers in the Kingdom. I've seen females have some ridiculous demands met that I wouldn't have dreamed of proposing. |
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Gulezar
Joined: 19 Jun 2007 Posts: 483
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Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2014 4:24 am Post subject: Male/Female |
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| cultofpersonality wrote: |
| Female teachers are not easy to retain...they need an incentive. In my old company some of the females had multiple exits for this very reason. Men are far more expendable than female teachers in the Kingdom. I've seen females have some ridiculous demands met that I wouldn't have dreamed of proposing. |
Isn't that interesting? So many people forget to state their status. Married with family, single female or single male all get different treatment, and usually a different experience. Who hires you and where you work all impact the time in Saudi.
I can understand that women seem to get special treatment, but you have to admit that they are often stepping down when it comes to liberty: no driving, fashion restrictions, restrictions on travel and exercise, curfews and more, which most can adapt to. Locked down female accommodations are probably a thing of the past, but to have a taste of the life which many have left behind, they have to fly out to Dubai.
I understand that men also are stepping down in liberties, but the Saudi teaching market seem to run on supply and demand and the white/western women often find out that they have the upper hand. |
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plumpy nut
Joined: 12 Mar 2011 Posts: 1652
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Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2014 9:58 am Post subject: |
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| rwright wrote: |
I have another interview tonight but still haven't received my FBI check back and am hoping there aren't any problems).
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You don't need an FBI check for Saudi Immigration. You could go get a local city police check today and that would be enough. |
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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2014 1:38 pm Post subject: |
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| rwright wrote: |
| I am an older teacher (39). |
In the Gulf, especially amongst the women teachers, you would be young.
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nomad soul

Joined: 31 Jan 2010 Posts: 11454 Location: The real world
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Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2014 1:44 pm Post subject: Re: Male/Female |
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| Gulezar wrote: |
| I understand that men also are stepping down in liberties, but the Saudi teaching market seem to run on supply and demand and the white/western women often find out that they have the upper hand. |
That certainly doesn't describe my "white/western" female friends' experiences while working for contracting companies. |
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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Thu Jun 19, 2014 2:18 pm Post subject: Re: Male/Female |
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| nomad soul wrote: |
| Gulezar wrote: |
| I understand that men also are stepping down in liberties, but the Saudi teaching market seem to run on supply and demand and the white/western women often find out that they have the upper hand. |
That certainly doesn't describe my "white/western" female friends' experiences while working for contracting companies. |
Nor of my friends... the constant at the universities was that the men's side was pretty well taken care of while the women's side was ignored at best.
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scot47

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Posted: Tue Jun 24, 2014 8:35 am Post subject: |
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| Multiple exit/re-entry visas are more common than they used to be. Government universities like KFUPM led the way but many employers now offer them. Some will even let you keep both Iqama and passport with exit visa, although this is against Jawazat rules. |
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rwright
Joined: 12 Jun 2014 Posts: 7 Location: United States
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Posted: Tue Jun 24, 2014 1:26 pm Post subject: |
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I responded to EdEx's offer with one of my own including stipulations about not being moved around, multiple exit/entrance visas, asking for more money, etc and they have responded (via my recruiter) positively so far. They have also given me contacts with women working via EdEx in Saudi to ask questions (I will email them later today). I am still looking at Korea but the offers there have been a bit manic (10 contact hours a day, 50-60 hour weeks not including planning time, only 10 annual days of vacation time, etc) and would not be conducive to me working on my MA simultaneously. So Saudi is back on the table for me but I am also continuing to work with a couple Korea recruiters.
I am fortunate enough to have a relative who is helping me negotiate my contract. He is ferocious.
BUT I still have multiple concerns. I still have many questions about actual teaching female classes in KSA: How is the active classroom for a woman? What is appropriate attire; I hear that the women are terribly well dressed and conservative but I do not quite know what that entails and what is expected from a western teacher. Are the classrooms well-appointed technologically? Are the rules concerning what types of media are and are not allowed clear? What about games; do the students actively participate?
In Riyadh, there are women's gyms? What does a woman wear in the gym? My gym clothes are scandalous!
Both men and women, what do you wish you knew before you went to KSA? What do you wish you would've taken with you?
Thank you all again for your help; these are such difficult decisions! |
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caliph
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Posted: Tue Jun 24, 2014 2:07 pm Post subject: |
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rwright:
The recruiter's responses may be positive, but that's no guarantee that when you arrive they will be honored.
Emails to women working at EdEx might be legitimate, but again, be wary.
The recruiter wants to get you there so he can get paid. Once you are there, you have no rights and it is difficult to get out if you want. |
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nomad soul

Joined: 31 Jan 2010 Posts: 11454 Location: The real world
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Posted: Tue Jun 24, 2014 2:59 pm Post subject: |
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| rwright wrote: |
I responded to EdEx's offer with one of my own including stipulations about not being moved around, multiple exit/entrance visas, asking for more money, etc and they have responded (via my recruiter) positively so far. They have also given me contacts with women working via EdEx in Saudi to ask questions (I will email them later today).
I am fortunate enough to have a relative who is helping me negotiate my contract. He is ferocious. |
I'm with Caliph on this. EdEx will say and do whatever it takes to get you to KSA. Also forget about negotiating your contract; you have an unrelated degree and just one year of teaching experience (despite the CELTA), which doesn't give you anything to negotiate with. Besides, once you get to KSA, you'll sign the "real" contract.
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| BUT I still have multiple concerns. I still have many questions about actual teaching female classes in KSA: How is the active classroom for a woman? What is appropriate attire; I hear that the women are terribly well dressed and conservative but I do not quite know what that entails and what is expected from a western teacher. Are the classrooms well-appointed technologically? Are the rules concerning what types of media are and are not allowed clear? What about games; do the students actively participate? |
These are questions you should pose to those female contacts the recruiter directed you to. It's unknown where'd you be teaching if you took the job, so don't take their responses as definitive. And as Caliph pointed out, be wary since their EdEx's "references."
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| In Riyadh, there are women's gyms? What does a woman wear in the gym? My gym clothes are scandalous! |
Again, questions to include in your emails to those EdEx contacts. Plus, two sites many female newcomers to the Kingdom find invaluable for these types of questions are:
http://americanbedu.com
http://www.blueabaya.com (She's good about responding to emails.)
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| Both men and women, what do you wish you knew before you went to KSA? What do you wish you would've taken with you? |
Compared to others new to KSA, I was probably better prepared for life in the Kingdom since I'd already lived in two other Mid East countries. I also speak some Arabic and am self-sufficient. Moreover, I'm good at keeping my expectations low (realistic).
By the way, you can find just about anything you need in the larger cities in KSA. However, as with any country, if you have any favorite personal products/items of a specific brand, pack a good supply of them. |
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fledex
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Posted: Wed Jun 25, 2014 7:39 pm Post subject: |
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| Be sure the contract says exactly what they promise you, such as placement in a specific place without any clause for temporary transfer to other places. Keep in mind, Edex WILL lie to you. At least you can point to something in writing if there isn't any clause allowing changes from what is promised, such at "this contract may be changed." |
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