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scot47



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 14, 2005 11:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you are married and living in KSA on one salary you will not save much.
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Cleopatra



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 14, 2005 1:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Indeed, I have on two occasions been asked by Indians earning around 700 SAR a month, why some westerners are so tight-fisted


If there is one thing I cannot stand, it is those "Westerners" who are so determined to scrimp and save every last rial, that they argue with taxi drivers over fares in the most undignified manner, never tip the gracious Sri Lankan waiter on the (rare) occasions they shell out for a meal, and dismiss as "lazy" the hardworking cleaners who are probably earning less in one month than they (even lowly teachers) earn in one day.

If you want to be miserable and spend your life sitting in your one-lightbulb flat, watching free-to-air BBC World (unless you can somehow get hooked up for free to some poor sucker's satellite dish) and living off bread and coke, fine. But don't take it out on others who would be over the moon if they were earning even one fifth of your salary.

BTW I have heard of folks (mainly of a certain nationality) living on SR 1000 a month. But 500?
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Sea Sea Rider



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 14, 2005 1:18 pm    Post subject: Easy Peasy Reply with quote

Eat a lot of gruel--oats and water--guys add lots of salt peter and kids--become really, really good at playing soltaire till dawn wtih a deck of fifty one.

Also, pick out the most pitiful sots, those most likely to do a runner and borrow money from them at a time when they're three sheets to the wind--chances are they might not recall the loans before they "poof" -- go to Bahrain and never come back.

By the way, which mosques serve up free food in the Al Khobar area?
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Stephen Jones



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 14, 2005 8:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

s there a dignified way to argue with a taxi driver?

I probably have done all three things veiled talks about. I don't try and beat down the price for a taxi, but there is no way I am going to let the guy push the price up, as he may well do his very best to do. Some people think you should not haggle with people poorer than you; this policy of rewarding the dishonest has never convinced me.

With regard to tipping, I think there is a difference in mentality between those that come from countries, such as the States, where tipping is the norm, and those that come from countries where it is most unusual, as in much of Europe. Certainly tipping is unusual in Saudi outside of expensive restaurants (a policy of tipping the better off.)

With cleaners the problem is that they are often screwed by their compatriots back home when they apply for the job, the contractor here who does them out of what they can, and even the government which does not order enough cleaners to get the job done comfortably. Nevertheless, even though you yourself would do as litlle as possible if you were in their shoes, that does not alter the fact that you would like your office cleaned more than once a month, and that a little water does help clean the floor every now and again.
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Mark100



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PostPosted: Thu Sep 15, 2005 5:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Interesting topic....I will add my two cents!

I have never in all my days met so many tight fisted mean spirited people as I did in Saudi.

Of course this doesn't apply to everyone but there does seem to be a disproportionately high number of skinflints in Saudi.

I think i saved about half or a little bit more of my salary and was happy with that but I do know of others who saved 80-90 percent but were as miserable and as stingy as one could ever be.

I chose to have the best satellite system, a good compound, a nice car and weekends in Bahrain along with nice overseas holidays.

It would be nice to save more but one has to live too.

I still saved a lot without taking it to extremes.

Ex Saudi since July and loving it.
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Cleopatra



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PostPosted: Thu Sep 15, 2005 11:06 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Some people think you should not haggle with people poorer than you; this policy of rewarding the dishonest has never convinced me.


Nobody is advocating this. Of course a taxi driver will initially often quote you a price that is over the odds. However, in my experience, all you need to do is shut the door and start walking away (there is no shortage of taxis in riyadh) and the price will instantly come down to a fair level. That is reasonable behaviour on both sides, IMHO. However, what I was talking about is the way all too many expats will try to bargain a taxi driver down to the very last rial, when they can well afford to pay a fair price.

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Nevertheless, even though you yourself would do as litlle as possible if you were in their shoes, that does not alter the fact that you would like your office cleaned more than once a month, and that a little water does help clean the floor every now and again.


Again, that's not what I was talking about. I was talking about the people who could never afford cleaners back home, and yet, just because they are "white" and living in KSA, expect cleaners to do things like make their coffee and photocopy books for them. Most cleaners are very happy to do such chores in return for a small tip, but all too many expats (and Saudis) consider such favour to be unworthy of even a one rial gratuity.


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I think there is a difference in mentality between those that come from countries, such as the States, where tipping is the norm, and those that come from countries where it is most unusual, as in much of Europe.


I come from Europe, and in every European country I've been in, you are expected to tip in any restaurant above the level of McDonalds, even if the tipping culture is not as strong as in the US. I really don't think it's asking too much for some sneering expat, who earns maybe SR 16,000 a month, to tip a waiter, earning maybe SR500 a month, even if the tip is only a rial or two. It's almost nothing to us, but it's fairly substantial to them.
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Stephen Jones



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PostPosted: Thu Sep 15, 2005 11:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I come from Europe, and in every European country I've been in, you are expected to tip in any restaurant above the level of McDonalds,
Have you never noticed the little 15% service charge you get on the bill? You're quite welcome to tip on top of it - I'll even send you my bank account number is you're running out of worthy causes.

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to do things like make their coffee and photocopy books for them
Where were you working? Send us the cleaners! A couple of years ago I needed to move a table from an office at the end of the corridor to my office. The cleaners and the students were quite prepared to help me and my office mate shift it, but we were clearly informed that the only way it could be shifted was if we filled in an official request to the Royal Commission in duplicate, who would then forward it to the cleaning contractor. We shifted the table anyway, and when three people in blue turned up a month later, told them all was OK.

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Of course a taxi driver will initially often quote you a price that is over the odds. However, in my experience, all you need to do is shut the door and start walking away (there is no shortage of taxis in riyadh)
When I was in Riyadh you simply paid what was on the meter, and that was that. I remember presuming the same in Jeddah, after the governor had bought down taxi fares unilaterally, without an proportionate decrease in the daily rent the drivers paid for the vehicle; the ensuing argument at midnight was not pretty!
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Cleopatra



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PostPosted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 8:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Have you never noticed the little 15% service charge you get on the bill?


In the cases where such a charge exists, yes. In the majority of cases, where it does not, then no.

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When I was in Riyadh you simply paid what was on the meter, and that was that.


Not sure when you were in Riyadh, but I can tell you that these days I dont' know anyone who pays the meter fare. The normal practice, as far as I can see, is to agree on a fare before getting in.
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Stephen Jones



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PostPosted: Fri Sep 16, 2005 2:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I lived in Riyadh ten years ago. Last time I was there on a visit I paid the metered fare and it seemed quite normal.

I do remember Third World Nationals haggling over the fare when I was there. Never knew a westerner do it.

In Jubail there are no meters. There are standard fares, but some colleagues appear to have been overcharged the first time, and continue to be overcharged ever after.

I always discussed/discuss the fare from the airport since the metered fare is greatly against the consumer when you are doing a long journey. For in-town fares the meter system, if prices are set properly, saves a lot of hassle. I suppose it can still serve the purpose of being a fall-back if prices are too high (and metres are checked).
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Mark100



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PostPosted: Sat Sep 17, 2005 4:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't know any driver who used the meter in the Eastern Province.

All fares were bargained and most of the drivers quoted a fair price to which i usually added a small tip.

If you talked to these guys you would realise how tough they are doing it.

A small tip can make a big difference to them...
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Albulbul



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PostPosted: Sat Oct 08, 2005 2:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ramadan is a WONDERFUL time for the 500 gang. Free Iftar breakfasts !
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JZer



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PostPosted: Tue Oct 11, 2005 12:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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If there is one thing I cannot stand, it is those "Westerners" who are so determined to scrimp and save every last rial, that they argue with taxi drivers over fares in the most undignified manner, never tip the gracious Sri Lankan waiter on the (rare) occasions they shell out for a meal, and dismiss as "lazy" the hardworking cleaners who are probably earning less in one month than they (even lowly teachers) earn in one day.

If you want to be miserable and spend your life sitting in your one-lightbulb flat, watching free-to-air BBC World (unless you can somehow get hooked up for free to some poor sucker's satellite dish) and living off bread and coke, fine. But don't take it out on others who would be over the moon if they were earning even one fifth of your salary.

BTW I have heard of folks (mainly of a certain nationality) living on SR 1000 a month. But 500?




Why do westerners go to Saudi Arabia to save money? Unless the pay is higher than I think, you could probably live in the U.S. and be frugal and save just as much money. I have read that one should expect to earn $30,000-40,000. Sorry if I am wrong. You can make that as a teacher in the U.S. Maybe even more. Plus if you really want to save your $25,000 a year you could work weekends at a resturant and earn another $5000-$8000 a year. That would give you around $48,000-$55,000. Maybe $44,000 after tax. If you are frugal you can live on $1,000 a month. Since you will be spending your weekends working (make sure you pick one where you get free food) in a resturant you may even be able to save more. Anyways that should give you around $32,000 in savings and you don't even have to move to Saudi Arabia to do it.

Of course it will take more work but I think that is outweighted by not having to move to Saudi.
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veiledsentiments



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PostPosted: Tue Oct 11, 2005 1:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

JZer..

One word... TAXES

When they say that they are getting $30-40,000 - that is take home pay. In the US, how much of that $25,000 do you get to take home? ... maybe $18,000? Then you have to pay your rent (no rent in the Gulf, housing is free). Want a vacation? (the Gulf gives you a free ticket)

Oh and you don't have to work as a slave in some restaurant all of your free time. You can put in your 20-30 hours of work per week... have double or triple the time off... travel the world in the summer on your boss's tab...

And still save the lions share of that $30-40,000...

Do stay home, but get the facts right...

VS
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biffinbridge



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PostPosted: Tue Oct 11, 2005 2:38 pm    Post subject: ha ha Reply with quote

Yep,I too met Mr. 1 Riyal.Never went anywhere,had 3 meals a day on the compound...a right tight ****.
Bebsi you forgot the other really mean trick;before I went direct hire at QP, I was a contractor at QAC.There were some in the shared car pools who refused to put petrol in despite the fact that all spending on petrol was re-imbursed.How mean is that?
Others saved money on laundry by wearing the same shirt everyday....nice in 45 degrees of heat.
Yet more saved money by going on the wagon except at other peoples' parties.
I remember we had a whip round for the company tea boy, who was going to see his wife in Sri Lanka for the first time in 2 years and some refused to even put a quid in the hat.This little lad did our laundry,made us breakfast and did almost anything required of him.In the end we got him about 100 quid and he was over the moon...still, he deserved a lot more.
Yeah I've never seen such miserable souls as the ones I saw out there.
Now I'm in Poland and loving every minute of my well earned poverty.
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Cleopatra



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PostPosted: Tue Oct 11, 2005 5:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

JZer,

Bear in mind that, not only are Saudi salaries tax-free, but -often quite spacious - accomodation and most bills are paid for too, as (usually) is transport to and from work. While I'm not familiar with cost of living in the US, I can say that almost everything is much cheaper here than in most European countries.

And yes, while life here definately has its downside, and most assuredly is not for everyone, there are advantages too. VS has mentioned some of them, such as the light workload and very generous holiday allowances. Yes, it might be possible to save more money in the US or Europe - if you really put your mind to it and got that rare deal, a good job in ESL - but whether the quality of life would be better is a matter of personal priorities.
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