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Being treated badly by My English School
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angrysoba



Joined: 20 Jan 2006
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Location: Kansai, Japan

PostPosted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 3:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

That's ridiculous!

First you are talking about keeping money that they accidentally gave you and now you say you want to keep working for them so they will provide you with a reference. If you give enough notice there will surely be a provision in your contract allowing you to leave before the end of your term.
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ifrit



Joined: 04 Nov 2004
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PostPosted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 3:51 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

the notice is 4 months, and its been given.

and i've spent a long time with the company, to pretend that time didn't exist because i broke contract would be a big waste for me. I never said i wanted to go against contract - i just wanted to take advantage of a mistake they made.
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mrjohndub



Joined: 19 Sep 2005
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Location: Saitama, Japan

PostPosted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 4:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

canuck wrote:
You're obviously new to the internet. Here's a hint. You don't have to double space every second line. Rolling Eyes


That's a moronic cheap shot. Why not just rip into everyone who make punctuation, capitalization and spelling mistakes on this board? I mean, we are English teachers, ne?

Obviously, Canuck, you're new to the internet, because if you weren't you'd realize that everyone has his or her own style of typing a message for the purpose of posting on a message board.
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fluffyhamster



Joined: 13 Mar 2005
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Location: UK > China > Japan > UK again

PostPosted: Thu Mar 02, 2006 10:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't understand why you were thinking of keeping the travel allowance they'd mistakenly continued paying you when you'd already written to them and more or less said you wouldn't be needing it anymore (that's what I presume you telling them you'd be "cycling rather than taking the train" meant), unless by withholding the repayment up until now you were trying to get back at them for criticizing you for your few latenesses (so several issues may have got rolled into one and compounded the situation).

Although the boss may be having a bad day and being a bit cranky or unreasonable (in apparently singling you out), an employee is never allowed to be, and saying even once 'Yes, but...' rather than 'I'm very very very very sorry and it will never happen again I promise <<sob>>', especially in Japan, is a sure way to becoming a marked man; that is, things may seem black and white to "us", but it's probably better to think of yourself as being just one big shade of grey to the average employer here.

By the way, it might have been a good idea to have pretended that you were still taking the train, I doubt if the slight extra expense would've bankrupted the school. It's "good" though that you've decided you have to pay the money back (and as another poster has said, they'd probably just deduct it if you didn't)...I'd recommend that you just ask them to deduct it from your final paycheck rather than pay them back beforehand with your own cold hard cash right now (unless they're adamant about it).
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canuck



Joined: 11 May 2003
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Location: Japan

PostPosted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 1:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

ifrit wrote:
the notice is 4 months, and its been given.

and i've spent a long time with the company, to pretend that time didn't exist because i broke contract would be a big waste for me. I never said i wanted to go against contract - i just wanted to take advantage of a mistake they made.


You don't have to wait 4 months. You could give them 2 weeks legally. Heck, give them a month. Don't go expecting them to give you a reference at all.

mrjohndub wrote:
everyone has his or her own style of typing a message for the purpose of posting on a message board.

Rolling Eyes

Style...message board...internet... Rolling Eyes

mrjohndub wrote:
SURELY no one will be getting OFF the elevator.

Rolling Eyes
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fluffyhamster



Joined: 13 Mar 2005
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 1:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you give them four months, granted, you'll still have the job for that time and be earning, but you'll miss the opportunity to get hired by somebody else from April (now is entering the prime hiring season)...
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Sweetsee



Joined: 11 Jun 2004
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 2:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Give the money back and become a model employee.
The mistreatment probably exists only in your mind.
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cornishmuppet



Joined: 27 Mar 2004
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Location: Nagano, Japan

PostPosted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 2:40 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Give them the money back, after all it isn`t yours, and then give them a months notice. That will screw them even more. And a month is perfectly long enough to find another job in this country. I assume you have other reasons for staying in your town, other than travel convenience? Otherwise it wouldn`t be difficult to leave a company that makes you feel like you claim.

While most companies ask for it there is no law requiring you to give four months notice, it just makes life easy for the company and difficult for you. As I posted not so long ago my company, where I`d been for a year and a half tried to screw me at the end, as did the new teacher who tried to use my mail as a bargaining tool. While I had the legal ground, for the amount of money involved it just wasn`t worth it, and I have just moved on to a much better job. I`m still extremely bitter and angry, but you can guarantee that the only person suffering for that is me.

I say leave as soon as you can.
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Sweetsee



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PostPosted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 3:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Don't get down on yourself about the whole thing. Afterall, you told them you weren't taking the train, you volunteered that, didn't have to.

Some say quit that job, I disagree. Stick it out.
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Zzonkmiles



Joined: 05 Apr 2003
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 6:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

ifrit wrote:
Quitting and finding a new job is troublesome, because as I said, I live in the same town I work in, and I don't have to travel. The unfair treatment I receive at work is worth the short travel time to me.


You don't sound like the type of person who values the job he has.

Don't violate the dress code.
Don't come to work late, especially if you live in the same town that you work in and have a "short travel time". Rolling Eyes
Don't expect to collect transportation reimbursement if you don't pay for transportation to begin with and (foolishly) told others in your office about that.
Don't expect your staff to be very friendly with you if you still don't know your bucho's name after more than a year and a half of working at your school.

There's no need for you to try for revenge or litigation or whatever. And remember, you are easily replaceable. I think you would be well advised to take your job a bit more seriously and be a bit more professional and a bit less selfish. And don't ask for respect from your coworkers if you don't respect your job or the rules associated with it.
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fluffyhamster



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PostPosted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 6:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Bad day at the office, Zzonk?
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ifrit



Joined: 04 Nov 2004
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 6:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Zzonkmiles wrote:
ifrit wrote:
Quitting and finding a new job is troublesome, because as I said, I live in the same town I work in, and I don't have to travel. The unfair treatment I receive at work is worth the short travel time to me.


You don't sound like the type of person who values the job he has.

Don't violate the dress code.
Don't come to work late, especially if you live in the same town that you work in and have a "short travel time". Rolling Eyes
Don't expect to collect transportation reimbursement if you don't pay for transportation to begin with and (foolishly) told others in your office about that.
Don't expect your staff to be very friendly with you if you still don't know your bucho's name after more than a year and a half of working at your school.

There's no need for you to try for revenge or litigation or whatever. And remember, you are easily replaceable. I think you would be well advised to take your job a bit more seriously and be a bit more professional and a bit less selfish. And don't ask for respect from your coworkers if you don't respect your job or the rules associated with it.


- I violate the dress code in what seems to be a minimal/acceptable manner in comparison to everyone else who works here. I stopped violating the dress code when they sent me a letter/visited/called me.

- I have been late 3 times in more than a year and a half and it has never been an issue with classes. I'm sorry.

- i didnt foolishly tell anyone, i told them so they would stop paying me transportation fees.

- that was the bucho's first week on the job, and they put me through to her without telling me her name or who they were sending me to (over the phone)

I have respect from my co-workers; its the head office staff who does not like me. My co-workers sympathize with me - they see me day in day out. (edit: and they know they're no different than me, and if i was really bitter i could point them out and be a rat, but they'd be subjected to the same shit i've gone through, and I don't think thats fair.). Head office doesn't seem to have a proper connection with the school, and doesn't really know whats going on in the ground floor of things. Hence my travel expenses showing up on my paycheck after they were notified several times by fax and phone.

I had a childish wish for revenge against a company with no feelings. Even if i kept the money it would've caused me more stress than it was worth. The company wouldn't have felt it, and the only people it would have made an effect on were the accounting staff - and they have nothing to do with my training/discipline. I'm going to look for another job, but I will probably stick it out for the bonus at the end.
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ifrit



Joined: 04 Nov 2004
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PostPosted: Fri Mar 03, 2006 7:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

to clear something up: I havent been going into the company's money drawer and taking out travel expenses that i'm not using.

They've been adding it to my salary every month. I don't know what is what because its all japanese. they gave us a translation of what everything was, but with over 50 categories on the paystub, i didnt memorize them. I check my paystub every month, and the total is always less than my official salary, so I didn't think anything was wrong.

My manager said there was a problem with NET's payments last month and had a look at my stub. She discovered the extra travel payment on there and told me what it was. I wasn't stealing - it was just a glitch in the system.
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Currawong



Joined: 06 Mar 2006
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PostPosted: Sun Mar 12, 2006 7:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Japanese workers don't EVER turn up to work late. If they do, they have a shomeisho from the train station stating that the train was delayed.
Japanese workers always turn up to work too, unless they are physically unable to work.
The concept of not meeting the dress code 100% at work is not comprehensible for a Japanese person.
Whether your travel method was common knowledge at work or not has nothing to do with payment - if anything changes, you fill out whatever forms necessary for things to be changed. It's not like back home where you might just casually say to your boss or whoever "Oh, I'm moving, shall I scribble down my new address for you?".
Who you know as well as the names and positions of important people in the company is critically important information.
Add that all up and you want to keep money you've been overpayed? No wonder they don't like you.
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angrysoba



Joined: 20 Jan 2006
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Location: Kansai, Japan

PostPosted: Sun Mar 12, 2006 7:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Currawong:

I think this issue has already been resolved.

Ifrit's subsequent posts make it clear that he is going to give back the money.


Quote:
The concept of not meeting the dress code 100% at work is not comprehensible for a Japanese person.


I think Japanese people do understand the idea of not meeting the dress code.

Quote:
Japanese workers don't EVER turn up to work late.


That is not true. Japanese workers rarely turn up to work late.
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