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sethness
Joined: 28 Feb 2005 Posts: 209 Location: Hiroshima, Japan
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Posted: Fri Apr 06, 2007 12:09 pm Post subject: |
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english conversation school:
Get up at 10 twice a week for morning classes; otherwise snooze til noon.
Go to work between 2pm and 4pm; work til 9:15. Wish there were some people in Japan (other than bartenders and hostess girls) who have similarly vampiric schedules so I can get friends and get laid.
Enjoy 4 weeks' vacation per year, but these 4 weeks are placed during the lemming-rush seasons when all of Japan vacations, hence prices are 3x normal and availability of tickets and rooms are zilch.
It's a piece of lazy heaven.
normal Japanese office life:
Get up at 7am. commute surrounded by Japanese office workers stacked 10 deep in trains, buses and sidewalks.
Work inevitable overtime (ditto earlier posters' comments about endless overtime). Go home at some time between 7pm and 3am.
Come in on weekends.
Have the boss say that "there's a national holiday on Monday, so you're expected to compensate by working Saturday."
Listen to the boss explain that you get 10 "free days" that cover BOTH vacation AND sick-days-- compared to the 4 weeks of vacation that most English teachers get. Watch the boss steadily retreat from any sense of responsibility toward a permanent work force, while hiring more and more "hakkensha" temp workers for ever shortening terms, lower salaries, and heinous hours....in ever-increasingly important positions within the company. Laugh wickedly (practice muuuhahahahs in the mirror) at the thought of how the Japanese economy will eventually implode because of this greediness at the top and sheeplike/sleeplike quality in workers.
It's a piece of office-hell-on-a-stick. |
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Precise
Joined: 23 Mar 2007 Posts: 140
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Posted: Fri Apr 06, 2007 4:05 pm Post subject: |
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| That other job sounds like crap. Why didn't you stick to teaching? |
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Yawarakaijin
Joined: 20 Jan 2006 Posts: 504 Location: Middle of Nagano
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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2007 5:41 am Post subject: |
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My typical day will either make you lament my situation or make you jealous. Most days I'm up at 6 am to be in the office by 8 am. I WORK until either 4:30 or 6:00. On any given day I teach about 3-4 hours. The rest is considered contact time. Basically hanging around the office chatting with the boys. Some days it is hard. Some days I feel as if I got very lucky.
After that it is off to the izakaya or my favourite bar which amazingly has La fin du monde on its beer list ( one of canada's best beers if I may say so )
After that it's just a matter of trying to figure out how to spend my now standard 3 day weekends. Nowadays I'm primarily worried about my girlfriend guilt tripping me into finding part time work on Fridays hehe. She's not too happy. Maybe I can make Fridays " Our Time ", think that will work?  |
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johanne
Joined: 18 Apr 2003 Posts: 189
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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2007 12:05 pm Post subject: |
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Never let anyone guilt trip you into giving up free time. The more you can get the saner you will be. I get 2 months off in the summer and my husbands wants me to teach summer school for 3 weeks of it but there is no waaaaaay. Free time is life. |
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Yawarakaijin
Joined: 20 Jan 2006 Posts: 504 Location: Middle of Nagano
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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2007 1:56 pm Post subject: |
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Damn, we are just dating and she won't let me enjoy my day off. I cant imagine if we were actually married and If had 2 full months off. A few of my Japanese mates have just up and admitted that their wives push them to work as much as they possible. They have also hinted that not even having the get out of jail free gaijin card will get me out of this situation. Any married guys out there in this position? Slight thread hijack but I'm actually a little worried about how much I will have to give up after if I marry a Japanese girl.
Standard flame defence: I realize all women are unique and different and that every situation will vary but you have to admit you dont meet many Japanese guys who have 3-4 day weekends. |
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dove
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 271 Location: USA/Japan
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Posted: Tue Apr 10, 2007 2:58 pm Post subject: |
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| If you get married, is your wife going to work? I try to be tolerant, but the people who work my nerves the most are the Japanese housewives WITHOUT children who don't work, who spend their husbands' money, indulging in frivolous hobbies while their man is busting his a-s at work. I think there is even a katakana name for them, young missus or something silly like that. Again, if there are children, I can see a parent not working. (note I said a "parent"; no reason a man can't take care of the kids while his wife works) Otherwise, I just couldn't be happy with a partner who wasn't working, at least part time. But each person is entitled to their own relationship choices.... |
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Gordon

Joined: 28 Jan 2003 Posts: 5309 Location: Japan
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Posted: Wed Apr 11, 2007 3:53 am Post subject: |
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| Yawarakaijin wrote: |
Damn, we are just dating and she won't let me enjoy my day off. I cant imagine if we were actually married and If had 2 full months off. A few of my Japanese mates have just up and admitted that their wives push them to work as much as they possible. They have also hinted that not even having the get out of jail free gaijin card will get me out of this situation. Any married guys out there in this position? Slight thread hijack but I'm actually a little worried about how much I will have to give up after if I marry a Japanese girl.
Standard flame defence: I realize all women are unique and different and that every situation will vary but you have to admit you dont meet many Japanese guys who have 3-4 day weekends. |
I am married with 3 young kids, but my wife is not Japanese. She is the opposite, she wants me home all the time to help out. I make enough to support us, but I could make plenty more and did too for a time. However, priorities change and for me now, family is more important than making some more money.
Why does she want you to work more hours? Are you strapped for cash, you shouldn't be if you both work and have no kids. I remember those days too, couldn't think of enough stuff to spend the money on. |
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Brooks
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Posts: 1369 Location: Sagamihara
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Posted: Wed Apr 11, 2007 6:53 am Post subject: |
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My wife is schizo.
She wants me to make more money yet she wants me to come home no later than 7:00 p.m.
But she wants me to do more housework.
I stopped teaching privates (at least until Golden Week) since I am too busy with my high school club.
I wouldn't mind making more money since I pay so much in rent. I could use more money but I have no desire to moonlight anywhere.
Some Japanese women are frankly spoiled and act like princesses.
Make sure you don't marry a princess.
My wife said she could work full time but then I would have to do all the cleaning and cooking. I balked at that. |
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Ichigo

Joined: 18 Jan 2008 Posts: 29 Location: Japan
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Posted: Thu Jul 31, 2008 1:17 am Post subject: |
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Let's see a typical day, huh?
I usually get up around 7.30-8.30am, get ready for the day, breakfast, check my e-mails etc.
Then I study Japanese for 1-2 hours. Get some food from the nearby supermarket, do my laundry, wash my dishes etc.
Prepare and eat lunch and then leave my appartment at around 1.30-1.40pm to be at work at 2pm.
There short meeting, then most of the time 1-2 hours preparing, 2-6 classes and then I can leave at 10pm (no dinner break in between, no non-work-related things in between allowed).
When I come home I check my emails again etc., watch Japanese tv (jdramas, variety shows), go to bed read some Japanese things and then fall asleep.
On my days off I either go to a bigger city to go shopping or I stay at home the whole day and try to study Japanese  |
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flyer
Joined: 16 May 2003 Posts: 539 Location: Sapporo Japan
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Posted: Thu Jul 31, 2008 2:53 am Post subject: |
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| Yawarakaijin wrote: |
. A few of my Japanese mates have just up and admitted that their wives push them to work as much as they possible. They have also hinted that not even having the get out of jail free gaijin card will get me out of this situation. Any married guys out there in this position? Slight thread hijack but I'm actually a little worried about how much I will have to give up after if I marry a Japanese girl.
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I have a J wife and she is the opposite, she works harder than me and has no desire to be a house wife, infact she has no problems with me being a house husband. But I imagine my wife is not the norm?
anyway back to the topic
I start work at 8;30 and finish at 5;30
I teach an averaqe of 3 or 4 lessons a day and have a computer to use. I have heaps of down time where I just surf the net, make lessons etc |
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