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veiledsentiments

Joined: 20 Feb 2003 Posts: 17644 Location: USA
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Posted: Tue Aug 18, 2009 1:19 am Post subject: |
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| I'm feeling a little dense - not getting the metaphorical usage. |
Me neither John... I'm hoping he will explain because my dictionary was no help either.
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destionable
Joined: 11 Aug 2009 Posts: 46 Location: wherever
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Posted: Tue Aug 18, 2009 2:32 am Post subject: Dico |
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Dear John:
You obviously have the wrong dico.
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Tue Aug 18, 2009 2:46 am Post subject: |
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Dear Destionable,
Obviously - although that should read "dictionaries" since I checked half a dozen. So, I'd be grateful if you'd point me in the direction of the right one(s).
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Charybdis
Joined: 08 Aug 2009 Posts: 30
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Posted: Tue Aug 18, 2009 4:48 am Post subject: Respnose to Positivity |
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| You know, friend, you are exactly the kind of employee Saudis would love to hire. I say "Go for it", but stay in touch on this forum. There are several of us who are dying to know if you can stay so positive after a few months of actually living and working in KSA. I've lived and taught in 6 different countries that were far, far better places where I was not treated like an indentured servant. |
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Mark100
Joined: 05 Feb 2003 Posts: 441
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Posted: Tue Aug 18, 2009 8:25 am Post subject: |
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Dear Destionable,
Obviously - although that should read "dictionaries" since I checked half a dozen. So, I'd be grateful if you'd point me in the direction of the right one(s).
Thanks,
John |
I googled it coz i didn't get it either and i found some stuff that uses the expression to my demise in an unusual way but i am still struggling with it. |
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sandersjayfer
Joined: 29 Jun 2009 Posts: 14 Location: Saudi Arabia
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Posted: Tue Aug 18, 2009 8:28 am Post subject: Re: Saudi Forum: What a Hoot!/not funny if you are here |
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I had a phone interview last week with Bell for an EFL instructor position at KSU through Obeikan and have been trawling through these forums since then, I have taught in the UK for 20 years and this is the first time I have considered working abroad - I have not laughed so much since Obama came to power!! Thank you to everyone for being so entertaining!
I would have thought that a modicum of flexibility/adaptability is an essential requirement for anyone considering working in Saudi - some of the complaints and whinges on this forum about admin/HR/managers/colleagues would be laughable, if they weren't so sad.. unhappy people are unhappy anywhere and are quite 'happy' to project their own inadequacies onto their situation. When in Rome.. etc. If you have problems dealing with 'administration of life' in Saudi, think of the poor saps who were born there and who have to deal with it all their lives.
I am glad there is a hard-core of veterans who give (or try to give) a balanced view - NCTBA, veiled, Mia, Cleo, et al; I doff my hat to you all.
As a newbie to teaching abroad, is it wise to negotiate hard? my family is staying in UK (kids at uni, wife working) so I would be going as a singleton. 45 years old, my first degree is in Chemistry, PGCE in post-16 education, CELTA two years ago (at the insistence of my funding body for the ESOL centre I was running).
Any and all information would be great and gratefully appreciated!!
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Having taught in several countries I can assure you that the happy person in Saudi is, by far, the exception. The law as written in no way resembles reality. People work illegally because what is told them when they are leaving there home suddenly changes to an alternate reality once they arrive. There are mysterious "probational periods" (before anyone corrects me, that is the spelling used in the Saudi website) that your employer will use as the excuse for not supplying you with the Iqama that is necessary for you to do anything in this place. If you can get a reasonable salary anyplace else, do so. If you are in desperate need of money & even if the actual pay is the same as what you are promised; if you try to show your employer your reasons for being loyal, he will use your need as a weapon to subjugate you. You get trapped by need and the greater the need, the more powerful the weapon. |
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rigel
Joined: 17 Apr 2009 Posts: 308
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Posted: Tue Aug 18, 2009 8:38 am Post subject: |
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| I'm going to the KSA to study how to design film cameras and carburetors. On the side, I'll be learning how to use an abacus. Each of these courses will run me 20 grand USD, but I'm not worried. I believe the future is bright for those who have these skills, based on what somebody else told me. See you there. |
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positivity
Joined: 13 Aug 2009 Posts: 9
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Posted: Tue Aug 18, 2009 9:16 am Post subject: Re: Saudi Forum: What a Hoot!/not funny if you are here |
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...if you try to show your employer your reasons for being loyal, he will use your need as a weapon to subjugate you...
Very harsh but true in many situations - I have friends in HR who have been taught to use just these sorts of emotional black-mail techniques to bias contract negotiations in their company's favour. And they work in the UK!! I hope I am not so anieve and wet behind the ears that I would be manipulated this way, but once I'm in country then the advantage is theirs (Mr Bond)
All good advice on here, keep it coming! |
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destionable
Joined: 11 Aug 2009 Posts: 46 Location: wherever
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Posted: Tue Aug 18, 2009 3:57 pm Post subject: Dictionary |
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Dear John:
I was hoping not to have to give grammar lessons to such experienced teachers. Just the other day I went to one of Al Jarir bookstores and I bought the LATEST electronic Destionary and it said the way I used DEMISE is grammatically correct....DUH!!
Anyway, you missed the whole point which was that the busiest place in the KSA is "The Ministry of Labour Disputes"
Have fun ha ha ha
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Tue Aug 18, 2009 4:05 pm Post subject: |
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Dear Destionable,
Oh, I got the point alright. But another point I got was that owning up when you make an error is probably the best option.
Regards,
John |
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Grendal

Joined: 13 Aug 2009 Posts: 861 Location: Lurking in the depths of the Faisaliah Tower underground parking.
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Posted: Tue Aug 18, 2009 4:13 pm Post subject: |
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2 PAC
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In the event of my demise
when my heart can beat no more
I hope I die for a princeple
Or a belief that I had lived for
I will die before my time
Beacause I feel the shadow's depth
So much I wanted to acomplish
Before I reached my death
I have come to grips with the possibility
And wiped the last tear from my eyes
I loved all who were positive
In the event of my demise
In the event of my demise don't shed no tear
I'll share my wisdom with the world, they'll know I was here
Know I was clear, every thing I said I ment
A outlaw, when I was born they prepared my ditch
Said I won't live long, statistic show
I'm tryna past 24 realistic goal, listen though
You gotta stay cold inside
That's what I tell myself when I feel alone sometimes
But I can't cry, I don't tear no more
I love god, so death I don't fear no more
I part take in this movment to better my people
Though they see me on TV, I tell them we equal
Don't look at me as a stranger, I'm one of your own
We was raised in concrete and grew as a rose
Still I rise, but never get a chance to fly
Mama please don't cry
In the event of my demise
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I hope this settles it. Or it will be the demise of me.
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Tue Aug 18, 2009 4:20 pm Post subject: |
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Dear Grendal,
Looks like Tupac could have used a good dictionary, as well.
Regards,
John |
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destionable
Joined: 11 Aug 2009 Posts: 46 Location: wherever
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Posted: Tue Aug 18, 2009 4:33 pm Post subject: Destionary |
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Dear John:
I am sure you are a fine old soul as are most people posting on this rather amusing forum. Lighten up a little.
LOL
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johnslat

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Posts: 13859 Location: Santa Fe, New Mexico, USA
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Posted: Tue Aug 18, 2009 4:47 pm Post subject: |
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Dear Destionable,
BAH, HUMBUG. And who are you calling "old", you whippersnapper? It'll be quite a while before MY demise (inshallah.)
Regards,
John
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destionable
Joined: 11 Aug 2009 Posts: 46 Location: wherever
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Posted: Tue Aug 18, 2009 4:49 pm Post subject: HA |
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Dear John:
Good one!
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